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Sadbutrue

Ashburn, VA

#23 Jul 31, 2013
Blaq American Princess-maceo wrote:
I think it's 5'8.
Here's the thing, I don't mind dating men shorter than me, a little overweight, or not exactly hs.
Haha.. Sorry to go off on a tangent but just so everyone knows, I'm not shallow.
MACEO

You can't ask for Proverbs woman when your a Man WHORE yourself! lmao

How To Find A Husband
A Ten Point Checklist to Help Dads & Daughters
by Pastor Art Kohl
February 10, 2005

A father has the God-given authority to give his daughter away in marriage. I Corinthians 7:37-38, "Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, doeth well. So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better."

To every father reading this, I would encourage you to consider this one of your most serious obligations: finding the right mate for your daughter. I suggest the following guide be used to look for a good man. This should be shared with your daughter early and often in her life so both of your standards will be high.

1. Is He Saved?
II Corinthians 6:14 , "Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?"

I Corinthians 7:39 , "The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord."

2. Is He Sanctified?
I Thessalonians 4:3, "For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:"

To be sanctified means to be set apart. This is the process and work of God in us whereby He is constantly making us holier. A sanctified man will always be improving. He will never become complacent with his Christian life.

3. Is He Serving?
Philippians 2:3, "Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves."

Mark 10:45 , "For even the Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to give his life a ransom for many:"

Look for a man who has a servant's heart. A man who lives for others will make a good husband. Avoid self-centered types.

4. Is He Spirit-filled?
Ephesians 5:18 , "And be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess; but be filled with the Spirit;"

To be filled with the Spirit of God means to be emptied of self and given over to God's control. As a result of being Spirit-filled, "... the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith," Galatians 5:22.

God, by His Spirit, will teach a man to love like God loves. Your daughter will benefit all of her life from his unconditional love. The self-centered type will only think of himself. It is not possible to be filled with the Spirit and filled with self at the same time.

Ephesians 5:18-19, "And be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess; but be filled with the Spirit; Speaking to yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord;" Watch him in church. Does he love to sing unto the Lord? Singing is an outward evidence of a spirit-filled man. Is his music old-fashioned? Is it conservative? Does he shun the music of the world? The world's music will harden his heart and cause his spirit to rebel.

Conclusion:

There is no mention in this guide about him being romantic. That comes after marriage, as does self control. There is no mention of looks and other shallow characteristics. Dads and daughters need to rise above that. Ignore the empty things that do not contribute to happy marriages.

http://www.mediaite.com/tv/cnns-don-lemon-bac...

MACEO YOUR A NO GOOD BLCK MAN YOU WASTED TIME CHASING WHORES WHILE YOU WERE MARRIED!
Sadbutrue

Ashburn, VA

#24 Jul 31, 2013
--AAA-- wrote:
<quoted text>
Well I think Freddie and I were in a debate about this.....
Personally I wouldn't approach a random woman; A lady would have to be interested in me first before I would even think about approaching her. Its much better when both people are at least thinking about each other.
mACEO

still talking to your profiles at 60 years old? LMAO
Sadbutrue

Ashburn, VA

#25 Jul 31, 2013
MACEO

You can't ask for Proverbs woman when your a Man WHORE yourself! lmao

How To Find A Husband
A Ten Point Checklist to Help Dads & Daughters
by Pastor Art Kohl
February 10, 2005

A father has the God-given authority to give his daughter away in marriage. I Corinthians 7:37-38, "Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, doeth well. So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better."

To every father reading this, I would encourage you to consider this one of your most serious obligations: finding the right mate for your daughter. I suggest the following guide be used to look for a good man. This should be shared with your daughter early and often in her life so both of your standards will be high.

1. Is He Saved?
II Corinthians 6:14 , "Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?"

I Corinthians 7:39 , "The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord."

2. Is He Sanctified?
I Thessalonians 4:3, "For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:"

To be sanctified means to be set apart. This is the process and work of God in us whereby He is constantly making us holier. A sanctified man will always be improving. He will never become complacent with his Christian life.

3. Is He Serving?
Philippians 2:3, "Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves."

Mark 10:45 , "For even the Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to give his life a ransom for many:"

Look for a man who has a servant's heart. A man who lives for others will make a good husband. Avoid self-centered types.

4. Is He Spirit-filled?
Ephesians 5:18 , "And be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess; but be filled with the Spirit;"

To be filled with the Spirit of God means to be emptied of self and given over to God's control. As a result of being Spirit-filled, "... the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith," Galatians 5:22.

God, by His Spirit, will teach a man to love like God loves. Your daughter will benefit all of her life from his unconditional love. The self-centered type will only think of himself. It is not possible to be filled with the Spirit and filled with self at the same time.

