From Hoes To Housewives: Love Without Limits

Created by Harrisson on Jun 19, 2013

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Hell no! Once a Hoe always a Hoe!

NO! Too much baggage

Yes - but only if she accepts Jesus Christ

Yes! We all deserve a 2nd chance

I'm just not sure...

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Level 8

Since: May 08

Pacific Northwest

#1 Jun 19, 2013
I have to give credit for this thread to Kip. In a recent post he observed that...
KIP wrote:
<quoted text>....Yes, there are adult black men attracted to white women. Have they been OBSESSIVE over them to the extent of marrying them as prostitutes?!! Uh, no. White guys do and get away with this. I've SEEN it....
LOL! I found that hilarious and fascinating. It's easy to forget that humans fall in love and marry in the most unusual and varied circumstances and for reasons which are incomprehensible to bystanders. Some examples: Women falling in love with male convicts in the prison system. Men who are American GIs falling in love with Iraqi women and converting to Islam to marry them. Women accepting marriage proposals from men whom they know already have a wife (polygamy). Men who are wealthy and 87 years old, asking a 32-year-old female secretary to marry him... And on and on it goes. For every form of marriage out there, there is a man or woman who swears "Oh my God, I could NEVER do that!" But, guess what? Someone else DID go there. lol

What about those ladies we know as "hookers" or "escorts?" We know that some of them are stunningly beautiful. It's not surprising that some of their clients fall in love with them. Some clients will go one step further, as KIP mentioned, and ask for marriage. And apparently some of these ladies will say "Yes." It seems that hoes need love too.

Is this reasonable or unreasonable? What do you think? Does it mean the man is desperate? Or obsessive? Or does it mean he has the most forgiving and loving heart? What about the women? Are they just desperate? Or hopeless romantics?

If you are a Christian, as I am, you know that Jesus showed loving compassion for a woman who had been caught in the act of adultery. The judgmental haters who wanted to know if she should be stoned to death, kept asking him for his opinion... "And as they continued to ask him, he stood up and said to them, "Let him who is without sin among you be the first to throw a stone at her."

So I would like to hear from both single men and married men - black and white and Latino and all colors. Here is the Big Question:

If a beautiful woman finally manages to clean up her act, get her life together and leave the world of prostitution by age 28....could you accept her as a wife?(Assume that her sexual health is the same as yours. If you have herpes, so does she. If you are STD-free then so is she.) Could you be as loving as Jesus, and accept her as a housewife? Could she be the mother of your kids?
auntie bee

United States

#2 Jun 19, 2013
it would depend on how smelly and stretched out her coochie is.
Ali

Toronto, Canada

#5 Jun 19, 2013
Heck no !!!

You can't make a hoe into a housewives

My wife who is 24(im30) was a Virgin before I married her. I'm her first in every sense of the word. She was raised right by her father.

but we ate both Africans so that is probably not reality in western girls as most turn into hoes by 18
auntie bee

United States

#6 Jun 19, 2013
Ali wrote:
Heck no !!!
You can't make a hoe into a housewives
My wife who is 24(im30) was a Virgin before I married her. I'm her first in every sense of the word. She was raised right by her father.
but we ate both Africans so that is probably not reality in western girls as most turn into hoes by 18
did you chute da hoops to get your degree too?

Level 8

Since: May 08

Pacific Northwest

#7 Jun 19, 2013
Ali wrote:
Heck no !!!
You can't make a hoe into a housewives...
Okay, Ali - that's probably a common view. It looks like you've voted too.

But what about the ladies who hate turning tricks and *want* to turn their lives around and are looking for the right man to give them a chance. Do you have any sympathy for them?

After all, people who are released from prison (parole) are expected to rejoin society and be productive (find a job) and move on with their lives.

Should ex-prostitutes be given a chance to prove they can be good wives and Moms?
Loulou

Slagelse, Denmark

#8 Jun 19, 2013
Lol, but men are getting married to prostitutes every day. Men go to Thailand/ Pattaya and marry prostitutes. And the men do it because they are extremly creepy or nasty. Not to mention that they look gross, especially halfnaked on the beach. They are so F......ng ugly that no money in the world can make up for it. There are enough men for prostitutes to marry.

