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Racist White Women who seek out Black men

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I must apologize to the African-American women of Topix who warned me about this. It was hard to believe until it actually was right up in my face.

I was approached by one online. I was startled, but it was something I'd been warned of.

I believe I can still access her profile from the dating website. If anyone would like to see what one of these heffers actually looks like, just send me a PM or post a request. LOL

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Harrisson wrote:
I must apologize to the African-American women of Topix who warned me about this. It was hard to believe until it actually was right up in my face.
I was approached by one online. I was startled, but it was something I'd been warned of.
I believe I can still access her profile from the dating website. If anyone would like to see what one of these heffers actually looks like, just send me a PM or post a request. LOL
I think racist non blacks of both genders seek out BP. These people have low self esteem and they think blacks are beneath them and will be grateful for any non-black person, even damaged ones.
I definitely know of WW who feel inadequate and nervous around WM, who specifically seek out black men, because they feel innately superior to blacks.

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Harrisson wrote:
I must apologize to the African-American women of Topix who warned me about this. It was hard to believe until it actually was right up in my face.
I was approached by one online. I was startled, but it was something I'd been warned of.
I believe I can still access her profile from the dating website. If anyone would like to see what one of these heffers actually looks like, just send me a PM or post a request. LOL
I hope no harm came to you, my friend. I suspect there's a lot more of this occurring that never gets reported.
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Almost all of the WW I've met have a hatred towards Black women.

I believe WW are racist. But they love to be worshiped by BM.
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What set off your alarm bells?

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Harrisson wrote:
I must apologize to the African-American women of Topix who warned me about this. It was hard to believe until it actually was right up in my face.
I was approached by one online. I was startled, but it was something I'd been warned of.
I believe I can still access her profile from the dating website. If anyone would like to see what one of these heffers actually looks like, just send me a PM or post a request. LOL
Yes yes... but what happened? Sometimes I am really scared of white people who go out of their way to help you in the US but usually in Europe it's just kindness. Here it can be a very different situation. What happened?

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Shalimarr wrote:
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I think racist non blacks of both genders seek out BP. These people have low self esteem and they think blacks are beneath them and will be grateful for any non-black person, even damaged ones.

I definitely know of WW who feel inadequate and nervous around WM, who specifically seek out black men, because they feel innately superior to blacks.
Excellent summation, Shalimarr. Very concise.

While I don't have the same experience with those kinds of WW as you do, I definitely have my suspicions about some of the women I've encountered. My last WW girlfriend (extremely obese) said things that caused me to *believe* she felt inadequate around typical white males. And she did specifically approach me before we became lovers.

I will tell you about one jarring experience that I perceived as insecurity. She became obviously upset when she heard me compliment the looks of a petite black woman who was a guest in my home. She was another man's girlfriend and there was *nothing* going on between us. I was chatting with my girlfriend and made this harmless compliment: "She's a cute little thing."

Ooooh, that was quite upsetting to my girlfriend!! And she let me know she was bothered. I found myself apologizing to soothe her ruffled feathers: "Aw, honey... I didn't mean anything by that. It was just a descriptive phrase."

This was quite an awkward experience, Shalimarr. I will never forget that.

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Yes yes... but what happened? Sometimes I am really scared of white people who go out of their way to help you in the US but usually in Europe it's just kindness. Here it can be a very different situation. What happened?
I received a "meet request" from an white female on a dating website. That means my photo caught her interest and she wanted to get to know me a little more.

Before accepting, I quickly perused her profile to see what she was like. I was surprised to see that her selection for mates excluded Black men. The way it works is that the person checks a box indicating that "I would NOT be interested in dating someone of a different ethnicity."

That doesn't make her a "racist," but it does indicate a racially discriminatory attitude towards relationships. Anyway, I was *curious* to see what would happen, so I accepted.

We introduced ourselves and she quickly gave me her text number so we could chat by text. I texted her... and she replied...and then I replied... and it was very weird because long amounts of time would pass in between each of her texts to me.

After a couple hours or so, I said something like "Okay, gotta go. Bye." I will admit that it was a rather dismissive tone I used.

After I did that, her final reply explained that she thought I was cute but that she couldn't be talking to me because her job required being on an emergency telephone line.(I believe she was a 911 dispatcher or something similar) She said "Bye!" and I just deleted the text string. LOL!

It was a bit strange, but I never expected much from a bigot or racist in the first place.

