We are losing real men and it's sad :(
London

Columbus, OH

#262 Jun 26, 2013
Moorspeaks wrote:
*This brings to mind the idea that men don't or should never argue or debate with women...huh?
This is a new idea that some bw have picked up from non-bm....who are passive aggressive....men who allow a woman to be irresponsible for her thoughts,words and actions in a personal relationship!
These are the same type of men...who tell bw that they have no faults,issues or room for improvement!
When in fact we all do!
*These men are passive aggressive manipulators of women...they drive women crazy...because they never just come out and express themselves...for fear of being "The bad guy"...but again...this is poison to a relationship!
And yet non bw encourage you guys to go on diss tours with bw and that's all good and correct, right?

And it's not cool in any way shape or form for men to expose women. Nothing cool about that at all.
London

Columbus, OH

#263 Jun 26, 2013
BigKnob wrote:
In america, right now there 6 millon more women than men,( male shortage ) in college women out number men 57% to 43% which means you college girls ( all races of women ) are going to have a hard time finding your male counter part. There are 4.7 million more ww than wm (census ) 16.6 million ww are single, never married. Which means you irbw are going to have to compete with ww for her wm, you'll also have to compete with asian, pacific island, arab, persian, indian, latin, mixed, and other enthic women, dont you see how all this plays into the hands of the bm, come to california and see for self, see other look at how the bm is built, the look at sports all the enegry translate in sexual activity, in their minds. The ww has been going to jamaica for years to get with rasta mon, because of the wht/male shortage by 4.7 million, much greater than the bm to bw ratio in america, so you sisters you keep comming at these brothers with vinegar, instead of honey, pretty soon the bm will be staring in ir directed by date out in a theater near you. Day -O
WW are the most free women. They've been traveling the globe for lots of years picking up men and exploring their sexuality. Why are you taking things so personal?

And I've been to CA..I honestly didn't see anything so shockingly different there than what I've seen in other parts of the country. But I don't know if my eyes even notice IR much anymore....It's perfectly normal and just blends in with everything else happening in the world.

“Black Luv or Bust!”

Level 7

Since: Jul 11

Location hidden

#264 Jun 26, 2013
brownskin_beauty wrote:
The reason most black men date white women is because it's easy, it's more accepting, black men will high five you, society will make you feel whole because white women are the prize here, there men do a great job at making them tantalizing. We actually had a discussion about it at my university in a segment of boys vs. girls and it was asked to well diverse group of guys from jocks and fraternity to medical and pre-law students and on. Some were even dating white women. They all unanimously said they were easy, didn't give no attitude they do what they say and so on. Don't get me wrong I love white women and I think many are beautiful, but we are being real. One guy proceeded to tell a story about how one use to clean for him and do a whole lot of things he didn't ask for, of course many complained are you looking for a maid or a women lol. This guy is now dating a black girl and no she doesn't do none of that, but he worked hard for her, so he sees her worth. I admit many guys touched on the attitude thing with black women, but we are University student mostly from middle class or upper middle class homes, those statistics you speak of don't define many of us. That usually define lower class blacks. It funny we are the only race that would bring light to such things I never hear whites bring up statistics of people living in trailer parks sleeping with their relatives. It funny that you say we are killing black babies abortions, but aren't we creating thugs by choosing to raise them alone because that's what most fatherless kids turn to. I know brother, I agree. women need to close their legs I tell it to my promiscuous friends all the time, but ye without sin cast the first stone. If women need to close their legs then brothers need to keep it in their pants if neither party's are ready for any type of responsibility why lie down with each other. Same men who complain of these women are the same ones sleeping with them.
Honestly...this comment is filled with all sorts of conjecture and your own view of things!

And as far as the young men that you referred...again...one has to take two things into consideration...first of all...this whole generation is caught up in the media driven frenzy to push ir dating onto blacks...you all are the targeted audience hands down...which is in fact an external agenda at work...clearly!

Next of all...these young men are all individuals...in a small...controlled setting...they do not in any way,shape or form represent all bm...not even all bm in their own age range or generation...again...again bm and bw are all individuals...with their own individual mindset!

Then finally...what is the real nature of this thread...what do you honestly hope to achieve with it...what's your real purpose here?

