non black men arent marring black wom...
Sadbutrue

Woodbridge, VA

#827 Mar 27, 2013
Coolmandigo82 wrote:
I see all this threads about this and that interracial Blackman,white woman marriages ending. But at least white women want to marry black men. I hardly see white celebs or average white or Asian,or Latino men marring black females. So while you single or just bitter black women laugh at seals ,and Kobe's divorcing. At least they got married ,and better than 80% chance they will get married again to a non black woman. So whatever :-)
White men alot of them look at black women as bait or something to do sexually. Something to try out.
MACEO

You forgot how to spell "Marry" ? LMAO

Marringggggggggggggggggggggggg ggggggggggggg LMAO

Another reason why Black women are moving on; Black men are 'UNEDUCATED"!
Alfie

UK

#828 Mar 27, 2013
shygirl complex wrote:
<quoted text>,,,,,,,, that's true to a certain point most b.m I see with ww, they are fat and ugly ,unless they are rich, other than that no one is really checking for ,b.m and what they date ,its easier because most b.m will date what ever...sorry but its true, most b.w probably could date out side their race if they choose but , but sadly they don't and im not talking about white men either ,I want the best man no matter what his color,and honestly most b.m don't care what the character is, or her sexual preference,it dosent matter shes another race I want her,but I don't really get it ,why is this even a topic ?? if the topic writer has a w.w why is he down on b.w,its crazy really,,,,smh
another sheboon talking shyt
Sadbutrue

Woodbridge, VA

#829 Mar 27, 2013
Alfie---ShyOldHeBoon---MACEO wrote:
<quoted text>
another sheboon talking shyt
Yes, I don't know why you talk to your profiles, I guess EVERYBODY CUSSES YOU OUT WHEN YOU HAVE ONE PROFILE!

your alSO CHILDISH, IMMATURE AND INSECURE FOR ALMOST 60 YEARS OLD!

GO DIE!
Sadbutrue

Woodbridge, VA

#830 Mar 27, 2013
Day 6 – 40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men: Entitlement Issues and Black Men
Whenever a black man walks up to me and says that he is “a nice guy” or “a good black man” I know that the first move on the Bullshit chessboard has been made and the game is on.

Why do I say that? Because in reality there is no reason for a man to ever announce what he is. Instead, his actions should be speaking so loudly, his behavior stating so clearly what his character is that there is no doubt in anyone’s mind what type of man he is.

Secondly, men are not qualified to determine their goodness or niceness when it comes to women. Men do not have that skill set. All they can tell you is how they handle themselves in life, what they have done in the past, what they plan to do in the future, and how they see themselves accomplishing their goals. The decision about whether or not a man is “good” or “nice” can only be made by a female, as she assesses the man and determines if he is good or nice FOR HER.

There are two reasons black men are quick to say that they are “a nice guy” or “a good black man.”

The first reason is because their goal is to convince you not to look too deep before you jump in and welcome him into your bed. The phrase “good black man” is like a magic passkey to many black women. They hear those words and believe they’ve found the pot of gold at the end of a rainbow, and all of her life’s problems will be solved. If a woman takes such a claim at niceness or goodness at face value and believes what a man says to her with no proof of anything to verify his statements, she is a fool. She has been set up to give her all to a man with the expectation that he meets certain standards, all on his say-so.
The second reason black men are quick to tell you that they are a nice guy or a good black man is because it sets you up in another fashion. See, when he claims that he is a nice guy or a good black man, he feels that badge of nicey goodness should get him brownie points. He believes that his niceness and goodness makes him more deserving of your time, your attention and your body than any other man in the world. In his mind, because he is good or nice, you are supposed to give him what he wants – your phone number, a date, a relationship, a commitment, and of course some sex. By claiming that he is good and nice, if you subsequently reject him, he will be extremely resentful and angry. He will shout to the rooftops and all his DBR buddies that you did so because “you black women don’t want a nice guy, you want someone that will dog you out!” If you reject him, he will claim that you did so because “you black women don’t know a good black man… all you want is thugs, jailbird gangstas and rappers!” In reality, you just didn’t want HIM. But he doesn’t seem to be able to accept that fact that his self-aggrandizing assessment of his goodness and perfection doesn’t entitle him to anything at all.
What are some of the other ways that DBR black men demonstrate a sense of entitlement to women and all that women are and have?
Sadbutrue

Woodbridge, VA

#831 Mar 27, 2013
shyEFFEMINATEBM complex wrote:
<quoted text>,,,,,,,, that's true to a certain point most b.m I see with ww, they are fat and ugly ,unless they are rich, other than that no one is really checking for ,b.m and what they date ,its easier because most b.m will date what ever...sorry but its true, most b.w probably could date out side their race if they choose but , but sadly they don't and im not talking about white men either ,
MACEO

Some do and some don't! You should go to some of the main shopping centers, I guess you don't go out! lMAO The same is taking place in the South Black women are dating/marrying out! LMAO
Level 2

