why do white men prefer african women...
Aya

United States

#1504 Jul 27, 2012
Noir in Seattle wrote:
It's because African women were not sold into slavery and have a true cultural ID, we were sold, beaten raped, and bred more than animals and people are shocked because this is our history, that we don't trust whites? Really? And lets move forward a few hundred years in the early 20th century whites would burn down schools and business that's blacks had. In the 50's and during civil rights people were beaten and killed, up until the late 70's early 80' young bw were steralized against their knowledge, in the early 90' a bm was dragged behind a pick up truck. And let's not forget when the CIA finally admitted they "may have" turned a blind eye for all the drugs that went into the black neighborhoods I mean really did they think the black columbians were flying up in their private plans to bring the drugs only to us?
Oh wait there were no black columbians with that kind of money so much for the war on drugs and karma is serious b*tch can we say crystal meth white people? Now explain to me at what point did African women suffer the same sh*t from WHITES, what have they suffered that is anywhere near what whites have done to us? Not black but white!
google south africa you will get your answer. We only got to vote in 1994,please check if we have a sweet little history with whites
Aya

United States

#1505 Jul 27, 2012
sassyntrashy wrote:
<quoted text>Sorry sweetheartheart but I am not fat or ignorant and I'll bet I look ten times better than you. And sweetheart this is just auser names because I am nobody trash nor am I a baby momma.
And some black americans may kill for matreial things but you savage africans kill so you can eat each other. You guys are animals and the Gorillas are way above you. So go and play in your feces somewhere and stop bothering me because I am so far above you. I don't care if you are a neurosurgeon as long as you are an african you are still just a saveg in my eyes.
lol if africans are cannibals,that means you are too since your people come from here..and lol you claim to be above a neurosurgeon,because you are in america,lol maybe you need the surgeon,clearly your head needs some examination
Aya

United States

#1506 Jul 27, 2012
sassyntrashy wrote:
<quoted text>Your just jealous because white men choose my female ancestors to come with them because they were pretty and yours were too ugly.
lol..they were not chosen for their beauty,lol but their ability to breed and work the plantation,same with the men,they chose the strongest looking for "labour" not modelling,lol
Nikki

Calgary, Canada

#1507 Aug 9, 2012
Honeslty the reason why eruropean men tend to date african women, when in a realationship is because think about it. How many AA women do you see in europe, just like here in canada theirs a lot more African women here than AA women. And seriously if a america was not all about racial problems and if AA women were more accepting of dating outside their race it could happen. Here in Canada yes africans do date a lot of white people, just depends on which part of canada you're in. But seriously most of these girls will date these guys because of their perosnally and not because they are white. Here in Canada guys are really sweet and nice. That's what I'm assumming of European men too that date African women or any other black women, that their nice guys Because let's face it, us African women and AA women are deffintaly not the same; but just like any other women we want respect. And seriously I notice that african women striaght from Africa are differant but just like any other black women they got ghetto in them too, a lot actually. Seriously don't think all africans are all ladie like.
Nikki

Calgary, Canada

#1508 Aug 9, 2012
Ohh and I got to say more stuff, dating a white man in our culture is not a prize its actually an embarressment. If you took him home the african mommy and daddy would defiantly not welcome him with open arms. Yes we date white people, not all of us and defiantly not me. But no its not something to pride about, its an embarressment. Because african parents want their kids to marry not any kind of black person but someone from their own culture. Now I'm not talking about all africans but that's my knowledge from the africans I know and I'm african also. If I brought a white man home my parents would certinalty be dissipoitned and would probably disown me. Seriously thought, you people not all of you make us African women seem desperate. Dating a white man is very low on the social later. It goes like this on the top of the marriage and social ladder of african women and family. 1. African men from same culture 2. African men from same country 3. African men from africa 4. African men from all over the world(any type of black man) 5. White men 6. Spanish men 7. Asian men and lastly any type of Arabs are last in the ladder. Because they are muslim and most africans are not muslim and hate muslim, not talking for all africans tho.
Alf

