Black Women - Wake UP!!
Moses

United States

#22 Dec 20, 2009
justiz4once wrote:
<quoted text>
Yes, masters in economics. Not a worker an entrepreneur. I was once a white collar successful day trader. I have volunteered, donated time and money in things that relate to the human service field. What's your point? please lose the defensiveness if you'd like to have a discussion.
- justiz
No, I thought you were a man talking about society making special accommoDations for women. I was ready to tell you that women have to cross more barriers and fight stereotypes.

“glorified work permit”

Level 1

Since: Jul 07

Toronto

#23 Dec 20, 2009
try thinking wrote:
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I do not agree with you at all. Well, I do agree with the success part BUT racism hasn't made life any easier for black women either..In fact, whose more affected by the imbalance in this country due to our skin color and sex then black women? We are boxed in like no other group in this country. I have a good husband who is black BUT I had to be damn near perfect to get him. I told him that. It has gotten to the point where I see our "brothas" accepting average from other races but wouldn't dare accept it from black women. That isn't the black womans fault. So, Black women need to keep our standards high and not lower them for anyone..Furthermore, When I was single I didn't mind dating a man who didn't have much BUT if he didn't know how to string two sentences together I would dump him quicker than a hot potato. I didn't have time for foolishness & you it seems are sending a message to black women to settle and that is absolutely the last thing black women need to be doing. I feel any man who wants you or finds you sexy, beautiful, with something to offer will rise to you regardless of what--and that should be the man any woman wants..not some man who wants everything easy (as we've heard so many men say nowadays)--why would anyone want a man who thinks like that when speaking about a possible mate?
You must have misunderstood.. my post wasn't about finding a mate..
MDJ

Since: Apr 07

Location hidden

#24 Dec 20, 2009
NothingButTheTruth

Try Thinking

CalmBreeze

I'm loving the comments. I see you ya'll preaching.

We all have our own opinions. Speak!

xXShaquitaXx

“Sex on Fire”

Since: Jul 09

United States

#25 Dec 20, 2009
This thread is a ploy by white people to stop black women from becoming so successful.

“HOREM AKHET”

Since: Dec 09

Location hidden

#26 Dec 20, 2009
Moses wrote:
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How do you know he's right? Willie Lynch who and what does he have to do with anything?
she's a woman..i would not be asking a man how big his breast is,sir.her argument(wich is a valid one)is that the condition of black men is by desighn,and that the reason black women do siginicantly better is because for one,they are not really a threat.there's no need to establish a system that puts more women in jail than college.the man in any society is the protector,provider,head..the way nature intended.by removing the black male from that role....not hiring him,putting guns and drugs in his communities,you have what we have right now.
Peace

Atlanta, GA

#28 Dec 20, 2009
Jerimiah prophicied in these last days women would have the mentality of ''we have our own bread(money/careers),just give us our children!''.
delon

Marble Falls, TX

#29 Dec 20, 2009
wow
Rich Girl

New Orleans, LA

#30 Dec 20, 2009
Try Thinking Amen!!!!
Derrick

Lilburn, GA

#32 Dec 20, 2009
justiz4once wrote:
Please understand that your so called success is by design.. You have a higher success rate in school b/c the curriculum is not setup for black males to succeed. you get jobs b/c you are less intimidating and accept your oppressors standards. You are being put at odds with your soul mate destroying the natural order of things and you accept it proudly.. You boast and brag.. emasculate and belittle your kings.. eagerly swallowing the BS the media feeds painting your soul mate as worthless. You are being played sister..I guess all your degrees and accomplishments didn't make that apparent to you. Strung alone by the oppressor whose world you want to succeed in so badly, The oppressor who uses you to keep your king down. Until the black man reclaims his place..there is no black family and no black community..When will you wake up and stop aiding in his demise?
- Justiz
A Black Woman
I heard Farakan talk about this about ten years ago.
and it seams as if it's true.

spartan lacedaemonian

Since: Jul 08

Location hidden

#33 Dec 20, 2009
Chas0x01 wrote:
Women will always gravitate toward the alpha male. All women do this and it can be very disturbing when you recount the examples. French women were all over the German occupation forces and had no problem being used as sex toys by the Germans, and spies and informants against the resistance movement of their own country men. You can go all around the world and see the same thing. Women will not support a weak man. If black men want the full support of his woman he needs to stop being weak.
What kind of misinformation is that about French women;
Where did you see that;
In some Hollywood movie i guess;
What kind of stupidity is this;
Stop misinforming the public about fact you don;t know;
Rich Girl

New Orleans, LA

#34 Dec 20, 2009
The curriculum is set up so that very few students succeed. Here in Louisiana our test scores are falling every year. The problem is that whats on the test is not being taught sufficently. Each lesson is only taught one time. The teachers cannot review what they taught the day before because they have to move on the the next lesson.
Another problem also is that our black children are horrible. They don't listen,they talk back, they hit, and they are just all around bad.
Rich Girl

New Orleans, LA

#35 Dec 20, 2009
If you want decent black men teach your children how to behave.