Do you want to find a bm who wants to date and get to know you...with the hopes of building a life together...well it only takes one bm...the right individual bm for you to do so!

Or is this once again...just some random young bw...attempt to come to terms with her own thoughts,beliefs and perspective on bm...and her preference for non-bm!

What's the point...because contrary to what you are saying the vast majority of straight bm...are in fact with bw...to this very day...if you want to date out then please help yourself...but stop it with these threads...it sounds as if you're joining other bw...who swear that there are no good bm...and that non-bm are the only hope of bw...nevermind that most bw that are married are in fact married to bm!

*I mean how many men do you plan on marrying and building a life with...it's only legal(at this point anyway!)to marry one!

“Black Luv or Bust!”

Level 7

Since: Jul 11

Location hidden

#265 Jun 26, 2013
KPITRL wrote:
<quoted text>
No race of men ever did, will, or ever will keep their pants on when their women drop theirs. So why expect this from black men.
Exactly...once again...men are men...and if you're even reasonably attractive to us in any way...you are down for it,and we aren't exerting a great deal of self control...and no non-bm aren't as picky as they everyone claims that they are...that's bulshyt!

If your with it...we're with it!

*Pssst...Stop making sense...you're still on Topix!

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#266 Jun 26, 2013
BigKnob wrote:
In america, right now there 6 millon more women than men,( male shortage ) in college women out number men 57% to 43% which means you college girls ( all races of women ) are going to have a hard time finding your male counter part. There are 4.7 million more ww than wm (census ) 16.6 million ww are single, never married. Which means you irbw are going to have to compete with ww for her wm, you'll also have to compete with asian, pacific island, arab, persian, indian, latin, mixed, and other enthic women, dont you see how all this plays into the hands of the bm, come to california and see for self, see other look at how the bm is built, the look at sports all the enegry translate in sexual activity, in their minds. The ww has been going to jamaica for years to get with rasta mon, because of the wht/male shortage by 4.7 million, much greater than the bm to bw ratio in america, so you sisters you keep comming at these brothers with vinegar, instead of honey, pretty soon the bm will be staring in ir directed by date out in a theater near you. Day -O
There is never ever any such thing as "male shortage" That is a lie, a myth, stupid non-sense. When women out number men, the men take multiple wives and forget about it. End of story. The problem is people want us to follow the western white man Christian model which does not even work for white people. And when they see that that is impossible, they start to complain about a "shortage of men". That is BS.

Whether there are multiple wives or monogamy, the important thing is to end extramarital sex, sexual immorality. We must end sexual immorality. And when you come here lying about a "man shortage" that will not change the fact that YOU must not have more than one man in a lifetime. YOU must adhere to sexually moral standards and stop the "gay rights and free sex" that started in with the "sexual revolution" That is BS. I won't buy it period.

Let me word that differently: our problem is the "sexual revolution". We must reject that and return to traditional sex values of our forebears. When I say reject the "sexual revolution", I mean first and foremost reject "gay rights", reject "feminism", reject all kinds of "free sex" and the hippie movement. reject extramarital and premarital sex. Keep sex within marriage ONLY. That means that there will be no "homosexual" behavior. I do not give a dang about "gay rights". They have no rights that the rest of us do not have. It is against morality and against the law to have any kind of sex outside marriage. That includes "gay" sex. The reason we have problems in this community between men and women is because the Dummycrat Party has been promoting "gay rights" since KKKlinton was in office. It used to be called the "sexual revolution". We must reject that even if it means voting for the GOP.

I hope I am making this perfectly clear enough. And I know that the liberals will not like what I just said and will come here and jump all over me. But, that is what I believe and I will not change my position on we must reject all kinds of sexual immorality.

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#267 Jun 26, 2013
London wrote:
<quoted text>
WW are the most free women. They've been traveling the globe for lots of years picking up men and exploring their sexuality. Why are you taking things so personal?
And I've been to CA..I honestly didn't see anything so shockingly different there than what I've seen in other parts of the country. But I don't know if my eyes even notice IR much anymore....It's perfectly normal and just blends in with everything else happening in the world.
White women are the most oppressed in the world. That is why the largest group of people who become Muslims every day are white women. They are tired of being made to run around naked like dogs and having no rights. Islam gives them rights and dignity. nd that is why Islam is the fastest growing religion in the world. But black women will be the last to accept Islam. So do not complain when we marry white Muslim women. Islamic Law will not allow us to marry anyone who is not a Muslimah. But black women are too dumb to understand that.

