We are losing real men and it's sad :(

We are losing real men and it's sad :(

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brownskin_beauty

Houston, TX

#1 Jun 23, 2013
Well it's already hard enough to know there aren't enough black men to go around seeing that we outnumber them by 2 million excluding the ones incarcerated, gay, or the ones that are against monogamy. I am not at all trying to start nothing negative, but it saddens me to see the type of society we have become. I mean we have become desensitized the violence against women. We are more open to allowing men to be submissive, and we are just a society favoring equality, but almost in a communistic way. I know maybe people thinks its old fashion, but I want a man who wants to wear the pants, who sees a man even speak vile to a women and will be ready to put him in the gutter, a gentlemen, and a great example to young black men, since there seem to be a lacking of that in the community. I want him to involve himself in bettering others, maybe know how to fix things around the house, be reasonable, but stern. I want him to be the epitome of a real man, not on the DL or abusive, or submissive is that too much to ask for

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#2 Jun 23, 2013
brownskin_beauty wrote:
Well it's already hard enough to know there aren't enough black men to go around seeing that we outnumber them by 2 million excluding the ones incarcerated, gay, or the ones that are against monogamy. I am not at all trying to start nothing negative, but it saddens me to see the type of society we have become. I mean we have become desensitized the violence against women. We are more open to allowing men to be submissive, and we are just a society favoring equality, but almost in a communistic way. I know maybe people thinks its old fashion, but I want a man who wants to wear the pants, who sees a man even speak vile to a women and will be ready to put him in the gutter, a gentlemen, and a great example to young black men, since there seem to be a lacking of that in the community. I want him to involve himself in bettering others, maybe know how to fix things around the house, be reasonable, but stern. I want him to be the epitome of a real man, not on the DL or abusive, or submissive is that too much to ask for
Black Men are stupid.
The man leads the race and the black race is at the bottom, because the Black male was unable to compete with men from other races. The Arab and white males enslaved and sold black people,because they were cleverer than the black man.
That's the problem,black man are stupid and white men (and women) find them easy to manipulate and use.

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#3 Jun 23, 2013
brownskin_beauty wrote:
Well it's already hard enough to know there aren't enough black men to go around seeing that we outnumber them by 2 million excluding the ones incarcerated, gay, or the ones that are against monogamy. I am not at all trying to start nothing negative, but it saddens me to see the type of society we have become. I mean we have become desensitized the violence against women. We are more open to allowing men to be submissive, and we are just a society favoring equality, but almost in a communistic way. I know maybe people thinks its old fashion, but I want a man who wants to wear the pants, who sees a man even speak vile to a women and will be ready to put him in the gutter, a gentlemen, and a great example to young black men, since there seem to be a lacking of that in the community. I want him to involve himself in bettering others, maybe know how to fix things around the house, be reasonable, but stern. I want him to be the epitome of a real man, not on the DL or abusive, or submissive is that too much to ask for
That's not too much to ask for at all. But you have to ask yourself...even with the Black women outnumbering the amount of Black men that COULD be considered marketable, just how many Black women have allowed themselves to be PREPARED and GROOMED (psychologically, mentally & emotionally) to receive a Black man of the caliber in which you speak of?

As a Black man, I'll be the first to admit OUR contribution to what prohibits Black love from being completely fostered, but there aren't many Black women, as many as there are of you, that can honestly admit their hand in the matter as to why this concept of Black love is kept from being fully realized.

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#4 Jun 23, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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Black Men are stupid.
The man leads the race and the black race is at the bottom, because the Black male was unable to compete with men from other races. The Arab and white males enslaved and sold black people,because they were cleverer than the black man.
That's the problem,black man are stupid and white men (and women) find them easy to manipulate and use.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =dxKR3_xruUkXX
^^^Case in point...^^^

PERFECT example of a Black woman who can't admit her contribution to OUR condition.

Goes into the playing the blame game almost instantaneously, just like she was PREPARE & GROOMED to do...

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#5 Jun 23, 2013
vampiYAH stabB wrote:
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^^^Case in point...^^^
PERFECT example of a Black woman who can't admit her contribution to OUR condition.
Goes into the playing the blame game almost instantaneously, just like she was PREPARE & GROOMED to do...
You show your weakness by blaming women for the condition of your race. Men have always been the leaders, protectors, chiefs and warriors, women have been home makers expected to bear children and follow.
Men have always had the power and made the big decisions in any racial group.

