Dumped by a black guy because not att...

Dumped by a black guy because not attractive?

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“Over Reacting Right Meow”

Level 2

Since: Jun 10

Kitty Corner

#1 Jan 2, 2013
So this is interesting to me.

I had never dated a black guy in my life and I decided to give it a go. At first I was hesitant but he said to me he wouldn't hurt me or play with my emotions.

We date for about 3 months and the week of and after Christmas, I had not heard from him for two weeks, so last night I had confronted him about what has been going on, and he tells me, that he doesn't want a relationship with me anymore, that he works with women he is more attracted to, but tells me he is not shallow, how in the world does that make since, now mind you, it's not bothering me, but what was he trying to do by saying something like that? was that even necessary?

Now I know I am not a beauty queen but I am far from ugly, I guess he is looking for media perfect women or something. But I offered him friendship, but I don't want to see him crawling back. This guy set a terrible impression for black guys for me, just terrible.
Frank

Clarkston, MI

#2 Jan 2, 2013
Beloved China wrote:
This guy set a terrible impression for black guys for me, just terrible.
Do you think all asian women should be judged by the acts of the bad ones???

Learn to choose your friends more carefully.
Teach

Charlotte, MI

#3 Jan 2, 2013
Beloved China wrote:
This guy set a terrible impression for black guys for me, just terrible.
Because you’re too STUPID to realize that all men are individuals and that the actions of ONE MAN are NOT a reflection of “black guys” as a whole! DUMBAZZ!! Here’s a little help. Based on your statements, he didn’t leave you because of his coworkers, he left you because you’re stupid!
Mula

Wolverhampton, UK

#4 Jan 2, 2013
C'mon now tell the truth, you come here with your new account, pretending some bs that never happened, or would happen as bm like to hit it and run, there is no unattractive to bm, they only see their cocktus in your hole. You're one of those ww who when they've finished trying to degrade bw move onto their next imagined threat aw. Very childish!

“Over Reacting Right Meow”

Level 2

Since: Jun 10

Kitty Corner

#5 Jan 2, 2013
Mula wrote:
C'mon now tell the truth, you come here with your new account, pretending some bs that never happened, or would happen as bm like to hit it and run, there is no unattractive to bm, they only see their cocktus in your hole. You're one of those ww who when they've finished trying to degrade bw move onto their next imagined threat aw. Very childish!
I am a black woman, not a white woman, and actually I am not stupid, Lol but it's your opinion. and this is not a new account, I have had this for some years, this is my only account.

NEXT!

Level 3

Since: Nov 12

Memphis, TN

#6 Jan 2, 2013
BM are disgusting! They only set HIGH standards for women who are black. WOW. where do you live?
Umm

Atlanta, GA

#7 Jan 2, 2013
jus say it didint work out. he is more attractive to someone else. you should be happy he kept it real. he could have just cheated and had you on the side. sound like a decent dude to me because he was honest with you. so move on and dont hate on bm.
loss

Stockbridge, GA

#8 Jan 2, 2013
Beloved China wrote:
So this is interesting to me.
I had never dated a black guy in my life and I decided to give it a go. At first I was hesitant but he said to me he wouldn't hurt me or play with my emotions.
We date for about 3 months and the week of and after Christmas, I had not heard from him for two weeks, so last night I had confronted him about what has been going on, and he tells me, that he doesn't want a relationship with me anymore, that he works with women he is more attracted to, but tells me he is not shallow, how in the world does that make since, now mind you, it's not bothering me, but what was he trying to do by saying something like that? was that even necessary?
Now I know I am not a beauty queen but I am far from ugly, I guess he is looking for media perfect women or something. But I offered him friendship, but I don't want to see him crawling back. This guy set a terrible impression for black guys for me, just terrible.
Black women are 80 times more sadistic when it comes to men they aren' t attracted to.
All neegurs are the same

San Antonio, TX

#9 Jan 2, 2013
Beloved China wrote:
So this is interesting to me.
I had never dated a black guy in my life and I decided to give it a go. At first I was hesitant but he said to me he wouldn't hurt me or play with my emotions.
We date for about 3 months and the week of and after Christmas, I had not heard from him for two weeks, so last night I had confronted him about what has been going on, and he tells me, that he doesn't want a relationship with me anymore, that he works with women he is more attracted to, but tells me he is not shallow, how in the world does that make since, now mind you, it's not bothering me, but what was he trying to do by saying something like that? was that even necessary?
Now I know I am not a beauty queen but I am far from ugly, I guess he is looking for media perfect women or something. But I offered him friendship, but I don't want to see him crawling back. This guy set a terrible impression for black guys for me, just terrible.
Get AIDS neegur lover
Mula

