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#1 Oct 12, 2013
I keep getting black females asking me how I feel about this subject so here it goes..

I support black females choice to keep your options open to ALL men and not just limit yourself based on skin color or race.

Wanting a man/woman of your race is a choice and a liberty that every person has but no one is forced to do.

I don't think by any means that you should turn down a decent guy because he isn't your race.. unless you are looking to have children of your race.

If a black woman wants to date IR, she has my full support in doing so and I won't think any less of her if she does it in a respectable manner.

The only problem is many bw don't understand how to pick men of other races and usually end up with a racist or a fetish guy.

But if you try a guy 100% and he's a go than color shouldn't matter.

But yes ladies I think you all should not under any circumstance rule out men of other races (not that I think you are but I'm just saying).

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#2 Oct 12, 2013
Now with that being said.. I will state that there are consequences to dating IR.

BM will lose interest in you to an extent. Most of the really good bm seeking BW will look for the ones that haven't dated IR.

Dating IR can completely knock a woman out of contention so you have to make your choice accordingly.

If you're a super sweet, super feminine woman, then you may be able to pull off getting a good BM after IR though.

I just have to put this out there because I don't want you to go date ir, break up then try and get a bm and they don't want you, then you try and blame me for it.

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#3 Oct 12, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
Now with that being said.. I will state that there are consequences to dating IR.

BM will lose interest in you to an extent. Most of the really good bm seeking BW will look for the ones that haven't dated IR.

Dating IR can completely knock a woman out of contention so you have to make your choice accordingly.

If you're a super sweet, super feminine woman, then you may be able to pull off getting a good BM after IR though.

I just have to put this out there because I don't want you to go date ir, break up then try and get a bm and they don't want you, then you try and blame me for it.
Sir, black men and black women who are in IR relationships generally stay in IR relationships and aren't into anything else. So no need to wallow on your argument.

There are plenty of black people who aren't into IR for you to uplift instead of concerning yourself over what we do.

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#4 Oct 12, 2013
Phoenix Ascended wrote:
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Sir, black men and black women who are in IR relationships generally stay in IR relationships and aren't into anything else. So no need to wallow on your argument.
There are plenty of black people who aren't into IR for you to uplift instead of concerning yourself over what we do.
Not true.. That would mean that it's only them dating out due to race. Well... maybe that may be true for some of the self hating black females.

But I have noticed that a lot of BM/WW/WM/AW/HM/AM etc... tend to date across the board from time to time..

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#6 Oct 12, 2013
Sadly I think a large portion of black women dating Ir is the hope for a reaction from black men.

It's odd. I don't know if they love the guy and want a big reaction from black men simultaneously or if they just want the reaction from BM and have no interest in the non black guy.

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#7 Oct 12, 2013
I don't want this post to sound condescending or anything, but with the number of bm dating out, bw who have no issues with having biracial children should not hesitate to give all good men an opportunity.

And you don't have to hate your race to date Ir.

BW when these non bm tell you that the only way they will date you is if you hate your own race, then move on to the next man.

There's good non bm out there that are into black women and don't require you to hate your race.

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#9 Oct 12, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
There's no reason for BW to date out just because slave descent Black males have high IR.
Slave descent Black males are only a small percentage of the black male population. African men are not into white women, they compete successfully with white men in practical, real ways, so have no need to seek validation from white women.
Slave descent BM's choices certainly are no excuse for BW to get with whites too.
The incredibly high IR rate in the UK says otherwise.

Also The african immigrants that come to the US and chase after whites run our numbers up higher than what they actually are.

Atleast half of the BM in IR in the US are immigrants from Africa/UK etc.

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#10 Oct 12, 2013
Just do it with some type of self respect.

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#11 Oct 12, 2013
I have a bad feeling about this thread....

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#13 Oct 13, 2013
Mint cookies wrote:
I have a bad feeling about this thread....
Just date Ir. Date all the different races of women you'd like to.

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#14 Oct 13, 2013
You were never like this before please share with us the incident that has made you so butt hurt over IRBW? Did some black girl you wanted to dunk turn out to have a white bf?