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#268 Jun 26, 2013
There is no sexual harassment in Islam.

“Black Luv or Bust!”

Level 7

Since: Jul 11

Location hidden

#269 Jun 26, 2013
London wrote:
<quoted text>
And yet non bw encourage you guys to go on diss tours with bw and that's all good and correct, right?
And it's not cool in any way shape or form for men to expose women. Nothing cool about that at all.
One: as usual you're misguided and confused on the issues...first of all...who are these men that ww are inviting to do anything with...because once again...as much as you'd like to pretend that it's not so....most bm are with bw by choice...in the real world...that is...outside of your favorite show...

(featuring a bw running around with The White President in a cheap and sleazy ass affair (never mind that the PODUS is actually a mixed man married to a bw!)

Now aside from me working with them and a few other social engagements/interaction...at work or in my community...I have nothing to do with ww...and I sure as hell don't take them up on the idea of bashing bw...because not only did one give me life and raise me...but I'm married to one!

Two: As far as it not being cool to expose women on their shyt...ummmm...really wow!...again...not really sure where you got that misguided ass idea from...women aren't sacred in terms of every day life...in an adult relationship...if there's a problem....it needs to be addressed...and contrary to what many of you seem and want to believe...women have personal issues,attitudes and behaviors that cause problems in personal relationships...plain and simple!

Just having a vagina does not make you as Saint sweetie(and believe it or not...P*ssy while fantastic as it is...it's not a cure all solution!)again...you've been misinformed...raised wrong or had your head filled with the nonsense of the very type of non-black passive aggressive men that I was describing!

I've been married for many years and I'm here to tell you that...the only real way that a marriage last and provides happiness for all parties involved...is if we are both open,honest and brave enough to wo/man up and deal with our own personal shit...as it happens...for the sake of the union!

This is the problem with people today...noone wants to do this...and believe it or not...women are the worst!

“Black Luv or Bust!”

Level 7

Since: Jul 11

Location hidden

#270 Jun 26, 2013
Abdurratln wrote:
There is no sexual harassment in Islam.
Nooo?...well how about the abuse or sexual control of women?

Ask yourself honestly...as a man...would you like to be in the place that these women hold...would you like for things to be switched around...so that you have to follow the same rules that Muslim women follow on a daily basis...yes,no...hell no...huh?
The Answer

Brooklyn, NY

#271 Jun 26, 2013
We are losing real men and it's sad :)

Easy !!!!! STOP KILLING EACH OTHER.
London

Columbus, OH

#272 Jun 26, 2013
Abdurratln wrote:
<quoted text>
White women are the most oppressed in the world. That is why the largest group of people who become Muslims every day are white women. They are tired of being made to run around naked like dogs and having no rights. Islam gives them rights and dignity. nd that is why Islam is the fastest growing religion in the world. But black women will be the last to accept Islam. So do not complain when we marry white Muslim women. Islamic Law will not allow us to marry anyone who is not a Muslimah. But black women are too dumb to understand that.
You are certainly wise and smart. No one could ever, with good conscious, accuse you of seeing this world azz backward with blinders on.

Your religion could not have picked a better de recruiter. lol.
The Answer

Brooklyn, NY

#273 Jun 26, 2013
Abdurratln wrote:
<quoted text>
White women are the most oppressed in the world. That is why the largest group of people who become Muslims every day are white women. They are tired of being made to run around naked like dogs and having no rights. Islam gives them rights and dignity. nd that is why Islam is the fastest growing religion in the world. But black women will be the last to accept Islam. So do not complain when we marry white Muslim women. Islamic Law will not allow us to marry anyone who is not a Muslimah. But black women are too dumb to understand that.
"White women having no rights"

"Islam gives them rights and dignity"

"black women are too dumb to understand that"

You need to stop smoking that shit !