Level 8

Since: May 08

Pacific Northwest

#9 Jun 19, 2013
Loulou wrote:
Lol, but men are getting married to prostitutes every day. Men go to Thailand/ Pattaya and marry prostitutes. And the men do it because they are extremly creepy or nasty. Not to mention that they look gross, especially halfnaked on the beach. They are so F......ng ugly that no money in the world can make up for it....
LOL - Oh my gosh, Loulou...you sound so cruel when you say it like that. One almost feels sorry for the men, like maybe they are desperate.

So, let me ask you: Is KIP correct when he says that it's White guys who are marrying these prostitutes?
Loulou

Slagelse, Denmark

#10 Jun 19, 2013
Harrisson wrote:
<quoted text>
LOL - Oh my gosh, Loulou...you sound so cruel when you say it like that. One almost feels sorry for the men, like maybe they are desperate.
So, let me ask you: Is KIP correct when he says that it's White guys who are marrying these prostitutes?
Lol, everyone knows they are white. Including you. You just wanna hear it.( Hehe ).
Anyways they are rejects, be sure they tried with the local girls/ women before they left and married. That's the truth. I'm not cruel . I'm just not into charity. Or necrophilia ( coz they sure look like one step from the grave - the old ones ). The "younger"ones are some thugtypes or wierdos who live home with thier mom at the age of 40. Sure they are Kings in Thailand or whereever I think the fit better in a pigstable. Oink oink.

Level 8

Since: May 08

Pacific Northwest

#11 Jun 22, 2013
Loulou wrote:
<quoted text>
Lol, everyone knows they are white. Including you. You just wanna hear it.( Hehe )...
Yes, but getting the opinion of a White person was important. So I'm glad you spoke up! ;o)
Sadbuttrue

Chantilly, VA

#12 Jun 22, 2013
Harrisson wrote:
I have to give credit for this thread to Kip. In a recent post he ob
If a beautiful woman finally manages to clean up her act, get her life together and leave the world of prostitution by age 28....could you accept her as a wife?(Assume that her sexual health is the same as yours. If you have herpes, so does she. If you are STD-free then so is she.) Could you be as loving as Jesus, and accept her as a housewife? Could she be the mother of your kids?
Maceo

That's a bunch of BS! Black males are the lowest on the food chain! Even the immigrants are doing better than most Black males and they weren't born in this country.

What have you done for Black women, children or even your family? Regain what position? All Black men do is chase White women/Non Black women and their worried about being players, getting over, hustlers and living off women.

What have you done? What about any of your friends? You HATE Black women who birthed you and Black men have done nothing for the race! Even Obama states that Black men like you whine and do nothing!

You haven't done "Nada Damn Thing" and based on the "collective group of Black males" you'll continue to go down the same self destructive path!

You've slept for 40 years and you sure Ran a Marathon for your Ex White wife and her family but not your own! Sadly, I heard you didn't even do for your Mother who had cancer; you left her to die alone!

The most "High or God" didn't tell you to destroy your women like you've done!

Shaking my head!

Black women despise Black men like you!

Your the reasons why the "Capree's are marrying White males and want nothing to do with Black men. My GF's and my nieces are with White males too while your trying to excuse your "Warped mentality" and abuses.

I see too many losers and many of you are too busy living off women or being players to care. I see a growing "Mass Exodus" of Black women moving on! Not only are Black women listening their taking actions! They don't want men like you; who are "Unproductive Losers" who don't look at your choices nor do you raise your sons or mentor the next generation to try to better things in the race!

Men who come into them "Take Actions" and Black men collective don't do a damn thing!

Like the Blogs said if Black men were going to do something; they would have done it by now! You showed us "You preferences based on your Actions"!

Your more for White men and White women than you are for Black anything. You have so much "self hatred" that you can't even see the Good that Black women have done for the race! lmao

I'm not against Interracial or White women..........or White males, "People are People" but something is wrong with YOU! Its something that stems from your childhood!

