We are losing real men and it's sad :(
kingsloveQueens

Sunnyvale, CA

#462 Jun 29, 2013
brownskin_beauty wrote:
Well it's already hard enough to know there aren't enough black men to go around seeing that we outnumber them by 2 million excluding the ones incarcerated, gay, or the ones that are against monogamy. I am not at all trying to start nothing negative, but it saddens me to see the type of society we have become. I mean we have become desensitized the violence against women. We are more open to allowing men to be submissive, and we are just a society favoring equality, but almost in a communistic way. I know maybe people thinks its old fashion, but I want a man who wants to wear the pants, who sees a man even speak vile to a women and will be ready to put him in the gutter, a gentlemen, and a great example to young black men, since there seem to be a lacking of that in the community. I want him to involve himself in bettering others, maybe know how to fix things around the house, be reasonable, but stern. I want him to be the epitome of a real man, not on the DL or abusive, or submissive is that too much to ask for
Those are the values of typical man ..at his best..but the powers are corrupting American society and having people sell-out they're own for deviate behavior while hoping to emasculate the men ..were in a spiritual warfare it's the end
KingsloveQueens

Sunnyvale, CA

#463 Jun 29, 2013
end of times : wasn't finished at the top^^^^^^ or living in Babylon 2 as so many foreigners have said..
BigKnob

United States

#464 Jun 30, 2013
kingsloveQueens wrote:
<quoted text>Those are the values of typical man ..at his best..but the powers are corrupting American society and having people sell-out they're own for deviate behavior while hoping to emasculate the men ..were in a spiritual warfare it's the end
you don't have 2 million more bw than bm, also what percentage of these bw would be qualified as wife material, something you bw never want to talk about.

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#465 Jun 30, 2013
MARRLenn wrote:
These people on this forum are just flat out bitter folks mad at the black man for simply existing. If you feel like you are not getting your dues from the black man then by all means find a man of another race and quit whining. Black scorn women along with white racist are now assuming the role of the oppressor of the black men. If your not uplifting us why should we attempt to uplift you, you want someone to praise you when your not being praise worthy, you want bm tell you nice things but you do nothing nice for them, you want bm to love you but you give no love in return, you want black men to trust you but your not being trust worthy, you want black men to take care of you but most of you don't even take care of you da*n self. you want bm to have your back but when it counts you don't have bm's back..You want black men to make peace with you but you can't even make peace with yourself. BW gripes and spite towards bm are just double standards and desperate attempts to put a damper on the bm's ego and manipulate them into believing that somehow you are the better half. I'm not speaking of all black women cuz there are good ones out there but those are the ones that are happy with there bm. Do us all a favor quit being so emotionally charged every time you are in the presence of a black man you are a stranger to him and he too you.
They want us to be white men. But we are not white men and do not want to be white men and will be white men.
BigKnob

United States

#466 Jul 2, 2013
MARRLenn wrote:
<quoted text>
Not to mention the space age telescopic microscope bm are always under every waking moment of there existence. Other races generally take notice of black man with malice intentions of finding faults in him, corrupting him or stunting his growth.
The biggest problem is the media and some bw by always focusing on the negative and down playing the postive, its designed to make brothers hopeless that no matter how hard you work its just useless, why try, it wont work, thats the message, I work with blk boys and this is what they tell me, even some of their mothers have told them this, you gonna go to jail,you aint nothing, im not lying i've heard this from some bw.
BigKnob

United States

#467 Jul 2, 2013
The bm is always on front street, youre under a mircoscope, with negative, studies, research, negative statistics, the same old sad story, you know what it is. I wonder why there are no stories done telling us how many bw are in jail, out of work, on drugs, drop outs, marriageable, because bw hide their bs, behind the negative media image of bm, then focus on I been to college all bm are in jail,drugs,broke, this is the game that bw have been running with the help of the white media, but when bm like myself tell the truth about these queens they play the victim card, you hate bw, you mama black ect. Well you daddys black what about that.
KingsloveQueens

San Francisco, CA

#468 Jul 2, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
<quoted text>
You show your weakness by blaming women for the condition of your race. Men have always been the leaders, protectors, chiefs and warriors, women have been home makers expected to bear children and follow.
Men have always had the power and made the big decisions in any racial group.
If bw did these things to satisfactory than the black race would be the greatest on earth..but shamefully this is not true..behind every great man is a great women ..so who really the curse of the race??

Level 3

Since: Feb 11

Reality

#470 Jul 2, 2013
starpack wrote:
Idk though, i might lighten my skin. If i ever meet just 1 bw who treats me well and don't act like an wild animal then i will let my skin stay dark.

