Hypergamy on the Rise with Educated BW!

Hypergamy on the Rise with Educated BW!

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Sadbuttrue

Silver Spring, MD

#1 Jul 4, 2013
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Hypergamy on the Rise with Educated BW!

Well people who devalue Black women can go jump off a bridge because I won’t let them tell me I deserve less than non-Black women! I’m not going to “settle” for less if non-Black women don’t have to. I’m fully behind hypergamy or just marrying someone on your level. Personally for me, I’m not expecting someone to make more money than me, but I’m expecting someone better than what the mainstream or certain Black people expect for Black women. I expect a man who is attractive to me, has good character, has an education, a good career, no criminal record, no band of baby mamas, and a wedding ring for me before I have his children. I will not listen to outsiders who try to convince me and other Black women that we don’t deserve those things and we should settle for less.
On my blog I have written about ways that I have tried to improve myself because if you want to marry up then you have to be a high quality woman (I also wanted to improve myself because I just wanted to be the best I could be). To me that doesn’t mean a rich or upper class woman, it’s about being well-rounded, having useful skills, being attractive, having good manners, and having good character–being the ideal and highly desirable woman. I felt that I needed to improve in some areas so I did it. I think that many women can improve their qualities so that they can marry up too. Some men support hypergamy and some do not. Men who are of high quality and status often condone female hypergamy because they are able to attract the best women, so it benefits them. They seek out high paying careers, work out, dress well, and drive expensive cars because it makes them attractive to women and makes them look better than other men. Because these men are highly valued then they are able to date and marry highly valued women.
On the other hand, men who are of lower quality are opposed to female hypergamy.

They will try to convince women to put aside their desire for someone attractive, without a criminal record, with and education and career, without baby mamas, and the possibility of a marriage proposal. They want you to lower your standards and marry down. What’s interesting is that these men fully support male hypergamy–dating and marrying women who are way out of their league! These men have little to offer but they go after highly attractive and successful women and feel they deserve these women because they are supposedly “nice guys”. Many of these men are jaded because they have been passed over by high quality women due to their below average looks, character, communication skills, wealth, career, and other factors. Many of these men have joined groups to rant about how evil women are or groups focused on learning skills/tricks to get women to think they are of higher quality.

Black women focus on dating/marrying up and out! Don't let these Black males waste your time and convince you to date down or accept less; you see the results just look at Black women around you so accept low rung Black males who destroyed their lives.
Sadbuttrue

Silver Spring, MD

#2 Jul 4, 2013
Blog:

Hypergamy on the Rise with Educated BW!

Well people who devalue Black women can go jump off a bridge because I won’t let them tell me I deserve less than non-Black women! I’m not going to “settle” for less if non-Black women don’t have to. I’m fully behind hypergamy or just marrying someone on your level. Personally for me, I’m not expecting someone to make more money than me, but I’m expecting someone better than what the mainstream or certain Black people expect for Black women. I expect a man who is attractive to me, has good character, has an education, a good career, no criminal record, no band of baby mamas, and a wedding ring for me before I have his children. I will not listen to outsiders who try to convince me and other Black women that we don’t deserve those things and we should settle for less.

On my blog I have written about ways that I have tried to improve myself because if you want to marry up then you have to be a high quality woman (I also wanted to improve myself because I just wanted to be the best I could be). To me that doesn’t mean a rich or upper class woman, it’s about being well-rounded, having useful skills, being attractive, having good manners, and having good character–being the ideal and highly desirable woman. I felt that I needed to improve in some areas so I did it. I think that many women can improve their qualities so that they can marry up too. Some men support hypergamy and some do not. Men who are of high quality and status often condone female hypergamy because they are able to attract the best women, so it benefits them. They seek out high paying careers, work out, dress well, and drive expensive cars because it makes them attractive to women and makes them look better than other men. Because these men are highly valued then they are able to date and marry highly valued women.
On the other hand, men who are of lower quality are opposed to female hypergamy.

