I'm 18 and never had a boyfriend

[Carribean]

MasterOfPuppets wrote:

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Yeah it's normal. The only reason you may perceive it otherwise is due to the standards set up by human beings for others. Reason being is that it's in our animal nature to breed and/or relate to the opposite sex so it's hard for some to comprehend anything outside that and make fun of those who don't follow.
Anyways, you shouldn't have this as a concern. Don't assess yourself through how others see you. Find what is right for you.

Thank you so much for the advice?

[fair_guy]

I am 23 and never had a girlfriend, unfortunately...

[Carribean]

tigress aka Tiger wrote:

I am in the exact same predicament as you. Except guys don't even ask me out. As a matter of fact, I made a thread like this a while ago...But anyway, not everyone is lucky enough to get a man. I swear, some girls have boyfriends when they don't even deserve them. Not fair. Unlike most people, I don't see myself being married because if I can't even get a boyfriend, how in the hell am I going to get a husband?

lol you funny you are already thinking marriage. I'm sure your time will come soon.

[Laurie]

Carribean wrote:

I never had a boyfriend, never been on a date, and never been kiss is that normal? I don't understand my situation I'm not ugly, I'm smart, outgoing, friendly, and nice. Guys ask me out all the time but I always feel odd. Is this a normal stage?

As a true black woman, by the age of 18 you should have at least 2 children (out of wedlock of course) and at minimum one STD.

[Roman Sulu Malay]

Carribean wrote:

I feel un worthy to date someone. I really want to but something is holding me back. My friends are starting to realise it, and its getting harder for me to cover it up. I usually make excuses but it's getting old. All my firend have and had boyfriend. I feel left out when they talk about some of the thing they do.

That's okay.. You're just picky.. Don't rush yourself.

[African-MadBoy]

'cant hurry love',who knows that song?

[fair_guy]

tigress aka Tiger wrote:

I am in the exact same predicament as you. Except guys don't even ask me out. As a matter of fact, I made a thread like this a while ago...But anyway, not everyone is lucky enough to get a man. I swear, some girls have boyfriends when they don't even deserve them. Not fair. Unlike most people, I don't see myself being married because if I can't even get a boyfriend, how in the hell am I going to get a husband?

Me too, gender opposite perspective...

[Dianne Heath]

BrownSuga wrote:

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You'll be supprised the way some guys think when they first look at you. They either stare without saying word because their thinking you probably have a Bf, so they don't even bother asking, OR they think your going to brush them off OR they think your on a higher level then them because you're pretty..its so many reason WHY, ya know? its not you...and young guys DO NOT want to hear a girl say the strong word "marriage"...they'll be thinking you moving to fast!.

they move fast when you say the word marriage because they are just thinking about having sex. I only want to date a guy who knows in his mind that he is looking for marriage.

[Dianne Heath]

tigress aka Tiger wrote:

I am in the exact same predicament as you. Except guys don't even ask me out. As a matter of fact, I made a thread like this a while ago...But anyway, not everyone is lucky enough to get a man. I swear, some girls have boyfriends when they don't even deserve them. Not fair. Unlike most people, I don't see myself being married because if I can't even get a boyfriend, how in the hell am I going to get a husband?

this is the exact some thing I feel.

[tigress aka Tiger]

latinqueen wrote:

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well it depends on how things r where u live. i meen in grew up in da projex and males an females hook up earlier and the hook ups dont last long. i had my first b/f when i was 13 and i cant count how many males i have been with. a boy got me pregnint when i was 18 and after i had the baby he left me an hookd up with another woman. so see havin a b/f dont meen ur gonna be happy is all im sayin. u just take ur time tigress and find a man who will treet u good and not cheat on u.

Thanks, latinqueen. In a way, it does depend where you live but here, most girls have a boyfriend and I don't, so I don't know...

[tigress aka Tiger]

Carribean wrote:

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lol you funny you are already thinking marriage. I'm sure your time will come soon.

Well I'm not thinking about marriage right now, but I'm just looking at my future. I am not trying to get married right now.

[tigress aka Tiger]

Everyone has their pic up today...

[Creamed Fetus on Toast]

tigress aka Tiger wrote:

I am in the exact same predicament as you. Except guys don't even ask me out. As a matter of fact, I made a thread like this a while ago...But anyway, not everyone is lucky enough to get a man. I swear, some girls have boyfriends when they don't even deserve them. Not fair. Unlike most people, I don't see myself being married because if I can't even get a boyfriend, how in the hell am I going to get a husband?

You don't need to "get" a husband. That kind of thinking scares guys away, and don't think we can't tell where you're coming from!

Besides, if you focus on getting an education and a career and start working at a good company, you'll start meeting the kind of guys you can make a life with.

They're not hanging out in the clubs at all hours, I can guarantee you that!

[jmill82]

Carribean wrote:

I never had a boyfriend, never been on a date, and never been kiss is that normal? I don't understand my situation I'm not ugly, I'm smart, outgoing, friendly, and nice. Guys ask me out all the time but I always feel odd. Is this a normal stage?

I'm sure your time will come, just be patient. Judging from your photo you're very attractive, you shouldn't have any problems catching someone's eye.

[east-african beauty]

carribean: I think i had my first proper boyfriend at age 14 guys approach me alot and i don't think ive stopped getting into relationships since then lol seriously though your a beautiful girl and the right guy will come to you and if hes right for you and ya click you wont be nervous infact if anything you should feel comfortable in his presence. but you have to be willing too get into a relationship.

[Libaan]

dating is overrated, thats all i can say.

[Carribean]

jmill82 wrote:

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I'm sure your time will come, just be patient. Judging from your photo you're very attractive, you shouldn't have any problems catching someone's eye.

Thank you.

[Carribean]

east-african beauty wrote:

carribean: I think i had my first proper boyfriend at age 14 guys approach me alot and i don't think ive stopped getting into relationships since then lol seriously though your a beautiful girl and the right guy will come to you and if hes right for you and ya click you wont be nervous infact if anything you should feel comfortable in his presence. but you have to be willing too get into a relationship.

Thank you alot east-african you are very pretty. I have been getting ask out ever since I was 9years old. That's the main reason why I'm stun. But I hope by long waiting will pay off in the feature.

[Carribean]

fair_guy wrote:

I am 23 and never had a girlfriend, unfortunately...

Awww that is so cute. Are you being honest?

[fair_guy]

Carribean wrote:

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Awww that is so cute. Are you being honest?

Of course this is true, I'm 5'1 and male...