Luton, UK

#1509 Aug 13, 2012
African black women (because there are actually African White women) have a totally different mentality to African American Women. First up, they don't carry the genetic trauma of slavery. And believe me, trauma is passed down through genetics. Secondly, they usually come from a more stable childhood and seek different things in a man. European white men (different to American white men) are generally more openminded to interracial relations (especially British white men). In the latest gallop poll of Londoners for the daily mail, only 6% thought race or colour was important when choosing a partner. Most people were more interested in financial/job status and personality. Having said all that, if an African lady marries a white European she will get a lot of grief not just from her family in Africa, but also her friends and family in Europe too. With the exception of a few open minded souls that is. I know this because I am engaged to an African lady and it has been tough for her with her family back home and diaspora here in London and almost impossible for me to gain acceptance. I just hope that one day, God willing, things will change for the better.
African gal

United States

#1510 Aug 14, 2012
Nikki wrote:
Ohh and I got to say more stuff, dating a white man in our culture is not a prize its actually an embarressment. If you took him home the african mommy and daddy would defiantly not welcome him with open arms. Yes we date white people, not all of us and defiantly not me. But no its not something to pride about, its an embarressment. Because african parents want their kids to marry not any kind of black person but someone from their own culture. Now I'm not talking about all africans but that's my knowledge from the africans I know and I'm african also. If I brought a white man home my parents would certinalty be dissipoitned and would probably disown me. Seriously thought, you people not all of you make us African women seem desperate. Dating a white man is very low on the social later. It goes like this on the top of the marriage and social ladder of african women and family. 1. African men from same culture 2. African men from same country 3. African men from africa 4. African men from all over the world(any type of black man) 5. White men 6. Spanish men 7. Asian men and lastly any type of Arabs are last in the ladder. Because they are muslim and most africans are not muslim and hate muslim, not talking for all africans tho.
totally agree with you,though here in s.a we dont have many arabs,so we wouldnt know whether we like or dislike them...and in your list,i would put coloureds before the whities..but all in all great post
Dom

Wellington, New Zealand

#1511 Sep 10, 2012
I'm a white guy mid-thirties and find African woman sexy because they dress well and look good. They have a lot of style which is something I personally value as I like to style myself up too.
I genuinely enjoy talking to African woman. I like flirting with them and discussing their views on life.
Not sure if you can compare AA with Africans. They have distant shared ancestry but let’s face it, they’re from different continents. Apart from shared physical characteristics not sure how similar they really are. I’m a new Zealander but don t consider myself particularly European? Are white Americans, also Europeans? Hell no. They cry.
USA has to come to terms with their racist history, not project their racist experiences upon others. In Europe blacks and whites mingle freely… Just saying
Michell marufu

Europe

#1512 Sep 19, 2012
I am african , from zimbabwe. Here education is very important and the majority of women here are educated with at least a university degree. Women here are NOT rowdy let me asure you and i think that when they go abroad, thats what makes them different from aa women. I have met a few aa women and let me assure You, yep they can talk loudly. Seriously, its not even funny. They have that reputation even here in africa.
kevkev

Tarawa Terrace, NC

#1513 Jan 26, 2013
I speak for myself. I have dated American white women, AA women and African women. I find women of every nationality attractive, educated , indepedant. I think if a man and woman get that spark, get along and like to be around each other then so be it. True love has no boundries. But I would like to say that most African American women I know are very pleasant, attractive, hard working women. And if I see someone I'm interessted in , I will ask her out. Worst thing that happens is she says no for whatever reason. Thats her choice. So as a white American man if I love you and you me , I will love you not because of where your from but who you are. We all have beauty and even if we dont date out of our race we still can show respect .
mytots

