White Folks Speak Out

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#275 Apr 10, 2013
Spotted Girl wrote:
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Because filthy people do it a lot but it is not in the Bible. I never knew how people ever thought it was good or right. It is a pagan practice people do that is not endorsed anywhere in Scripture.
You obviously didn't read what I replied to. That part was a direct answer to:
"and nowhere in the bible does it say that a woman is equal to a man at any level!"
See? Just as nowhere in the Bible does it say that a woman is equal to a man (something that a woman would want the Bible to say), also nowhere in the Bible is oral sex commanded or instructed. It is a reasonable mental leap that ANY reasonable adult would make.
To me, that is JUST another topic and means nothing to me and is JUST as valid as all others to discuss. When you have a pure heart, all things are lawful. Paul said that. I won't judge, but I will make the educated guess that those trying to use what I said there against me don't have a clear conscience.
An intelligent person will likely not quote a post unless they have something to say that is related to what was said there. So you should have read what I quoted and asked yourself how what I said related to his post. That is something you could have done on your own, exercising your own inner power and preventing you from needing to bother others. Knowledge is power.
http://skepticsannotatedbible.com/says_about/...

Nowhere in the bible does it forbid oral sex, you considering it filthy and the fact you call yourself "asexual" makes me question your upbringing. Maybe you were traumatized at some point and now view sex as "filthy".
Loulou

Copenhagen, Denmark

#276 Apr 10, 2013
No spotted girl I don't hate women ( or men ). I don't want prostitutes to criminalized ( I want the pimps to be criminalized ). Prostitution has been here since the beginning and will be here till the end. I'm a realist. I want the women to be protected by law. Abortion is not murder if it's legal. I'm no believer in God, Jesus or ( the little fat guy they call Buddah ). But if we have religious freedom I don't care what they believe in -as long as it's not contradicting the laws of the country . And they leave me alone. People can be a pastor,a pornstar or a abortiondoctor if it's not against the law of the country. They can pray or take it to the anal. Or has the laws changed overnight? Lol
Loulou

Copenhagen, Denmark

#277 Apr 10, 2013
You cannot stop prostitution by law or abortion. History has shown that. So if we make laws against prostitution it will stop Lol?
No it will not. It will be moved away to places where the women will risk thier lives. And why stigmatize those women. After all quite a few men ( including pastors ) enjoy thier services at night. Abortions must be safe for women. If it becomes illegal they're gonna die some of them from sepsis. Etc. And let's now make the homosexuals members of society by allowing marriage. It's not gonna go away! And let oralsex be People's own business.

“Democraps are stupid.”

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#278 Apr 10, 2013
Phoenix wrote:
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Ma'am, there are educated professional black men and black women out here.
Let go of stereotypes.
stereotypes = The truth about blacks.

“IT IS WHAT IT IS, PPL”

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Since: Sep 12

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#279 Apr 10, 2013
Sam I am wrote:
well there's no doubt you jigs can breed faster then us. You don't survive as long as the white man this is good and not a problem. You blue gums have an infatuation with killing your own blood, Also a good thing. Myself and others just sit back and enjoy the show. It's an everyday occurrence. Black on black crime. As far as taking over , you can have the trashed out ghettos and the filthy streets of the big cities. Who other than a bunch of mindless baboons would want those places anyway.
So speaking on behalf of the white race , continue to live and breed in your own filth.
Regardless of what the black race is offered , it's never enough. You continue to pull that " poor black me " card.
The white race continues to enjoy comfortable live because , with the exception of a few , we get up and go to work, we pay our bills and teach our children right.
So kiss my white ass you biscuit lip cockroach, you'll never take what I've worked for.
Your own Govt is already in the process of taking your personal property/accumulated wealths..your wealth is only worth what the Govt deems! LMAO..this plan has been in the works since your forefathers sold their soul and your soul in 1912-13 when the Federal Reserve Act was implemented which is NOT even a part of your Federal Govt
HAHAHA!! America is broke..r u planning to accept your mark of the beast yet or die patriotically? LMMAO
A-Chaos

