Agressive BM: Turn off to MOST BW-Eve...

Agressive BM: Turn off to MOST BW-Even Good Men!

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Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#1 Jan 25, 2013
“WHY YA’LL ALWAYS LOOK SO MEAN?” HOW YEARS OF BEING OGLED AT AND MACKED ON BY AGGRESSIVE MEN CAN TURN A WOMAN OFF–EVEN TO A GOOD MAN
January 23rd, 2013 - By Victoria Uwumarogie

While out for drinks this past weekend with my boyfriend and his friends, we were all sitting together in a circle, talking about a little bit of everything, including the gun control debate, dating, interracial dating, and the habits of women that men don’t like.

To be specific, the alleged habits of black women that some black men aren’t too fond of. While talking about this, a friend brought up the fact that often when he rides public transportation or walks the street and sees a beautiful black woman, he’ll send a glance her way and even a smile. However, he lamented over the fact that the reaction he receives is anything but flattered or remotely positive.

“If I show interest in a sista and look her way, she always looks back all angry or like she has an attitude. Why ya’ll always look so mean?? I never get that type of reaction from other women! But don’t get me wrong, I prefer a sista over everybody else.”
The other black men out with us at the time seemed to agree, with one declaring that,“Some of ya’ll need to accept the fact that you’re angry. Everywhere I’ve been I’ve encountered it. Not all of you, but a lot of you just seem to have a chip on your shoulder for no reason.”

No reason?

I don’t take too kindly to strange men hovering over me to get my number at the laundromat while I try to discreetly separate my colored panties from my clothes that need to air dry. I’m not overjoyed by someone gawking at me in a crowded bar and then not having anything nice, funny or even educated to say when they finally step up and approach me. For myself, why I might “look mean” when a man tries to get my

When many young black women reach puberty, they become almost like PREY to most Black men. Once those boobs come in, that butt perks up and that period make its arrival, the innocent young girl that many men might see before becomes the young lady they immediately jump on them like PREY. In general,black men that is, will have a thousand and one rude things to say. At first, you might be bothered, some might even be flattered. Trying to avoid aggressive men who clearly don’t want to get to know you for the right reasons becomes a second full-time job. Many Black men are just rude and have crude approaches even to young innocent girls.

At the age of 12, dressed like a tacky pre-teen and not even showing off what I was working with, I went with my family to Nigeria for. I experienced smacked their lips at me, grabbed my arm at the market and tried to flirt with me, to my sheer horror. It took my dad, mother or brother to step in and say,‘EXCUSE ME, She’s only 12 for God’s sake” for them to back off. And even as a grown woman now, living in NYC, it can be just as bad

So you’ll have to excuse me if I don’t feel any sympathy for a man who claims to be pissed that black women rebuff his indirect advances. Sorry, but it’s hard to tell who is serious and who is just looking for a good time when a majority of the time we’re made into sexual objects by a strangers. Many young black men (and even the older ones) can be very aggressive. Most Black men need to really going to need to do a LOT better. Be straightforward. Be humorous. Hell, a helpful man who helps me with my heavy groceries down the street is even nice. But all in all, come correct. Because we’ve seen and heard all of it before, probably since we were in middle school, and at this point, the “HEY GIRL!” smacked lips, ogling and stares are not attractive as much as they’re just annoying and sorry.

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Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#2 Jan 25, 2013
This article is so true, I experience their lewd crude remarks at work, socially which is why I don't go around Black males collectively anymore!
Black

United States

#3 Jan 25, 2013
Sadbuttrue wrote:
This article is so true, I experience their lewd crude remarks at work, socially which is why I don't go around Black males collectively anymore!
White boy!
Frank

Clarkston, MI

#4 Jan 25, 2013
Sadbuttrue wrote:
This article is so true, I experience their lewd crude remarks at work,...
You mean you work for Topix???

That MUST be the "work" you're preferring to, since you're always here castigating BLACK MEN 24 hours a day!
Sadbutrue

Woodbridge, VA

#5 Jan 25, 2013
Black wrote:
<quoted text>White boy!
MACEO

You love having ANAL SEX with White men and white women!

So what is your problem?

