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black man

New Windsor, NY

#364 Apr 6, 2010
Queen wrote:
<quoted text>Like all threads....the conversations goes in other directions. finances was the direction it went in about BM/WW divorces.
If you and the OP purportedly knew the answer, what was the point of making the thread?

You all answered your own question. You believe black men have less money than white men and that's why bm/ww divorce more. I believe that 100% bs, but since your mind was made up already, this thread was useless. The OP asked for black mens input yet dismisses it. Seems counterproductive to me, unless there was just an ulterior motive from the get go.

I seems like you and your crew just wanted to throw dirt on bm/ww divorces, while uplifting a extolling bw/wm marriages.

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Since: Feb 09

Location hidden

#365 Apr 6, 2010
Leanna wrote:
Across black and white interracial marriages, white male-black female (WM-BF) pairings had half the divorce rate of all-white pairings. In contrast, black male-white female (BM-WF) marriages had twice the divorce rate of all-white pairings.
This means, roughly, that BM-WF pairings are four times as likely to divorce as WM-BF couples.
I'm a bit curious as to why the divorce rate for BF's & WM is so low; but rather high for BM & WF's.
I'd really like everyone to chime in. In truth, I didn't expect the divorce rates between BM & WF's to be so high...
**Note: Please check the census website for verification -if you don't believe the above statements.
uh oh not another one...
black man

New Windsor, NY

#366 Apr 6, 2010
_Clyde_ wrote:
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But black women are the first ones to throw up the loyalty flag in regards to Black men dating out.
I believe people are as loyal as their options. Most Black woman would date out. If a guy she was attracted too approached her. Regardless of his race.
Exactly!!

It was never loyalty, ever. It's just that men are more open to dating black women now. If more men were interested in black women regardless of race, they would have left in huge numbers 20 years ago. As far as I'm concerned, black females have been dating and marrying wm since before miscegenation was legal for black men in the 60's.

Dorothy Dandridge was marrying white men like whatever, while Emmett Till was getting his face grinded and flattened like a pancake for looking at a white woman, by these same white men in that same time period.

I will never buy the black women are loyal bid and feel sorry for any man who does. Don't let black women put the guilt on you.
Queen

AOL

#367 Apr 6, 2010
black man wrote:
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What is your point? Did you just figure out how to copy and paste. Good job genius.
If you don't see the point then such a genius as meself cannot help you :)
Queen

AOL

#368 Apr 6, 2010
black man wrote:
<quoted text>
If you and the OP purportedly knew the answer, what was the point of making the thread?
You all answered your own question. You believe black men have less money than white men and that's why bm/ww divorce more. I believe that 100% bs, but since your mind was made up already, this thread was useless. The OP asked for black mens input yet dismisses it. Seems counterproductive to me, unless there was just an ulterior motive from the get go.
I seems like you and your crew just wanted to throw dirt on bm/ww divorces, while uplifting a extolling bw/wm marriages.
I am not the OP..so you would need direct answers for the reason of the thread. I offer my opinion like any other poster. I believe finances play a large role in why BM/WW divorce.

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Since: Dec 09

Location hidden

#369 Apr 6, 2010
Realbrother0003 wrote:
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Real Brother here.
Now in the above the Self-hater[wish she were White, thinks Whites are Superior]Sellout Eboni Moore[notice the Black Self-haters always have Black themed names?] suggests that the White Supremacist men these Self-haters covet are "handsome" and they "love" their Black Slaves... I mean Black women?
This shows how truly dumb these Black women are. Would Black men not just "Love" any woman that was so far gone that she thought your entire Race was Superior? That hated herself so much that she wanted to be Black and wanted Black babies and wished she could actually be you? A woman who's self worth is tied to how much you are willing to use her and treat her like crap?
A Sellout who's loyalty to you is like a crack addicts loyalty to the crack dealer?
But to these Self-hating wish they were White Sellouts, that's their definition of "love".
They don't know what love is and that's because they dont' know what Self-hatred is.
TKCAL
Black themed names? So you're a black self hater, real brother?

I doubt you find all black women attractive, just like I don't find all white men attractive. And why would I get involved with a white supremacist? Also, not every white man in this world is racist, MOVE ON. Just because I find them to be better partners and attractive doesn't mean I hate myself. Me being married to a white man doesn't change that I'm a black woman. And no I don't want to become a white women. I don't want black thugs hitting on me. I personal find black and biracial babies to be cute.