Your starting to believe yourself.
K_ll ALL CHRISTIANS

Jacksonville, FL

#274 Jun 26, 2013
Abdurratln wrote:
There is no sexual harassment in Islam.
You're a liar.
London

Columbus, OH

#275 Jun 26, 2013
Moorspeaks wrote:
<quoted text>
One: as usual you're misguided and confused on the issues...first of all...who are these men that ww are inviting to do anything with...because once again...as much as you'd like to pretend that it's not so....most bm are with bw by choice...in the real world...that is...outside of your favorite show...
(featuring a bw running around with The White President in a cheap and sleazy ass affair (never mind that the PODUS is actually a mixed man married to a bw!)
Now aside from me working with them and a few other social engagements/interaction...at work or in my community...I have nothing to do with ww...and I sure as hell don't take them up on the idea of bashing bw...because not only did one give me life and raise me...but I'm married to one!
Two: As far as it not being cool to expose women on their shyt...ummmm...really wow!...again...not really sure where you got that misguided ass idea from...women aren't sacred in terms of every day life...in an adult relationship...if there's a problem....it needs to be addressed...and contrary to what many of you seem and want to believe...women have personal issues,attitudes and behaviors that cause problems in personal relationships...plain and simple!
Just having a vagina does not make you as Saint sweetie(and believe it or not...P*ssy while fantastic as it is...it's not a cure all solution!)again...you've been misinformed...raised wrong or had your head filled with the nonsense of the very type of non-black passive aggressive men that I was describing!
I've been married for many years and I'm here to tell you that...the only real way that a marriage last and provides happiness for all parties involved...is if we are both open,honest and brave enough to wo/man up and deal with our own personal shit...as it happens...for the sake of the union!
This is the problem with people today...noone wants to do this...and believe it or not...women are the worst!
Dear, I'm sure your post is wonderful and loaded with great information, but I simply don't feel like reading all of this today.(I'm sure you've touched on the two most important things though- denial of IR and your love of your lovely blue black wife).
brownskin_beauty

Houston, TX

#276 Jun 26, 2013
BigKnob wrote:
In america, right now there 6 millon more women than men,( male shortage ) in college women out number men 57% to 43% which means you college girls ( all races of women ) are going to have a hard time finding your male counter part. There are 4.7 million more ww than wm (census ) 16.6 million ww are single, never married. Which means you irbw are going to have to compete with ww for her wm, you'll also have to compete with asian, pacific island, arab, persian, indian, latin, mixed, and other enthic women, dont you see how all this plays into the hands of the bm, come to california and see for self, see other look at how the bm is built, the look at sports all the enegry translate in sexual activity, in their minds. The ww has been going to jamaica for years to get with rasta mon, because of the wht/male shortage by 4.7 million, much greater than the bm to bw ratio in america, so you sisters you keep comming at these brothers with vinegar, instead of honey, pretty soon the bm will be staring in ir directed by date out in a theater near you. Day -O
I think that has already happened, but it's ok I realize every one is not made for everyone we all come designed for a certain person. And I don't think race plays a factor in that. If someone falls in love with someone of another race I'm happy for them, but honestly I don't believe that is the case for many of them lust is, whether it's irbw, awwm, or irbm. I do think that initial attraction plays a role in it, but I think most people don't seek real love they seek temporal satisfaction. It's easier to get temporal satisfaction, especially if you have money, but real love takes work, persistence, strength and a lot more. I realize it's not that we don't have real guys, well I'm still convinced there's not a lot of them left, it that we live in a world that don't desire real love. Not men or women, so you won't all claim I'm just blaming men. Every wants there cake and eat it too, but that's only satisfying for a while.
Jesus Deserved To Die

Jacksonville, FL

#277 Jun 26, 2013
London wrote:
<quoted text>
You are certainly wise and smart. No one could ever, with good conscious, accuse you of seeing this world azz backward with blinders on.
Your religion could not have picked a better de recruiter. lol.
Tehehehe

“Black Luv or Bust!”

