Black Deal

United States

#374 Jun 26, 2013
BLACKBOLT08 wrote:
<quoted text>If a woman act's like a lady she will get treated like a lady. On the other hand, if she act's like a B**ch, she will get treated like a B**ch. At least that's the way it is hear in OHIO. No Offence intended.
You right
Proudtobeasister

London, UK

#376 Jun 27, 2013
When society sees a Chinese man they respect him because they know that he respects his Chinese woman.

When society sees a white man they respect him because they know he respects his white woman.

When society sees a Indian man they respect him because the know he respects his Indian woman.

When society sees a Japanese man they respect him because they know he respects his Japanese woman.

When society sees a Black man..........Ask YOU-TUBE for that one!!
brownskin_beauty

Houston, TX

#377 Jun 27, 2013
MARRLenn wrote:
<quoted text>
You wrote:
<quoted text>
No wonder so many african american men are in jail, gay, incarcerated or against monagomy. What type of example is assaulting or killing someone over freedom speech and choice.
I saw a video of a man hitting a women so I was a little emotional about gosh, give me a break I grew up in a family of men that would never touch a woman or see someone do it and just walk by. Like I said I realize we all different in our way of thinking, so I know everyone won't agree
brownskin_beauty

Houston, TX

#378 Jun 27, 2013
Transition wrote:
<quoted text>
You are very lucky your story sounds exactly like mine when i was in school, i'm in college now but i'm still trying to find the right people, its unfortunate because that aren't many people where i am that think the way i do.
I totally understand their or black people out there that understand and have dealt with the same thing to have met them has been like therapy because I get to see a positive side of my people
brownskin_beauty

Houston, TX

#379 Jun 27, 2013
BLACKBOLT08 wrote:
<quoted text> If a woman act's like a lady she will get treated like a lady. On the other hand, if she act's like a B**ch, she will get treated like a B**ch. At least that's the way it is hear in OHIO. No Offence intended.
No offense taken I think that's how it is in many places

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#382 Jun 27, 2013
Redefined wrote:
<quoted text>
Religion has NOT giving Africans TRUE economic freedom which is why we have Africans living in poverty and are ignorant. If religion has helped anyone, non-Africans have benefited more nowadays.
The principles upon which economic development can be based are contained within religion. Foe example, Gandhi said that the principles of socialism are in the teachings of the Gita, one of the Hindu Holy Books. Nkrumah said that the principles of socialism are contained in traditional African communalism. Communalism is based on African religion. Islam and Christianity and Judaism came from Africa.

I did no5 say "economic freedom" for a reason, the reason being it implies anarchy. We have too much anarchy already under capitalism to be begging for more.

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#383 Jun 27, 2013
dragonpat wrote:
<quoted text>
something is very wrong with your post. for one, we were not meant to "keep our pants up" in a general sense. if this was how nature designed humans, none of us would be here on the internet posting back and forth to each other today, so there has got to be another equation to this issue.
We are not cats and dogs. As thinking animals with a conscience we know how to avoid HIV/AIDS. Yet we have been so brain-washed that Africans in general have the highest HOV rate in the world. But Muslims have the lowest HIV rate in the world. I prefer low HIV rates which is one reason I prefer Islam to any other religion.
dragonpat wrote:
<quoted text>now mind you, im not saying it is ok to be sexually irresponsible or promiscuous so don't even try it. what i am saying is that people are going to have sex (and they should)but what societies around the world has tried to do is to define limits and boundaries concerning sexuality.
I go even further than that to say that sexual morality implies self-control over the sex drive. For example, my grandmother married before the age of 15. Her husband was in his 40's or 50's. He died when she was still in her 40's. But she never got involved with another man until the day she died.

Now, I know that this contributes to the impoverishment of the widow. And such a man ought to do all he can to prepare for his widow's future security. That is what happened with Muhammad's first wife. She was a widow. But she was a rich widow. And she married a 25 year old Muhammad when she was in her 40's or older. S he bore him his only surviving children. The children of his other wives all died as children. So Islam is our history and we must learn from it. The important thing is social order by means of sexual restraint and morality.

