Abusive women will say, "MAN UP!"
Posted in the African-American Forum
Since: Sep 09
#1 Sep 19, 2013
Another highly effective device abusive women use to control you is denying approval and acceptance. Its natural to want to be liked and admiredespecially by the person you love. Being criticized, demeaned, rejected and told repeatedly,not good enough,you dont measure up, or that youve failed again is demoralizing. It also spurs you on to try even harder to please her and herein lies the problem: These women are never satisfied. Nothing you do will ever be good enough. She will never bestow upon you the kind of love and acceptance you seek.
Why does your wifes/girlfriends/exs approval mean so much to you? Do you actually respect her and the way she conducts herself? A woman like this is an abusive, entitled and incredibly self-serving bully, so why do you care what she thinks? Seeking approval from someone who takes pleasure in cutting you down is a recipe for disappointment and pain.
Youre perpetuating a sick dynamic by seeking approval from someone wholl never give it to you. Why? Because these women experience giving approval to others as a psychological and visceral loss. To tell you,nice job or I appreciate you somehow makes her feel less than and, as you well know, these women wont tolerate that for a second.
Why does your wifes/girlfriends/exs approval mean so much to you? Do you actually respect her and the way she conducts herself? Shes an emotionally abusive bully, so why do you care what she thinks? Seeking approval from someone who takes pleasure in cutting you down is a recipe for disappointment and pain
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