San Francisco, CA

#280 Apr 10, 2013
Spotted Girl wrote:
I apologize for hijacking several threads. Part of me wants to learn and reconcile the races. But WP have not held BP accountable for all these years. We have bent over backwards, hid our true feelings, and let BP set up a parallel culture with different rules from the ones we live by. If we don't, then the liberals among us crucify us for being normal and human.
I support equality for all, but I oppose interracial sex for the most part. I am more forgiving of WM with BW than the other way around, but all in all, I realize it is all legal and it comes down with what makes people happy. It is not for me, and I am sick of others trying to force it on me, but those who want to do it can do it for all I care. If you want to do it, fine, just not with me.
All I am after is the right to hold and practice my traditional White values and to be left alone to do so. I only want the right to live as an asexual person (born without a sex drive nor capacity for romantic interest) without being challenged or approached for sex. I would love for people outside my friends, family, culture, and race to just ignore me and let me live in my own world, and let me sink or swim on my own. Is that too much to ask?
I'd love to be in an area where I don't have to look at every other White woman in the arms of a Black man. It isn't that I begrudge them of love. But they lower the bar for me and create an expectation in society that causes BM to regard me as rubbish and thus approach me for what I lack the capacity to appreciate nor enjoy. When BM with WW is accepted, BM assume that EVERY WW want it. The same goes for prostitution. If that is tolerated AT ALL in an area, then men have an increased appetite for it and believe EVERY woman is a wh*re. So others' choice of partners and what they allow in their lives affects everyone.
Hopefully we can move the conversations in at least 3 other threads to hear (and keep those other threads for their intended topics).
Your just a troll, probably a hater bw or thug OG maybe just a regular jerk ..but a troll non-the-less..playing mind games

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Spotted World

#281 Apr 10, 2013
Hedon wrote:
"So, are certain people here too filthy and sexually-saturated to discuss sexuality from an abstract, impersonal, scholarly, intellectual angle without thinking sexual thoughts? I am capable of discussing it as a neutral topic like math or science. So why can't EVERY person here? Or are you repressed" and BLAH BLAH ect...
How do you know what EVERY person is capable of or not when it comes to discussion? Maybe...... people don't want to discuss the topic with you in a mature manner because you seem to be narrow minded about sex. Who's repressed? Are you? People often accuse others of the things they think they are deep down inside. I wouldn't raise my hand first to discuss sex/sexuality with someone who believes oral sex is filthy & has no sexual desire. And how can one NOT have sexual thoughts about the topic of sexuality? It's not abnormal. Have you considered the idea that you might have a health problem? Seriously?
I was asking of course, though some people don't know what a question mark means. But how do you know if I really think oral sex was filthy or if I was merely saying that to make a point for ONLY THAT MOMENT? Each time they accuse me falsely of being obsessed, I will call it filthy. If they don't want that, then they will stop trying to accuse me of being obsessed with sex with I merely use it as a PASSING comment to bolster a point that has nothing to do with it. I never discuss other people, just ideas, and I make up "personal examples" to use merely as examples to bolster the main ideas.(And I never give real information about myself to make sure nobody can discuss me, since I am not the topic. Everything you think is about me is merely said in passing to make a point - it is not the point itself but supports one.)

I don't care whether anyone wants to discuss it with me. I'm here to teach, share, and vent, not really to discuss. I have a right to mention things using this topic from a dispassionate point of view without others making ANY conclusions about me. Remember when discussing with me, nothing I say is ever about me, but ALWAYS about ONLY ideas.