As of for right now white is better.
troll alert

Level 3

Since: Feb 11

Reality

#472 Jul 2, 2013
brownskin_beauty wrote:
Well it's already hard enough to know there aren't enough black men to go around seeing that we outnumber them by 2 million excluding the ones incarcerated, gay, or the ones that are against monogamy. I am not at all trying to start nothing negative, but it saddens me to see the type of society we have become. I mean we have become desensitized the violence against women. We are more open to allowing men to be submissive, and we are just a society favoring equality, but almost in a communistic way. I know maybe people thinks its old fashion, but I want a man who wants to wear the pants, who sees a man even speak vile to a women and will be ready to put him in the gutter, a gentlemen, and a great example to young black men, since there seem to be a lacking of that in the community. I want him to involve himself in bettering others, maybe know how to fix things around the house, be reasonable, but stern. I want him to be the epitome of a real man, not on the DL or abusive, or submissive is that too much to ask for
Great points but remember that there are still good brothas out there who fit that profile. Don't let the losers of topix, the media, hip hop rappers, etc. fool you into believing otherwise. Pray for God's choice for your mate. Don't get weary in waiting. Just have faith and prepare yourself for his choice.

Don't give up...
Phoenix

Houston, TX

#473 Jul 2, 2013
BigKnob wrote:
<quoted text>they still killed him fool, the person who does the killing is more guilty, than the one who orders the hit, dont you understand the difference between verbal & physcial abuse, guess not.
According to the bible if we sin in our hearts that's the same thing as carrying it out. God is our judge, sir.

“Obsidian Princess”

Level 8

Since: Sep 09

louisiana

#475 Jul 2, 2013
the feminist movement was for the progression of white women and affected blk women as a whole very little.

I have never met a woman who proclaimed that she did not need a man.....so that is the biggest lie.

during the fem movement we were having our civil rights movement. It makes more sense to believe that blk women were more concerned about their men, brothers, etc.. getting bit up by dogs, jailed and beat in the streets by cops then trying to get rid of blk men.

with this little being said, I must say THAT YOU MEN ARE LYING ON US.

we never left our men our families; we stay with our children whether their is a man around or not for us to had been talking about "we don't need a man" we sure had a lot of babies between then and now. we have not been perfect but I think someone is trying to cover up their own grand failure and using us as a scape goat.

Level 3

Since: Feb 11

Reality

#476 Jul 2, 2013
MOSES-11 wrote:
<quoted text>Bm are saying the same thing about bw. Will bw return to the old fashion ways too?

Bw want to be 21st century women but, bw want bm stuck in the 1950's.
You just won't stop. Just marry a white woman and be done with it. We're all sick of your broken record rants.

Evil nut
IR BM not BWs enemy

UK

#477 Jul 3, 2013
There's several problems. BW are nit recognising and accepting real black men (the ones prepared and willing to treat them right.
BM and BW are both to blame for the major race unity issues. And although SOME are accepting their part of the blame, not enough BW are.
The 2013 the black woman is mostly the white man's new naked, slutty sex slave. Toi much naked, naked, naked - look at Rnb. In real life they dress skimpy, have multiple partners and treat white men way better on a double standard with black men.
In my first 20 years alive, I was pretty much sold to bw. I was chasing them and driven by the ones I knew to want to have one. They were tough, streetwise and less slutty. They rejected bm a lot but I still came back to their kind again and again. I think the ones who have had luck with men are FAR TOO POMPOUS AND ARROGANT and the good single ones are more difficult to find, even though I wouldn't mind having that kind in the future, because at the end of the day, being a good bw is no less attractive than any other race Sadly when you address it it's "BM BM BM".

I hope this can be the start of airing out some real discussions on how we can resolve our differences between bm and bw. Peace.
Sadbuttrue

Silver Spring, MD

#478 Jul 3, 2013
moor wrote:
<quoted text> sotomayor hit it on the head when single black mother raise successful black man she did it all by herself and gets all credit but when she raises degenerates it becomes the mans fault because he was absent lol
MACEO

How is Tommy Sotomajor a Leader or have anything to say when he has several felonies, doesn't work and chases Light skin Strippers?

That's like saying your an example of a good Black man when you spend 6-10 hrs a date posting the majority of hate messages on Topix about black women and investing 40 years in White women!

Why do you have anything to say when you haven't even done anything for Mother or even any Black Female relatives. You sure ran a marathon for your Ex White wife family to look good to them like the Submissive man you are! You wanted validation from them because you were a Black man because you didn't feel worthy!

She wasn't educated, rather Ugly as well as homely but I'm sure she was decent; because you ran behind her back while she worked "hitting on Trashy WW office sl*ts" in your spare time as well as Hating on Black women calling them wh*res when you were acting wh*rish running to adultery!

Tam pegged you right!

Just like Capree describes you perfectly ..........They both were correct about men like you!

shaking my head!

Your family didn't matter to you in the least!