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What set off your alarm bells?
The "preferences" section of her profile.
Nothing too dramatic - see my post to Silverness above.

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Harrisson wrote:
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I received a "meet request" from an white female on a dating website. That means my photo caught her interest and she wanted to get to know me a little more.
Before accepting, I quickly perused her profile to see what she was like. I was surprised to see that her selection for mates excluded Black men. The way it works is that the person checks a box indicating that "I would NOT be interested in dating someone of a different ethnicity."
That doesn't make her a "racist," but it does indicate a racially discriminatory attitude towards relationships. Anyway, I was *curious* to see what would happen, so I accepted.
We introduced ourselves and she quickly gave me her text number so we could chat by text. I texted her... and she replied...and then I replied... and it was very weird because long amounts of time would pass in between each of her texts to me.
After a couple hours or so, I said something like "Okay, gotta go. Bye." I will admit that it was a rather dismissive tone I used.
After I did that, her final reply explained that she thought I was cute but that she couldn't be talking to me because her job required being on an emergency telephone line.(I believe she was a 911 dispatcher or something similar) She said "Bye!" and I just deleted the text string. LOL!
It was a bit strange, but I never expected much from a bigot or racist in the first place.
Sir,

it's not very conclusive based on what you say here.

Besides you have not thought she could have clicked on the wrong box in her profile and never noticed then her mistake ?
That is happening often with long profile with many boxes to tick.

Moreover if she had not been really attracted by your profile, she would have quickly played the "oh'really/SBT/Capree " game especially during 2 hours of chat ...

You think a real white hood kluxette could have endured 2 hours of text messaging with a Black man without exploding ?

And as elegant as you are, you have not asked about her bizarre preference ... maybe, it's not for me to say, you could give the gal a second chance.

For the OP, I think some (in a very limited number)racist white women will go for BM when they only have the "mandingo" image in mind. But they will see the man as a walking dildo and discard his personality, culture etc.
Apart from that tiny group, I feel a large majority maybe 80% or more of both white women and men have little knowledge on Black history, Black cultures, Black arts, Black concerns. This ignorance is generally based on the unconscious assumption that whitey civilisation is supreme : I stress the word "unconscious".

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seek me out I hate myself and am half white already..

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Sir,
it's not very conclusive based on what you say here.

Besides you have not thought she could have clicked on the wrong box in her profile and never noticed then her mistake ?
That is happening often with long profile with many boxes to tick.
Moreover if she had not been really attracted by your profile, she would have quickly played the "oh'really/SBT/Capree " game especially during 2 hours of chat ...

You think a real white hood kluxette could have endured 2 hours of text messaging with a Black man without exploding ?

And as elegant as you are, you have not asked about her bizarre preference ... maybe, it's not for me to say, you could give the gal a second chance..
You make excellent points, Attai... but I will let you in on another detail: She had a SECOND profile on a second website where I was also a member. In the second profile she listed a long list of acceptable male ethnic traits: "Western European, Mediterranean, etc." and there was NO mention of Black/African. LOL!

So...it was not a mistake of checking the wrong box in my opinion.

Now, the second website was one for BBW (larger) women and the men who love them, so that tells me that she sees herself as overweight. My conclusion is that this is a heavy white woman with a genuine preference for non-Black men, but who is willing to relax those standards when it becomes too difficult to find the mate she really wants.

Does that make sense? ;o)

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Excellent summation, Shalimarr. Very concise.
While I don't have the same experience with those kinds of WW as you do, I definitely have my suspicions about some of the women I've encountered. My last WW girlfriend (extremely obese) said things that caused me to *believe* she felt inadequate around typical white males. And she did specifically approach me before we became lovers.
I will tell you about one jarring experience that I perceived as insecurity. She became obviously upset when she heard me compliment the looks of a petite black woman who was a guest in my home. She was another man's girlfriend and there was *nothing* going on between us. I was chatting with my girlfriend and made this harmless compliment: "She's a cute little thing."
Ooooh, that was quite upsetting to my girlfriend!! And she let me know she was bothered. I found myself apologizing to soothe her ruffled feathers: "Aw, honey... I didn't mean anything by that. It was just a descriptive phrase."
This was quite an awkward experience, Shalimarr. I will never forget that.
What is your analysis of this.... Imagine of a club or group was set to celebrate and watch movies with a Arab lead actors/actresses or Jewish lead starring actors/actresses, because these groups were underrepresented in movies.
It would be clear these groups were supportive of that particular ethnicity and was created for people from that particular ethnicity to come together and offer support to each other and celebrate their culture. I doubt any non jews or non Arabs would be trying to join these groups or attend their gatherings.
In London there is a group celebrating films that star black actors and this group meets to watch these films together and focus on other black issues.
Guess what... a bunch of IRWW have joined this film club... yep, we are supposed to believe that these WW were very concerned by the lack of black actresses and actors in movies and they felt the need to offer blacks their support.
Or maybe these IRWW have no respect for our boundaries or our struggles, they just want access to black CAWK! Because of course BM will be at these gatherings :)
IR whites have very little respect for blacks, they are often very superficial and there lust for black people is very cheap and superficial too.

