Why do black women love to suffer?

ONO
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#179 Sep 19, 2013
Spit-Fire wrote:
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If I was in doubt about the underlying message of this thread, this post cleared it up for me.
There is zero accountability for Black men's lack of commitment and engagement in the earlier section of your post.
This is a well known tactic that many have come to expect and instead of solidifying your point, it further emasculates the Black male image.
Black men, with the mentality you have, are scared.
Actually, you're terrified!
You're terrified about the increasing number of Black woman who are succeeding on their own.
This post is emotional abuse, as you are trying to convince Black women that they are nothing without Black men. That those of us who "love to suffer" must endure, because there is no other place to turn.
It is the reason that you brought IR into the discussion. It is your only claim to fame and Black women are now a threat in that area. So the narrative must rely on mental trauma to retain your "power". Stay in your place and take it or else....
But Black women are rejecting that message, aren't they?
You are losing your grip and you know it, or else a thread like this would be unnecessary. You must remind Black women that their suffering is love.
The latter section of your post is feminine in nature, as it upholds the false notion that Black men are the prize.
Wrong! Women are the prize. This gives Black women the upper hand, which is exactly why its their marriage rates that are increasing the fastest.
This leaves Black men like you with a dwindling pool of shields to demean and abuse. If you can no longer hide behind Black women, then it will expose your failures as men and force positive confrontation, while American society waits/watches to see if you will unify and collectively man up!
You will either rise to the challenge, or be brought to your knees...Again.
This is my last post to you. Goodbye!
Run chump!

The state matriarchy gives women rights and powers that can be exercised arbitrarily and without accountability: the unilateral right to decide if children are born (abortion), the power to divorce their husbands at will (no-fault divorce), the right to retain the children when they divorce (sole mother custody), the power to force fathers and men to pay for reproductive decisions made unilaterally by women (child support), and the right to lie about the paternity of their children (paternity fraud)..

It also gives women a number of ancillary rights: the right to preferred treatment in academia (Title IX), the right to preferred treatment in employment (affirmative action and sexual harassment laws), the right to remove their husbands at will (restraining orders), the right to have their husbands arrested at will (domestic violence laws), and the right to refuse marital relations within a marriage (marital rape laws).

Men have no legal say over abortion, can file for no-fault divorce but will likely lose their children and property, are less likely to graduate from college, find it difficult to get restraining orders against wives, will likely be arrested themselves if they file a domestic violence complaint, and can be jailed for failing to support another man's children under default judgments and "presumption of paternity" statutes.

The state matriarchy makes marriage and motherhood an easy game for women to win, but makes marriage and fatherhood a game very difficult for men to win. And when men do lose that game, to offer them no way out. Tragically, some men do find a way out: suicide. Sometimes suicide preceded by homicide

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“dreams”

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#180 Sep 19, 2013
Spit-Fire wrote:
<quoted text>
If I was in doubt about the underlying message of this thread, this post cleared it up for me.
There is zero accountability for Black men's lack of commitment and engagement in the earlier section of your post.
This is a well known tactic that many have come to expect and instead of solidifying your point, it further emasculates the Black male image.
Black men, with the mentality you have, are scared.
Actually, you're terrified!
You're terrified about the increasing number of Black woman who are succeeding on their own.
This post is emotional abuse, as you are trying to convince Black women that they are nothing without Black men. That those of us who "love to suffer" must endure, because there is no other place to turn.
It is the reason that you brought IR into the discussion. It is your only claim to fame and Black women are now a threat in that area. So the narrative must rely on mental trauma to retain your "power". Stay in your place and take it or else....
But Black women are rejecting that message, aren't they?
You are losing your grip and you know it, or else a thread like this would be unnecessary. You must remind Black women that their suffering is love.
The latter section of your post is feminine in nature, as it upholds the false notion that Black men are the prize.
Wrong! Women are the prize. This gives Black women the upper hand, which is exactly why its their marriage rates that are increasing the fastest.
This leaves Black men like you with a dwindling pool of shields to demean and abuse. If you can no longer hide behind Black women, then it will expose your failures as men and force positive confrontation, while American society waits/watches to see if you will unify and collectively man up!
You will either rise to the challenge, or be brought to your knees...Again.
This is my last post to you. Goodbye!
Hope you are doing well sis!

