Thanks Kip and I appreciate your perspective as well.. And you do have some valid points that most definitely do apply to particular women.. but for some I don't consider it a charity case ... more like BM being more aware of situational impacts that affect BW.<quoted text>
Assuming we're talking about adults, the woman may not care that what she's doing is unattractive to some strange man. On the other hand, some guys might like a loud outspoken woman.
I understand your points Mr. Anderson9, but all of us have to be responsible for ourselves after a certain age. After that certain age, some things are just EXPECTED from another adult. It's a bit condescending to look at a black woman with the idea that she's some sort of social charity case.
I appreciate your perspective nevertheless.
And this most definitely isn't a glove that fits all..but something you have to use with discretion.
And I really do think that for every Good BM there is approx 3 good BW, and 5 potentially good BW available.
And for every "potentially" good BW there is approx 1 Good BM and 3 potentially good BM available.
Taking a Realistic view of ALL the options we have available in BW.. We do have more and a better selection than they have to pick from.