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“reppin' dat 2up 2 down”

Since: Sep 07

Va

#161 Jul 5, 2009
Swade wrote:
Queen of the nile uses her virginity to scapegoat why she can't find and keep a decent man. although MTG and Fairguy are two guys who are on her level...yet, she flaked.
FairGuy is a guy who I tried to put down with AttaGirl, and she was diggin him. Even free_expression told me personally on the phone she would give you a chance if you didn't bytch anymore. It's your bytching...not your height. Don't scapegoat.
The older women blame the lack of good me on why they are still single and are "supposedly" in love with the Single Life. Yet never fully want to spotlight that their standards are high, for a woman who's not in demand.(which is younger and tighter and firmer)
Fellas blame thugs/playas that women gravitate towards on women. when all A LOT of women really want is for your scary ass hiding behind the comic books to approach her and make her day. You don't know how many times I've heard awoman say they don't get approached by gentlemen. How gentleman are more in demand than they realize but they can't stay single for 2,3,4,5 years until you finally gain that courage.
Just another tidbit from the Swade Files.
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No, I dont use that as a scapegoat. Men like you and plenty of others I have met are just worthless. You guys play women just for the hell of it.

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Since: Jun 08

DC

#162 Jul 5, 2009
QueenofTheNile wrote:
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No, I dont use that as a scapegoat. Men like you and plenty of others I have met are just worthless. You guys play women just for the hell of it.
haha..is this your attempt to try to insult me. Don't get mad at me because I know exactly why your single and why the likelyhood of you finding that right guy is slim. I'm just the messenger. If doing it YOUR way is getting you the results you desire and want...then do it your way, don't listen to anyone.
dave
#163 Aug 16, 2012
Women still INSIST that men are supposed to approach them. They claim that "that is the way it should be and that's it.They would rather see it that way than approaching themselves - and risking rejection -- because THEY do not want to be the ones being rejected.

“Shed so many tears”

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Since: Jan 08

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#164 Aug 18, 2012
dave wrote:
Women still INSIST that men are supposed to approach them. They claim that "that is the way it should be and that's it.They would rather see it that way than approaching themselves - and risking rejection -- because THEY do not want to be the ones being rejected.
WRONG! Rejection is the least of worries when it comes to a confident woman,okay!

From a young girl to a woman, a female is taught that a man takes the initiative, why, because that is what a gentleman does. A man knows what he likes first, we women procastinate too long, so it's best that a man approach first. A man has given some thought before he approaches, he is careful about what he says and how he says it, making the woman submit even before she has a chance to resist his charm!
I would suggest that a man who is shy and very hard to approach a woman try this, JUST DO IT!

A woman loves a confident NOT ARROGANT man!
dave

Exton, PA

#165 Aug 31, 2012
"JustdroppedIN"]WRON G! The numbers show that men are not approaching women anymore and the rules of the game are changing. I am not certain where it is going but as you say it, maybe the "confident
women who sees a confident, but not arrogant, gentleman, and has
hesitation in approaching him should just DO IT! Sound Familiar?

Since: Aug 10

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#166 Aug 31, 2012
fair_guy wrote:
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What if that good man is like 5'2...
Doesn't matter!! Jeesh!! Why?? I get men the same height as me come upto me all the time(5'5)... Its not the height its the personality.. Believe it or not some taller men just dont cut it.. No personality, think their height says everything about them and mostly go on about their dicks(Because being smaller means that they are small.. What a lie!!).. Some tall men are delusional!
SadButTrue

Arlington, VA

#167 Aug 31, 2012
Swade wrote:
<quoted text>haha..is this your attempt to try to insult me. Don't get mad at me because I know exactly why your single and why the likelyhood of you finding that right guy is slim. I'm just the messenger. If doing it YOUR way is getting you the results you desire and want...then do it your way, don't listen to anyone.
SOME WRONG WITH YOUR OLD ASS MACEO!
GO DIE!

Since: Aug 10

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#168 Sep 1, 2012
JustdroppedIN wrote:
<quoted text>WRONG! Rejection is the least of worries when it comes to a confident woman,okay!
From a young girl to a woman, a female is taught that a man takes the initiative, why, because that is what a gentleman does. A man knows what he likes first, we women procastinate too long, so it's best that a man approach first. A man has given some thought before he approaches, he is careful about what he says and how he says it, making the woman submit even before she has a chance to resist his charm!
I would suggest that a man who is shy and very hard to approach a woman try this, JUST DO IT!
A woman loves a confident NOT ARROGANT man!
COSIGN!! Men need to man up and step up to women they want.. No point wishing the woman to come to them.. How ridiculous!!
dave

Exton, PA

#169 Sep 16, 2012
"Dinie" - Unfortunately, the numbers are showing that men are fed up with the old 'rules', and believe that THEY are just as much a prize or a catch that a woman could be for a man. They are not "wishing" anything, unless women wish that a man would approach? How ridiculous that men could stand up for themselves ( man up?) like that!

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