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And of course there are laws, so these WW cannot be excluded from the film club. Every black member knows, that these WW are not interested in watching films that specifically star Black women and not white ones... to the extent of joining a club and paying membership fees.
They have joined the club to have social access to BM. Not to celebrate black actresses getting bigger parts in movies and taking work away from white actresses.

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Also we have a Caribbean club in London, focused on bringing the Caribbean community together and highlighting Caribbean issues and culture... You guessed it, a bunch of IRWW have joined this club. To fight for the Caribbean agenda in a muti cultural society :)
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The "preferences" section of her profile.
Nothing too dramatic - see my post to Silverness above.
To sum it up she was openly racist and was still seeking BM publicly, right?

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You make excellent points, Attai... but I will let you in on another detail: She had a SECOND profile on a second website where I was also a member. In the second profile she listed a long list of acceptable male ethnic traits: "Western European, Mediterranean, etc." and there was NO mention of Black/African. LOL!
So...it was not a mistake of checking the wrong box in my opinion.
Now, the second website was one for BBW (larger) women and the men who love them, so that tells me that she sees herself as overweight. My conclusion is that this is a heavy white woman with a genuine preference for non-Black men, but who is willing to relax those standards when it becomes too difficult to find the mate she really wants.
Does that make sense? ;o)
yes Sir it makes some sense.

It could be less "brainiac" .... when you have to tick boxes as an abstraction, you are using your brain, to gather some notions, words, responding to questions. You are facing a computer screen.

Then you go out and on the sidewalk or in a shop, you see an attractive person for real : the "brainiac" profile is then forgotten and the body is reacting so to speak. Apparently your picture had the same effect.

If she is waving a Confederate flag on her profile then ok you know.

According to Chris Rock - I love his shows -, women in general are connecting p*ss* and wallet. The stereotype of the Black man is not the millionaire CEO.
Now as I said before you have Prince charming of the teen girl's dreams and daily life where any type of men is hardly riding a horse... Plus physical attraction can be stronger than the "ideal" profile on the paper.
Fortunately.

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And of course there are laws, so these WW cannot be excluded from the film club. Every black member knows, that these WW are not interested in watching films that specifically star Black women and not white ones... to the extent of joining a club and paying membership fees.
They have joined the club to have social access to BM. Not to celebrate black actresses getting bigger parts in movies and taking work away from white actresses.
So what ?

you seem to find outrageous that some white women want to date BM.

It happens every day in the main cities of France and vice versa.

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<quoted text>....Or maybe these IRWW have no respect for our boundaries or our struggles, they just want access to black CAWK! Because of course BM will be at these gatherings :)

IR whites have very little respect for blacks, they are often very superficial and there lust for black people is very cheap and superficial too.
I think you make excellent points here - although I won't make the same absolute judgment call on all "IR whites."

I have IR white aunts who I love dearly and whom I believe to be sincere, loving mates to the black men in our family.

But once you exclude enduring, long-term marriages and focus on the "relationships" or "hookup" scene that proliferates in modern culture, I believe you are largely correct. "Very cheap and superficial" has an excellent ring to it. It's up to the individual BW or BM to be very wary of such folks and terminate contact very quickly at the first sign of disrespect or instability or anything else untoward.

Incidentally, I am now in a satisfying IR relationship with a woman of color. No more petty insecurity or extreme obesity, lol. It feels much better.

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To sum it up she was openly racist and was still seeking BM publicly, right?
Yes - she was "openly racist" about her mating preferences, but still seeking out Black men who looked attractive.

The most polite term I can come up with for women like her is... "opportunistic."

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