Since: Oct 12

Location hidden

#832 Mar 27, 2013
Sadbutrue wrote:
<quoted text>MACEO
Some do and some don't! You should go to some of the main shopping centers, I guess you don't go out! lMAO The same is taking place in the South Black women are dating/marrying out! LMAO
,,,,,,,,,,lol well good for them I think that's a great thing ,they should and im not talking about white men I don't think that's a big thing ,im very blessed to live in a country with sooo many different exotic races and at the mall I see it all ,but when I lived in the states most b.w went on and on about how they wanted a b,m......and that's cool too but they should date other men ,if b.m don't want to marry them
Alfie

UK

#835 Mar 27, 2013
Sadbutrue wrote:
<quoted text>MACEO
Some do and some don't! You should go to some of the main shopping centers, I guess you don't go out! lMAO The same is taking place in the South Black women are dating/marrying out! LMAO
hogwash
bw gets dates n sex but not much rings
Alfie

UK

#836 Mar 27, 2013
shygirl complex wrote:
<quoted text>,,,,,,,,,,lol well good for them I think that's a great thing ,they should and im not talking about white men I don't think that's a big thing ,im very blessed to live in a country with sooo many different exotic races and at the mall I see it all ,but when I lived in the states most b.w went on and on about how they wanted a b,m......and that's cool too but they should date other men ,if b.m don't want to marry them
problem is other men dont want to marry the sheboons ,
check the stats .asian ,hisp n wm all choose
shebeasts the least
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#837 Mar 27, 2013
shyeffeminateBM omplex---MACEO wrote:
text>,,,,,lol well good for them I think that's a great thing ,they should and im not talking about white men I don't think that's a big thing ,im very blessed to live in a country with sooo many different exotic races and at the mall I see it all ,but when I lived in the states most b.w went on and on about how they wanted a b,m......and that's cool too but they should date other men ,if b.m don't want to marry them
MACEO

Do you even go anywhere other than to stay on topix? LMAO Yes, MD/VA/DC is very diverse but not the best place to retire! LMAO

Yes, there's alot of races of men who accomplish a lot more than you have over 35 years including the immigrants who have been here in less than than you! lMAO

I don't see them wasting their time chasing ASS only to end up with nothing like you did; they call you foolish!
Level 2

Since: Oct 12

Location hidden

#838 Mar 27, 2013
for get the stats ,Asian or Hispanic you say they choose b.w the least no I don't belive that ive seen many of those races with b.w maby it depends on where you live I live in the real world full of people all colors and not pale white raciest ......but I guess you consider Asians and whites and Hispanic ,the only races in the world its soooooo,many more beautiful exotic races that have no problem with b.w ,so whatever
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#839 Mar 27, 2013
Alfie wrote:
<quoted text>
hogwash
bw gets dates n sex but not much rings
MACEO

Not if you stay with a Black man; they generally don't get married they use women!

If you date/marry other races of men; you will get married! All of my GF's who are with White men are married. The ones who date Black men which is not many; don't get married they get used!

Black men don't get married! Less than 12% of Black men are married to Black women. I don't blame Black women for not marrying men who have bad reputations, have a history of not getting married, serial cheat, abuse women, perpetual liars and deceivers like yourself; you remain alone!

Even a few of my Non Black GF who are Black but not African American said they don't date black men you play too many games and don't bring anything to the table!

Bottom line: Men are judged on being Providers! Most black men are not "Leaders, Providers, Protectors, Husbands, Fathers, Mentor nor do the Guide!

Every Black women that dates outside the race; Normally gets married to a man outside the race. Most Black women who date outside the race normally DON'T DATE BLACK MEN ANYMORE!
Adios!

“The Love Below”

Level 8

Since: Apr 10

ATL

#840 Mar 27, 2013
shygirl complex wrote:
<quoted text>,,,,,,,, that's true to a certain point most b.m I see with ww, they are fat and ugly ,unless they are rich, other than that no one is really checking for ,b.m and what they date ,its easier because most b.m will date what ever...sorry but its true, most b.w probably could date out side their race if they choose but , but sadly they don't and im not talking about white men either ,I want the best man no matter what his color,and honestly most b.m don't care what the character is, or her sexual preference,it dosent matter shes another race I want her,but I don't really get it ,why is this even a topic ?? if the topic writer has a w.w why is he down on b.w,its crazy really,,,,smh
I see bm with all types, and all sizes. I saw two bm with two very attractive ww, one looked half asian, both were slim. I see bm with slim latina women too, and Im in atlanta, but that black and latin is growing. Most black women are overweight, so why the hypocrisy? All those women are not ugly in the face, but over weight, like many american women. Im not attracted to overweight women.