They will try to convince women to put aside their desire for someone attractive, without a criminal record, with and education and career, without baby mamas, and the possibility of a marriage proposal. They want you to lower your standards and marry down. What’s interesting is that these men fully support male hypergamy–dating and marrying women who are way out of their league! These men have little to offer but they go after highly attractive and successful women and feel they deserve these women because they are supposedly “nice guys”. Many of these men are jaded because they have been passed over by high quality women due to their below average looks, character, communication skills, wealth, career, and other factors. Many of these men have joined groups to rant about how evil women are or groups focused on learning skills/tricks to get women to think they are of higher quality.

Black women focus on dating/marrying up and out! Don't let these Black males waste your time and convince you to date down or accept less; you see the results just look at Black women around you so accept low rung Black males who destroyed their lives.

Focus on education, focus on Improving your life, focus on helping other Black women to do the same and stop accepting less than in men!
Sadbuttrue

Silver Spring, MD

#5 Jul 4, 2013
Black women are dating and marrying out and Black men don't like it!

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#6 Jul 4, 2013
"I expect a man who is attractive to me, has good character, has an education, a good career, no criminal record, no band of baby mamas, and a wedding ring for me before I have his children. I will not listen to outsiders who try to convince me and other Black women that we don’t deserve those things and we should settle for less."

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This is good!
For everyone, not just black women. Very good.
SadButTrueHD

Chantilly, VA

#8 Dec 3, 2013
Silverness wrote:
"I expect a man who is attractive to me, has good character, has an education, a good career, no criminal record, no band of baby mamas, and a wedding ring for me before I have his children. I will not listen to outsiders who try to convince me and other Black women that we don’t deserve those things and we should settle for less."
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This is good!
For everyone, not just black women. Very good.
maceo

REad and learn why attractive upwardly Mobile women didn't want you! lmao

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Some men support hypergamy and some do not. Men who are of high quality and status often condone female hypergamy because they are able to attract the best women, so it benefits them. They seek out high paying careers, work out, dress well, and drive expensive cars because it makes them attractive to women and makes them look better than other men. Because these men are highly valued then they are able to date and marry highly valued women.

On the other hand, men who are of lower quality are opposed to female hypergamy. They will try to convince women to put aside their desire for someone attractive, without a criminal record, with and education and career, without baby mamas, and the possibility of a marriage proposal. They want you to lower your standards and marry down. What’s interesting is that these men fully support male hypergamy–dating and marrying women who are way out of their league! These men have little to offer but they go after highly attractive and successful women and feel they deserve these women because they are supposedly “nice guys”. Many of these men are jaded because they have been passed over by high quality women due to their below average looks, character, communication skills, wealth, career, and other factors. Many of these men have joined groups to rant about how evil women are or groups focused on learning skills/tricks to get women to think they are of higher quality. This is where the Pick Up Artists (PUAs) come in.

The Black man who is Bitter, angry and mad at IR BW is because he cant pull them or lack the characteristics that make him an unattractive catch therefore Women avoid him!!
Sadbuttrue

Chantilly, VA

#9 Dec 6, 2013
Silverness wrote:
"I expect a man who is attractive to me, has good character, has an education, a good career, no criminal record, no band of baby mamas, and a wedding ring for me before I have his children. I will not listen to outsiders who try to convince me and other Black women that we don’t deserve those things and we should settle for less."
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This is good!
For everyone, not just black women. Very good.
MACEO

Your Azz Ugly you look like Cee Lo Green but actually he looks better than you!

Your Ex White wife! lmmao

http://www.preciouspetsva.com/Caregivers.htm

Liz is ugly as hell! lmao!

Perfect Match! lmao

Your 60 years old Broke and Sickly! STFU you don't have much time left your almost DEAD!

