Run chump!<quoted text>
If I was in doubt about the underlying message of this thread, this post cleared it up for me.
There is zero accountability for Black men's lack of commitment and engagement in the earlier section of your post.
This is a well known tactic that many have come to expect and instead of solidifying your point, it further emasculates the Black male image.
Black men, with the mentality you have, are scared.
Actually, you're terrified!
You're terrified about the increasing number of Black woman who are succeeding on their own.
This post is emotional abuse, as you are trying to convince Black women that they are nothing without Black men. That those of us who "love to suffer" must endure, because there is no other place to turn.
It is the reason that you brought IR into the discussion. It is your only claim to fame and Black women are now a threat in that area. So the narrative must rely on mental trauma to retain your "power". Stay in your place and take it or else....
But Black women are rejecting that message, aren't they?
You are losing your grip and you know it, or else a thread like this would be unnecessary. You must remind Black women that their suffering is love.
The latter section of your post is feminine in nature, as it upholds the false notion that Black men are the prize.
Wrong! Women are the prize. This gives Black women the upper hand, which is exactly why its their marriage rates that are increasing the fastest.
This leaves Black men like you with a dwindling pool of shields to demean and abuse. If you can no longer hide behind Black women, then it will expose your failures as men and force positive confrontation, while American society waits/watches to see if you will unify and collectively man up!
You will either rise to the challenge, or be brought to your knees...Again.
This is my last post to you. Goodbye!
The state matriarchy gives women rights and powers that can be exercised arbitrarily and without accountability: the unilateral right to decide if children are born (abortion), the power to divorce their husbands at will (no-fault divorce), the right to retain the children when they divorce (sole mother custody), the power to force fathers and men to pay for reproductive decisions made unilaterally by women (child support), and the right to lie about the paternity of their children (paternity fraud)..
It also gives women a number of ancillary rights: the right to preferred treatment in academia (Title IX), the right to preferred treatment in employment (affirmative action and sexual harassment laws), the right to remove their husbands at will (restraining orders), the right to have their husbands arrested at will (domestic violence laws), and the right to refuse marital relations within a marriage (marital rape laws).
Men have no legal say over abortion, can file for no-fault divorce but will likely lose their children and property, are less likely to graduate from college, find it difficult to get restraining orders against wives, will likely be arrested themselves if they file a domestic violence complaint, and can be jailed for failing to support another man's children under default judgments and "presumption of paternity" statutes.
The state matriarchy makes marriage and motherhood an easy game for women to win, but makes marriage and fatherhood a game very difficult for men to win. And when men do lose that game, to offer them no way out. Tragically, some men do find a way out: suicide. Sometimes suicide preceded by homicide