“The Love Below”

Level 8

Since: Apr 10

ATL

#841 Mar 27, 2013
shygirl complex wrote:
<quoted text>,,,,,,,,,,lol well good for them I think that's a great thing ,they should and im not talking about white men I don't think that's a big thing ,im very blessed to live in a country with sooo many different exotic races and at the mall I see it all ,but when I lived in the states most b.w went on and on about how they wanted a b,m......and that's cool too but they should date other men ,if b.m don't want to marry them
Its the character of the woman, thats why bm are not marrying certain bw, and some people are not marriage material period, man or woman. BW, and even BM, are not always groomed for marriage, speaking of the last past 3 generations, but BM still marry out, because I believe those women show them a certain kindness, and they come from strong families at times, and know how to treat a man. All I hear and see is independent this, rolled eyes from random BW on the street, and straight attitude, along with denial. You guys keep a wall up, have a diva complex, and act like all BM are the same. I see more respectful to WM, but they mainly still want non BW. BM love BW, but dont like the attitude, or the pro independent woman thinking of these women. Yeah, some BM are bad, just like any other man, but you guys act like you know our intentions from the jump! We have to pay for what another man did before us. You guys are not the only women who have been hurt. Many BW have kids too, even some of the attractive ones. You guys deal with the wrong type of men from the jump. If these comments dont apply to you, then dont get mad.
Shakalaka

Morrow, GA

#842 Mar 27, 2013
Coolmandigo82 wrote:
I see all this threads about this and that interracial Blackman,white woman marriages ending. But at least white women want to marry black men. I hardly see white celebs or average white or Asian,or Latino men marring black females. So while you single or just bitter black women laugh at seals ,and Kobe's divorcing. At least they got married ,and better than 80% chance they will get married again to a non black woman. So whatever :-)
White men alot of them look at black women as bait or something to do sexually. Something to try out.
You people are so screwed up in the mind til it's pitiful. Black women are the deepest creatures on this planet. We have enough wisdom to know that getting married for the sake of getting married is a losers game, thus the high rate of divorces between those who chose marriage in the United States where over half of the marriages end in divorce. That means the rate is even higher between people of different cultures. Men are more lustful than women and marry for those reasons and not for love. Black women (i'm not talking about kids here) but mature Black women know that sometimes it is better to live with yourself than with a man with the mind of a child. Especially when getting laid is easier than getting food these days. So don't think that because Black women are running to the alter before God telling a short term lie, that she's not desirable, no no no... it the fact that she is wise and knows that home is suppose to be a place where she can be at peace and not a place where she's got to be raising children all of her life. The ones she gives birth to, grow up and leave eventually, but if she marries one, well damn. That is just all too much!!!
Shakalaka

Morrow, GA

#843 Mar 27, 2013
because Black women are NOT running to the alter.... is what I meant to say.
Alfie

UK

#844 Mar 27, 2013
shygirl complex wrote:
for get the stats ,Asian or Hispanic you say they choose b.w the least no I don't belive that ive seen many of those races with b.w maby it depends on where you live I live in the real world full of people all colors and not pale white raciest ......but I guess you consider Asians and whites and Hispanic ,the only races in the world its soooooo,many more beautiful exotic races that have no problem with b.w ,so whatever
we r talking marraiges not datings or cohab.

when u c them together they r gf n bf but
not hubby n wife.
in usa wm n all races of men just,sex the
sheboons but dont marry them.
cookies

United States

#845 Mar 27, 2013
Alfie wrote:
<quoted text>
we r talking marraiges not datings or cohab.
when u c them together they r gf n bf but
not hubby n wife.
in usa wm n all races of men just,sex the
sheboons but dont marry them.
you know sheboon doesn't sound offensive right? it actually sounds cute and I also know u are a white troll
BlackmanLovesAsi ans

Montgomery Village, MD

#846 Mar 27, 2013
Marriage is more than love. I'll tell you having kids is huge. Marriage is the top top top.
BlackmanLovesAsi ans

Montgomery Village, MD

#847 Mar 27, 2013
Shakalaka wrote:
<quoted text>
You people are so screwed up in the mind til it's pitiful. Black women are the deepest creatures on this planet. We have enough wisdom to know that getting married for the sake of getting married is a losers game, thus the high rate of divorces between those who chose marriage in the United States where over half of the marriages end in divorce. That means the rate is even higher between people of different cultures. Men are more lustful than women and marry for those reasons and not for love. Black women (i'm not talking about kids here) but mature Black women know that sometimes it is better to live with yourself than with a man with the mind of a child. Especially when getting laid is easier than getting food these days. So don't think that because Black women are running to the alter before God telling a short term lie, that she's not desirable, no no no... it the fact that she is wise and knows that home is suppose to be a place where she can be at peace and not a place where she's got to be raising children all of her life. The ones she gives birth to, grow up and leave eventually, but if she marries one, well damn. That is just all too much!!!
So now it's black women don't want to get married. Cool THEN STOP GOING ON TV, CNN BLACK IN AMERICA, OPRAH CRYIG THAT YOU CANT FIND A BLACK MAN TO MARRY THEN.
Alfie

UK

#848 Mar 27, 2013
cookies wrote:
<quoted text>you know sheboon doesn't sound offensive right? it actually sounds cute and I also know u are a white troll
no u shebeast , u hve it wrong.
I am a black man - believe it.

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