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#6 Jun 23, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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You show your weakness by blaming women for the condition of your race. Men have always been the leaders, protectors, chiefs and warriors, women have been home makers expected to bear children and follow.
Men have always had the power and made the big decisions in any racial group.
Read the 2nd paragraph to my initial post...then come talk to me, n!**a.

You "show your weakness" by drawing conclusions on what I said and haven't read what I said in full.

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#7 Jun 23, 2013
vampiYAH stabB wrote:
<quoted text> Read the 2nd paragraph to my initial post...then come talk to me, n!**a.
You "show your weakness" by drawing conclusions on what I said and haven't read what I said in full.
BW have half the interracial rates of BM, even though black women have suffered far less at the hands of white people, over the last 100 years than black men have.
An AA man said that if 20 black men moved from Atlanta in the South, to Denver,15 of those black men would be with white women within a year.
He and many other BM believe that given the opportunity 75% of black men would ignore BW and choose white partners.
After everything you guys and your fathers and grandfathers have been put through... that guy can confidently say publicly that the vast majority of black men would chose white if white was available freely to him.
I think his analysis is correct and think there are a whole lot of BW, sleeping with black men who are merely settling for them.
If all men started out equally, what was it that made those African chiefs decide to sell our ancestors into slavery for centuries and only stop,when the white and Arab men decided to stop BUYING?
Something is deeply wrong with African men and their male diaspora.

Since: Jun 08

Tulsa OK. & Lugano Switzerland

#8 Jun 23, 2013
brownskin_beauty wrote:
Well it's already hard enough to know there aren't enough black men to go around seeing that we outnumber them by 2 million excluding the ones incarcerated, gay, or the ones that are against monogamy. I am not at all trying to start nothing negative, but it saddens me to see the type of society we have become. I mean we have become desensitized the violence against women. We are more open to allowing men to be submissive, and we are just a society favoring equality, but almost in a communistic way. I know maybe people thinks its old fashion, but I want a man who wants to wear the pants, who sees a man even speak vile to a women and will be ready to put him in the gutter, a gentlemen, and a great example to young black men, since there seem to be a lacking of that in the community. I want him to involve himself in bettering others, maybe know how to fix things around the house, be reasonable, but stern. I want him to be the epitome of a real man, not on the DL or abusive, or submissive is that too much to ask for
Maybe you should get away from the hood.

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#9 Jun 23, 2013
brownskin_beauty wrote:
Well it's already hard enough to know there aren't enough black men to go around seeing that we outnumber them by 2 million excluding the ones incarcerated, gay, or the ones that are against monogamy. I am not at all trying to start nothing negative, but it saddens me to see the type of society we have become. I mean we have become desensitized the violence against women. We are more open to allowing men to be submissive, and we are just a society favoring equality, but almost in a communistic way. I know maybe people thinks its old fashion, but I want a man who wants to wear the pants, who sees a man even speak vile to a women and will be ready to put him in the gutter, a gentlemen, and a great example to young black men, since there seem to be a lacking of that in the community. I want him to involve himself in bettering others, maybe know how to fix things around the house, be reasonable, but stern. I want him to be the epitome of a real man, not on the DL or abusive, or submissive is that too much to ask for
Before a man can "wear the pants" he needs to kno how to pull them up and use a belt for what it was meant for... to keep them up!
FYI

Miami, FL

#10 Jun 23, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
<quoted text>
Black Men are stupid.
The man leads the race and the black race is at the bottom, because the Black male was unable to compete with men from other races. The Arab and white males enslaved and sold black people,because they were cleverer than the black man.
That's the problem,black man are stupid and white men (and women) find them easy to manipulate and use.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =dxKR3_xruUkXX
Slavery in America -- Today

In 1860, there were over four million slaves in the United States, about ten percent of whom were in states that did not secede from the Union in the War Between the States. By the end of 1865, slavery as an institution was destroyed in America, a status bought by the blood of hundreds of thousands of soldiers.
But slaveryitself was not destroyed. In California after the Civil War, thousands of young Asian women were enslaved to serve as prostitutes for the Gold-Rush settlers. Chinese men were virtually enslaved to build the railroads and develop the Western mining industry. In the South, newly-freed slaves worked side by side with poor whites as sharecroppers, becoming serfs in all but name to new landowners from both the North and the South. This tradition of slavery continued throughout American history.

