I don't think he is letting the BM off the hook. Matter of fact I can almost guarantee that most BM agree that there are some pretty f'ked up BM on this planet. The problem we Black Men have on here is the generalization that "all BM hate all BW" and there's "no good Black Men" when that's just the opposite.<quoted text>
Yaaaaawn, here we go again. Let's blame the woman while the man go free. Yeah, I get it.
I feel bad for you but you have to own up your part in your situation