Maceo is a FAT (_______X________) Loser! lmao
Maceo is a FAT (_______X________) Loser! lmao
Maceo is a FAT (_______X________) Loser! lmao
Maceo is a FAT (_______X________) Loser! lmao
Maceo is a FAT (_______X________) Loser! lmao
Maceo is a FAT (_______X________) Loser! lmao
Sadbuttrue

Chantilly, VA

#11 Dec 6, 2013
Silverness wrote:
"I expect a man who is attractive to me, has good character, has an education, a good career, no criminal record, no band of baby mamas, and a wedding ring for me before I have his children. I will not listen to outsiders who try to convince me and other Black women that we don’t deserve those things and we should settle for less."
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This is good!
For everyone, not just black women. Very good.
MACEO

Why are so many BM on "The First 48"?

Black males occupy most of the Crime channels Killing, Raping, stealing, Drugs, Hustlers and having affairs with mostly White women! lmao

They always do Life or take less than 2,500 in cash and some White Puzzy to kill some White man for a White woman. She collects the insurance money which comes to 300k and up! lmao

why do Black men dominate the Crime shows when they only make up 5% of the population?
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#12 Dec 7, 2013
Silverness wrote:
"I expect a man who is attractive to me, has good character, has an education, a good career, no criminal record, no band of baby mamas, and a wedding ring for me before I have his children. I will not listen to outsiders who try to convince me and other Black women that we don’t deserve those things and we should settle for less."
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This is good!
For everyone, not just black women. Very good.
There are 3,500 videos on Effeminate Males most of them pertain to Black males !

Why are Black men not doing anything about it? Its as thou Black men are self destructing and imploding from within.

Listen to these videos on "Black males feminized in America"!

Feminizing the Black Male
http://youtu.be/_21uzuhtpXs

Message to the young black male in America who are feminine
http://youtu.be/8SRSW0p2fVI

Hollywood& the Feminization Of Black Men
http://youtu.be/w6pbwA_K4Lw

Feminization of the Black Male
http://youtu.be/8npBU3MhUMM

Episode 20| "Feminization of Black Men/Masculinization of Black Women"| Part I.
http://youtu.be/3o6LMLkORqU

Dave Chappelle on the feminizing of Blackmen
http://youtu.be/JqYuBDJAmkY

Feminized Black Men/Masculine Black Women
http://youtu.be/cHNqOdpaORY

The Feminization Of The Black Man
http://youtu.be/N7MopaQ45qQ

Whats up with the FEMIZATION of BLACK GAY MEN?...why are so many black gay men FEMIINE?
http://youtu.be/kV62FVqEcbs
He's also HIV positive and he dates Day Black men !lmao

Feminized Young boys & Young men
http://youtu.be/in1E-Mp_VFE

Bill Maher on the feminization of society especially Black males
http://youtu.be/lCOUG3a-Grs

Do Single Black Mothers Feminize Their Sons ?
http://youtu.be/JVhh_mnVCUI

Example of Feminization of black men!!!
http://youtu.be/GTr2enktzA0

The Feminization of Today's Black Men
http://youtu.be/BLiVGN_hpsM

Dr Francess Cress Welsing on Why Black Men are being feminized
http://youtu.be/PGlAo84I9Fw

Feminizing of America
Mentions the large number of Black males who are feminine!
http://youtu.be/C3_1RYMf1mA

HIDDEN COLORS STORYING THE BLACK MALE IMAGE NOW FEMINIZED FINALE COPY.wmv
http://youtu.be/b_fkb5BpIf0

The feminization of Black men & boys in the church
http://youtu.be/UPThncPk5SQ

hat's up with these weak and feminized black men
http://youtu.be/8N75zsql7rg

THERE' almost 3,500 videos on this Topic! Most of the video are done by Black men not Black women!

Who wants a Feminized Black men like yourself? I understand why you complain about black women acting like men but they take on both roles which is wrong!

A good portion of Black males like yourself who have feminine qualities where you whine, bytch, moan and are weak!

Its Sad and I'm not raising no GRown ass Black men who 's effeminate! You can't take those behaviors out of you, that came from being raised by all Black women!

What's up with these weak and feminized black men
http://youtu.be/8N75zsql7rg

Again, its mostly Black men who are angry that there's so many Effeminate Black males that are abundant in the race!

Who wants a feminized man that whines, act childish, acts like a Baby Boy and is as weak as hell!

