Black women with mixed race children - is it becoming less rare?

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#1 May 6, 2011
Its common to see mixed-race children with a black father and white mother. But what do people really think about it being the other way around - black mother/white or other race father?

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#2 May 6, 2011
I'm gonna find out soon.

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#3 May 6, 2011
What a ground-breaking topic for your very first post! I bet there's a scant 12,000 other threads on this fascinating topic.

smh

What do people really think? Nobody except race-obsessed, race-insecure blacks give a flying fxck.

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#4 May 6, 2011
My father is Blackfoot Indian and my mom is French.

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#6 May 6, 2011
Mistress of Love wrote:
My father was a straight man.
He was a Methodist.
My mother was a straight woman.
She was a Presbyterian.
Cooli-oh
Crystal

Odessa, TX

#7 Jun 18, 2011
I have no problem with it I want to see more black women going outside there race. Because more and more black men are going to white women and latino women. And I am sorry I don't date black guys I will not. I like going outside my race and I courage other black women as well than sticking to one race which is black men. That's what I feel about the issue.

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#8 Jun 18, 2011
All I care about is that the men that Black women choose or is with treats them like the Queens they are. I'm a Black woman and love to see when we are treated well. It actually doesn't matter what race. On that thought, i'm very open to other races and so should other Black women.
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#10 Jun 18, 2011
BlooGumz wrote:
All race mixers and their spawn should be sterilized.
The Acute Pain of Interracial Rejection
June 6, 2011

If an attractive black man pursues a white woman he is almost sure to get her into bed, especially if he resembles someone famous from the media. Of course black men that date white women have a bad habit of pursuing ugly or fat white chicks who white men donít even want. Those white women know they have a better chance with black men who prefer thicker women in general. Throw in the white femaleís skin as a power dynamic/taboo and some black men cannot resist it. It makes for powerful orgasms, especially if the white woman actually lives up to the billing we see in porn. Many will do preverted sexual acts that we know no black women wonít go there so we donít even waste our time. We settle for boring, occasional, missionary or doggie-style sex and cheat on the side. I see no reason to settle for any less. Marriage and long term commitments are a scam that destroy manhood.

On the flip-side if an attractive black man turns a white woman down they become mortally wounded. Itís not the same as an attractive white man turning them down. White men and women do not get along very well in general if you havenít noticed. Theyíre families are a hotbed of perverse and aberrant behavior. Thatís why I laugh when I see white romance movies. White people donít love each other. They donít love anyone including themselves. Thereís a lack of spirituality that prevents whites from bonding with anyone or anything except maybe their pets, who are helpless to escape.

When white women are rejected by black men they tend to go back into their white shell. White women already feel intimidated by the big booties of black women and other women of color especially if there moderately attractive. Getting turned down causes irreparable damage to their self-esteem. Theyíll probably never approach a black man again so then pretend that they donít want one in public while still grabbing that big black dildo as soon as they get home from work.

Since blacks are at the bottom of the socioeconomic order rejection by them is seen as much worse than any other social group. Itís like a homeless person telling you theyíre not interested. There's a large number of educated black women rejecting black men in large numbers now which hurt them. There's also an increase in black women seeking out established powerful white males they meet which wasn't happening prior. Black women with educations are opening their options and it appears that many black men just don't make the cut.

White women always assume that they are rejected for one of two reasons: 1) Because theyíre white and youíre only into black women or 2) Because their body doesnít measure up. Those are really the same reason but white women see them separately. White women are very insecure about having a flat ass, no curves or being flat-chested. You can fix a flat butt or chest but you just have to be born with curves. You either have them or you donít. I suppose you could take hormones but not many women do that.

White women also fear that the cultural differences between whites and blacks will eventually cause black men to return to their racial fold for the sake of familiarity. Iíve seen it happen a million times so itís true. Most black men will sex and use white women while seeking out an attractive black women who in most cses don't want them for various reasons.

If youíre black man and you have a choice between an attractive black woman and an attractive white woman almost all black men will take the black woman, even when most black men hate their own mothers. Humans like feeling comfortable, especially when it comes to race.