ONO
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#181 Sep 19, 2013
Sadbuttrue wrote:
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man up!

You will either rise to the challenge, or be brought to your knees..e!
at least you could have cited your source.
.
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The male is completely egocentric, trapped inside himself, incapable of empathizing or identifying with others, or love, friendship, affection of tenderness. He is a completely isolated unit, incapable of rapport with anyone. His responses are entirely visceral, not cerebral; his intelligence is a mere tool in the services of his drives and needs; he is incapable of mental passion, mental interaction; he can't relate to anything other than his own physical sensations. He is a half-dead, unresponsive lump, incapable of giving or receiving pleasure or happiness; consequently, he is at best an utter bore, an inoffensive blob, since only those capable of absorption in others can be charming. He is trapped in a twilight zone halfway between humans and apes, and is far worse off than the apes because, unlike the apes, he is capable of a large array of negative feelings -- hate, jealousy, contempt, disgust, guilt, shame, doubt -- and moreover, he is aware of what he is and what he isn't.

http://www.ccs.neu.edu/home/shivers/rants/scu...

“dreams”

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#182 Sep 19, 2013
ONO wrote:
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their genes are useless without a seed.
Lol. This is silly. It takes two to produce a child.

ONO
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#183 Sep 19, 2013
berriesgalore wrote:
<quoted text> Lol. This is silly. It takes two to produce a child.
fish
Sadbuttrue

Falls Church, VA

#184 Sep 19, 2013
ONO wrote:
Every black man is the son of black woman. Every black man that is murdered, a black mother grieves. Every black man that goes to prison, a black woman suffers.
KILLING TWO BIRDS WITH ONE STONE.
If a person, organization, institution hate a black man enough to murder or inprison a black man, they are hating his mother as well and causing her to suffer.
Luke 2:35
35 (Yea, a sword shall pierce through thy own soul also,) that the thoughts of many hearts may be revealed.
MACEO

You like to whine like a Little Boy instead of a 60 year old man!

The "Poor Men she doesn't like me for no reason ..........BS! I'm a good Black man is another of the BS lines you use when your a man void of character, No integrity or morals!
Spit-Fire

Tucker, GA

#185 Sep 19, 2013
berriesgalore wrote:
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Hope you are doing well sis!
HI berries!!! I'm great..hope you're good as well:)

“dreams”

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#186 Sep 19, 2013
Spit-Fire wrote:
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HI berries!!! I'm great..hope you're good as well:)
Loved your post.

ONO
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#188 Sep 19, 2013
Sadbuttrue wrote:
<quoted text>MACEO
You like to whine like a Little Boy instead of a 60 year old man!
The "Poor Men she doesn't like me for no reason ..........BS! I'm a good Black man is another of the BS lines you use when your a man void of character, No integrity or morals!
Wrong!



Social inhibition

Social inhibition is a conscious or subconscious constraint by a person of behaviour of a social nature. The constraint may be in relation to behavior, appearance, or a subject matter for discussion, besides other matters. There are a number of reasons for social inhibitions, including that the person fears that the activity, appearance or discussion will meet with social disapproval.

The handlers and abusers will be sure to heap lots of guilt--whether deserved or not onto the poor mind-controlled victim. It is natural for a person to focus on himself--after all, if a person doesn’t think for himself who will? Often a person accepts their strengths, but focuses on their weaknesses hoping that that weakness will somehow be reduced by the focus that is placed upon it.

The programmers know how to take advantage of that. They set impossible standards of perfection, and then demean the victim because they have failed to live up to the impossible standard of perfection. Black and white thinking develops in the slave’s mind. The programmers will not allow the victim to display natural feelings of anger, sadness or doubt. To do so means that one is a failure and weak. Of course they are natural feelings, so the slave has to do a great deal of repression and self-incrimination for having these natural feelings. The slave learns to turn his or her anger inward. Many of the male slaves end up committing suicide. They beat themselves up with subconscious & conscious guilt. Anything and everything wrong or bad in the slave’s life is blamed upon him.

“Gone But Not...”