“It ain't ova!”

Since: Mar 09

Heaven

#36 Dec 20, 2009
Peace wrote:
Jerimiah prophicied in these last days women would have the mentality of ''we have our own bread(money/careers),just give us our children!''.
What are you talking about? Learn not to take scripture out of its context. God through Jeremiah's prophecies reminded the Jews of the sins that brought "desolations" upon Judah.

God is fully aware of the present day issues with family abandonment and whether a man be black, white or yellow, 1 Timothy 5:8 states:

"But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel."

If a woman is left to do what her husband should do, God will certainly not be against her! Don't partner with the devil in twisting scripture.

“HOREM AKHET”

Since: Dec 09

Location hidden

#37 Dec 20, 2009
Rich Girl wrote:
If you want decent black men teach your children how to behave.
i've been a bad boy.i need you to teach me to behave.

“It ain't ova!”

Since: Mar 09

Heaven

#38 Dec 20, 2009
try thinking wrote:
<quoted text>
Black women need to keep our standards high and not lower them for anyone....
it seems are sending a message to black women to settle and that is absolutely the last thing black women need to be doing...
Good word!

Live by YOUR own standards and values, not someone else's. If you hold your own self to a higher standard of living. Why would you choose less in a man?
Chas0x01

Spring, TX

#39 Dec 20, 2009
spartan lacedaemonian wrote:
<quoted text>
What kind of misinformation is that about French women;
Where did you see that;
In some Hollywood movie i guess;
What kind of stupidity is this;
Stop misinforming the public about fact you don;t know;
This isn't a slam on french women, I was just using them as an example of how women will naturally submit to the conqueror or alpha male. About 40,000 french were convicted of collaboration with the Germans, and the majority were women. It was very common for these women to have their heads shaved as a form of public scorn. And of course there were harsher punishments depending on the level a treason. But there were also many french women who were part of the resistance. Everyone doesn't fall under this category. In war women are "booty" and will enthusiastically take on this role as a survival mechanism. Even the Romans have accounts of how they would ravish women and that the women would ravish them back after they defeated an arm and entered a city. This is just how it is.

“It ain't ova!”

Since: Mar 09

Heaven

#40 Dec 20, 2009
Rich Girl wrote:
The curriculum is set up so that very few students succeed. Here in Louisiana our test scores are falling every year. The problem is that whats on the test is not being taught sufficently. Each lesson is only taught one time. The teachers cannot review what they taught the day before because they have to move on the the next lesson.
Another problem also is that our black children are horrible. They don't listen,they talk back, they hit, and they are just all around bad.
Not sure what you are talking about. This press release from the Louisiana Department Education says children's test scores are actually better.

http://www.doe.state.la.us/lde/comm/pressrele...
Michele

United States

#41 Dec 20, 2009
try thinking wrote:
<quoted text>
I do not agree with you at all. Well, I do agree with the success part BUT racism hasn't made life any easier for black women either..In fact, whose more affected by the imbalance in this country due to our skin color and sex then black women? We are boxed in like no other group in this country. I have a good husband who is black BUT I had to be damn near perfect to get him. I told him that. It has gotten to the point where I see our "brothas" accepting average from other races but wouldn't dare accept it from black women. That isn't the black womans fault. So, Black women need to keep our standards high and not lower them for anyone..Furthermore, When I was single I didn't mind dating a man who didn't have much BUT if he didn't know how to string two sentences together I would dump him quicker than a hot potato. I didn't have time for foolishness & you it seems are sending a message to black women to settle and that is absolutely the last thing black women need to be doing. I feel any man who wants you or finds you sexy, beautiful, with something to offer will rise to you regardless of what--and that should be the man any woman wants..not some man who wants everything easy (as we've heard so many men say nowadays)--why would anyone want a man who thinks like that when speaking about a possible mate?
So true. We have to be extra ordinary just to get the crumbs off the table of society. Others can be plain Jane and everyone is running when they are in distress. No such luck for most black women. Black women have to support everyone else and still fight our battles and overcome our obsticles.
Do you ever think that the reason we are succeeding is because as a whole we have been tested and found worthy of a earned privalege?
Michele

United States

#42 Dec 20, 2009
rameses326 wrote:
<quoted text>i've been a bad boy.i need you to teach me to behave.
you are...very funny. LOL.
Chas0x01

Spring, TX

#44 Dec 20, 2009
The bottomline is that women only really respect strength. So when the black man is coming home every day complaining about how he's getting his ass kicked by the white man. And they can't live up to their basic responsibilities like building a strong home and community. Don't expect much support from black women. No one wants to partner up with a loser.

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