Continues

http://racerules.wordpress.com/2011/06/06/the...
lets do it

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#11 Jun 18, 2011
Honey Graham wrote:
All I care about is that the men that Black women choose or is with treats them like the Queens they are. I'm a Black woman and love to see when we are treated well. It actually doesn't matter what race. On that thought, i'm very open to other races and so should other Black women.
first of all,black women aren't queens.so that just because I'm a bw shit goes out the window.a individual WOMAN period can only be an INDIVIDUAL man's queen if HE FEELS THAT WAY.so die slow with that bullsh!t black ho!!!!!!
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#12 Jun 18, 2011
lets do it wrote:
<quoted text>first of all,black women aren't queenlow with that bullsh!t black ho!!!!!!
The Acute Pain of Interracial Rejection
June 6, 2011

If an attractive black man pursues a white woman he is almost sure to get her into bed, especially if he resembles someone famous from the media. Of course black men that date white women have a bad habit of pursuing ugly or fat white chicks who white men donít even want. Those white women know they have a better chance with black men who prefer thicker women in general. Throw in the white femaleís skin as a power dynamic/taboo and some black men cannot resist it. It makes for powerful orgasms, especially if the white woman actually lives up to the billing we see in porn. Many will do preverted sexual acts that we know no black women wonít go there so we donít even waste our time. We settle for boring, occasional, missionary or doggie-style sex and cheat on the side. I see no reason to settle for any less. Marriage and long term commitments are a scam that destroy manhood.

On the flip-side if an attractive black man turns a white woman down they become mortally wounded. Itís not the same as an attractive white man turning them down. White men and women do not get along very well in general if you havenít noticed. Theyíre families are a hotbed of perverse and aberrant behavior. Thatís why I laugh when I see white romance movies. White people donít love each other. They donít love anyone including themselves. Thereís a lack of spirituality that prevents whites from bonding with anyone or anything except maybe their pets, who are helpless to escape.

When white women are rejected by black men they tend to go back into their white shell. White women already feel intimidated by the big booties of black women and other women of color especially if there moderately attractive. Getting turned down causes irreparable damage to their self-esteem. Theyíll probably never approach a black man again so then pretend that they donít want one in public while still grabbing that big black dildo as soon as they get home from work.

Since blacks are at the bottom of the socioeconomic order rejection by them is seen as much worse than any other social group. Itís like a homeless person telling you theyíre not interested. There's a large number of educated black women rejecting black men in large numbers now which hurt them. There's also an increase in black women seeking out established powerful white males they meet which wasn't happening prior. Black women with educations are opening their options and it appears that many black men just don't make the cut.

White women always assume that they are rejected for one of two reasons: 1) Because theyíre white and youíre only into black women or 2) Because their body doesnít measure up. Those are really the same reason but white women see them separately. White women are very insecure about having a flat ass, no curves or being flat-chested. You can fix a flat butt or chest but you just have to be born with curves. You either have them or you donít. I suppose you could take hormones but not many women do that.

White women also fear that the cultural differences between whites and blacks will eventually cause black men to return to their racial fold for the sake of familiarity. Iíve seen it happen a million times so itís true. Most black men will sex and use white women while seeking out an attractive black women who in most cses don't want them for various reasons.

If youíre black man and you have a choice between an attractive black woman and an attractive white woman almost all black men will take the black woman, even when most black men hate their own mothers. Humans like feeling comfortable, especially when it comes to race.

Continues

http://racerules.wordpress.com/2011/06/06/the...
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#14 Jun 18, 2011
BlooGumz wrote:
All race mixers and their spawn should be sterilized.
Ne groid genes are a pollution...
I'm trying to tell you that many BW don't care about BM. Nobody is saying, "I would date/marry a man like Maceo" are they? LMAO

No there not!

These BW are seeking someone who can tell them how to cross over or positioning themselves to meet WM or other races. Yes, some BW have become lesbians and many don't want to date out.

If you haven't noticed they don't take any lowly BM like YOU or any of your other BM friends do they?