Bet let's get real, I'm more proud to be black than most black Americans.
Brandi

La Mirada, CA

#370 Apr 6, 2010
black man wrote:
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Exactly!!
It was never loyalty, ever. It's just that men are more open to dating black women now. If more men were interested in black women regardless of race, they would have left in huge numbers 20 years ago. As far as I'm concerned, black females have been dating and marrying wm since before miscegenation was legal for black men in the 60's.
Dorothy Dandridge was marrying white men like whatever, while Emmett Till was getting his face grinded and flattened like a pancake for looking at a white woman, by these same white men in that same time period.
I will never buy the black women are loyal bid and feel sorry for any man who does. Don't let black women put the guilt on you.
Your statement was very funny!!:0) You got to be delusional, right? Bm have the highest IR. Have you noticed that bw has caught on and now are dating nonblack men? I think bw & IR is now more common then few years ago.
Bw are loyal to bm that's why 70% of bw are single (not married)
black man

New Windsor, NY

#371 Apr 6, 2010
Queen wrote:
<quoted text>If you don't see the point then such a genius as meself cannot help you :)
I was being extremely facetious. You're not a genius, you're closer to an idiot. Real geniuses would type "myself", instead of "meself" as you did, when referencing themselves.
Queen

AOL

#372 Apr 6, 2010
black man wrote:
<quoted text>
I was being extremely facetious. You're not a genius, you're closer to an idiot. Real geniuses would type "myself", instead of "meself" as you did, when referencing themselves.
Don't be so hard on yaself :P
Kyle

United States

#373 Apr 6, 2010
LovinLife1974 wrote:
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Why are BW so set on making it their mission to bash BMs who date WW and others to the point of submission? BMs do not react as aggressively about BW dating outside the race.
I wonder if the ir couple in Buffalo New York that got jumped and beaten with bricks by 12 BM would agree with you or the Marine IR couple in San Diego that got killed by jealous hateful BM family would agree with you..everytime a story about a BW/WM couple is shown on any Black website the BM haters come out in full force..BW don't attack kill threaten curse or even bother BM in realationships with other Women and if they do please post a link showing where they have..I can direct you immediately to sites and actual stories where BM are being downright hateful towards BW/WM couples! I think the issue with BM is that we don't care..we're not acting out..killing...cursing..yellin g or even paying attention to what BM do..and that;'s what's eating you up..on the same token BM are calling names ..insulting ..and even resorting to murder when it comes to BW/WM couples the whole world sees that this is your achilles heel and it pisses you off..here you are trying to convince the world we BW are so jealous of you but you're the ones going ballistic..here you are always bragging about how all the Women love you but you fall apart when the Women of your race do it...your weakness is showing loud and clear and there's nothing you can do about it..ironic isn't it?
Kyle

United States

#374 Apr 6, 2010
Frank wrote:
<quoted text>
I believe he's asking why do so many black women try to "Sister Patterson" their black man???
For more information, just click on the following link:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =zYycM6vyAK4XX
Why are you answering for him..are you his legal counsel?
SueMe

Philadelphia, PA

#375 Apr 6, 2010
TheRealMR_youtoo wrote:
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Who said to do that?
I think your just looking for a reason to say ya'll are loyal.(which wholeheatedly I disagree with anyway)
I know I am. I've been with my dude going on 6 years this Christmas, and can honestly say I've never been with any other man in my entire LIFE. I hated men when I was a teenager up until my early twenties because of what some of the women in my family went through, but I can't speak for every black woman.
SueMe

Philadelphia, PA

#376 Apr 6, 2010
Anyhow I don't think statistics should ever be a factor for someone looking for or waiting for love. Dig deep into why these couples have lasted for life. I can bet the overwhelming majority are together for only the right reasons.

Since: Dec 06

Location hidden

#377 Apr 6, 2010
Kyle wrote:
<quoted text>I wonder if the ir couple in Buffalo New York that got jumped and beaten with bricks by 12 BM would agree with you or the Marine IR couple in San Diego that got killed by jealous hateful BM family would agree with you..everytime a story about a BW/WM couple is shown on any Black website the BM haters come out in full force..BW don't attack kill threaten curse or even bother BM in realationships with other Women and if they do please post a link showing where they have..I can direct you immediately to sites and actual stories where BM are being downright hateful towards BW/WM couples! I think the issue with BM is that we don't care..we're not acting out..killing...cursing..yellin g or even paying attention to what BM do..and that;'s what's eating you up..on the same token BM are calling names ..insulting ..and even resorting to murder when it comes to BW/WM couples the whole world sees that this is your achilles heel and it pisses you off..here you are trying to convince the world we BW are so jealous of you but you're the ones going ballistic..here you are always bragging about how all the Women love you but you fall apart when the Women of your race do it...your weakness is showing loud and clear and there's nothing you can do about it..ironic isn't it?
and you think it's not the same treatment to other IR couples. Get off your brain dead horse and walk to a place called reality and see that it goes on to almost every IR coupling. BW/WM aren't no better so quit whining and just live your life retarded child.
Kyle

