I'm 18 and never had a boyfriend

[Sarah]

Hello!
I had my first boyfriend/first real date at eighteen (in college) and my first kiss at nineteen (same man).
No, there's ABSOLUTELY NOTHING wrong with you. I'm reasonably pretty, smart, and nice, I guess, but no boyfriend until now. It was because I lived in a small town and even though I liked some of the guys there, it just wasn't the right time; none of them would really get to know me because I was something of an outcast.
Yes, definitely save yourself until you're married. And I strongly recommend saving your first kiss for the perfect moment, with someone you truly care about or maybe even love.(I like that I gave my first kiss to the first man I fell in love with.)

The bottom line: If you're not reasonably happy with your life and where you're going without a boyfriend, you probably won't be very happy with one. It's best if you make an awesome life for yourself and learn to find your own happiness first, then share that with someone.
Having high standards is WONDERFUL. You are worth it, worth it, worth it! Don't worry. You're fine just the way you are, and when some great guy finds you someday, he'll be a lucky man.

God bless you.

[tigress aka Tiger]

African-MadBoy wrote:

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where have you been lately?

My modem to get on the internet broke, so I can only go on here at school.

[Harrisson]

tigress aka Tiger wrote:

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My modem to get on the internet broke, so I can only go on here at school.

Well you were missed, sugar! FIX that modem in a hurry, okay?? LOL

C-Ya!

[tigress aka Tiger]

Harrisson wrote:

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Well you were missed, sugar! FIX that modem in a hurry, okay?? LOL
C-Ya!

Awww, thank you. Keep posting your intelligence on here!:)

[lalal]

ya

[STYLE]

Carribean wrote:

I never had a boyfriend, never been on a date, and never been kiss is that normal? I don't understand my situation I'm not ugly, I'm smart, outgoing, friendly, and nice. Guys ask me out all the time but I always feel odd. Is this a normal stage?

Maybe your the type to show disintrest when you like a guy but they take that as...leave me alone. With a beautiful woman around every corner, guys are having this here today..gone tommorow attitude more. If more woman held out more, you probably wouldn't have this problem. But since so many woman are giving it away practically, you may be considered a outcast

[STYLE]

Sarah wrote:

Hello!
I had my first boyfriend/first real date at eighteen (in college) and my first kiss at nineteen (same man).
No, there's ABSOLUTELY NOTHING wrong with you. I'm reasonably pretty, smart, and nice, I guess, but no boyfriend until now. It was because I lived in a small town and even though I liked some of the guys there, it just wasn't the right time; none of them would really get to know me because I was something of an outcast.
Yes, definitely save yourself until you're married. And I strongly recommend saving your first kiss for the perfect moment, with someone you truly care about or maybe even love.(I like that I gave my first kiss to the first man I fell in love with.)
The bottom line: If you're not reasonably happy with your life and where you're going without a boyfriend, you probably won't be very happy with one. It's best if you make an awesome life for yourself and learn to find your own happiness first, then share that with someone.
Having high standards is WONDERFUL. You are worth it, worth it, worth it! Don't worry. You're fine just the way you are, and when some great guy finds you someday, he'll be a lucky man.
God bless you.

If chivalry wasn't dead, this probably wouldn't be the case

[etgurl]

i feel like i found some1 i can realte to. guess what am 20 and still no boyfriend. trust me i used to feel the same way..like something was wrong with me...first of all my family..they have this strict rule about guys,, its the culture... beside that i think am pretty, well i been told....i have been asked out my soo manyguys..but eventhough i liked them...i just cant say yes...i dont know wat is wrong with me...i want a boyfriend but ...for some reason i am not ready to have that kind of realtionship.....ps...i have kissed 3 guyss....all soo cute....they jsut kisssed me....and then asked me out ....guess wat i said..no....i hate meee. but foreal i think i should have a boyfriends now,,..cuz like u said it..an sick n tired of hearing my friedns talk about boys and all...and wat do i do..just sit there and listenn....anyways....there is nothing worng with you..you just have respect for ur self and ur family that is all..and dont rush anything....i sujest you wait as long as u want to have a bf.

[STYLE]

etgurl wrote:

i feel like i found some1 i can realte to. guess what am 20 and still no boyfriend. trust me i used to feel the same way..like something was wrong with me...first of all my family..they have this strict rule about guys,, its the culture... beside that i think am pretty, well i been told....i have been asked out my soo manyguys..but eventhough i liked them...i just cant say yes...i dont know wat is wrong with me...i want a boyfriend but ...for some reason i am not ready to have that kind of realtionship.....ps...i have kissed 3 guyss....all soo cute....they jsut kisssed me....and then asked me out ....guess wat i said..no....i hate meee. but foreal i think i should have a boyfriends now,,..cuz like u said it..an sick n tired of hearing my friedns talk about boys and all...and wat do i do..just sit there and listenn....anyways....there is nothing worng with you..you just have respect for ur self and ur family that is all..and dont rush anything....i sujest you wait as long as u want to have a bf.

well, if you can't say yes, then of course your going to continue to be single. The good thing is that men won't stop asking you out. But hopefully one day you will trust your judgement and trust men to allow yourself to have a succesful fullfilling relationship. Learn to take risk.

[Carribean]

Freki the wolf wrote:

Can I help you Caribean?
You're really beatiful,
bella come il cielo d'una notte d'estate
(beautiful as the sky in aSummer's night)

lo thnx

[Carribean]

STYLE wrote:

<quoted text>Maybe your the type to show disintrest when you like a guy but they take that as...leave me alone. With a beautiful woman around every corner, guys are having this here today..gone tommorow attitude more. If more woman held out more, you probably wouldn't have this problem. But since so many woman are giving it away practically, you may be considered a outcast

I think you point was simple but true thank you so much for the advice. You prediction of me was right on point.

[STYLE]

Carribean wrote:

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I think you point was simple but true thank you so much for the advice. You prediction of me was right on point.

I mean, you can't that hard of a person to get to know...right? Unless you have pyscho tendencies.:)

[susannah]

I'm sixteen. I am fat and ugly - i have been told by family. I feel so depressed and also to make matters worse, I've never had a boyfriend. I feel so alone and cannot tell anyone this problem. I feel depressed and unhappy.

[Carribean]

susannah wrote:

I'm sixteen. I am fat and ugly - i have been told by family. I feel so depressed and also to make matters worse, I've never had a boyfriend. I feel so alone and cannot tell anyone this problem. I feel depressed and unhappy.

Are you serious or just some random troll?