Tam talks about your Sorry Black Arse MACEO! What he says describes you perfectly!
Sadbuttrue

Silver Spring, MD

#480 Jul 3, 2013
MOSES-11 wrote:
<quoted text>
Google "BLACK FEMINISM CIA GLORIA STEINEM" and you'll see a historical fact, hate herein, bm deserted bw in mass. The only evidence is speculation but, bm can point to 1968 feminist movement.
MACEO

Why are the Black women running to White males to get married? Why are they armed with Education, a plan, know what they want but so many Black men are NOT SUITABLE!

After all, all you did was chase White Office sl*ts while married and scream and yelp like a woman online to Black women who are doing better than you MACEO! LMAO

Shaking my head

Your losing your women!

“F*ck White Turds!!!”

Level 2

Since: Jun 13

USA

#482 Jul 3, 2013
Your women!!! Since when was any of these dumb ignorant h*es mine....lol? I don't think so...When I past a person i don't know or never communicated with i don't see color i see a stranger.
Sadbuttrue

Silver Spring, MD

#485 Jul 3, 2013
Tam wrote:
<quoted text>
I am not bitching. Of course their are some black American men who are exception to the rule, but to assess a society, one must speak in generality i.e. the norm or the majority behavior of that society. Whether it is government statistics, whether it is the American media, whether it is black American women crying their eyes out calling to you for help, whether it is my observation, whether it is the number of fatherless Black American homes or whether it is black American men going on Youtube, forums etc., degrading black American women and uplifting white women or other women, the the result is still the same. No matter which way you look at it, the black American man is an embarrassment. What is more shocking is that, instead of taking some responsibility and looking inwards so they can fix the problem going on in their society, they prefer to blame others or look for excuses. Of course not all black American men are like this, but the majority of them are. When most of you are in prison or have passed through the prison system, uneducated in spite of the opportunities available to you, not being good fathers/husbands, producing kids from different women like rabbits and abandoning them, chasing after white skirt like dogs, your society is going downhill. And instead of you standing up and being men and say we cannot allow this to go on, you prefer to look for excuses or don't care at all. For most black American men(not all but most), having a white woman or the lightest skin woman in their arms is the greatest achievement in their lives. The moment they can rub to $s together, they start white hunting. American men are immoral. I don't know how black American women have put up with them all these years. The failure of black American society is the fault of black American men whether they admit it or not. How can you continuously expect your women be the educate ones, continually be the mothers and fathers in the home without you stepping up to the plate? Many of you are not even ashamed that the women go to work and put food on the table for you to eat, a roof over your heads and clothes on your back. And after all that, you degrade the black American woman (who are your mothers and grandmothers) and uplift other races of women. You are not men. You are weak and disgraceful.
Tam

Where are you? LMAO

Excellent Posts!

There's too many MACEO and his 550 profiles! LMAO
Sadbuttrue

Silver Spring, MD

#486 Jul 3, 2013
MOSES-11-Chip-MARRLean-MACEO wrote:
<quoted text>
Yep, that's why bw can't find qualified bm. A qualified bm is intelligent to know bw view his opinion as unimportant and dismissive.
Sorry Charlene, at 107 years old and full of grey hairs, I prefer whipping your somilian azz, whether you're posting as SBT, LaCritter or any of your "floating aliases". Yep, I'm a thorn up ta azz.
MACEO

Why are the Black women running to White males to get married? Why are they armed with Education, a plan, know what they want but so many Black men are NOT SUITABLE!

After all, all you did was chase White Office sl*ts while married to a HOMELY WW for 20 years. All that screaming and yelping OnLine like a woman to Black women who are doing better than you!!!!!!

Where's your PRIDE MACEO? lmao

Shaking my head

Your losing your women!

NOBODY WANTS A MAN LIKE YOU!
Sadbuttrue

Silver Spring, MD

#487 Jul 3, 2013
MOSES-11 wrote:
Racist love bw and will defend their ally. Bw abort more black children in one day than racist have killed in 100 years
The followinno children being told that their f
MACEO

Why not abort them?

Black men abandon 82% of their Children from Birth to adulthood!

65% of the underage girls are RAPED BY BLACK MEN 30 YEARS OLD AND UP!

WHAT YOU DO EXPECT?

YOU HATE YOURSELF!
Sadbuttrue

Silver Spring, MD

#488 Jul 3, 2013
MARRLenn wrote:
Your women!!! Since when was any of these dumb ignorant h*es mine....lol? I don't think so...When I past a person i don't know or never communicated with i don't see color i see a stranger.
MACEO

Why are the Black women running to White males to get married? Why are they armed with Education, a plan, know what they want but so many Black men are NOT SUITABLE!

After all, all you did was chase White Office sl*ts while married to a HOMELY WW for 20 years. All that screaming and yelping OnLine like a woman to Black women who are doing better than you!!!!!!

Where's your PRIDE MACEO? lmao

Shaking my head

Your losing your women!

NOBODY WANTS A MAN LIKE YOU!

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