But it is true. I have no desires of this sort and am capable of discussing them. It is normal to be able to do this. Then again, do you desire to have sex with children each time you discuss them? Or are you like the millions of others who can discuss children without desiring to have sex with them? Have you ever discussed the KKK without becoming a member? Have you discussed the police without wanting to be a cop. Everyone who bashes the cops are really a cop or want to be one, right? And everyone who speaks against child molesters must secretly be one, right?

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Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#282 Apr 10, 2013
A-Chaos wrote:
<quoted text>Your just a troll, probably a hater bw or thug OG maybe just a regular jerk ..but a troll non-the-less..playing mind games
I am not a troll nor a hater. This is my only ID. I am only here to discuss ideas and concepts, never people. If it makes you feel better thinking I am a troll, then go right ahead. I don't play mind games, since that requires relating to people. I discuss only ideas, and I will do whatever it takes to make sure people discuss the ideas I bring up without discussing me.

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Level 8

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Spotted World

#283 Apr 10, 2013
Matthew_1 wrote:
<quoted text>
http://skepticsannotatedbible.com/says_about/...
Nowhere in the bible does it forbid oral sex, you considering it filthy and the fact you call yourself "asexual" makes me question your upbringing. Maybe you were traumatized at some point and now view sex as "filthy".
It doesn't command, promote, nor instruct oral sex either. Nor does it ban equality for women (the only point I was making - all the rest I said was to support that point - EQUALITY). Nor does it ban woman from having the right to live alone, provide for themselves, and never be abused by strangers violating her space and trying to force her to have sex with them. There are a lot of things the Bible doesn't support nor ban, and that is the whole point. I don't know why several hijacked this thread with religion anyway. I can't control nor stop that, since I don't own the forum, but there are many of other threads started to discuss religion. Lets not use religion is used as a sword to attack bystanders.

I never said that I view actual sex as filthy. It is the obsession and lust that is filthy. I deliberately said it the way I did to empathize with the persons calling me obsessed, to let them think I feel as they do so they will leave me alone. I called it filthy to make a point and to shake the trolls, but I didn't way what I believed about it, since my beliefs are totally private and only shared with my closest platonic friends.

Again, I am not capable of being traumatized. People can do something to you, but that doesn't make you traumatized unless you let it. I pointed out the difference between being victimized and being a victim before. Nobody can stop being victimized, and it isn't their fault. But you don't have to own the identity of a victim. There are people who were never seriously wronged who wear that label too.

Maybe you were gang-raped by gay men as a child, and that is why you don't let men sodomize you? Maybe that is why you think women should be sexually harassed, to cover the fact that you have raging desires to be dominated by other men? See how this works? I don't believe any of that about you, so you have no right to make ANY assumptions nor accusations about me.

Are ALL men alike? When encountering a woman who has DIFFERENT, more mature views than your own, must you tear them down and discount their virtue by accusing them of being abused? Maybe I wasn't really calling any types of "sex" filthy but merely rebutting the accusation I am obsessed with it. Imagine that.(Remember, when in doubt as to why someone says something, check what they quoted - it could be an answer to only that and not their own personal beliefs about anything, nor intended to be general nor address anything else.) Each time a person calls you obsessed with something, one good response is to attack whatever you are accused of (but not mean it). It is important to give off whatever image it takes to get others to leave you alone. Anything less than vigorous self-defense is weakness, and that is one thing I am not. I just hate being called on to use any strength, and I don't like seeing it in others. I prefer a power-neutral life of solitude or with passive friends who act as equals and within a power-neutral construct. I don't go around looking for weak people to take care of, and I expect not to be regarded that way either.

“The Spotted Girl News Network”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#284 Apr 10, 2013
EBT Blackman wrote:
<quoted text>
From patriarchy to fellatio.
You're good.
Nope, from one lack of commands to another lack of commands. If something women wants (equality and independence) are not supported in the Bible and should be banned for that basis, then something that men wants (nearly always something sexual) is not supported by Scripture either and should be banned on that basis.

So in short, keep the Bible out of it and don't use it as an excuse to objectify women or to treat them as inferiors.