United States

#378 Apr 6, 2010
black man wrote:
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Classic self hater. She insults her dad and still prefers then men that wish her dad dead. No love lost from the black community. You deserve everything that white men give you.
Just like you BM often prefer the Women that wish BW dead too ...the same men that you hate so much have daughters that have the same bloodline and thoughts that they do so if BW are self haters so are BM that are sleeping with the WW who ar the mothers..daughters..neices...a nd sisters of these guys! Nexxxt!
Frank

Southfield, MI

#381 Apr 6, 2010
Kyle wrote:
<quoted text>Why are you answering for him..are you his legal counsel?
Since you said you didn't understand his question, being a gentleman, I thought that i'd enlighten you.
black man

New Windsor, NY

#380 Apr 6, 2010
Brandi wrote:
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Your statement was very funny!!:0) You got to be delusional, right? Bm have the highest IR. Have you noticed that bw has caught on and now are dating nonblack men? I think bw & IR is now more common then few years ago.
Bw are loyal to bm that's why 70% of bw are single (not married)
1st off black men don't have the highest IR Asian women do.

70% percent not married does not automatically mean loyalty. That's a fallacy. Like I said , bw were interracial dating and marrying earlier. I personally feel that the only reason they don't ir marry more is that less non-black men are willing to marry black women

Let's not be naive, for the most part only a small percent of black women have non-black men trying to marry them. The fact is that many men are not attracted to your AVERAGE LOOKING black woman. The Stacy Dashes and Halle Berries can always find a non-black men interested in them. Your AVERAGE black woman does not have even close to body frame of a Stacy or Halle type.

So most of these AVERAGE looking black women who want to exclusively ir date have no choice, but to pick up non-black women's scraps, or stay 30,40,50 and single with cats. If more desirable non-black men wanted AVERAGE looking black women blacks women's ir marrying numbers would be just as high as black men. I think that more AVERAGE black women are starting to take non-black women's scraps. The top tier looking black women have their pick of the litter. THE LOYALTY BID IS A CROCK. The average looking black woman knows she has grim options as far as choice outside of black men and fears rejection of non-black men she really wants to be with. It is much easier to say I'm loyal to black men, then to step outside the box and get a non-black man like she really wants. Loyalty is the excuse for fear of rejection from non-black men. PERIOD. Any black woman can get sex, but few can get the non-black men to put the ring the finger.

Also, only about 7% of black men marry out to about 3% of black women. 7% is not an inordinate number to make this whole big deal about. Consider that 50% of all american born asian women marry white men and 40% american born asian men marry white women. These are much more startling number than a meager 7%.

Also 70% of black women have out of wedlock kids and 70% are unmarried. If black women would stop giving unprotected sex up to the same no good men, it would look more attractive. Most men in general prefers women without baggage. Too many women are getting pregnant by certain percentage of players that they are attracted to. I know plenty of black men my age with no kids, but non-players get passed by. When the woman was in her prime she was playing around getting knocked up. Now that they hit 30 or so men are already married or looking at something with less mileage.
black man

New Windsor, NY

#382 Apr 6, 2010
Kyle wrote:
<quoted text>Just like you BM often prefer the Women that wish BW dead too ...the same men that you hate so much have daughters that have the same bloodline and thoughts that they do so if BW are self haters so are BM that are sleeping with the WW who ar the mothers..daughters..neices...a nd sisters of these guys! Nexxxt!
Your arguments are trite and your reactions are perfunctory. I will no longer bother to entertain your stupidity. Find someone else to play with you. I don't prefer white women so you lost again. Preach that nonsense to black men who hold white women as the best. Notice how I addressed the self hate speech to the actual self hater. You on the other hand flip, the word woman and man with my statement and now you think you proved to me a point. SMH!! Why are you telling me this foolishness? I never said I want a white woman.

I personally hear way more black women praise white men than black men who praise white women. When black men date out, they talk to different types of women, from what I see mostly hispanics who have black ancestry. When black women date out most choose WHITE. IR dating to a most black women is dating White men. There is a difference in IR dating and preferring white only IR dating. There are more exclusive preference for WHITE when it comes to black women than men from what I gather.

Time for you to go to bed, Sir!!!

Goodnite Grasshopper!!
Kyle

United States

#383 Apr 6, 2010
Frank wrote:
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Since you said you didn't understand his question, being a gentleman, I thought that i'd enlighten you.
thanks for your concern but im sure he's capable of answering for himself.

“Down for the Sistas”

Level 1

Since: Mar 10

Smithtown, NY

#385 Apr 6, 2010
black man wrote:
<quoted text>Consider that 50% of all american born asian women marry white men and 40% american born asian men marry white women. These are much more startling number than a meager 7%.
When you think about how the media focuses on BW and BM, we often get tempted to blow things out of proportion (you also have to question why the media doesn't have "specials" on Asian-American women and men). Relations between BM and BW aren't even the worst in the country. All things considered... Black people are pretty damn hard to get rid of.

For the most part, productive, attractive and intelligent BM and BW get along more than fine with each other.

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