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why do people always have a problem dating dark skinned black women

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Since: Feb 12

Brooklyn, NY

#1 Feb 29, 2012
im a puerto rican man living in the brooklyn section of new york city and my longtime girlfriend is a chocolate skinned black women and i love her more than anything else in this world.when i tell certain people that i perfer dark skin black women over light skin women they look at me like i have a disease while others dont care but i have notice how some of the other people who dont care if i date dark skin women are kinda b.s because i had one of my friends tell me "oh why you only date dark skin women,i never see you date chicks who are caramel skinned or brown" but the same friend who told me that stupid question has a baby from a dark skin girl..i like all shades of black women but i like darker skinned females more.why is it so bad in this society to black men who are either dark skin,brown skin or caramel skin to not date a female who are of darker shade and instead go to lighter skinned women?..it's really sad cause dark skin women are beautiful and ive dated a light skin girl before just to see what the "hoopla" was all about and to see if they were "better" and they wound up being the same as a darker skinned female.i didnt see any difference.i heard all the bulls**t about dark skin women like "oh her hair is nappy","thats not her real hair",she look mad burnt" and my personal favorite garbage statement about dark skin women"she looks good for a dark skin girl"..i mean are you kidding me?.why is their always a problem with dating dark skin women?.i will always date dark skinned females no matter what.
Anonymous

Brooklyn, NY

#2 Feb 29, 2012
Americas standard if beauty is WHITE.But you and I both know black women are the best.
Pan-Africanist

United States

#3 Feb 29, 2012
Darkskinned bw are beautiful like all bw. But no one is a victim dark bw/bm diss each other ALL day. Dark bm are made fun of as well as smart bm. Idk y people act like dark bw are ONLY people ever looked down upon.

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Since: Feb 12

Brooklyn, NY

#4 Mar 2, 2012
Immaculatelo wrote:
Americas standard if beauty is WHITE.But you and I both know black women are the best.
yep..thanx so much..thats why i will always go for team dark skin when it comes down to black women as my 1st choice..always

Level 2

Since: Feb 12

Brooklyn, NY

#5 Mar 2, 2012
Pan-Africanist wrote:
Darkskinned bw are beautiful like all bw. But no one is a victim dark bw/bm diss each other ALL day. Dark bm are made fun of as well as smart bm. Idk y people act like dark bw are ONLY people ever looked down upon.
i agree cause its usually (and im not racist cause i am half black as well)black men who does this to dark skinned black women and im starting to see why more and more dark skin black women date outside the race cause other races LOVES!!!! dark skin women and ill take a dark skin women over a light skin women anyday of the week

J-Town Ninjas OHH yEe AH

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#6 Mar 2, 2012
i dont ever see this... but i am white... to me if your hot your hot, no matter how dark or light u are... a white guy that isnt gonna be w a black girl, isnt gonna be no matter if shes light or black... the dark skin thing has to be a black socitey thing, maybe thats why I see all these black guys w ugly white girls... I guess in their eyes just having light features makes u good looking

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#7 Mar 2, 2012
thomjames6 wrote:
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i agree cause its usually (and im not racist cause i am half black as well)black men who does this to dark skinned black women and im starting to see why more and more dark skin black women date outside the race cause other races LOVES!!!! dark skin women and ill take a dark skin women over a light skin women anyday of the week
Bull sht dark skinned women MORE TIMES THAN NOT will shun dark skinned men in favor of lighter men, for validation/self esteem purposes. Stop your lies. Naomi Campbell couldnt find a dark skinned black man because they rejected her? More like she rejected them, stop your lies, go to another site!

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#8 Mar 2, 2012
J-Town Ninjas OHH yEe AH wrote:
i dont ever see this... but i am white... to me if your hot your hot, no matter how dark or light u are... a white guy that isnt gonna be w a black girl, isnt gonna be no matter if shes light or black... the dark skin thing has to be a black socitey thing, maybe thats why I see all these black guys w ugly white girls... I guess in their eyes just having light features makes u good looking
more lies, up is down in the white world, then again you are the spawn of all things evil
KIP

San Francisco, CA

#9 Mar 2, 2012
My high school sweetheart was a VERY dark skinned girl. She had an incredible body and was absolutely gorgeous. We went to different private schools.

She ended up marrying a white physician back in my hometown.
Precious

Saint Louis, MO

#11 Mar 3, 2012
Black men are weak minded. They don't care that disgrace the race. They go on national television and tell the entire world how much they hate the color of their skin and other races of people notice how they clamor for a light skin woman.