“The Spotted Girl News Network”

Level 8

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Spotted World

#285 Apr 10, 2013
Matthew_1 wrote:
<quoted text>
http://skepticsannotatedbible.com/says_about/...
Nowhere in the bible does it forbid oral sex, you considering it filthy and the fact you call yourself "asexual" makes me question your upbringing. Maybe you were traumatized at some point and now view sex as "filthy".
Parody time:

Nowhere in the Bible does it forbid equality for women, you considering it filthy and the fact you call yourself "Christian" makes me question your upbringing. Maybe you were traumatized at some point and now view women's equality as "filthy".
Phoenix

Humble, TX

#286 Apr 10, 2013
Matthew_1 wrote:
<quoted text> http://skepticsannotatedbible.com/says_about/...

Nowhere in the bible does it forbid oral sex, you considering it filthy and the fact you call yourself "asexual" makes me question your upbringing. Maybe you were traumatized at some point and now view sex as "filthy".
Are you a Christian?
Phoenix

Humble, TX

#287 Apr 10, 2013
Raptors Revenge wrote:
<quoted text>stereotypes = The truth about blacks.
Sir, that's not true.
Phoenix

Humble, TX

#288 Apr 10, 2013
Hedon wrote:
"So, are certain people here too filthy and sexually-saturated to discuss sexuality from an abstract, impersonal, scholarly, intellectual angle without thinking sexual thoughts? I am capable of discussing it as a neutral topic like math or science. So why can't EVERY person here? Or are you repressed" and BLAH BLAH ect...

How do you know what EVERY person is capable of or not when it comes to discussion? Maybe...... people don't want to discuss the topic with you in a mature manner because you seem to be narrow minded about sex. Who's repressed? Are you? People often accuse others of the things they think they are deep down inside. I wouldn't raise my hand first to discuss sex/sexuality with someone who believes oral sex is filthy & has no sexual desire. And how can one NOT have sexual thoughts about the topic of sexuality? It's not abnormal. Have you considered the idea that you might have a health problem? Seriously?
People who have issues view sex as dirty and repulsive.

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Since: Apr 12

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#289 Apr 10, 2013
Spotted Girl wrote:
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Also, most of it happens when I am on a bicycle. I shouldn't have to change my life for others. White women can drive cars and not be bothered, so why should I be seen as "asking for it" because of what I drive?
So what do these guys do to you when you are on your bike? How often does it happen? I'm just curious. Can you describe a recent situation that you can remember?

You're not the first white woman I have heard complain about black men approaching them like that while they were doing day-to-day kind of stuff. I remember one of my friends who is married and was married at the time had this happen to her by an employee of a store she just shopped at. I was there at their house when she came back. She wanted to call the store and complain and I think her husband did that.

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Spotted World

#290 Apr 10, 2013
Phoenix wrote:
<quoted text>
People who have issues view sex as dirty and repulsive.
Precisely, and I personally don't view it that way.

I don't discuss my own real views here, since this is ONLY an online forum and nobody online has the right to know me nor know about the real me. I merely "SAID" (not thought, not believed) it because the trolls accused me of being obsessed with it. That was deliberate and said just for that post and for a specific reason. When you are being attacked, it is good strategy to attack their weapon. So the "filthy" comment was only said to those attacking and to nobody else (just in front of everyone else).
Challenge

United States

#291 Apr 10, 2013
Being approached aggressively by men happens often, Spot. It's in a man's nature to hunt. Just express to them that you're not interested. Over and over again if need be. In serious situations with stalkers, get restraining orders. Cmon...you know these things. Your messages here are verbose so why would you have difficulty expressing yourself in real life situations? Are you trying to paint a picture of an irresistible women fighting off hundreds of men daily? It just looks like you're trying too hard to get attention.

