Why do many American BM refuse to hol...

Why do many American BM refuse to hold casual conversations

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#1 Jul 7, 2013
Most of my experiences with BM go from professional/ casual to BM asking invasive, personal and/or sexual conversations. Immediately that happens I cease contact. I generally only interact at school or work when conversations call for casualness or professionalism, so I'm wondering why many cross other's boundaries without fear of consequences of offending the recipient of their personal questions and conversations or violating a school or work policy.

It's really annoying.
CurtisHammer

Waller, TX

#2 Jul 7, 2013
what that puccy taste like?
Illiterate

United States

#4 Jul 7, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
Most of my experiences with BM go from professional/ casual to BM

asking invasive, personal and/or sexual conversations

.violating a school or work policy.
If you wasn't a bimbo......

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#5 Jul 7, 2013
Illiterate wrote:
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If you wasn't a bimbo......
That's another thing. Why don't many take personal responsibility for their degenerate conduct instead of blaming their victims? Bimbo? Because Im not going around in an angry, depressed and defensive state which you've caused your women to be in? I can presume things about you too. I mentioned I'm in school - what qualifies as a bimbo? No other group of people men or women if other ethnicities treat me like this but American BM.
ILLITERATE

United States

#7 Jul 7, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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That's another thing. Why don't many take personal responsibility for their degenerate conduct instead of blaming their victims? Bimbo? Because Im not going around in an angry, depressed and defensive state which you've caused your women to be in? I can presume things about you too. I mentioned I'm in school - what qualifies as a bimbo? No other group of people men or women if other ethnicities treat me like this but American BM.
Bye bimbo.

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#8 Jul 7, 2013
ILLITERATE wrote:
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Bye bimbo.
Why is it hard for American BM to really self reflect and/or provide meaningful responses?
CurtisHammer

Waller, TX

#9 Jul 7, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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Why is it hard for American BM to really self reflect and/or provide meaningful responses?
Why is it so hard for your type to understand that topix is full of trolls that won't respond properly to your threads?

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#11 Jul 8, 2013
CurtisHammer wrote:
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Why is it so hard for your type to understand that topix is full of trolls that won't respond properly to your threads?
Why can't your type answer meaningfully then?
CHammer

Waller, TX

#12 Jul 8, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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Why can't your type answer meaningfully then?
Did I not just say this site is full of trolls?

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#13 Jul 8, 2013
CHammer wrote:
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Did I not just say this site is full of trolls?
Then private message me the answer.
Confidential

New York, NY

#14 Jul 8, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
Most of my experiences with BM go from professional/ casual to BM asking invasive, personal and/or sexual conversations. Immediately that happens I cease contact. I generally only interact at school or work when conversations call for casualness or professionalism, so I'm wondering why many cross other's boundaries without fear of consequences of offending the recipient of their personal questions and conversations or violating a school or work policy.
It's really annoying.
If you are at work, I'd call it sexual harassment. It's too bad that you cant have a meaningful conversation without somebody invading your privacy and making you feel uncomfortable. Sorry you have to deal with it.

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#15 Jul 8, 2013
"If you are at work, I'd call it sexual harassment. It's too bad that you cant have a meaningful conversation without somebody invading your privacy and making you feel uncomfortable. Sorry you have to deal with it."

Thank you! Do you know why this happens a lot? Why isn't their boundaries or respect? Fear of consequences?
brownskin_beauty

Houston, TX

#16 Jul 8, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
"If you are at work, I'd call it sexual harassment. It's too bad that you cant have a meaningful conversation without somebody invading your privacy and making you feel uncomfortable. Sorry you have to deal with it."
Thank you! Do you know why this happens a lot? Why isn't their boundaries or respect? Fear of consequences?
That's sad if you haven't had a casual conversation with a BM, I think it definitely depends on where you work and the type you are around. I have to admit that there are some who look at women as just sex, instead of humans they may actually relate too, but there are some very nice, gentle ones who can give great conversation, why do you think Elle Verner made Refill lol. There's honestly nothing like a intellectual BM.

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#17 Jul 8, 2013
brownskin_beauty wrote:
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That's sad if you haven't had a casual conversation with a BM, I think it definitely depends on where you work and the type you are around. I have to admit that there are some who look at women as just sex, instead of humans they may actually relate too, but there are some very nice, gentle ones who can give great conversation, why do you think Elle Verner made Refill lol. There's honestly nothing like a intellectual BM.
I'm glad you've had better experiences and I appreciate the empathy.
CHammer

Waller, TX

#18 Jul 8, 2013
brownskin_beauty wrote:
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That's sad if you haven't had a casual conversation with a BM, I think it definitely depends on where you work and the type you are around. I have to admit that there are some who look at women as just sex, instead of humans they may actually relate too, but there are some very nice, gentle ones who can give great conversation, why do you think Elle Verner made Refill lol. There's honestly nothing like a intellectual BM.
This why I prefer AA over the other black women... good logical comment!
CHammer

Waller, TX

#19 Jul 8, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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Then private message me the answer.
http://www.youtube.com/user/shakaama...

and

http://shakaama.blogspot.com

^^^An american BM...

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#20 Jul 8, 2013
CHammer wrote:
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This why I prefer AA over the other black women... good logical comment!
Logical because she favors BM? Or because she denies or doesn't have to deal with BM rage, jealousy and/ or perverseness on the regular like some of us?

ShyDevil334

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#21 Jul 8, 2013
from my experienc its because bw are manish and whorish animals.99% of you though.most of you arent worth two dead flies,why is that?please,dont deflect or bash or get ghetto and ignorant but just answer me as if its true.
CHammer

Waller, TX

#22 Jul 8, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
<quoted text>Logical because she favors BM?
I seldom see AA women (who aren't trolls) making threads similar to this. Its trolls and the typical "black immigrants" who make these threads monthly...

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#23 Jul 8, 2013
ShyDevil334 wrote:
from my experienc its because bw are manish and whorish animals.99% of you though.most of you arent worth two dead flies,why is that?please,dont deflect or bash or get ghetto and ignorant but just answer me as if its true.
So why do many BM treat all women the same, particularly colleagues and peers who only hold professional conversations? Surely they don't expect these BW to be the way you described. No other race or ethnicity acts this way in droves.

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