Level 7

Since: Jul 11

Location hidden

#278 Jun 26, 2013
The Answer wrote:
We are losing real men and it's sad :)
Easy !!!!! STOP KILLING EACH OTHER.
I'm sorry...but If I may...please just allow me this one indulgence:

GOOD MEN AREN'T OUT KILLING PEOPLE GENIUS...I THINK THERE'S SOME CONFUSION HERE...YOU SEE MOST OF THE MEN THAT BM KILL ARE OTHER BM...INVOLVED IN THE SAME LIFE OF CRIME THAT THE PERPETRATOR IS USUALLY INVOLVED IN!

GOOD MEN...AREN'T INVOLVED IN THESE SORT OF ACTIVITIES...WHY?...BECAUSE THEY'RE DESTRUCTIVE AND LEAD TO NOTHING BUT MORE COMPLICATIONS AND PAIN IN THE LIVES OF THE PEOPLE AROUND THEM!

GOOD MEN...GO TO WORK EVERYDAY...BRING HOME A PAY CHECK...AND TAKE CARE OF THE FOLKS AT THAT ADDRESS...WITH OUT CAUSING MORE PAIN AND SUFFERING TO OTHERS...BECAUSE THEY VALUE SOMETHING MORE THAN A QUICK AND EASY BUCK,AND OTHER ILL GOTTEN GAINS...AND WANT SOMETHING OUT OF LIFE...THAT IS ACTUALLY BUILT ON SENSIBLE PRINCIPLES AND DAILY PRACTICES!

Thanks for your patience...now we can get back to the subject at hand!
Satan

Rowlett, TX

#279 Jun 26, 2013
The Answer wrote:
<quoted text>"White women having no rights"
"Islam gives them rights and dignity"
"black women are too dumb to understand that"
You need to stop smoking that shit !
Your starting to believe yourself.
Bill, please stop posing as ME.
It must be some phase..Moses-1 went through it a few
years ago.

You know "What Time it IZ" scooby-doo.

“Black Luv or Bust!”

Level 7

Since: Jul 11

Location hidden

#281 Jun 26, 2013
Abdurratln wrote:
<quoted text>
White women are the most oppressed in the world. That is why the largest group of people who become Muslims every day are white women. They are tired of being made to run around naked like dogs and having no rights. Islam gives them rights and dignity. nd that is why Islam is the fastest growing religion in the world. But black women will be the last to accept Islam. So do not complain when we marry white Muslim women. Islamic Law will not allow us to marry anyone who is not a Muslimah. But black women are too dumb to understand that.
Smdh...complete and utter nonsense!

WW are hardly thee most oppressed group on the planet...when you start to believe things that are clearly...not even a matter of faith...things that you can clearly see is completely out of synch with day to day realities...then you need to take a pit stop...for a check up!

Now granted...I can plainly see how ww may be disenchanted with the culture/system of White male dominated America...which is not new for ww...as they had no rights,say so nor power during the era of African Slavery here in America...and have had to fight with wm to get to where they are now!...true!

But to say that they are thee most oppressed group of women is just plain insanity!

*White women can run around and f*ck and s*ck(excuse my English)everyone and anything on the planet...*except a bm of course!...hell they can lie,steal,cheat and even kill their own babies...and still be held up as being a good,decent lady and a good catch...in this sick ass white supremacist culture...so sorry but no...that's complete nonsense!

You're typing out of your ass my friend!

“Black Luv or Bust!”

Level 7

Since: Jul 11

Location hidden

#283 Jun 26, 2013
London wrote:
<quoted text>
Dear, I'm sure your post is wonderful and loaded with great information, but I simply don't feel like reading all of this today.(I'm sure you've touched on the two most important things though- denial of IR and your love of your lovely blue black wife).
Again...here we have the short/quick reference guide oriented...attention span of a bw...on display!

And yet you want men like me...who actually value intelligent dialogue....to actually take you seriously...another bw...who has no time to deal with information,opinions and communication btw bm and bw!...I mean is reading a burden or a chore in your mind?...dayum...lol!

*And to a man like me...I can only wonder what my children would be like...you can't even keep up with a conversation...smdh!

**Yet I have no doubt in my mind that...If I were any non-bm...you'd be waiting by your P.C.to read anything that I've type!

Now it's time for you to offer another tid bit on how ww are inviting us bm to bash,demean and dismiss bw...hmmm?

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