LOL! I found that hilarious and fascinating. It's easy to forget that humans fall in love and marry in the most unusual and varied circumstances and for reasons which are incomprehensible to bystanders. Some examples: Women falling in love with male convicts in the prison system. Men who are American GIs falling in love with Iraqi women and converting to Islam to marry them. Women accepting marriage proposals from men whom they know already have a wife (polygamy). Men who are wealthy and 87 years old, asking a 32-year-old female secretary to marry him... And on and on it goes. For every form of marriage out there, there is a man or woman who swears "Oh my God, I could NEVER do that!" But, guess what? Someone else DID go there. lol<quoted text>....Yes, there are adult black men attracted to white women. Have they been OBSESSIVE over them to the extent of marrying them as prostitutes?!! Uh, no. White guys do and get away with this. I've SEEN it....
What about those ladies we know as "hookers" or "escorts?" We know that some of them are stunningly beautiful. It's not surprising that some of their clients fall in love with them. Some clients will go one step further, as KIP mentioned, and ask for marriage. And apparently some of these ladies will say "Yes." It seems that hoes need love too.
Is this reasonable or unreasonable? What do you think? Does it mean the man is desperate? Or obsessive? Or does it mean he has the most forgiving and loving heart? What about the women? Are they just desperate? Or hopeless romantics?
If you are a Christian, as I am, you know that Jesus showed loving compassion for a woman who had been caught in the act of adultery. The judgmental haters who wanted to know if she should be stoned to death, kept asking him for his opinion... "And as they continued to ask him, he stood up and said to them, "Let him who is without sin among you be the first to throw a stone at her."
So I would like to hear from both single men and married men - black and white and Latino and all colors. Here is the Big Question:
If a beautiful woman finally manages to clean up her act, get her life together and leave the world of prostitution by age 28....could you accept her as a wife?(Assume that her sexual health is the same as yours. If you have herpes, so does she. If you are STD-free then so is she.) Could you be as loving as Jesus, and accept her as a housewife? Could she be the mother of your kids?