Like Obama said "Nobody wants to hear your whines on Racism" do something productive besides "Waste your life chasing WW pu--zzy"!

All that time and you look foolish as well as your friends!

Stick around for what?

Sorry, I'm not sticking with Black males its engrained in the culture Black men don't give a damn all they care about is "Swinging their dycks" ; even other races say the same thing; Black men are always seek SEX with no responsibility!

I don't see Black women stick with you; maybe the uneducated ones with low self esteem and don't value themselves!

Level 8

Since: May 08

Pacific Northwest

#13 Jun 22, 2013
auntie bee wrote:
it would depend on how smelly and stretched out her coochie is.
Let's assume it's comfortably snug and that she has good hygiene.

We are not talking about some toothless, crack-head, but rather a classy-looking professional:

http://www.markcaseyonline.com/wp-content/upl...
Ali

Toronto, Canada

#14 Jun 22, 2013
Harrisson wrote:
<quoted text>
Okay, Ali - that's probably a common view. It looks like you've voted too.
But what about the ladies who hate turning tricks and *want* to turn their lives around and are looking for the right man to give them a chance. Do you have any sympathy for them?
After all, people who are released from prison (parole) are expected to rejoin society and be productive (find a job) and move on with their lives.
Should ex-prostitutes be given a chance to prove they can be good wives and Moms?
Why should I give those girls a chance?

I mean I came to this country as an immigrant, learned the language, completed school (three degrees), worked hard to get a nice career going, remained a virgin by choice as my faith and culture demands.

Why should I give a woman who slept around, is too westernized, who might have different diseases a chance, when I remained pure, clean, and overcame all the odds? I deserve to settle with a woman who was in the same state as myself, pure, clean, and a virgin, who is cultured, knows how to treat her man, etc.

That is the woman I married! I deserve a good woman because I am a good man.

But you know what, those women you are talking about kept knocking down my door but never gave them a chance. Those women should not come to men like myself. They need to find men who compliment them (i.e. drug dealers, men with multiple children, thugs, criminals, etc).

That might be harsh, but it is the way it is.

Level 8

Since: May 08

Pacific Northwest

#15 Jun 22, 2013
Ali wrote:
<quoted text>
Why should I give those girls a chance?

I mean I came to this country as an immigrant, learned the language, completed school (three degrees), worked hard to get a nice career going, remained a virgin by choice as my faith and culture demands.

Why should I give a woman who slept around, is too westernized, who might have different diseases a chance, when I remained pure, clean, and overcame all the odds? I deserve to settle with a woman who was in the same state as myself, pure, clean, and a virgin, who is cultured, knows how to treat her man, etc.
That is the woman I married! I deserve a good woman because I am a good man.

But you know what, those women you are talking about kept knocking down my door but never gave them a chance. Those women should not come to men like myself. They need to find men who compliment them (i.e. drug dealers, men with multiple children, thugs, criminals, etc).

That might be harsh, but it is the way it is.
You make an excellent argument for your position, Ali. I cannot argue with anything you've said.

In fact I'll bet that some of these ladies who DO marry, wind up marrying bikers and gangsters and so on. That seems natural as those are the kinds of people likely to be found in your social environment.

But I think it has to be tough for the ones who want to completely leave the world of prostitution far behind them. Is it possible that if they want to find a good husband, they may feel forced to lie about their past?

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Since: Oct 12

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#16 Jun 22, 2013
Loulou wrote:
Lol, but men are getting married to prostitutes every day. Men go to Thailand/ Pattaya and marry prostitutes. And the men do it because they are extremly creepy or nasty. Not to mention that they look gross, especially halfnaked on the beach. They are so F......ng ugly that no money in the world can make up for it. There are enough men for prostitutes to marry.
The worst are the stinky one's from Europe, especially Denmark......poor grooming habits.....

