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what is the first thing you notice in a man or woman?

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ThisGirl

Leonardtown, MD

#1 Feb 1, 2013
for me it's smile or eyes

AgentSmith9

“The Sun was high...”

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Since: Jun 10

and so was I

#3 Feb 1, 2013
For me, the woman can't be incredibly petty. For instance hanging out on internet forums of other races and trying to give relationship advice and push ir..

That's so stupid.
ThisGirl

Leonardtown, MD

#4 Feb 1, 2013
LAcreole wrote:
For me, it's the hair. I love a guy with nice hair.
Hair always comes second for me

“Booyah!”

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Since: Jun 09

Laramie, WY

#5 Feb 1, 2013
On a woman it would be....

1) eyes
2) body/figure
3) smile
4) her sense of style
5) how she carries herself (confident?....shy??)

“Booyah!”

Level 5

Since: Jun 09

Laramie, WY

#10 Feb 1, 2013
LAcreole wrote:
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Nice criteria there Romper.
So , you ladies are checkin' our hair now?

That's good to know.

I like to stay on top of these things , and look as FLY as I possibly can.

LAcreole
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Since: Jun 12

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#11 Feb 1, 2013
ROMPER STOMPER wrote:
<quoted text> So , you ladies are checkin' our hair now?
That's good to know.
I like to stay on top of these things , and look as FLY as I possibly can.
I take it that you're a pretty boy? Lol. Yes we even like a guy's hair, well I do. I was just checking out this guy's hair at the store and didn't realize it until fiance told me. It compliments the guy. Of course how he carries himself too.
Cap Black

Huntsville, AL

#12 Feb 1, 2013

“Gods operate on the spiritual”

Since: Jul 09

devils operate on the physical

#13 Feb 1, 2013
Valerie Rae wrote:
The first thing, I notice about a man is how he carries himself and dresses, his swagger. Then, his smile and eyes. I love a well-dressed man.

The sexist men walked with a confidence that says, "I got this...all night if necessary."

Also, I love the sound of a Black man's voice...so rich, inviting and sexy When I'm talking to a man on the phone, I love to close my eyes and just soak it all in. It turns me on...especially when he's close to my ear talking dirty between the sheets.

And if he is intelligent, I just can't get enough of him...I become insatiable. Once is NEVER enough.
I second that

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#14 Feb 1, 2013
Eyes. They give away a lot....good and bad.
Frank

Lockhart, TX

#15 Feb 1, 2013
His crotch.
Frank

Clarkston, MI

#16 Feb 1, 2013
Frank wrote:
His crotch.
Somebody calling themselves "Frank" keeps claiming to be "gay" and making OUTRAGEOUS STATEMENTS.

If someone calling themselves "Frank" claims to be "gay", know that it isn't ME.

My ISP address always says, "Detroit, MI.

If it doesn't say "Detroit, MI", then it isn't me.
Frank

Clarkston, MI

#17 Feb 1, 2013
Frank wrote:
His crotch.
Can't out debate me, so you resort to MASQUERADING as me in an effort to DISCREDIT ME, eh f*ggot????

You're a SORRY ASS, NO GOOD, INFERIOR, SECOND RATE, BITCH, just like YOUR MOTHER!!!!!!

She must've GANGBANGED EVERY MENTAL PATIENT at the STATE HOSPITAL to give birth to YOUR worthless ass!!!!
ThisGirl

Leonardtown, MD

#19 Feb 2, 2013
DerekJ wrote:
Eyes. They give away a lot....good and bad.
Yes! That usually indicates whether or not I might want to talk to a guy or not.
Truthism

United States

#20 Feb 2, 2013
ThisGirl wrote:
for me it's smile or eyes
Without talking first? Like just walking down the street?

Her eyes first, then the rest of her face together with the eyes in proportion; her hair after that; then the shape of her lower body below her neck after that.

I prefer a nice toned, healthy (eats organic, exercises), in-shape woman... if nitpicking here. ;)

“Booyah!”

Level 5

Since: Jun 09

Laramie, WY

#21 Feb 2, 2013
LAcreole wrote:
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I take it that you're a pretty boy? Lol. Yes we even like a guy's hair, well I do. I was just checking out this guy's hair at the store and didn't realize it until fiance told me. It compliments the guy. Of course how he carries himself too.
LOL. Are you implying that I am some kind of "metrosexual"?

My answer to that is no.....make that HELL NO!!

SMH lol. A guy can't even try to look good these days without being called the dreaded "M" word.
LAcreole

Salt Lake City, UT

#22 Feb 2, 2013
ROMPER STOMPER wrote:
<quoted text>LOL. Are you implying that I am some kind of "metrosexual"?
My answer to that is no.....make that HELL NO!!
SMH lol. A guy can't even try to look good these days without being called the dreaded "M" word.
No I was just asking lol. And there's nothing wrong with metrosexual guys even if you were that.

Since: May 12

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#23 Feb 2, 2013
AgentSmith9 wrote:
For me, the woman can't be incredibly petty. For instance hanging out on internet forums of other races and trying to give relationship advice and push ir..
That's so stupid.
Please can I....
ThisGirl

United States

#24 Feb 2, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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Please can I....
go ahead

“Sexy & Independent”

Since: Dec 12

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#25 Feb 2, 2013
His height (hopefully 6'2 or above) and his smile (teeth).
Tom Foolery

Glasgow, UK

#26 Feb 2, 2013
ThisGirl wrote:
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go ahead
The list of things is endless, and my final request is that he and I be buried together in the same grave when we're dead.

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