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Brookline, MA

#738 Feb 19, 2015
BestOftheEast wrote:
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White women have the most options. The divorce laws in America are slanted towards women. That is why women file for divorce 70% of the time. Because no matter what she has done in the relationship. The courts will award her alimony, and property.
White women can date a Black, White, Asian, or Hispanic man with no problem. So yes. After the novelty of dating a BBC wears off. She can dump him for another Black man or some other race of man.
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Big Shock. A black man hater on topix. You are just proving my point again.
You are a Black woman that hates Black men. If you date or marry a White man. You would never leave him. Because you are afraid that you would not get another white man to date you or you would have to settle on a Black man. Black women that marry White men are in a self made prison of fear.
What are you afraid of? Are you not as valued as White women.
I'm not actually seeing the "Black women don't have option so they don't leave" as a valid point. If that's the case and they think that no one will want them, then why is the divorce rate between BW and other races on average lower than BM with any race so high? Seem that statistically the keepers are usually not black men.
If a black women meet a white man, she is not going to think "I better never leave him, because he is the best i will get." But then again that it an opinion made from the many BW/WM relationships that I see. I don't depend on the media for one, because most famous couples do not stay together, regardless of race. Media has also brain washed many black men and they just don't look to their own women anymore, and that's okay. What they do is their choice, because there are many wonderful black men who want to be involved with their own women.
People like to disrespect black women wayyy too much. It's mostly from black men, because they only know , what one would consider "bad' women/mothers in general in their own experience. That's okay, a person who cannot form opinions outside his experience and circle will probably not go far...regardless of race.
It can be as simple as when a black woman and white male marries (not just dating) they are very aware of negative views on their marriage, but have come together anyway because of non superficial reasons. This may not always be the case but it can.
To all the men just down talking black women i have this to say to you. All women divorce you at high rates, I do not claim to know why, I don't care. But bashing your women won't solve the fact that regardless of choice, of option, women don't stay with you for very long.

Brookline, MA

#739 Feb 19, 2015
BestOftheEast wrote:
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But funny. That is exactly what you are doing. You already are biased because you want to put all of the Blame on Black men.
Black Women in America are no different from any other race of American woman. That grew up in a feminist agenda society.
It is perfectly normal for American woman to divorce at a rate of 50%. That is the era we live in. Women file for divorce 70% of the time. Therefore, women are the ones that choose to dissolve a marriage. Not the men. Women do so because they have the most to gain from leaving. Not to fast for you is it?
Every single race of woman divorces their own race of men. That is normal for America. When other races mix together. There still is a High Divorce rate. In fact. IR marriages have a higher divorce rate 65% than regular same race marriages 50%. That is across the board.
So looking at these stats. If BW/WM last longer or have a lower divorce rate. That is because the woman (Black) does not want to divorce the husband (White). You have already acknowledged that BW/WM are not perfect, and they have their issues.(Thank you for not being completely delusional). Therefore, one can only question. "Why are black women so reluctant to leave their white husbands"?
To answer this question. You must look at the state of women in America. Which I already explained numerous times. Unless you can refute any of my points.(You have not). Then what other explanation can there be?
All you have shown is your constant spamming of a bogus Black women white man worshiping site. Bashing of Black men and your inability to be honest about your intentions. This subject has bored me, and I am moving on. But this constant worshiping of white skin is beyond sickening. Then you wonder where I made my hypothesis from. I am staring right at it. Good day. Seek help.
Okay so looking from your point of view i can see where you reached this conclusion. But sadly if you look at the demographics of divorces, it makes little sense. Divorce statistics have revealed that a big issue in marriages is highly dependent on stability in finances and similarities in education. You yourself have stated women ask for divorces more, and sad to tell you this...but it's usually because the money isn't right, education gap is there and it's more beneficial for her to just leave. More black women in america are financially stable and are more likely to be educated than black men. This is not a statement to put the black man down, this is simply a fact! White men, unfortunately white men have achieved this amount their own race in term of sex, and have a higher chance of achieving these things than other races of the male sex. These similarities contribute to low divorce rate....tada using facts and not hypothesis derived from a man so offended that black males just can't win in terms of divorce.

I understand that you want to believe black women will hold on to anything good, but it's not the case always. It's just a similarity in accomplishment, accompanied by overcoming skin color which makes the relationship strong. You'll believe what you want, but as annoying to me and you as it may seem, black men are being divorced at higher rates than anyone. This is a fact...not a hypothesis.

Brookline, MA

#740 Feb 19, 2015
correction "white men have unfortunately achieved these things more so than the other sex of their race." *

Toronto, Canada

#742 Mar 24, 2016
BestOftheEast wrote:
I have no proof of this. But I will guarantee that the Black women and White men that do get divorce. 80% of the divorces have been filed by the White men.
Black women just don't want to leave a White man because her options are not as great as a White or Asian Woman.
Your Right... you don't have any proof!!!

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