Level 8

Since: May 08

Pacific Northwest

#17 Jun 22, 2013
Hmmm... Only 3 votes so far.
It seems like the hookers are losing, 2 to 1.
Loulou

Slagelse, Denmark

#18 Jun 22, 2013
Harrisson wrote:
<quoted text>
Let's assume it's comfortably snug and that she has good hygiene.
We are not talking about some toothless, crack-head, but rather a classy-looking professional:
http://www.markcaseyonline.com/wp-content/upl...
Well, a lot of men are willing to "forgive" a woman almost anything if he finds her attractive and beautiful . He'll make up excuses in his head for her behavior . If a man does not find a woman attractive there's nothing to do. Even if she is the kindest person in the world.
Masud_S_Hoghughi __

London, UK

#19 Jun 22, 2013
Harrisson wrote:
I have to give credit for this thread to Kip. In a recent post he observed that...
<quoted text>
LOL! I found that hilarious and fascinating. It's easy to forget that humans fall in love and marry in the most unusual and varied circumstances and for reasons which are incomprehensible to bystanders. Some examples: Women falling in love with male convicts in the prison system. Men who are American GIs falling in love with Iraqi women and converting to Islam to marry them. Women accepting marriage proposals from men whom they know already have a wife (polygamy). Men who are wealthy and 87 years old, asking a 32-year-old female secretary to marry him... And on and on it goes. For every form of marriage out there, there is a man or woman who swears "Oh my God, I could NEVER do that!" But, guess what? Someone else DID go there. lol
What about those ladies we know as "hookers" or "escorts?" We know that some of them are stunningly beautiful. It's not surprising that some of their clients fall in love with them. Some clients will go one step further, as KIP mentioned, and ask for marriage. And apparently some of these ladies will say "Yes." It seems that hoes need love too.
Is this reasonable or unreasonable? What do you think? Does it mean the man is desperate? Or obsessive? Or does it mean he has the most forgiving and loving heart? What about the women? Are they just desperate? Or hopeless romantics?
If you are a Christian, as I am, you know that Jesus showed loving compassion for a woman who had been caught in the act of adultery. The judgmental haters who wanted to know if she should be stoned to death, kept asking him for his opinion... "And as they continued to ask him, he stood up and said to them, "Let him who is without sin among you be the first to throw a stone at her."
So I would like to hear from both single men and married men - black and white and Latino and all colors. Here is the Big Question:
If a beautiful woman finally manages to clean up her act, get her life together and leave the world of prostitution by age 28....could you accept her as a wife?(Assume that her sexual health is the same as yours. If you have herpes, so does she. If you are STD-free then so is she.) Could you be as loving as Jesus, and accept her as a housewife? Could she be the mother of your kids?
oohh........so kips wife went from being a ho to housewife?.........

Level 8

Since: May 08

Pacific Northwest

#20 Jun 23, 2013
Loulou wrote:
<quoted text>
Well, a lot of men are willing to "forgive" a woman almost anything if he finds her attractive and beautiful . He'll make up excuses in his head for her behavior....
Fascinating observation of human psychology, Loulou. My instinct tells me that you're right. It's a bit frightening to think that you're right, but I do believe you.

In the USA there is a convicted murderer, Susan Smith, who is serving a life prison term. Not an especially beautiful woman in my opinion, but... at least two of her prison guards found her attractive enough to have sex with!!!

http://lubbockonline.com/stories/090601/upd_0...

To me, sex with a killer seems.... well, creepy. But some men are not bothered at all.
auntie bee

United States

#21 Jun 23, 2013
just how many gallons of SUMMERS EVE would the taxpayer have to fund to clean up the problem uhhhh?

“War is the father of all”

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#22 Jun 23, 2013
There are different categories of prostitutes, so one can't generalize.

1. those operating in brothels (illegal in the US except Nevada, but permitted in most of the world)

2. street hookers, many of them alcoholics and druggies

3. "high class" escorts

4. prostitutes "servicing" powerful clients (politicians, businessmen,..)

5. part-time prostitutes- say, students who prostitute themselves 1-2 yrs to pay for the study

6....

One just can't generalize.

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