Spring, TX

#1514 Feb 6, 2013
Blackchingy wrote:
<quoted text>The average African women dosen't live her life around white men or come into contact with white men on a regular basis because they are raised mainly in a black enviroment so it might be an upgrade to date a white man sort of a status symbol. African American women grow up in a majority white country and interact with white men all their lives in some type of capacity so they see the pros and cons of the white man. They don't buy the hype of the white man being an upgrade. Trust me,lots of white men would love to date an African American but they know that most African American women wouldn't give them the time of day because they prefer African American men. Maybe African American women just love their men more than African women do.
I guess you are dreaming by saying that African women don't like their men. Because there are lots of whites living and working in Africa even more than the media shows you. But African women do NOt date or marry them. they prefer their own men so any white man that gets or marries an African lady in Africa(the part of Africa I am from) feels lucky and treats her like a queen. some white people think AA ladies are loud and angry of which I was afraid of them when I came to the states but discovered it not very true; not all of them are loud.
allblkpplhateeac hother

United States

#1515 Feb 20, 2013
Auspy wrote:
<quoted text>
Tell me why zoomalians are relevant.Are you not the same buffoons that have benn killing each other since the 90's
You are a disgrace to the African continent.if only we could get rid of you poverty stricken parasites and send you to the middle east
Over here you are nothing but dirty maggots always begging for handouts,now shoo,you will be better off with these descendant of slaves.in Zoomalia,the soldiers used to pay $1 for a woman,dirty parasites
Wow, this is sad im married to a nigerian and thats how you behave. I always say to him too, that you guys are the snobby africans second is the ethiopians they seem to think there white.
Lola

United States

#1516 Mar 6, 2013
Americans are lowlifes who come to africa to steal natural resources...you calling africans slaves doesnt make you any better..and africans american are cowards who couldnt defend their nation instead they followed the whites and kissed their asses....white men are obsessed with african women cux they want a real woman as a wife nat a bitch with fake boobs and a cock sucker...
oyboy

Bronx, NY

#1517 Mar 17, 2013
It is ashame that " white men" are the standard of approval and to be considered better by "the white" makes you feel valuable or validated. I am AA and I've been to Africa several times and have seen the most beautiful people in the world there in Africa. The tension between AA and Africans is one based in stereo type of Africans not understanding the horrible conditions in America that break and oppress others and AA lack of knowledge about the true history and beauty of Africa. Many Africans come to America and judge AA not knowing that America was build on the Backs of black ppl...the Same strong black ppl that came from Africa.....anyway PEACE and Love
oyboy

Bronx, NY

#1518 Mar 17, 2013
furthmore on the topic of " talking Loud". I ve been to africa several times and loved it however i also saw many african talking aloud, yelling and Arguing in public...especially in Market places and public squares...and u know its true..the bottom line is speaking aloud isnt a crime its human nature.There is nothing wrong with it (Unless it is inappropriately at a formal or religious gathering). People should stop trying to make themselves seem better then others..that is a trick of the Devil..You should know that all man and woman was created equal by God and to hate creation is to hate the Creator..so please be mindful.
oyboy

Bronx, NY

#1519 Mar 17, 2013
And Last im am a AA male and i LOOOOVE LOVE LOVE African woman....i love all woman but i LOOOOOVE African woman...
jay

United States

#1520 Mar 17, 2013
foxy wrote:
yeah right, especially with european white men, they never step to AA women but when they see a african black women they sway right to her mostly. what do african women have that AA women don't have that makes white men, especially european men avoid AA women. the only black women I see them with is foreign black women, especially african women.
yea we tried to tell yall what it was, which is also why many black men just left, 1 more i will say it nobody likes women who where wigs fake nails or anything fake, its unattractive and plus many african women has better attitudes then AA women.
lando

Howell, MI

#1521 Mar 17, 2013
african american women are closer to white
coral

United States

#1522 Mar 17, 2013
It creds
anon

Scottsdale, AZ

#1523 Apr 7, 2013
I guess technically I'm "african american" in the most literal sense of the word. One of my parents is black from Africa, the other is a white American, both of upper middle class backgrounds. The interesting thing is I've ONLY ever dated white men from Scandinavia. They always seem to see me as some exciting exotic thing.

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