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#190 Sep 19, 2013
ONO wrote:
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their genes are useless without a seed.
shouldnt have even entertained that,the man carries the seed oeriod and seeds can grow in any pot.

“Gone But Not...”

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#191 Sep 19, 2013
BeAtiFuL SoUl wrote:
<quoted text>You must be white! LOL The answer to your underlined racist question would be NO! I do not think that black males should not be here on earth for goodness sake! What? And I am not saying that there aren't any good brothers in the world because there are many.
My message is to the trifling brothers who don't ever want to admit that they are their OWN worst enemy because of the way they think. They are locked in a prison in their minds. And these type of brothers blame EVERYBODY else for their problems, they NEVER take responsibility for ANYTHING!
and why are bw the way they are? who is to blame NOW?

“Gone But Not...”

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#192 Sep 19, 2013
Spit-Fire wrote:
<quoted text>
If I was in doubt about the underlying message of this thread, this post cleared it up for me.
There is zero accountability for Black men's lack of commitment and engagement in the earlier section of your post.
This is a well known tactic that many have come to expect and instead of solidifying your point, it further emasculates the Black male image.
Black men, with the mentality you have, are scared.
Actually, you're terrified!
You're terrified about the increasing number of Black woman who are succeeding on their own.
This post is emotional abuse, as you are trying to convince Black women that they are nothing without Black men. That those of us who "love to suffer" must endure, because there is no other place to turn.
It is the reason that you brought IR into the discussion. It is your only claim to fame and Black women are now a threat in that area. So the narrative must rely on mental trauma to retain your "power". Stay in your place and take it or else....
But Black women are rejecting that message, aren't they?
You are losing your grip and you know it, or else a thread like this would be unnecessary. You must remind Black women that their suffering is love.
The latter section of your post is feminine in nature, as it upholds the false notion that Black men are the prize.
Wrong! Women are the prize. This gives Black women the upper hand, which is exactly why its their marriage rates that are increasing the fastest.
This leaves Black men like you with a dwindling pool of shields to demean and abuse. If you can no longer hide behind Black women, then it will expose your failures as men and force positive confrontation, while American society waits/watches to see if you will unify and collectively man up!
You will either rise to the challenge, or be brought to your knees...Again.
This is my last post to you. Goodbye!
jesus christ bw are deperate and pathetic.that's your conclusion,AGAIN?????lmao everything is "bm are scared of bw ir and we are more successful than them and DONT need them".he is saying cool,do you and remove yourselves from bm and stop "producing" bm(lol)and end your pain.nothin more,nothing less.bm dont care about who bw date(untill they blame poor choice of mates on bm and all bm at that).bw date and screw animals but you still dont and wont hear us complaing.lmbao @
sick desperate btchs.prove yourselves,its time to fly bw.
Spit-Fire

Tucker, GA

#193 Sep 19, 2013
berriesgalore wrote:
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Loved your post.
Thanks!

ONO
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#194 Sep 19, 2013
PrinceShyShy wrote:
<quoted text>jesus christ bw are deperate and pathetic.that's your conclusion,AGAIN?????lmao everything is "bm are scared of bw ir and we are more successful than them and DONT need them".he is saying cool,do you and remove yourselves from bm and stop "producing" bm(lol)and end your pain.nothin more,nothing less.bm dont care about who bw date(untill they blame poor choice of mates on bm and all bm at that).bw date and screw animals but you still dont and wont hear us complaing.lmbao @
sick desperate btchs.prove yourselves,its time to fly bw.
You got the message.

If black men are the cause of every problem in the black community, black women ought to leave black men alone instead of ruining black men.

I know the deal....these women want to be a man, look like a man, act like a man, dress like a man and love like a man. Such behavior is called idiolizing a man. All the while they hate men and trying to be a man.

I know the deal.....in order to emulate a man, they have to emasculate a man, de-man a man, switch roles and turn men into their slaves.

If black men don't succumb to being broken, these nuts will falsely accuse him of domestic abuse, have him arrested and ruin him to prove who's in control. Once the black man is ruined, he's finished.

I know black men that have met these nuts online, set up, arrested, lost their homes, lost their jobs and got 8 years in prison.