My main point is one husband as sex partner is the ideal. When a widowhood is the result, there are still options to resort to in order to secure the woman. Another option is to allow widows to become second third and fourth wives. In the rural Muslim communities, this is still the way the problem is solved. There are no impoverished widows there. This is why I said earlier that white women are the most oppressed in the world. For one thing, white women are not protected from impoverishment through widowhood because men are not allowed to have more than one wife. Multiple wives is a system of protection for women, especially widows.
dragonpat wrote:
<quoted text>some societies go as far as killing those who defy their stated boundaries in cases such as adultery and fornication.
This is because adultery and fornication contribute to social disorder and a collapse of community life. That is a very, very serious offense and that is why the penalty is so harsh. I explained yesterday how the enemy encourages sexual immorality in our institutions and community structures in order to destroy them. W hen everybody is screwing everybody else, conflicts emerge; there is no harmony in the community. So people will leave in order to keep others from hitting on their wives, etc. This leads to collective/communal disintegration.
dragonpat wrote:
<quoted text>im gonna stop here to see if you understand where i am going with this because if i go any further, your just gonna accuse me of holding one sex to more accountability then the other.
As usual you are going in circles. You need to simply accept what our forefathers figured out tens of thousand of years ago: sexual morality and restraint is the ONLY way to have collective communal harmony. Therefore, it is the basis of civilization. This is why Egypt became the first civilization while the white man was still living in caves and having sex with neandertahls.

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#384 Jun 27, 2013
BigKnob wrote:
@ ms. spit fire, logic 101 if you have more women, and fewer men, if women of all races go to college more than men, then men dont have to compete women do, agree.
Competition is a western white man ideology. W hat we need in Africa is cooperation, not competition. That means that when there is a surplus of women, men have the duty to take multiple wives for the betterment of the community and no woman is left without a husband. It means the women have to learn to be sisters and not lesbians.

That me explain that last point. Multiple wives means that the husband has to provide spate houses and living quarters for each wife. That way there are no sexual conflict between the wives. And there is no sexual contact. That way lesbianism is not possible. But it also means that the wives can help one another in things like babysitting for one another when needed. Thus, they become sister-wives. They share the man equally. And he is bound by law to treat all the wives with equality. Usually the senior wife occupies the role of mother-wife while the others are daughter-wives and sister-wives.
Spit-Fire

Scottdale, GA

#385 Jun 27, 2013
BigKnob wrote:
@ ms. spit fire, logic 101 if you have more women, and fewer men, if women of all races go to college more than men, then men dont have to compete women do, agree.
Your logic is feminine. Women are the prize, not men. Men have always competed for women. Always have, always will.
Spit-Fire

Scottdale, GA

#386 Jun 27, 2013
BigKnob wrote:
<quoted text> I respond to research, not opinion, question why are 16.6 million ww single, nearly 3times as many bw, are they bitching, no, they take your best men, majestic bm.
Its ok. I realize this is a self esteem issue for you and other BM who think the way you do. If BM as a whole were as desired half as much as you claim, this conversation would be unnecessary.

There would be no need for you guys to validate yourselves so much all the time.

Take care.
BigKnob

United States

#389 Jun 27, 2013
Spit-Fire wrote:
<quoted text>
Your logic is feminine. Women are the prize, not men. Men have always competed for women. Always have, always will.
when there are so many to choose from, its a male market, why do you think so many women cheat with married men, they know hes married, also ask garcelle beauvais she lost her wht hubby to a ww, I thought only bm cheat. Lol smile
BigKnob

United States

#391 Jun 27, 2013
Spit-Fire wrote:
<quoted text>
Its ok. I realize this is a self esteem issue for you and other BM who think the way you do. If BM as a whole were as desired half as much as you claim, this conversation would be unnecessary.
There would be no need for you guys to validate yourselves so much all the time.
Take care.
its you sisters who need validation us bm are not trying to prove that we can get non bw, its you bw who do this you wm, ww a brother to death, thats all you seem to talk about, but not us bm, sp who had self esteem issues?

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#394 Jun 27, 2013
I cannot believe I was fool enough to get caught up in this stupid "dating" discussion in the first place. This is all you fools ever want to talk about. Good-bye.
Black Deal

Ballwin, MO

#397 Jun 27, 2013
BigKnob wrote:
<quoted text>its you sisters who need validation us bm are not trying to prove that we can get non bw, its you bw who do this you wm, ww a brother to death, thats all you seem to talk about, but not us bm, sp who had self esteem issues?
Coon you aint speaking for us BM

Now go praise white man and his seed in Anglo forum
Satan

Rowlett, TX

#399 Jun 27, 2013
MOSES-11 wrote:
AFRICAN AMERICAN MEN -- SCHOOL TIME
Alot of these old maids can't get a man and if they can't get one, they don't want other women to have a man.
A lot of these cows have passed their prime, passed their compatibility, passed their time hollering about being strong, independent, intelligent and trying to prove to other women how fastidious they can be, now they ain't...... you know it's hard to teach an old dog new tricks
"...And you wonder why I call you b*tch."

-Tupac

A Man is in charge.
A Man takes the lead.
A Man pursues women.

Most black males simply are not men;
but downlow cowards.