Wolverhampton, UK

#10 Jan 2, 2013
Beloved China wrote:
<quoted text> I am a black woman, not a white woman, and actually I am not stupid, Lol but it's your opinion. and this is not a new account, I have had this for some years, this is my only account.
NEXT!
I can smell 5 shades of bs when I read it.
Mula

Wolverhampton, UK

#11 Jan 2, 2013
Professional trolls have many accounts, certain ones didn't get the response they wanted back then or they had to many on the go, so they lie dormant while one of their azzhole new identities runs rampant causing havoc in the meantime. They later re-awaken this troll account for some fuckery to act brand new.

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Since: May 10

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#12 Jan 2, 2013
Beloved China wrote:
So this is interesting to me.
I had never dated a black guy in my life and I decided to give it a go. At first I was hesitant but he said to me he wouldn't hurt me or play with my emotions.
We date for about 3 months and the week of and after Christmas, I had not heard from him for two weeks, so last night I had confronted him about what has been going on, and he tells me, that he doesn't want a relationship with me anymore, that he works with women he is more attracted to, but tells me he is not shallow, how in the world does that make since, now mind you, it's not bothering me, but what was he trying to do by saying something like that? was that even necessary?
Now I know I am not a beauty queen but I am far from ugly, I guess he is looking for media perfect women or something. But I offered him friendship, but I don't want to see him crawling back. This guy set a terrible impression for black guys for me, just terrible.
guys do this all the time. they'll get is a girl temporarily til something better or closer to what he really wants comes along. but you usually don't tell the girl you breaking up the real reason why.

some guys back in the day, had what we called 'shelf girls', and body calls. women we knew we could hit up whenever. but again you gotta be respectful bout it.

i think you gotta know when a guy is really into you and when he's not. i think most women have an intuition bout these things.
Style

Swindon, UK

#13 Jan 2, 2013
Beloved China wrote:
So this is interesting to me.
I had never dated a black guy in my life and I decided to give it a go. At first I was hesitant but he said to me he wouldn't hurt me or play with my emotions.
We date for about 3 months and the week of and after Christmas, I had not heard from him for two weeks, so last night I had confronted him about what has been going on, and he tells me, that he doesn't want a relationship with me anymore, that he works with women he is more attracted to, but tells me he is not shallow, how in the world does that make since, now mind you, it's not bothering me, but what was he trying to do by saying something like that? was that even necessary?
Now I know I am not a beauty queen but I am far from ugly, I guess he is looking for media perfect women or something. But I offered him friendship, but I don't want to see him crawling back. This guy set a terrible impression for black guys for me, just terrible.
So what kind of men did you previously date, and why did these relationships break up?

“Over Reacting Right Meow”

Level 2

Since: Jun 10

Kitty Corner

#14 Jan 2, 2013
sweetgirl102 wrote:
BM are disgusting! They only set HIGH standards for women who are black. WOW. where do you live?
I actually live in Atlanta, and I don't think they all are, I believe he was too young to understand my level of thinking and I tried to tell him I wasn't interested in any kind of relationship to begin with, but he kept insisting, so I went for it, it was going great until those two weeks when he suddenly said he wasn't interested in me anymore.
Frank

Clarkston, MI

#15 Jan 2, 2013
He got what he wanted, accomplished his objective, and it was time to move on!

Moral of the story: Keep your legs closed until marriage...if you ACT like a ho, you'll be TREATED like one.

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Since: Dec 12

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#17 Jan 2, 2013
Beloved China wrote:
<quoted text> I actually live in Atlanta, and I don't think they all are, I believe he was too young to understand my level of thinking and I tried to tell him I wasn't interested in any kind of relationship to begin with, but he kept insisting, so I went for it, it was going great until those two weeks when he suddenly said he wasn't interested in me anymore.
do you weigh under 300 pounds?

“Over Reacting Right Meow”

Level 2

Since: Jun 10

Kitty Corner

#18 Jan 2, 2013
Superior Man wrote:
<quoted text>
do you weigh under 300 pounds?
Yes, way under, but what does that matter?

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