I'm sorry but I'm sick of Weak Black men that don't know what they're suppose to do as men! They feel their place in society is to live off women!

There's a lot of them and they don't do anything for the race except take it down!! They can't even see the effeminate ways in them and they think their men!

Its so damn sad!
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#13 Dec 8, 2013
Silverness wrote:
Black women that we don’t deserve those things and we should settle for less."
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This is good!
For everyone, not just black women. Very good.
Repost

MACEO

Well retirement is around the corner, YOU CAN WHINE LIKE A BYTCH EVEN MORE IN A FEW YEARS! LMAO

Reclusive INSULTATED Bytch!

I told you they stick pencils and pens up Black men's azz's in the Nursing home! lmao
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#16 Dec 11, 2013
Silverness wrote:
"I expect a man who is attractive to me, has good character, has an education, a good career, no criminal record, no band of baby mamas, and a wedding ring for me before I have his children. I will not listen to outsiders who try to convince me and other Black women that we don’t deserve those things and we should settle for less."
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This is good!
For everyone, not just black women. Very good.
MACEO

you submitted to white men!
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#17 Dec 11, 2013
zew wrote:
<ques! lmao
MACEO

This article is Sad but True! Even your women and children feel this way

Why I hate being a black man
Orville Lloyd Douglas
Saturday 9 November 2013 09.00 EST
comments (927)

We espouse 'black is beautiful', but the true image of blackness is ugly. If we confront our self-hatred, maybe we'll have real pride. Every time I sit on a crowded street car, bus, or subway train in Toronto, I know I will have an empty seat next to me. It's like a broken record.

I know I have good hygiene, I dress nice and I mind my own business. However, recently, I finally became cognizant of why people might fear being around me or in close proximity to me: I am a black male.

I didn't realize it until my sister said to me:

Orville, people are afraid of you. You are a six-foot tall black man with broad shoulders. My sister is right, people don't sit next to me on the street car, the subway or on the bus because they are afraid.

The issue of black self-hatred is something I am supposed to pretend does not exist. However, the great French psychiatrist non wrote about this issue in his groundbreaking book Black Skin White Masks, in a chapter called "the Lived Experience of the Black Man". According to Fanon, the black man is viewed in the third person, and he isn't seen as a three-dimensional human being. The black man internalizes the perspectives of white society and its negative thoughts about blackness affect his psyche.

There is also a fear by some black people that discussing the issue of self-hatred is a sign of weakness. There is a discourse that black people engender: that black is beautiful. But the truth is, the image of blackness is ugly – at least it's perceived that way. There is nothing special or wonderful about being a black male – it's a life of misery and shame.

The issue of black self-hatred is usually depicted from a female point of view. There are documentaries such as Dark Girls which aired on Oprah's OWN network earlier this year, in which black women discuss their feelings of self hatred for having dark skin which they claim derive from Black males. There are numerous books, articles, documentaries, and essays published by black female writers describing black self-hatred. Black women are not afraid to speak out; yet for some reason, black men are silent about our own contempt for what we are.

A lot of black men don't want to acknowledge the feelings of disgust we have for ourselves. It is considered emasculating to even admit it. I think my own self-hatred manifests from the exterior, from the outside world. It is born out of the despair and the unhappiness I see within a lot of young black men.

I can honestly say I hate being a black male. Although black people like to wax poetic about loving their label I hate "being black". I just don't fit into a neat category of the stereotypical views people have of black men. In popular culture black men are recognized in three areas: sports, crime, entertainment, not marrying, abandoning their kids. I hate rap music, I hate most sports, and I like listening to rock music such as PJ Harvey, Morrissey, and Tracy Chapman. I have nothing in common with the archetypes about the black male.

There is so much negativity and criminal suspicion associated with being a black male in Toronto and in the US. Yet, I don't have a criminal record, and I certainly don't associate with criminals. In fact, I abhor violence, and I resent being compared to young black males (or young people of any race) who are lazy, not disciplined, or delinquent. Usually, when black male youth are discussed in Toronto it is about something going wrong or there always doing wrong.