J-Town Ninjas OHH yEe AH

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#12 Mar 3, 2012
Precious wrote:
Black men are weak minded. They don't care that disgrace the race. They go on national television and tell the entire world how much they hate the color of their skin and other races of people notice how they clamor for a light skin woman.
I will not fall for your lies, I have been fooled by your so called truthyness.... it is false, you are false

Sock it

“Professor of”

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Since: Dec 11

Primatology

#13 Mar 3, 2012
KIP wrote:
My high school sweetheart was a VERY dark skinned girl. She had an incredible body and was absolutely gorgeous. We went to different private schools.
She ended up marrying a white physician back in my hometown.
And you ended up marrying a white whale from San Fran.

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#14 Mar 3, 2012
Because darkskinned women are beautiful. I consider myself brownskinned but most people would consider me on the lighter side. I think darkskin is beautiful. I'd love to have some dark chocolate girls. But bm aren't my preference. I know. So you're an afro latino into darker women ? And black women at that ? I will say that you are a rare breed. Most afro latinos avoid bw (of all shades) but especially darkskinned bw like the plague. And when I say bw, I'm not talking about afro latinas.

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#15 Mar 3, 2012
J-Town Ninjas OHH yEe AH wrote:
i dont ever see this... but i am white... to me if your hot your hot, no matter how dark or light u are... a white guy that isnt gonna be w a black girl, isnt gonna be no matter if shes light or black... the dark skin thing has to be a black socitey thing, maybe thats why I see all these black guys w ugly white girls... I guess in their eyes just having light features makes u good looking
lmao. But yes you're right.
Pan-Africanist

Plano, TX

#16 Mar 3, 2012
Wtf are bw always victims that psychosis you always think youre a victim.

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#18 Mar 3, 2012
J-Town Ninjas OHH yEe AH wrote:
i dont ever see this... but i am white... to me if your hot your hot, no matter how dark or light u are... a white guy that isnt gonna be w a black girl, isnt gonna be no matter if shes light or black... the dark skin thing has to be a black socitey thing, maybe thats why I see all these black guys w ugly white girls... I guess in their eyes just having light features makes u good looking
I'm going to be honest and say that when I see white people with blacks, they are often dark skinned with natural hair. It is like white people know that's how a black person's hair is supposed to be and expect them to have dark skin. However, the groups of color which have had caste systems placed upon them or have been oppressed seem to be the most prejudice when it comes to skin color because many have seen and experienced how people have been treated in regards to it.
KIP

San Francisco, CA

#19 Mar 3, 2012
Sock it wrote:
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And you ended up marrying a white whale from San Fran.
There you go lying again.

Tell me something: Why do white guys lie all the time? It's as if some of you cannot get through a day in life without living behind some kind of lie. You lie in politics, to your wives, to investors, and to your selves. I didn't lie and accuse of you performing auto-erotic asphyxiation because you are white did I?

Stop lying.

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Since: Feb 12

Brooklyn, NY

#21 Mar 3, 2012
Jack 300 wrote:
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more lies, up is down in the white world, then again you are the spawn of all things evil
watch your mouth next time homeboy..i aint thso one to play that game with you troll a** b***h

J-Town Ninjas OHH yEe AH

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Since: Nov 10

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#22 Mar 3, 2012
KIP wrote:
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There you go lying again.
Tell me something: Why do white guys lie all the time? It's as if some of you cannot get through a day in life without living behind some kind of lie. You lie in politics, to your wives, to investors, and to your selves. I didn't lie and accuse of you performing auto-erotic asphyxiation because you are white did I?
Stop lying.
lol from all the stuff you wrote in that other thread, there is no way u are married to a white woman... and if u really are, she has to be like the lowest self esteemed, daddy issue blt(h ever... or look like this

http://www.poshlistings.com/ads_images/0309f8...

Level 2

Since: Feb 12

Brooklyn, NY

#23 Mar 3, 2012
HelloWorld3 wrote:
Because darkskinned women are beautiful. I consider myself brownskinned but most people would consider me on the lighter side. I think darkskin is beautiful. I'd love to have some dark chocolate girls. But bm aren't my preference. I know. So you're an afro latino into darker women ? And black women at that ? I will say that you are a rare breed. Most afro latinos avoid bw (of all shades) but especially darkskinned bw like the plague. And when I say bw, I'm not talking about afro latinas.
i love black women.i been around black women almost all my life and its sad that you have latinos who avoid black women (in which it dont really bother me cause i know im not part of that union)i grew up around both blacks and puerto ricans and 4 sum reason i get along with blacks more than i do with my own race and most likely its because i have more in common with blacks than i do with my own race(my father was black and my mom is puerto rican)im more corfortable around black women (especially around brownskinned and chocolate skinned black women) than anybody else and it do bother me when i hear ppl talk junk about dark skin women.im more mad at how ppl are with dark skin black women more than the girl is lol cause dark skin is beautiful and if ignorant ppl cant embrace that and thats their problem

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