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#15 Oct 13, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
Sadly I think a large portion of black women dating Ir is the hope for a reaction from black men.
It's odd. I don't know if they love the guy and want a big reaction from black men simultaneously or if they just want the reaction from BM and have no interest in the non black guy.
Interesting...I see a lot of BM who date out seek a reaction from BW. When this happens I tend to give a compliment to his girl which usually results in a surprised look from both of them.

I feel sorry for both BM and BW who do this because it displays their insecurity for the world to see.

I agree that people should be able to date whomever they feel, I just dislike the propaganda of IRBW & IRBM telling others to only date others outside of their race (and then get defensive when people tell them that they aren't interested in IR). To me that screams self hate...IMO.

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#16 Oct 13, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
I keep getting black females asking me how I feel about this subject so here it goes..
I support black females choice to keep your options open to ALL men and not just limit yourself based on skin color or race.
Wanting a man/woman of your race is a choice and a liberty that every person has but no one is forced to do.
I don't think by any means that you should turn down a decent guy because he isn't your race.. unless you are looking to have children of your race.
If a black woman wants to date IR, she has my full support in doing so and I won't think any less of her if she does it in a respectable manner.
The only problem is many bw don't understand how to pick men of other races and usually end up with a racist or a fetish guy.
But if you try a guy 100% and he's a go than color shouldn't matter.
But yes ladies I think you all should not under any circumstance rule out men of other races (not that I think you are but I'm just saying).
That's very bi of you I think people in general shouldn't limit themselves when it comes to love. As long as it's with another person and not a horse or some shyt!

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#17 Oct 13, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
Now with that being said.. I will state that there are consequences to dating IR.
BM will lose interest in you to an extent. Most of the really good bm seeking BW will look for the ones that haven't dated IR.
Dating IR can completely knock a woman out of contention so you have to make your choice accordingly.
If you're a super sweet, super feminine woman, then you may be able to pull off getting a good BM after IR though.
I just have to put this out there because I don't want you to go date ir, break up then try and get a bm and they don't want you, then you try and blame me for it.
It's easy to tell the ones who have dated IR, or been with another race of men.

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#18 Oct 13, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
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Just date Ir. Date all the different races of women you'd like to.
thts what im doing right now smartass..u dnt have to tell me twice about dating other men

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#19 Oct 13, 2013
leilajoy wrote:
You were never like this before please share with us the incident that has made you so butt hurt over IRBW? Did some black girl you wanted to dunk turn out to have a white bf?
This is actually a pretty fair thread. And the only reason I bother talking about this stuff is because it's gotten to that point again where the only thing that black females here are discussing is Ir.

It would be nice to have you all on different topics discussing other issues instead of just ir and bashing bm.

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#20 Oct 13, 2013
Tim from Evanston wrote:
<quoted text>It's easy to tell the ones who have dated IR, or been with another race of men.
Most definitely

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#21 Oct 13, 2013
ISW__REBORN wrote:
<quoted text>That's very bi of you I think people in general shouldn't limit themselves when it comes to love. As long as it's with another person and not a horse or some shyt!
Lol :)

So many bm are dating ir that these women pretty much have to be open to everybody.

If they want a black dude I'm sure they can find one though.. but if they just want love , then go for it when any race.

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#22 Oct 13, 2013
APV wrote:
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Interesting...I see a lot of BM who date out seek a reaction from BW. When this happens I tend to give a compliment to his girl which usually results in a surprised look from both of them.
I feel sorry for both BM and BW who do this because it displays their insecurity for the world to see.
I agree that people should be able to date whomever they feel, I just dislike the propaganda of IRBW & IRBM telling others to only date others outside of their race (and then get defensive when people tell them that they aren't interested in IR). To me that screams self hate...IMO.
I agree, great post. Very fair. We don't need to push IR on each other, and we don't need to push in race dating on each other either. We should just date and be happy and not bash each other.

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#24 Oct 13, 2013
Interracial is good for the blk race...lets all keep dating out and avoiding each other.Blks obviously hate each other ..and will never get along so just give up pro blks ..u cant win...the bm is all dating out...and bw dnt have any choice but to do the same.So its fair now..not self hate

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