Honestly, who would want to be black? Who would want to have this dark skin, broad nose, large thick lips, and wake up in the morning being despised by the rest of the world?

continues
http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013...
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#18 Dec 11, 2013
Silverness wrote:
"I expect a man who is attractive to me, has good character, has an education, a good career, no criminal record, no band of baby mamas, and a wedding ring for me before I have his children. I will not listen to outsiders who try to convince me and other Black women that we don’t deserve those things and we should settle for less."
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This is good!
For everyone, not just black women. Very good.
MACEO

Are you gay now that your a SENIOR? LMAO Took you a long time to come out, but I guess when your impotent that's understanable!
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#19 Dec 11, 2013
Sadbuttrue wrote:
Blog:
Hypergamy on the Rise with Educated BW!
Well people who devalue Black women can go jump off a bridge because I won’t let them tell me I deserve less than non-Black women! I’m not going to “settle” for less if non-Black women don’t have to. I’m fully behind hypergamy or just marrying someone on your level. Personally for me, I’m not expecting someone to make more money than me, but I’m expecting someone better than what the mainstream or certain Black people expect for Black women. I expect a man who is attractive to me, has good character, has an education, a good career, no criminal record, no band of baby mamas, and a wedding ring for me before I have his children. I will not listen to outsiders who try to convince me and other Black women that we don’t deserve those things and we should settle for less.
On my blog I have written about ways that I have tried to improve myself because if you want to marry up then you have to be a high quality woman (I also wanted to improve myself because I just wanted to be the best I could be). To me that doesn’t mean a rich or upper class woman, it’s about being well-rounded, having useful skills, being attractive, having good manners, and having good character–being the ideal and highly desirable woman. I felt that I needed to improve in some areas so I did it. I think that many women can improve their qualities so that they can marry up too. Some men support hypergamy and some do not. Men who are of high quality and status often condone female hypergamy because they are able to attract the best women, so it benefits them. They seek out high paying careers, work out, dress well, and drive expensive cars because it makes them attractive to women and makes them look better than other men. Because these men are highly valued then they are able to date and marry highly valued women.
On the other hand, men who are of lower quality are opposed to female hypergamy.
They will try to convince women to put aside their desire for someone attractive, without a criminal record, with and education and career, without baby mamas, and the possibility of a marriage proposal. They want you to lower your standards and marry down. What’s interesting is that these men fully support male hypergamy–dating and marrying women who are way out of their league! These men have little to offer but they go after highly attractive and successful women and feel they deserve these women because they are supposedly “nice guys”. Many of these men are jaded because they have been passed over by high quality women due to their below average looks, character, communication skills, wealth, career, and other factors. Many of these men have joined groups to rant about how evil women are or groups focused on learning skills/tricks to get women to think they are of higher quality.
Black women focus on dating/marrying up and out! Don't let these Black males waste your time and convince you to date down or accept less; you see the results just look at Black women around you so accept low rung Black males who destroyed their lives.
I'm glad Balck women are moving on!
Dinie

Chantilly, VA

#20 Dec 11, 2013
Silverness wrote:
"I expect a man who is attractive to me, has good character, has an education, a good career, no criminal record, no band of baby mamas, and a wedding ring for me before I have his children. I will not listen to outsiders who try to convince me and other Black women that we don’t deserve those things and we should settle for less."
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This is good!
For everyone, not just black women. Very good.
MACEO

you submit to white men! LMAO
Blacks Are Worthless

Miami, FL

#21 Dec 11, 2013
You black gals better grab on to the first kneegro male that will stand still long enough to listen to your well rehearsed scam, good luck with that though because I heard a whole lot of your own black men are waking up to your vile schemes, lies, deception, chaos, drama & outright madness & they advising you to tell your stories walking.
SadButTrueHD

Chantilly, VA

#22 Dec 11, 2013
Blacks Are Worthless--MACEO wrote:
You black gals better grab on to the first kneegro male that will stand still long enough to listen to your well rehearsed scam, good luck with that though because I heard a whole lot of your own black men are waking up to your vile schemes, lies, deception, chaos, drama & outright madness & they advising you to tell your stories walking.
MACEO

You can use 1,000 profiles but its still you!
You still fit many of he stereotypes! All you did was chase WE ass and end up with nothing like most Black men do!