“I am an awesome person”

Level 7

Since: Jun 08

Location hidden

#6 Jan 25, 2013
Sadbuttrue wrote:
“WHY YA’LL ALWAYS LOOK SO MEAN?” HOW YEARS OF BEING OGLED AT AND MACKED ON BY AGGRESSIVE MEN CAN TURN A WOMAN OFF–EVEN TO A GOOD MAN
January 23rd, 2013 - By Victoria Uwumarogie
While out for drinks this past weekend with my boyfriend and his friends, we were all sitting together in a circle, talking about a little bit of everything, including the gun control debate, dating, interracial dating, and the habits of women that men don’t like.
To be specific, the alleged habits of black women that some black men aren’t too fond of. While talking about this, a friend brought up the fact that often when he rides public transportation or walks the street and sees a beautiful black woman, he’ll send a glance her way and even a smile. However, he lamented over the fact that the reaction he receives is anything but flattered or remotely positive.
“If I show interest in a sista and look her way, she always looks back all angry or like she has an attitude. Why ya’ll always look so mean?? I never get that type of reaction from other women! But don’t get me wrong, I prefer a sista over everybody else.”
The other black men out with us at the time seemed to agree, with one declaring that,“Some of ya’ll need to accept the fact that you’re angry. Everywhere I’ve been I’ve encountered it. Not all of you, but a lot of you just seem to have a chip on your shoulder for no reason.”
No reason?
I don’t take too kindly to strange men hovering over me to get my number at the laundromat while I try to discreetly separate my colored panties from my clothes that need to air dry. I’m not overjoyed by someone gawking at me in a crowded bar and then not having anything nice, funny or even educated to say when they finally step up and approach me. For myself, why I might “look mean” when a man tries to get my
When many young black women reach puberty, they become almost like PREY to most Black men. Once those boobs come in, that butt perks up and that period make its arrival, the innocent young girl that many men might see before becomes the young lady they immediately jump on them like PREY. In general,black men that is, will have a thousand and one rude things to say. At first, you might be bothered, some might even be flattered. Trying to avoid aggressive men who clearly don’t want to get to know you for the right reasons becomes a second full-time job. Many Black men are just rude and have crude approaches even to young innocent girls.
At the age of 12, dressed like a tacky pre-teen and not even showing off what I was working with, I went with my family to Nigeria for. I experienced smacked their lips at me, grabbed my arm at the market and tried to flirt with me, to my sheer horror. It took my dad, mother or brother to step in and say,‘EXCUSE ME, She’s only 12 for God’s sake” for them to back off. And even as a grown woman now, living in NYC, it can be just as bad
So you’ll have to excuse me if I don’t feel any sympathy for a man who claims to be pissed that black women rebuff his indirect advances. Sorry, but it’s hard to tell who is serious and who is just looking for a good time when a majority of the time we’re made into sexual objects by a strangers. Many young black men (and even the older ones) can be very aggressive. Most Black men need to really going to need to do a LOT better. Be straightforward. Be humorous. Hell, a helpful man who helps me with my heavy groceries down the street is even nice. But all in all, come correct. Because we’ve seen and heard all of it before, probably since we were in middle school, and at this point, the “HEY GIRL!” smacked lips, ogling and stares are not attractive as much as they’re just annoying and sorry.
Please always blaming the black man for your shortcomings black women. A BM asks a legit question about the angry looks on you BW's faces, and now it's the BM's fault. LOL!!!!!!!!!!
Sadbutrue

Woodbridge, VA

#7 Jan 25, 2013
Black wrote:
<quoted text>White boy!
MACEO

You sure Love those Poor White women that come from the White man! lmao

Desperato! LMAO

“I am an awesome person”

Level 7

Since: Jun 08

Location hidden

#8 Jan 25, 2013
Typical BW blaming the BM for their shortfalls. LOL!!!!!!
Black

United States

#9 Jan 25, 2013
Sadbutrue wrote:
<quoted text>MACEO
You sure Love those Poor White women that come from the White man! lmao
Desperato! LMAO
we all know your a crakkka as phaggot boy! So why even bother hiding behind a lonly bipolar lesbian sista!
Sadbutrue

Woodbridge, VA

#10 Jan 25, 2013
Tim from Evanston wrote:
Typical BW blaming the BM for their shortfalls. LOL!!!!!!
MACEO

STFU! You was saying he should have selected a White woman over Michelle Obama, she's a "She-boon" going to emasculate him because that's what Black women do!

You talked about how "highly disappointed with his Poor selection of an Ugly Black woman who's looks and acts like a transsexual. You even posted links of women who would look better and better represent him!

Until White's started calling Obama as well as Michelle a monkey and featured as gorillas.

You were JUST AS RACIST AS THOSE WHITE'S THAT MADE THOSE STATEMENTS!

As I said prior, I have NO RESPECT FOR YOU! Its Black males like you and your destructive mindset is why Black women no longer seek to be with Black males!

Your just making these statements because Pierre aka Brownman is on this forum!

Your the Black man that has Black women running to White males!

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