THAT IS WHY ONE NUT SAID BLACK MEN ARE SCARED OF BLACK WOMEN.

ONO
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#195 Sep 19, 2013
Farrakhan was right. If a woman belly up to a black man, she'll hit the door.

That's why 72% of single black mothers can't keep a black man.

Come on white man, your black woman is prime time.

ONO
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#196 Sep 19, 2013
Spit-Fire wrote:
<quoted text>
If I was in doubt about the underlying message of this thread, this post cleared it up for me.
There is zero accountability for Black men's lack of commitment and engagement in the earlier section of your post.
This is a well known tactic that many have come to expect and instead of solidifying your point, it further emasculates the Black male image.
Black men, with the mentality you have, are scared.
Actually, you're terrified!
You're terrified about the increasing number of Black woman who are succeeding on their own.
This post is emotional abuse, as you are trying to convince Black women that they are nothing without Black men. That those of us who "love to suffer" must endure, because there is no other place to turn.
It is the reason that you brought IR into the discussion. It is your only claim to fame and Black women are now a threat in that area. So the narrative must rely on mental trauma to retain your "power". Stay in your place and take it or else....
But Black women are rejecting that message, aren't they?
You are losing your grip and you know it, or else a thread like this would be unnecessary. You must remind Black women that their suffering is love.
The latter section of your post is feminine in nature, as it upholds the false notion that Black men are the prize.
Wrong! Women are the prize. This gives Black women the upper hand, which is exactly why its their marriage rates that are increasing the fastest.
This leaves Black men like you with a dwindling pool of shields to demean and abuse. If you can no longer hide behind Black women, then it will expose your failures as men and force positive confrontation, while American society waits/watches to see if you will unify and collectively man up!
You will either rise to the challenge, or be brought to your knees...Again.
This is my last post to you. Goodbye!
I struck a nerve and your psychological babble is meaningless.

Next time, try chicken feet, bat wings and buffalo testicles for your spell.

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#197 Sep 19, 2013
ONO wrote:
<quoted text>
You got the message.
If black men are the cause of every problem in the black community, black women ought to leave black men alone instead of ruining black men.
I know the deal....these women want to be a man, look like a man, act like a man, dress like a man and love like a man. Such behavior is called idiolizing a man. All the while they hate men and trying to be a man.
I know the deal.....in order to emulate a man, they have to emasculate a man, de-man a man, switch roles and turn men into their slaves.
If black men don't succumb to being broken, these nuts will falsely accuse him of domestic abuse, have him arrested and ruin him to prove who's in control. Once the black man is ruined, he's finished.
I know black men that have met these nuts online, set up, arrested, lost their homes, lost their jobs and got 8 years in prison.
THAT IS WHY ONE NUT SAID BLACK MEN ARE SCARED OF BLACK WOMEN.
So what's the BM excuse for pursuing the BW they do? I'd love for you to tell then to leave us alone if BW cause them do much strife....yet they won't leave me alone ever.

“New year New you”

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alright alright.....

#198 Sep 19, 2013
I don't get it you have no question you just have a theory. You theory in turn is saying black women shouldn't create more black men since black men get the brunt & hardships of society... Right?

ONO
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#199 Sep 19, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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So what's the BM excuse for pursuing the BW they do? I'd love for you to tell then to leave us alone if BW cause them do much strife....yet they won't leave me alone ever.
72% of single black mothers and I think black men are atleast avoiding 72% of somebody!

40% of black women are single and I think black mem are atleast avoiding 40% of somebody!

70% of all IRR are black men with non-black women and I think 70% of IRR black men are waking up.

Hang on in there and your number will be added to the untouchables.

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#203 Sep 19, 2013
ONO wrote:
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72% of single black mothers and I think black men are atleast avoiding 72% of somebody!
40% of black women are single and I think black mem are atleast avoiding 40% of somebody!
70% of all IRR are black men with non-black women and I think 70% of IRR black men are waking up.
Hang on in there and your number will be added to the untouchables.
Avoiding?? Or using and abusing. Sure they avoid AFTER taking advantage of these BW! How do you not see the difference?! Part of the many reason why I avoid and reject you lot by the dozens!

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