Ephesians 5:18-19, "And be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess; but be filled with the Spirit; Speaking to yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord;" Watch him in church. Does he love to sing unto the Lord? Singing is an outward evidence of a spirit-filled man. Is his music old-fashioned? Is it conservative? Does he shun the music of the world? The world's music will harden his heart and cause his spirit to rebel.

Conclusion:

There is no mention in this guide about him being romantic. That comes after marriage, as does self control. There is no mention of looks and other shallow characteristics. Dads and daughters need to rise above that. Ignore the empty things that do not contribute to happy marriages.

http://www.mediaite.com/tv/cnns-don-lemon-bac...

MACEO YOUR A NO GOOD BLCK MAN YOU WASTED TIME CHASING WHORES WHILE YOU WERE MARRIED!

Level 5

Since: Jul 13

Canovanas, Puerto Rico

#26 Jul 31, 2013
I have felt physical attraction to some men, but the funny ones are the ones that have stole my heart. I like a humble guy, someone generous, kind, and caring. He has to be someone that I could trust, tell everything, and that can draw a smile in my face everyday.Overall, he has to be my best friend.
Sadbutrue

Ashburn, VA

#27 Jul 31, 2013
--AAA-- wrote:
<quoted text>
Well I think Freddie and I were in a debate about this.....
Personally I wouldn't approach a random woman; A lady would have to be interested in me first before I would even think about approaching her. Its much better when both people are at least thinking about each other.
MACEO

Sadly you don't have the qualities of a good husband!

All you did was chase WW Puzzy behind your White wife's back while she worked and built up her business you didn't even help her! LMAO

FOOL!

No KIDS! Didn't help her and chased TRASHY TRAILER TRASH WOMEN IN YOUR OFFICE BEHIND HER BACK! LMAO

THOU FOOL AND NOW YOUR BROKE AND ALONE!
Blaq American Princess

Jackson, TN

#28 Jul 31, 2013
--AAA-- wrote:
<quoted text>
Well I think Freddie and I were in a debate about this.....
Personally I wouldn't approach a random woman; A lady would have to be interested in me first before I would even think about approaching her. Its much better when both people are at least thinking about each other.
But don't you think it's your job to make me think about you like that? My thing is, if you see something you like you should go for it.

I feel like if a woman approaches a man, the dynamics of that relationship will always be challenged or reversed.
Sadbutrue

Ashburn, VA

#29 Jul 31, 2013
Jesuspeaceandlove wrote:
<quoted text>
I highly suspect you are an arrogant white troll, so I won't justify with a response.
MACEO

The reason why I bring up your "Actions, Character and Choices" is becuase your a HYPOCRITE with DOUBLE STANDARDS!

Why would you ask for a Proverbs 31 woman when your an NO GOOD DOG?

[Choosing a Good Husband] Introduction
[Choosing a Good Husband 1] Love and Joy
[Choosing a Good Husband 2] Peace and Patience
[Choosing a Good Husband 3] Kindness and Goodness
[Choosing a Good Husband 4] Faithfulness
[Choosing a Good Husband 5] Gentleness and Self-control
[Choosing a Good Husband 6] Talk
[Choosing a Good Husband 7] Reputation and Friends
[Choosing a Good Husband 8] Attitudes, Part 1: Wisdom, Envy, Grumbling
[Choosing a Good Husband 9] Attitudes, Part 2: Correction, Money
[Choosing a Good Husband 10] Relationships with God and with Parents
[Choosing a Good Husband 11] Other Relationships
[Choosing a Good Husband 12] Issues for Agreement

https://bible.org/series/choosing-good-husban...

Your a very selfish, self centered, Arrogant, Controlling, Immature, Insecure, Childish Man!

Nobody wants a Grown Arse man that acts foolish and your 60 years old! Its so sad! Which is why so many younger Black women tell me they have "No hope" in Black males when they see Black men like YOU!

So sad!

Your not a good choice for a husband; your ex White wife GOT A NO GOOD BLACK MAN! LMAO

I BET SHE REGRETS HER TIME WITH YOU! THAT' WAS A 20 YEAR PRISON SENTENCE !
Sadbuttrue

Ashburn, VA

#30 Jul 31, 2013
Jesuspeaceandlove-MACEO wrote:
<quoted text>
I highly suspect you are an arrogant white sheboon troll, so I won't justify with a response.
MACEO

The reason why I bring up your "Actions, Character and Choices" is becuase your a HYPOCRITE with DOUBLE STANDARDS!

Why would you ask for a Proverbs 31 woman when your an NO GOOD DOG?