“BAD AZ I WANNA BE”

Level 6

Since: Apr 11

EVERYWHERE

#400 Jun 27, 2013
Black Deal wrote:
<quoted text>
Coon you aint speaking for us BM
Now go praise white man and his seed in Anglo forum
btch go get a GED wit yo retarded,illiterate,1 track minded azz!!!!!!!!!!

“F*ck White Turds!!!”

Level 2

Since: Jun 13

USA

#404 Jun 27, 2013
"Most people never get what they truly want, they only get what they really can." MARRLenn Topix: june 27, 2013

Level 7

Since: Jan 12

Location hidden

#405 Jun 27, 2013
MOSES-11 wrote:
<quoted text>
MANIPULATION OF THE EGO
When Sampson met Delilah, she did not say hello or offered any salutations. Her very first words was, "I'm going to afflict you"!
Here's Sampson, the epitome of a REAL MAN meeting Delilah and all she wanted was to know his secret.
Delilah: If you're a real man, tell me your secret
Sampson: I can't.
Delilah: boo hoo hoo, you don't love me.
Sampson: I can't.
Delilah: If you love me, you'd tell me.
Sampson: why are you guilt tripping me?
Delilah: how dare you accuse me.
Sampson: well, it's true
Delilah: boo hoo hoo, you hurt my feelings.
Sampson: I'm sorry.
Delilah: no you not or you'd tell me your secret.
Sampson broke down and as soon as the opportunity arose, she cut his hair, had the soldiers pluck out his eyes and she began to afflict Simpson.
Any woman that challenge a man's manhood, question a man's manhood is a femme fatale and a man's best recourse is not trying to figure her out, it is to run like lightening.
Delilah: boo hoo hoo, you don't love me.

Bwhahahahahaha!

You aint ever lied on that one! lol Because I have heard that one a thousand times over my life from women in some manipulative attempt to get me to capitulate to her wants and demands!

“Obsidian Princess”

Level 8

Since: Sep 09

louisiana

#406 Jun 27, 2013
Abdurratln wrote:
<quoted text>
We are not cats and dogs. As thinking animals with a conscience we know how to avoid HIV/AIDS. Yet we have been so brain-washed that Africans in general have the highest HOV rate in the world. But Muslims have the lowest HIV rate in the world. I prefer low HIV rates which is one reason I prefer Islam to any other religion.
<quoted text>
I go even further than that to say that sexual morality implies self-control over the sex drive. For example, my grandmother married before the age of 15. Her husband was in his 40's or 50's. He died when she was still in her 40's. But she never got involved with another man until the day she died.
Now, I know that this contributes to the impoverishment of the widow. And such a man ought to do all he can to prepare for his widow's future security. That is what happened with Muhammad's first wife. She was a widow. But she was a rich widow. And she married a 25 year old Muhammad when she was in her 40's or older. S he bore him his only surviving children. The children of his other wives all died as children. So Islam is our history and we must learn from it. The important thing is social order by means of sexual restraint and morality.
My main point is one husband as sex partner is the ideal. When a widowhood is the result, there are still options to resort to in order to secure the woman. Another option is to allow widows to become second third and fourth wives. In the rural Muslim communities, this is still the way the problem is solved. There are no impoverished widows there. This is why I said earlier that white women are the most oppressed in the world. For one thing, white women are not protected from impoverishment through widowhood because men are not allowed to have more than one wife. Multiple wives is a system of protection for women, especially widows.
<quoted text>
This is because adultery and fornication contribute to social disorder and a collapse of community life. That is a very, very serious offense and that is why the penalty is so harsh. I explained yesterday how the enemy encourages sexual immorality in our institutions and community structures in order to destroy them. W hen everybody is screwing everybody else, conflicts emerge; there is no harmony in the community. So people will leave in order to keep others from hitting on their wives, etc. This leads to collective/communal disintegration.
<quoted text>
As usual you are going in circles. You need to simply accept what our forefathers figured out tens of thousand of years ago: sexual morality and restraint is the ONLY way to have collective communal harmony. Therefore, it is the basis of civilization. This is why Egypt became the first civilization while the white man was still living in caves and having sex with neandertahls.
why you got to use Islam and its brand of "morality" as an answer to every post you respond to?

and I really don't understand your last paragraph because it is promoting exactly what i stated in my original post and that was the fact that there needs to be laws, expectations and restrictions in order when it comes to sexuality.

i think you just like to write because this long azz post was not necessary.

Level 7

Since: Jan 12

Location hidden

#407 Jun 27, 2013
Abdurratln wrote:
I cannot believe I was fool enough to get caught up in this stupid "dating" discussion in the first place. This is all you fools ever want to talk about. Good-bye.
LOL! You guys are hilarious!

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