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#146 Nov 16, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
<quoted text>Is the same true for black men? Only defend the black women that defend us?
That would never happen because black men are on their own team.
Black men are only looking out for themselves in a selfish way.
If black men really care and was on black women team aslo. Most of the negativity
would not exist.

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but <3'in sum1 tks courage.

#147 Nov 16, 2013
MszNubian wrote:
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Well it seems like black men do not care, so why should I? Black men are the ones dating out more, maybe u should tell them that.
We both aren't denying that we are unhappy with what we are getting in return Ms. That's why we date out. Firstly I feel we have too many folks thinking the grass is greener on the other side.

Too many folks, that get tired of their old toy (wardrobe) and want something "new", just because it's new.

The other problem is we have too many that can't follow, and don't want to be leaders setting good examples. The Dwyane Wades and Gabreille Unions are, but how many are out there making young men and young women envy being in a black relationship? There are too many of our brightest, strongest and most attractive selling their own race short...

“I am”

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#148 Nov 16, 2013
MszNubian wrote:
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That would never happen because black men are on their own team.
Black men are only looking out for themselves in a selfish way.
If black men really care and was on black women team aslo. Most of the negativity
would not exist.
We would expect you to think and feel this way based on the negative unrealistic comments you have made about black men.

All I'm asking you is it then fair that us black men only need to support the BW that support us?

“B'in <3 by sum1 gives strength”

Since: Nov 13

but <3'in sum1 tks courage.

#149 Nov 16, 2013
MszNubian wrote:
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To the last part.. it seems like u already picked a sided. and it seems like you are saying that black women shouldnt have standards???
You think I'm saying BW shouldn't have standards?

I'm saying if you have standards then BM that don't get a chance don't want to witness the white version of themselves getting the red carpet treatment from his own race of women. And then to add insult to injury it stings to listen to these same BW pump up weak WM as being the standard of masculinity in both words and submissive action.

I'm sorry lol but We scratch our heads and ask what the hell were we being given grief for if you were willing to submit to the same type of man outside of your race that you claimed wasn't worth your time to even be cordial to inside.

I saw a old white guy in an old beat up rusty pick up truck leaving the movie theater the other day with a 20-24 year old pretty BW. Now I'm asking myself how is that even possible? Because there's no way a respectful girl would subject the men in her family to witnessing that. But a Black mother in these days would endorse that before she endorses racial pride in her child's mind.

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#150 Nov 16, 2013
The nMe Within wrote:
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We both aren't denying that we are unhappy with what we are getting in return Ms. That's why we date out. Firstly I feel we have too many folks thinking the grass is greener on the other side.
Too many folks, that get tired of their old toy (wardrobe) and want something "new", just because it's new.
The other problem is we have too many that can't follow, and don't want to be leaders setting good examples. The Dwyane Wades and Gabreille Unions are, but how many are out there making young men and young women envy being in a black relationship? There are too many of our brightest, strongest and most attractive selling their own race short...
I agree.

“Black is beautiful”

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#151 Nov 16, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
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We would expect you to think and feel this way based on the negative unrealistic comments you have made about black men.
All I'm asking you is it then fair that us black men only need to support the BW that support us?
I already explain it to you.

“Black is beautiful”

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#152 Nov 16, 2013
The nMe Within wrote:
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You think I'm saying BW shouldn't have standards?
I'm saying if you have standards then BM that don't get a chance don't want to witness the white version of themselves getting the red carpet treatment from his own race of women. And then to add insult to injury it stings to listen to these same BW pump up weak WM as being the standard of masculinity in both words and submissive action.
I'm sorry lol but We scratch our heads and ask what the hell were we being given grief for if you were willing to submit to the same type of man outside of your race that you claimed wasn't worth your time to even be cordial to inside.
I saw a old white guy in an old beat up rusty pick up truck leaving the movie theater the other day with a 20-24 year old pretty BW. Now I'm asking myself how is that even possible? Because there's no way a respectful girl would subject the men in her family to witnessing that. But a Black mother in these days would endorse that before she endorses racial pride in her child's mind.
I have experience white men vibes being more laid back and sensitive compared to black men. Black men put on this vibe that they have to be a certain way or put on this confident look. Which sometimes throws me off. I also have experience white men giving in (being a little submissive) more than black men. They seem more comfortable but black men feel like they are not men if they give in. Im trying to explain the best way I can lol

“I am”

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#155 Nov 16, 2013
So why are you upset if bm feel the same way about you that you feel about us? You said there is no need to defend the ones that don't defend you, and I agree.

Bm should listen to your message and stop defending bw like you that hate us. It's already starting to happen.

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#157 Nov 16, 2013
Mr Anderson, I heard that you are not even black. Hmmmm

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but <3'in sum1 tks courage.

#158 Nov 16, 2013
MszNubian wrote:
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I have experience white men vibes being more laid back and sensitive compared to black men. Black men put on this vibe that they have to be a certain way or put on this confident look. Which sometimes throws me off. I also have experience white men giving in (being a little submissive) more than black men. They seem more comfortable but black men feel like they are not men if they give in. Im trying to explain the best way I can lol
Well I understand that BW like nice people. But look at what BW say on here when they get angry with their race of men?

1. You guys are beta's
2. You guys are the weakest men of all races
3. You guys are options for fathers
4. You guys are feminine

Well naturally each guy that gets the memo is going to say to themselves, "BW don't respect BM with these traits".

And you get what you get.

Then you have to expect that your words will have consequences.

We are guilty too. We call you whores and hoes for being with other guys and giving them anything they want. But then when you get around us we get upset when shy away from being open minded in your sexual lives with us. We created a bit of that anxiety you have.