[Choosing a Good Husband] Introduction
[Choosing a Good Husband 1] Love and Joy
[Choosing a Good Husband 2] Peace and Patience
[Choosing a Good Husband 3] Kindness and Goodness
[Choosing a Good Husband 4] Faithfulness
[Choosing a Good Husband 5] Gentleness and Self-control
[Choosing a Good Husband 6] Talk
[Choosing a Good Husband 7] Reputation and Friends
[Choosing a Good Husband 8] Attitudes, Part 1: Wisdom, Envy, Grumbling
[Choosing a Good Husband 9] Attitudes, Part 2: Correction, Money
[Choosing a Good Husband 10] Relationships with God and with Parents
[Choosing a Good Husband 11] Other Relationships
[Choosing a Good Husband 12] Issues for Agreement

https://bible.org/series/choosing-good-husban...

Your a very selfish, self centered, Arrogant, Controlling, Immature, Insecure, Childish Man!

Nobody wants a Grown Arse man that acts foolish and your 60 years old! Its so sad! Which is why so many younger Black women tell me they have "No hope" in Black males when they see Black men like YOU!

So sad!

Your not a good choice for a husband; your ex White wife GOT A NO GOOD BLACK MAN! LMAO

I BET SHE REGRETS HER TIME WITH YOU! THAT' WAS A 20 YEAR PRISON SENTENCE !
Sadbuttrue

Ashburn, VA

#31 Jul 31, 2013
Mary_ M wrote:
I have felt physical attraction to some men, but the funny ones are the ones that have stole my heart. I like a humble guy, someone generous, kind, and caring. He has to be someone that I could trust, tell everything, and that can draw a smile in my face everyday.Overall, he has to be my best friend.
MACEO

Your not humble your ARROGANT, SLY, SNEAKY, DECEITFUL, HABITUAL LIAR, SCOFFER, FOOL, SELFISH, SELF CENTERED, CHIILDRISH, IMMATURE, INSECURE, POOR DECISION MAKER, ITS ALL ABOUT YOU AND NOBODY ELSE!

WHY DID THAT DUMB WHITE WOMAN STAY?

Isn't if funny how Black women can see the horrible traits in you?
Sadbuttrue

Ashburn, VA

#32 Jul 31, 2013
Jesuspeaceandlove-MACEO wrote:
<quoted text>
I highly suspect you are an arrogant white sheboon troll, so I won't justify with a response.
MACEO

The reason why I bring up your "Actions, Character and Choices" is becuase your a HYPOCRITE with DOUBLE STANDARDS!

Why would you ask for a Proverbs 31 woman when your an NO GOOD DOG?

[Choosing a Good Husband] Introduction
[Choosing a Good Husband 1] Love and Joy
[Choosing a Good Husband 2] Peace and Patience
[Choosing a Good Husband 3] Kindness and Goodness
[Choosing a Good Husband 4] Faithfulness
[Choosing a Good Husband 5] Gentleness and Self-control
[Choosing a Good Husband 6] Talk
[Choosing a Good Husband 7] Reputation and Friends
[Choosing a Good Husband 8] Attitudes, Part 1: Wisdom, Envy, Grumbling
[Choosing a Good Husband 9] Attitudes, Part 2: Correction, Money
[Choosing a Good Husband 10] Relationships with God and with Parents
[Choosing a Good Husband 11] Other Relationships
[Choosing a Good Husband 12] Issues for Agreement

https://bible.org/series/choosing-good-husban...

Your a very selfish, self centered, Arrogant, Controlling, Immature, Insecure, Childish Man!

Nobody wants a Grown Arse man that acts foolish and your 60 years old! Its so sad! Which is why so many younger Black women tell me they have "No hope" in Black males when they see Black men like YOU!

So sad!

Your not a good choice for a husband; your ex White wife GOT A NO GOOD BLACK MAN! LMAO

I BET SHE REGRETS HER TIME WITH YOU! THAT' WAS A 20 YEAR PRISON SENTENCE ! 3728

Level 5

Since: Jul 13

Canovanas, Puerto Rico

#33 Jul 31, 2013
Sadbuttrue wrote:
<quoted text>MACEO
Your not humble your ARROGANT, SLY, SNEAKY, DECEITFUL, HABITUAL LIAR, SCOFFER, FOOL, SELFISH, SELF CENTERED, CHIILDRISH, IMMATURE, INSECURE, POOR DECISION MAKER, ITS ALL ABOUT YOU AND NOBODY ELSE!
WHY DID THAT DUMB WHITE WOMAN STAY?
Isn't if funny how Black women can see the horrible traits in you?
First of all, I'm not white, secondly, you don't know me so why bother with you?

Since: Jun 12

Manchester, UK

#34 Jul 31, 2013
That sh!t is basic..the feistier the better. Donít make the same mistake I did..got jealous because my girl ended up making more money than me.

“found a good one! ”

Level 5

Since: Dec 12

Houston, TX

#35 Jul 31, 2013
Blaq American Princess wrote:
<quoted text>But don't you think it's your job to make me think about you like that?