"But it is true. I have no desires of this sort and am capable of discussing them. It is normal to be able to do this. Then again, do you desire to have sex with children each time you discuss them? Or are you like the millions of others who can discuss children without desiring to have sex with them? Have you ever discussed the KKK without becoming a member? Have you discussed the police without wanting to be a cop. Everyone who bashes the cops are really a cop or want to be one, right? And everyone who speaks against child molesters must secretly be one, right?"

What the?! Sorry to burst your bubble, but I do not desire to have sex with children at all. Nor do I desire to join the KKK or fukc the police. I was talking about oral sex, how you called it filthy and how I think it's normal and alllriiiight :-) unlike child molestation, the KKK or corrupt cops. Spot, you're trailing off..

“Reality is merely an illusion”

Level 7

Since: Apr 12

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#292 Apr 10, 2013
Phoenix wrote:
<quoted text>
Are you a Christian?
Yea, whats its to you?

“Reality is merely an illusion”

Level 7

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#293 Apr 10, 2013
Spotted Girl wrote:
<quoted text>
Parody time:
Nowhere in the Bible does it forbid equality for women, you considering it filthy and the fact you call yourself "Christian" makes me question your upbringing. Maybe you were traumatized at some point and now view women's equality as "filthy".
That didn't make sense, you seem to be getting quite defensive when I'm just trying to help you.

“Reality is merely an illusion”

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#294 Apr 10, 2013
Spotted Girl wrote:
<quoted text>
It doesn't command, promote, nor instruct oral sex either. Nor does it ban equality for women (the only point I was making - all the rest I said was to support that point - EQUALITY). Nor does it ban woman from having the right to live alone, provide for themselves, and never be abused by strangers violating her space and trying to force her to have sex with them. There are a lot of things the Bible doesn't support nor ban, and that is the whole point. I don't know why several hijacked this thread with religion anyway. I can't control nor stop that, since I don't own the forum, but there are many of other threads started to discuss religion. Lets not use religion is used as a sword to attack bystanders.
I never said that I view actual sex as filthy. It is the obsession and lust that is filthy. I deliberately said it the way I did to empathize with the persons calling me obsessed, to let them think I feel as they do so they will leave me alone. I called it filthy to make a point and to shake the trolls, but I didn't way what I believed about it, since my beliefs are totally private and only shared with my closest platonic friends.
Again, I am not capable of being traumatized. People can do something to you, but that doesn't make you traumatized unless you let it. I pointed out the difference between being victimized and being a victim before. Nobody can stop being victimized, and it isn't their fault. But you don't have to own the identity of a victim. There are people who were never seriously wronged who wear that label too.
Maybe you were gang-raped by gay men as a child, and that is why you don't let men sodomize you? Maybe that is why you think women should be sexually harassed, to cover the fact that you have raging desires to be dominated by other men? See how this works? I don't believe any of that about you, so you have no right to make ANY assumptions nor accusations about me.
Are ALL men alike? When encountering a woman who has DIFFERENT, more mature views than your own, must you tear them down and discount their virtue by accusing them of being abused? Maybe I wasn't really calling any types of "sex" filthy but merely rebutting the accusation I am obsessed with it. Imagine that.(Remember, when in doubt as to why someone says something, check what they quoted - it could be an answer to only that and not their own personal beliefs about anything, nor intended to be general nor address anything else.) Each time a person calls you obsessed with something, one good response is to attack whatever you are accused of (but not mean it). It is important to give off whatever image it takes to get others to leave you alone. Anything less than vigorous self-defense is weakness, and that is one thing I am not. I just hate being called on to use any strength, and I don't like seeing it in others. I prefer a power-neutral life of solitude or with passive friends who act as equals and within a power-neutral construct. I don't go around looking for weak people to take care of, and I expect not to be regarded that way either.
"People cant be traumatized unless you let it". I'm not sure who taught you that but thats completely 100% false. Example, soldiers coming back from Iraq with PTSD. Not even going to respond to the rest of your psycho babble.

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