You look foolish!

Even your friends are still married to Black women while your Old, sick and alone with nobody in your life! lmao

-I don't want any Kids!
-A relationship is only about "The Man" not the woman!
-I don't help my White wife- she needs to do for me!
-We men can act like "Ho's there's no repercussions,but women are always seen as Ho's that no man wants
-Women need to be faithful and committed while we can chase ASS we are not held accountable as men!

Really?

Then what happened to your life and why didn't your White wife adhere to your rules?

Wasn't she the superior White Submissive wife that was far superior to Black women? LMAO

She wouldn't allow you to run to adultery, chase Ass, not take her anywhere and not help her with the business while you chase act irresponsible?

She didn't go for your demands?

That's interesting because you said WW were far superior and submissive allowing men to disrespect them! LMAO

Lets see, "Your Old, Sickly and alone now"? LMAO
SadButTrueHD

Chantilly, VA

#23 Dec 11, 2013
Blacks Are Worthless wrote:
You black gals better grab on to the first kneegro male that will stand still long enough to listen to your well rehearsed scam, good luck with that though because I heard a whole lot of your own black men are waking up to your vile schemes, lies, deception, chaos, drama & outright madness & they advising you to tell your stories walking.
MACEO

Are you still bitter? Its been 35 years and you still show no fruit! LMAO

You look foolish!

Even your friends are still married to Black women while your Old, sick and alone with nobody in your life! lmao

Your Rants on how White women are superior! They cater to their men!

You said:

-I don't want any Kids, its all about me!
-A relationship is only about "The Man" not the woman!
-I don't help my White wife, its not me! She needs to do for me!
-We men can act like "Ho's there's no repercussions,but men don't want BW Ho's we fuk them on the side and leave them with OOW babies!
-Women need to be faithful and committed while we can chase ASS we are not held accountable as men!
-I can do as I please, its a patriarch society, "Bow Down Bytches"

Really?

Then what happened to your life and why didn't your White wife adhere to your rules?

Wasn't she the superior White Submissive wife that was far superior to Black women? LMAO

She wouldn't allow you to run to adultery, not take her anywhere and not help her with the business while you chase WW Sluts in your office and act irresponsible?

Hummmmmmmmmmmmmmmm! I wonder what happened?

She didn't go for your demands?

That's interesting because you said WW were far superior and submissive allowing men to disrespect them while they look the other way! LMAO

Lets see, "Your Old, Sickly, broke and alone now"? LMAO
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#24 Dec 11, 2013
Taye Diggs and Idina Menzel have called it quits after 10 years of marriage, People confirms.

"Idina Menzel and Taye Diggs have jointly decided to separate at this time," reps for the couple tell People. "Their primary focus and concern is for their son. We ask that you respect their privacy during this time."

The pair, who met while co-starring in the original Broadway production of "Rent" in the mid 1990s, tied the knot on Jan. 2003. They welcomed their son, Walker, in 2009.

Diggs and Menzel, both 42, have been open about their marriage, with Menzel telling People earlier this year, "We work at it. I'm not going to glamorize it or glorify it -- we go through tough times like everybody else, but we love each other very much. We try not to be away from each other for more than two weeks at a time, and we try to find new ways to communicate."

Diggs also spoke about their relationship, admitting to Good Housekeeping that the best thing about being married is "having your best friend by your side constantly [and] knowing that someone has your back.
SadButTrue

Arlington, VA

#26 Dec 17, 2013
Silverness wrote:
"I expect a man who is attractive to me, has good character, has an education, a good career, no criminal record, no band of baby mamas, and a wedding ring for me before I have his children. I will not listen to outsiders who try to convince me and other Black women that we don’t deserve those things and we should settle for less."
----------
This is good!
For everyone, not just black women. Very good.
Maceo

We know your a loser!

