As a married bw who lives in a upper class community with 60% white, 40% black, all the black people in my community are married to black spouses. While IR marriages/relationships do exist, I see them but they aren't quite as common as you're relaying, somehow your eyes have only focused on the black/white combination so I've gotta tell ya to take the blinders off cause it's not the case. Also you made a lot of comparisons to what black male celebrities do in which I agree with you but that's not your everyday couple.<quoted text>
I'm not trying to start something here, but subliminally, YOU ARE BLAMING THE WOMAN!!!! Instead of looking at yourself in how you treat women, you want to take an easy route and blame women for their problems. That's a punk ass way out, and that's being sexist. You black men need to learn how to treat black women and learn how to treat them better. I'm through with ya'll and no I'm not interested in IR either because I don't want them, and they want to preserve their race, but black men tried to wipe out their own race because you guys don't like yourselves or anything that reflects. I've rather stay single and live my life than to deal with black men who treat black women like they're less than human. IF you are going to keep blaming women, then get out of my thread. I don't need the drama.
Now you've got to look in the mirror & start asking yourself some serious questions. Are you a babymama with 2 or more bastard children, cause marriage-minded men will pass over you every time, in their eyes you'll never be more than their fuckbuddy cause they feel you are "tainted". And how well do you carry yourself? Are you all ghetto-fide, weave wearing, breast & ass hanging out looking like a common trollop, huge hoop earrings down to your shoulders, are ya loud, vulgar, are your friends lowlife Cause there's a reason why you keep attracting the same low class men. Where do you meet them, in a bar/club, that's a no win situation right there. You say you're dark, well how dark, blue-black? Are you fat & sloppy? Do you work, is it a menial job & you're dating menial men from there?
Do you go to church & church functions, I've known a few who've meet that way & married. Flip the script, before you blame all black men check yourself out, you've got some real soul searching to do.