Today, at any given time, tens of thousands of people are working as slaves in America: cleaning houses, working on farms, or, most commonly, prostituting themselves for the profit of their owners. They are bought and sold, just like they used to be in the American South, and few of those who engage in slave trafficking are ever brought to justice.

http://voices.yahoo.com/slavery-america-today...

Since: Jun 08

Tulsa OK. & Lugano Switzerland

#11 Jun 23, 2013
FYI wrote:
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Slavery in America -- Today
In 1860, there were over four million slaves in the United States, about ten percent of whom were in states that did not secede from the Union in the War Between the States. By the end of 1865, slavery as an institution was destroyed in America, a status bought by the blood of hundreds of thousands of soldiers.
But slaveryitself was not destroyed. In California after the Civil War, thousands of young Asian women were enslaved to serve as prostitutes for the Gold-Rush settlers. Chinese men were virtually enslaved to build the railroads and develop the Western mining industry. In the South, newly-freed slaves worked side by side with poor whites as sharecroppers, becoming serfs in all but name to new landowners from both the North and the South. This tradition of slavery continued throughout American history.
Today, at any given time, tens of thousands of people are working as slaves in America: cleaning houses, working on farms, or, most commonly, prostituting themselves for the profit of their owners. They are bought and sold, just like they used to be in the American South, and few of those who engage in slave trafficking are ever brought to justice.
http://voices.yahoo.com/slavery-america-today...
Seems no one race is immune today in this country.
Or the world.
brownskin_beauty

Houston, TX

#12 Jun 23, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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Black Men are stupid.
The man leads the race and the black race is at the bottom, because the Black male was unable to compete with men from other races. The Arab and white males enslaved and sold black people,because they were cleverer than the black man.
That's the problem,black man are stupid and white men (and women) find them easy to manipulate and use.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =dxKR3_xruUkXX
I don't think they're stupid I think they are born with a strike against them and only the strong survive. They are only still enslaved by white men when they start to believe in their media
brownskin_beauty

Houston, TX

#13 Jun 23, 2013
vampiYAH stabB wrote:
<quoted text>That's not too much to ask for at all. But you have to ask yourself...even with the Black women outnumbering the amount of Black men that COULD be considered marketable, just how many Black women have allowed themselves to be PREPARED and GROOMED (psychologically, mentally & emotionally) to receive a Black man of the caliber in which you speak of?
As a Black man, I'll be the first to admit OUR contribution to what prohibits Black love from being completely fostered, but there aren't many Black women, as many as there are of you, that can honestly admit their hand in the matter as to why this concept of Black love is kept from being fully realized.
I would have to agree that all women are not preparing themselves for good men especially emotionally, but it's hard when your counter part is not emotionally stable themselves. I feel that everyone has a part of the blame for the deterioration of black love, but I really feel like men don't want to be men no more. They run from responsibility, they want a women with a job and other standards that they don't exemplify themselves.
brownskin_beauty

Houston, TX

#14 Jun 23, 2013
AAMech wrote:
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Maybe you should get away from the hood.
I'm no where close to it

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#16 Jun 23, 2013
brownskin_beauty wrote:
Well it's already hard enough to know there aren't enough black men to go around seeing that we outnumber them by 2 million excluding the ones incarcerated, gay, or the ones that are against monogamy. I am not at all trying to start nothing negative, but it saddens me to see the type of society we have become. I mean we have become desensitized the violence against women. We are more open to allowing men to be submissive, and we are just a society favoring equality, but almost in a communistic way. I know maybe people thinks its old fashion, but I want a man who wants to wear the pants, who sees a man even speak vile to a women and will be ready to put him in the gutter, a gentlemen, and a great example to young black men, since there seem to be a lacking of that in the community. I want him to involve himself in bettering others, maybe know how to fix things around the house, be reasonable, but stern. I want him to be the epitome of a real man, not on the DL or abusive, or submissive is that too much to ask for
What are you offering? I know women that struggle to get a man period whether he be good or bad, and I know women that get offers from good men practically every time they go out.

You need to reflect on yourself and make yourself more marketable. Look at the poster dragon Pat. She's always complaining about not being able to find a man, but look at how she looks, and look at her demeanor. Then look at a woman like Aziya, she has all kinds of dudes chasing after her.

No since both of these women are black, obvious being a black woman isn't the problem. Ladies like you to mimic the behavior of decent women with good men.