My thing is, if you see something you like you should go for it.

I feel like if a woman approaches a man, the dynamics of that relationship will always be challenged or reversed.
-Yea... but if you aren't already thinking about about me like I was thinking about you.... I'd just be annoying if I approached you.

-The person you're going for has to have some interest in you...

-How so?
Sadbuttrue

Ashburn, VA

#36 Jul 31, 2013
--AAA-- wrote:
<quoted text>
-Yea... but if you aren't already thinking about about me like I was thinking about you.... I'd just be annoying if I approached you.
-The person you're going for has to have some interest in you...
-How so?
AAA--MACEO wrote:
<quoted text>
I highly suspect you are an arrogant white sheboon troll, so I won't justify with a response.
MACEO

The reason why I bring up your "Actions, Character and Choices" is becuase your a HYPOCRITE with DOUBLE STANDARDS!

Why would you ask for a Proverbs 31 woman when your an NO GOOD DOG?

[Choosing a Good Husband] Introduction
[Choosing a Good Husband 1] Love and Joy
[Choosing a Good Husband 2] Peace and Patience
[Choosing a Good Husband 3] Kindness and Goodness
[Choosing a Good Husband 4] Faithfulness
[Choosing a Good Husband 5] Gentleness and Self-control
[Choosing a Good Husband 6] Talk
[Choosing a Good Husband 7] Reputation and Friends
[Choosing a Good Husband 8] Attitudes, Part 1: Wisdom, Envy, Grumbling
[Choosing a Good Husband 9] Attitudes, Part 2: Correction, Money
[Choosing a Good Husband 10] Relationships with God and with Parents
[Choosing a Good Husband 11] Other Relationships
[Choosing a Good Husband 12] Issues for Agreement

https://bible.org/series/choosing-good-husban...

Your a very selfish, self centered, Arrogant, Controlling, Immature, Insecure, Childish Man!

Nobody wants a Grown Arse man that acts foolish and your 60 years old! Its so sad! Which is why so many younger Black women tell me they have "No hope" in Black males when they see Black men like YOU!

So sad!

Your not a good choice for a husband; your ex White wife GOT A NO GOOD BLACK MAN! LMAO

I BET SHE REGRETS HER TIME WITH YOU! THAT' WAS A 20 YEAR PRISON SENTENCE !
Sadbuttrue

Ashburn, VA

#37 Jul 31, 2013
Mary_ M wrote:
<quoted text>
First of all, I'm not white, secondly, you don't know me so why bother with you?
MACEO

YOUR A DUMB OLD BLACK MAN!

Your not humble your ARROGANT, SLY, SNEAKY, DECEITFUL, HABITUAL LIAR, SCOFFER, FOOL, SELFISH, SELF CENTERED, CHIILDRISH, IMMATURE, INSECURE, POOR DECISION MAKER, ITS ALL ABOUT YOU AND NOBODY ELSE!

WHY DID THAT DUMB WHITE WOMAN STAY?

Isn't if funny how Black women can see the horrible traits in you?

Since: Jun 12

Manchester, UK

#38 Jul 31, 2013
wranglerjoey..,

you haven't got a clue dude..and you call yourself a wrangler..donít make me laugh..there are millions of rough diamonds out there....

....black chicks tend to hang out in packs..try to break your pray away..get her off by herself..I found that worked when I was young...once you get her away then itís up to you lol...bless lol.

Since: Jun 12

Manchester, UK

#39 Jul 31, 2013
@wj...,

Just in case you haven't noticed it's obviouse you have NEVER experenced a Black chick..you are trying to damned hard..maybe you are trying to impress your white brethren I dont know.

IMO..you talk to damed much..I think that is what your problem is LOL.
auntie bee

United States

#41 Jul 31, 2013
Mary_ M wrote:
I have felt physical attraction to some men, but the funny ones are the ones that have stole my heart. I like a humble guy, someone generous, kind, and caring. He has to be someone that I could trust, tell everything, and that can draw a smile in my face everyday.Overall, he has to be my best friend.
a large shyt free pecker wouldnt hurt either would it?

“me! chee hoo! LOL!”

Level 6

Since: Oct 09

Apia, Samoa

#42 Jul 31, 2013
Qualities of a woman.. Should always be oppisite to a man.. Men strong.. Woman beautiful.. Woman recieve the seed.. Man gives the seed.. And thats how u get life.. So i believe a woman or ur wife or husband.. Must everythang bout u..

“me! chee hoo! LOL!”

Level 6

Since: Oct 09

Apia, Samoa

#43 Jul 31, 2013
Im sorry.. Yeah people gonna wonder when im gonna start preaching.. Lol, but in genesis.. It says man and woman was created in the image of god.. And god.. Created all things.. Out of love.. So.. How was this love like in the begining

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