Black Women do you think I'm atractive?

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Dirty Jerz

#46 Oct 9, 2013
sassyntrashy wrote:
Your really decent looking but us girls focus on more than looks.
Like what $$$.
Correction:
Like What???

APV

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#47 Oct 9, 2013
TallDarkNdNegro wrote:
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Like what $$$.
Correction:
Like What???
In no particular order...

Personality
Life Goals (career, family, etc.)
Common Interest
Hygiene
Ability to make us laugh/feel comfortable

To name a few. Have you tried BPM website as you'll get better results than opening yourself up to the trolls to mock your looks?

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#48 Oct 9, 2013
TallDarkNdNegro wrote:
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Like what $$$.
Correction:
Like What???
Strength, intelligence, and great leadership skills. I don't like scrubs.

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#49 Oct 9, 2013
I think you look handsome.

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Dirty Jerz

#50 Oct 9, 2013
APV wrote:
<quoted text>In no particular order...

Personality
Life Goals (career, family, etc.)
Common Interest
Hygiene
Ability to make us laugh/feel comfortable

To name a few. Have you tried BPM website as you'll get better results than opening yourself up to the trolls to mock your looks?
Thanks.
But the hardest and most non-sensical one by far is the "ability to make you laugh" thing. I know guys who get away with murder is they can make a girl laugh. My humor is very plain.:-( lol

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#51 Oct 9, 2013
sassyntrashy wrote:
<quoted text>Strength, intelligence, and great leadership skills. I don't like scrubs.
Me neither. They make us look bad as a community. Oh an those pigeons too.

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Dirty Jerz

#52 Oct 9, 2013
sassyntrashy wrote:
<quoted text>Strength, intelligence, and great leadership skills. I don't like scrubs.
Did you see those crazy black guys beat that poor asian guy up, the one with his family in New York? It came on today while I was in laundromat. I was so embarrassed. What do you think of that?

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#53 Oct 9, 2013
PinkPearl wrote:
I think you look handsome.
Thanks a lot.:-)

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#54 Oct 9, 2013
TallDarkNdNegro wrote:
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Thanks.
But the hardest and most non-sensical one by far is the "ability to make you laugh" thing. I know guys who get away with murder is they can make a girl laugh. My humor is very plain.:-( lol
The first thing that attracts me to a guy is his smile and eyes then his body. A guy with a sense of humor gets points cause who wants someone that's serious all the time??

You gotta work on being witty if you want to break the ice with women.

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#56 Oct 10, 2013
BLACKBOLT08 wrote:
Sounds like the poster is a bit insecure about his masculinity.
Really? what about my post says that?

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Dirty Jerz

#57 Oct 10, 2013
APV wrote:
<quoted text>The first thing that attracts me to a guy is his smile and eyes then his body. A guy with a sense of humor gets points cause who wants someone that's serious all the time??

You gotta work on being witty if you want to break the ice with women.
Yes I've heard all of these things b4. But l if I have to go through all of that just to get their attention then honestly women in general may not be worth it.
It's sort of like a single fat girl. A man couldn't get away w/telling her she must first loose weight before she can become desirable. You would call him a jerk. But it's ok for a woman to tell a man "oh your not witty enough. Become less serious and then get back to me." "Then you will be acceptable."

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#58 Oct 10, 2013
TallDarkNdNegro wrote:
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Did you see those crazy black guys beat that poor asian guy up, the one with his family in New York? It came on today while I was in laundromat. I was so embarrassed. What do you think of that?
I also found it embarrassing and I hate that our people are known for attacking Asians. All the Asians have done is took advantage of an opportunity that was given to them.

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Dirty Jerz

#59 Oct 10, 2013
sassyntrashy wrote:
<quoted text>I also found it embarrassing and I hate that our people are known for attacking Asians. All the Asians have done is took advantage of an opportunity that was given to them.
Absolutely right. And blacks wonder why people hate to see us coming. Many times I wish i wasn't black because it seems like (I say this HUMBLY) people who think like us are in the minority.

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#60 Oct 10, 2013
TallDarkNdNegro wrote:
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Because I can't get a nice sista to pay me any attention. I'm not short or anything so I just needed to find out what the deal was.
bro I'm going to speak from experience. I'm not going to generalize(to much of that on topix) but just tell you what I think the problem may be. Some women have no problem saying to a guy "you're TOO nice" or "you're not edgy enough" or my personal favorite "you're not a challenge I need a man that keeps me on my toes" now this thinking gets old after a few years and a few trips to the pen to take the kids to visit "thay daddy" and then when all that edginess is no longer attractive guess who they now want? They now want you. And a lot of times at that point, you no longer want them, especially after every baller and hustler in the neighborhood has been with them (again this is MY experience yours may be different) now you represent stability, good job clean record etc... And the unattainable women are now very attainable. I went thru the exact same thing. Never dealt drugs, worked hard all my life, didn't do a lot of clubbing, and had NO shot at the unattainable sisters in the neighborhood but as the herd thins your stock will skyrocket. Just try to be patient if you can.

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#61 Oct 10, 2013
sassyntrashy wrote:
<quoted text>I also found it embarrassing and I hate that our people are known for attacking Asians. All the Asians have done is took advantage of an opportunity that was given to them.
Lots of time it wasn't even given to them but earned by 20 Asians living in one house in order to save the money for a restaurant or by working twice as hard in college to earn their degrees.

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#62 Oct 10, 2013
TallDarkNdNegro wrote:
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Yes I've heard all of these things b4. But l if I have to go through all of that just to get their attention then honestly women in general may not be worth it.
It's sort of like a single fat girl. A man couldn't get away w/telling her she must first loose weight before she can become desirable. You would call him a jerk. But it's ok for a woman to tell a man "oh your not witty enough. Become less serious and then get back to me." "Then you will be acceptable."
Of course men can and HAVE done that. Women's looks are critiqued all the time.

You created a thread to ask the women (I'm assuming) if you're attractive enough to date and all I'm saying is that looks are only part of the appeal. I would have a first date over a cup of coffee and by the time I finish drinking it if you haven't peaked my interest that will be the last date we have. I'm just going by my personal preferences. It's not that serious.

;o)

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#63 Oct 10, 2013
TallDarkNdNegro wrote:
Would you date me?
From man to man, work on that grammar first, my n!**a.

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#64 Oct 10, 2013
Capree wrote:
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A pretty one.
LIES! You mean a WHITE ONE..!

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#65 Oct 10, 2013
ahahahah wrote:
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look by yourself
http://s106.photobucket.com/user/gypsybond/me...
Looks like someone dressed as a "battered wife" for Halloween.

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#66 Oct 10, 2013
sassyntrashy wrote:
Your really decent looking but us girls focus on more than looks.
Maybe a little more, but not that much...

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