Hell No

Your friends HAD TO DATE LOWLY FAT UNATTRACTIVE WW that no White man wants which is exactly what you and your friends did!

Your in an happy marriage and you can't afford to leave. Guess what? She's your Dream White woman" so you got exactly what you wanted and your still bitter!
Lil Tony

United States

#15 Jun 18, 2011
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#16 Jun 18, 2011
Lil Tony wrote:
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I'm trying to tell you that many BW don't care about BM. Nobody is saying, "I would date/marry a man like Maceo" are they? LMAO
No there not!
These BW are seeking someone who can tell them how to cross over or positioning themselves to meet WM or other races. Yes, some BW have become lesbians and many don't want to date out.
If you haven't noticed they don't take any lowly BM like YOU or any of your other BM friends do they?
Hell No
Your friends HAD TO DATE LOWLY FAT UNATTRACTIVE WW that no White man wants which is exactly what you and your friends did!
Your in an happy marriage and you can't afford to leave. Guess what? She's your Dream White woman" so you got exactly what you wanted and your still bitter!

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#17 Jun 18, 2011
I've a black mother and white father, and who cares if it's rare or not?...funniest thing about topix is that many black women are giving couples like my parents a bad name with their hatred towards their own race(by insulting the males of their race), there's no need to badmouth your own people to get into a white mans bed lol

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#18 Jun 18, 2011
lets do it wrote:
<quoted text>first of all,black women aren't queens.so that just because I'm a bw shit goes out the window.a individual WOMAN period can only be an INDIVIDUAL man's queen if HE FEELS THAT WAY.so die slow with that bullsh!t black ho!!!!!!
First off, i'm not a ho. You don't know anything about me. I can call a Black woman a queen all I want because its MY opinion. You can believe and say what you want but don't put me down for my opinion. I'm not sure what's up with all your anger because it's not neccessary. If you are having a bad day, well sorry for ya but don't take it out on me. I don't believe in negativity so i'll return your nasty comment with a good one. I wish you happiness and I hope you have a great day!
Not saying

Slough, UK

#19 Jul 23, 2011
I have found myself reading abit about mixed race identity and the relationships between the parents because of something that was said to me. I have found people are really over thinking this. We live in a world now where racism is very rare, I haven't really read the idea of it just being everyone is seeing everyone as equal now. I've read alot about power and insecurity which just seems very strange to read. Also England is a mainly white country so the minorities are more like to be involved with someone who is white, seems quite simple. I myself am mixed and parents met through work. I don't think there is no hidden agenda especially not in these day, we live in a mixed society and people are just more involved with each other.

Since: Jul 11

Novi, MI

#20 Jul 23, 2011
thatgirl304 wrote:
Its common to see mixed-race children with a black father and white mother. But what do people really think about it being the other way around - black mother/white or other race father?
they think the child is not yours... trust me... I don't kno how many times someone has asked me whose child I'm holding... it just doesn't compute to some people...
Wanda

Chatteris, UK

#21 Aug 22, 2011
I thought understood it all till last week - guess I have much less empathy than I thought. My hub is Indian and he told me that descriptive comment is ok - and basically me and my social circle referred to anyone not white as Black whenever simply saying Human was not enough. In a reclaim the word kind of way. And we thought this was ok (it rarely comes up to be honest). Then my nephew who is mixed race told me off for referring to him as a black teenager (in a respectful way on both our parts you understand) and now I can see there may be a world of difference for him - it would be good if this was aired more widely - its awful to think you may upset soemone through ignorance.
Wanda

Chatteris, UK

#22 Aug 22, 2011
I should add - for all you guys focusing on how the parents are perceived - I would focus on the kids - and that guy who thinks all women are mad for black male dildos - boy are you way off beam. "All" Women want to be cherished and loved, in my opinion (of course there is no 'all' about any woman - everyone is an individual).
matu

Manchester, UK

#23 Jan 17, 2012
I have not heard of a black woman and a white man having a pure black baby.

Why is it always mostely white wemen and black men having pure white babies.

Think about this!

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