But again. There are consequences that must be paid when we speak down to each other.

I'm trying to be nice so I don't come across as being a woman hater.:)

“I am”

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#159 Nov 16, 2013
MszNubian wrote:
Mr Anderson, I heard that you are not even black. Hmmmm
I heard the same thing about you so let's stick to what we know. Don't be so surprised when you see AA men defending ourselves against your lies, expect to see more of it.

And Are you African? or Black American?

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#160 Nov 16, 2013
The nMe Within wrote:
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Well I understand that BW like nice people. But look at what BW say on here when they get angry with their race of men?
1. You guys are beta's
2. You guys are the weakest men of all races
3. You guys are options for fathers
4. You guys are feminine
Well naturally each guy that gets the memo is going to say to themselves, "BW don't respect BM with these traits".
And you get what you get.
Then you have to expect that your words will have consequences.
We are guilty too. We call you whores and hoes for being with other guys and giving them anything they want. But then when you get around us we get upset when shy away from being open minded in your sexual lives with us. We created a bit of that anxiety you have.
But again. There are consequences that must be paid when we speak down to each other.
I'm trying to be nice so I don't come across as being a woman hater.:)
1. I dont think black men are beta’s
2. Surely are not the weakest men
3.……. lol
4. No, I dont see that.

I can be honest but I am just explaining what I have seen or experience. Not trying to come off as hateful

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#161 Nov 16, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
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I heard the same thing about you so let's stick to what we know. Don't be so surprised when you see AA men defending ourselves against your lies, expect to see more of it.
And Are you African? or Black American?
You didnt hear anything. lol U made it up pretending to be fake accounts.
Are you a racist hispanic??

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Since: Nov 13

but <3'in sum1 tks courage.

#162 Nov 16, 2013
MszNubian wrote:
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3.……. lol
I meant:

3. "You guys are NOT good options as fathers."
see... that was a typo. But why did you laugh lol?

Smdh.

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Since: Nov 13

but <3'in sum1 tks courage.

#163 Nov 16, 2013
MszNubian wrote:
<quoted text>
1. I dont think black men are beta’s
2. Surely are not the weakest men
3.……. lol
4. No, I dont see that.
I can be honest but I am just explaining what I have seen or experience. Not trying to come off as hateful
Well there's some love in you to salvage Ms.

Have a good one.

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#164 Nov 16, 2013
The nMe Within wrote:
<quoted text>
I meant:
3. "You guys are NOT good options as fathers."
see... that was a typo. But why did you laugh lol?
Smdh.
No comment on why I laughed but being good fathers probably not because a lot of them never had a father so they have to learn the hard way. I have seen great black fathers though.
BBeauty

Cuyahoga Falls, OH

#165 Nov 16, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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BM logic.
Yes it is, tsk, tsk!
Cigar Face

Miami, FL

#166 Nov 16, 2013
MszNubian wrote:
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No comment on why I laughed but being good fathers probably not because a lot of them never had a father so they have to learn the hard way. I have seen great black fathers though.
Your a filthy liar whiteboy! You only see what you wanna see, strictly overlooking the facts! Answer this..Why are you-all on this black forum spreading bias good ole boy false logic? Shouldn't you be on stormfront whith your family members ? Your a racist white wannabe, cause true racist wouldn't waste their time on a AAForum.your a rejected whiteboy digging in our dumpsters for blacktrash. You cant fool me.
BBeauty

Cuyahoga Falls, OH

#167 Nov 16, 2013
The nMe Within wrote:
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Well... thank about it Ms.
BM that are IR daters are either not paying attention to BW at all or they are the types that went IR out of resentment towards BW.
That means the BM that are left are the ones that deeply cared for BW. Now out of all of those types, who do you think took it the hardest when one of the so-called AAW the boasted about jumpped ship?
Oh it is definitely the IRBM. Let me tell you why. I have dated IR also and I have yet to meet an IRBM who wasn't both interested in dating white women and also resentful of black women. Some black men a little more one way than the other but both emotions where there. The black men who like to pretend that they are so engrossed to their white women and her world that they are completely separated from other blacks, know that they are only fooling themselves because though she might have sex with a man and your kids, you nor them will ever be fully accepted as white or in the white world. So you all still cling to other blacks in some kind of way. Either hating and blaming black women or being hypocrites who seek out white women but hating that black women are hooking up with white men.
The nMe Within wrote:
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The BM that stayed on board with BM are the ones that look the dumbest of the 3 types. Not all BM got a chance to do what Erik Bennet and Kadeem Harison did not do for BW so they feel cheated by BW walking out.
And these BW refused to date the kinds of family BM that are strict, loyal, humble, boring/not flashy and smart like Angella Bassetts' husband. So they shoot themselves in the foot and then turn and point the gun at "all" BM including the types like Bassetts Husband.
The black men who do truly care about black women are not hurting or alone because their are still many black women who want them.
The nMe Within wrote:
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But get this! These same BW will go settle down with a whimpy, boring, smart white man, that is as over sensitive, insecure, and whiny as any woman (Or worse they get with old white guys that are strong out on drugs or BROKE and try to "salvage him"). Say I'm lying. These same BW will say I just feel in love with him because he's nice. Now think about all those BM that got passed up because they weren't flashy and told they were too nice...
You are asking for resentment.
Black women usually date and marry stong white men around their same age and same income level or higher. These means that black women with white men only date upward from the black men they had been dating. Sadly black men date downward when they go from black women to white women.
BBeauty

Cuyahoga Falls, OH

#168 Nov 16, 2013
MszNubian wrote:
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I agree.
Thanks.

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