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Saint Louis, MO

#17 Jun 23, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
<quoted text>
Black Men are stupid.
The man leads the race and the black race is at the bottom, because the Black male was unable to compete with men from other races. The Arab and white males enslaved and sold black people,because they were cleverer than the black man.
That's the problem,black man are stupid and white men (and women) find them easy to manipulate and use.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =dxKR3_xruUkXX
You are an idiot unworthy of any serious reesponse.

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Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#18 Jun 23, 2013
brownskin_beauty wrote:
Well it's already hard enough to know there aren't enough black men to go around seeing that we outnumber them by 2 million excluding the ones incarcerated, gay, or the ones that are against monogamy. I am not at all trying to start nothing negative, but it saddens me to see the type of society we have become. I mean we have become desensitized the violence against women. We are more open to allowing men to be submissive, and we are just a society favoring equality, but almost in a communistic way. I know maybe people thinks its old fashion, but I want a man who wants to wear the pants, who sees a man even speak vile to a women and will be ready to put him in the gutter, a gentlemen, and a great example to young black men, since there seem to be a lacking of that in the community. I want him to involve himself in bettering others, maybe know how to fix things around the house, be reasonable, but stern. I want him to be the epitome of a real man, not on the DL or abusive, or submissive is that too much to ask for
There is nothing wrong with polygamy except what the white man says is wrong with it. It worked fior us in Africa for tens of thousands of years and longer. Your problem is your stupid attempt to measure Africans by a white man's yardstick sand that is why no matter what, you will always find fault with brothers and with Africa in general. So don't blame men. Blame your own stupidassss.

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Saint Louis, MO

#19 Jun 23, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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You show your weakness by blaming women for the condition of your race. Men have always been the leaders, protectors, chiefs and warriors, women have been home makers expected to bear children and follow.
Men have always had the power and made the big decisions in any racial group.
Women own at least half the problem. I think women are responsible for about 90% of the problem.

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#20 Jun 23, 2013
brownskin_beauty wrote:
Well it's already hard enough to know there aren't enough black men to go around seeing that we outnumber them by 2 million excluding the ones incarcerated, gay, or the ones that are against monogamy. I am not at all trying to start nothing negative, but it saddens me to see the type of society we have become. I mean we have become desensitized the violence against women. We are more open to allowing men to be submissive, and we are just a society favoring equality, but almost in a communistic way. I know maybe people thinks its old fashion, but I want a man who wants to wear the pants, who sees a man even speak vile to a women and will be ready to put him in the gutter, a gentlemen, and a great example to young black men, since there seem to be a lacking of that in the community. I want him to involve himself in bettering others, maybe know how to fix things around the house, be reasonable, but stern. I want him to be the epitome of a real man, not on the DL or abusive, or submissive is that too much to ask for
Its sad what we've become. Men and women in our race have lost so much self respect and are disregarding the work many african americans have done before us to get equal opportunities.

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Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#21 Jun 23, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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BW have half the interracial rates of BM, even though black women have suffered far less at the hands of white people, over the last 100 years than black men have.
An AA man said that if 20 black men moved from Atlanta in the South, to Denver,15 of those black men would be with white women within a year.
He and many other BM believe that given the opportunity 75% of black men would ignore BW and choose white partners.
After everything you guys and your fathers and grandfathers have been put through... that guy can confidently say publicly that the vast majority of black men would chose white if white was available freely to him.
I think his analysis is correct and think there are a whole lot of BW, sleeping with black men who are merely settling for them.
If all men started out equally, what was it that made those African chiefs decide to sell our ancestors into slavery for centuries and only stop,when the white and Arab men decided to stop BUYING?
Something is deeply wrong with African men and their male diaspora.
White women sees a brother as a man first and black second. Black women sees him as black first and as a man almost never. And they are too stupid to understand why they always lose the man. They think it has to do with the man when in reality it has to do with the black woman not being a real woman and the white woman filling a void.

I have been single for over 30 years and I have been hearing black women complain about not having any men for over 40 years. All they do is complain complain and complain. I sure as heck do not want to be around an idiot who does nothing but complain all the time. Those types are losers by nature. There is nothing that a brother or anybody else can do for them. The only reason 99% of them are even here is because they have already been dogged out by white boys. It probably took them a long time to realize that no white man wants them. Heck, no black man wants them either if he has a brain in his head.

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