Blog:

Hypergamy on the Rise with Educated BW!

Well people who devalue Black women can go jump off a bridge because I won’t let them tell me I deserve less than non-Black women! I’m not going to “settle” for less if non-Black women don’t have to. I’m fully behind hypergamy or just marrying someone on your level. Personally for me, I’m not expecting someone to make more money than me, but I’m expecting someone better than what the mainstream or certain Black people expect for Black women. I expect a man who is attractive to me, has good character, has an education, a good career, no criminal record, no band of baby mamas, and a wedding ring for me before I have his children. I will not listen to outsiders who try to convince me and other Black women that we don’t deserve those things and we should settle for less.

On my blog I have written about ways that I have tried to improve myself because if you want to marry up then you have to be a high quality woman (I also wanted to improve myself because I just wanted to be the best I could be). To me that doesn’t mean a rich or upper class woman, it’s about being well-rounded, having useful skills, being attractive, having good manners, and having good character–being the ideal and highly desirable woman. I felt that I needed to improve in some areas so I did it. I think that many women can improve their qualities so that they can marry up too. Some men support hypergamy and some do not. Men who are of high quality and status often condone female hypergamy because they are able to attract the best women, so it benefits them. They seek out high paying careers, work out, dress well, and drive expensive cars because it makes them attractive to women and makes them look better than other men. Because these men are highly valued then they are able to date and marry highly valued women.
On the other hand, men who are of lower quality are opposed to female hypergamy.

They will try to convince women to put aside their desire for someone attractive, without a criminal record, with and education and career, without baby mamas, and the possibility of a marriage proposal. They want you to lower your standards and marry down. What’s interesting is that these men fully support male hypergamy–dating and marrying women who are way out of their league! These men have little to offer but they go after highly attractive and successful women and feel they deserve these women because they are supposedly “nice guys”. Many of these men are jaded because they have been passed over by high quality women due to their below average looks, character, communication skills, wealth, career, and other factors. Many of these men have joined groups to rant about how evil women are or groups focused on learning skills/tricks to get women to think they are of higher quality.

Black women focus on dating/marrying up and out! Don't let these Black males waste your time and convince you to date down or accept less; you see the results just look at Black women around you so accept low rung Black males who destroyed their lives.

Focus on education, focus on Improving your life, focus on helping other Black women to do the same and stop accepting less than in men!
Sadbuttrue

Arlington, VA

#29 Dec 20, 2013
Silverness wrote:
"I expect a man who is attractive to me, has good character, has an education, a good career, no criminal record, no band of baby mamas, and a wedding ring for me before I have his children. I will not listen to outsiders who try to convince me and other Black women that we don’t deserve those things and we should settle for less."
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This is good!
For everyone, not just black women. Very good.
Maceo

I can't worry about 16.6m WW who are single!

I never said White males were perfect just an option. Your the one that worships White women and put them on a pedestal.while saying Black women don't deserve anything except to tbe Fuk'd, used and left with OOW babies and no marriage .

Black men seem to live this way as a lifestyle! I can't afford to position or waste my time with Black males who say their going to "use me, mistreat me because I'm attractive and that I only deserved to be fuk'd because I'm black, single and made a life for myself

I feel like my GF's, since I'm somewhat attractive, why shouldn't I date/marry outside the race and find the best man for me? My GF's have been successful in securing financially stable White males who do well and they get treated with love, respect and they live well!

Why can't I find the same?.

That's my goal for 2014, i want a loving relationship, I'm sick of Black males who want to use, abuse or live off men and don't know how to respect women!

I haven't put any effort into meeting anybody....just here and there 1 dates occasionally i wasn't ready but now I'm ready for love with a quality man.

I don't believe that I can find this in a Black man plus many are not financially stable as well as I have no Faith in them based on what I see collectively since time is of the essence, I'm not a young woman!

I would like to travel and find a loving relationship and hopefully I will with the right White man!

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