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Black women tired of getting bashed by black men

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Real Talk

Burtonsville, MD

#1 Mar 29, 2009
I want all you ladies to really listen to want I have to say. I know that recently you have been seeing black men on topix and other sites bash black women. I personally do not agree with any group of people getting bashed. I believe that their are good and bad people in all races. I don't think one group of people should get labeled as being ghetto and unattractive based on their race or gender. Sistas I'm sorry for the comments of some of my brothers but I think all of us should acknowledge the things that are being said by black women.

Based on what I have observed over the last year. Black women online will say anything to put down black men. They will use any statistic, personal experience, or striaght up lies to make black men out to be the scum of the Earth. For example; it was this black female on youtube that brought up a comment made by Serena William a few years. She said that she didn't date a real man until she dated a white man. She didn't bring it to my attention because she was disgusted by the comment. She basically was throwing it in my face.

I have also notice that anything that's said negative about black men is always reinforced by black women. I have never seen a black women question any negative statement or statistic about black men. What they do is use whatever information they have and use it against us. To me that is been a huge problem that will continue to make things worse when it comes to black men and women relations.

Black women if you're tired of getting bashed you should stop bashing us. I saw a beautiful young lady on here state that " I never seen no other race of men disrespect there women like black men disrespect black women." However, she fails to see all of the disrespectful things that black women say about black men. Ladies want to be respect then try showing some.
chris

Chesapeake, VA

#2 Mar 29, 2009
Real Talk wrote:
I want all you ladies to really listen to want I have to say. I know that recently you have been seeing black men on topix and other sites bash black women. I personally do not agree with any group of people getting bashed. I believe that their are good and bad people in all races. I don't think one group of people should get labeled as being ghetto and unattractive based on their race or gender. Sistas I'm sorry for the comments of some of my brothers but I think all of us should acknowledge the things that are being said by black women.
Based on what I have observed over the last year. Black women online will say anything to put down black men. They will use any statistic, personal experience, or striaght up lies to make black men out to be the scum of the Earth. For example; it was this black female on youtube that brought up a comment made by Serena William a few years. She said that she didn't date a real man until she dated a white man. She didn't bring it to my attention because she was disgusted by the comment. She basically was throwing it in my face.
I have also notice that anything that's said negative about black men is always reinforced by black women. I have never seen a black women question any negative statement or statistic about black men. What they do is use whatever information they have and use it against us. To me that is been a huge problem that will continue to make things worse when it comes to black men and women relations.
Black women if you're tired of getting bashed you should stop bashing us. I saw a beautiful young lady on here state that " I never seen no other race of men disrespect there women like black men disrespect black women." However, she fails to see all of the disrespectful things that black women say about black men. Ladies want to be respect then try showing some.
well this has been going on for over 20 years. how does serena williams feel about her father, i mean if you think through the logic. but people will twist anything in their own favor. they're zealots really ...

Since: Aug 08

Weston, CT

#3 Mar 29, 2009
you are right...
I think black men and women needs to stop bashing each other period.
We need to become more coalesce in order for us to go forward as a group. But I honestly don't think bm and bw bashing each other here on topix will stop. Because we has some self hating, or lost blacks in here.

Mack the Great

Since: May 07

Fort Washington, MD

#4 Mar 29, 2009
I agree bro and for the record and to be fair, the same can be said for us black men. I know that there are some things that really annoy the hell out of each other and I can understand how annoyed we are with what's become of us in terms of attitudes and behaviors, but please just be civil and respectful towards one another.You can discuss and debate black relationship issues with out the unnecessary name calling and derogatory words towards each other.

“I'm just a Routined”

Level 5

Since: Mar 09

Plattsburgh, NY

#5 Mar 29, 2009
The bashing and problems will never stop, it can only be minimized when each party starts working together for the better.
MDJ

Since: Apr 07

Location hidden

#6 Mar 29, 2009
I've seen both do it! And the only people who bash.....are the people who were rejected within their race, and they are bitter.

I think both are guilty!

It's sad and it's disturbing!

Since: Jul 08

Racists Get Ignored!

#7 Mar 29, 2009
Well, maybe black women should stop dating only gangsters and they'd not have so much to complain about. Sorry, but I don't see that smart move happening in a million years. :(
MDJ

Since: Apr 07

Location hidden

#8 Mar 29, 2009
LazlowX wrote:
Well, maybe black women should stop dating only gangsters and they'd not have so much to complain about. Sorry, but I don't see that smart move happening in a million years.:(
Lazlow, that's not fair! Not all black women date gangsters..........and what's funny....and wild. You guyz, are viewed more negatively, in society, than we are..........we can handle it!

But can you..........my lord! I wish you people stop making all these excuses! Because you know it should not apply to all........

You probably, don't date black women.......

Since: Jul 08

Racists Get Ignored!

#9 Mar 29, 2009
MDJ wrote:
<quoted text>
Lazlow, that's not fair! Not all black women date gangsters..........and what's funny....and wild. You guyz, are viewed more negatively, in society, than we are..........we can handle it!
But can you..........my lord! I wish you people stop making all these excuses! Because you know it should not apply to all........
You probably, don't date black women.......
It's most black women. They date only thugz. These thugz mess up their life and leave them with babies. Now, these same black women age, hit their 30s, and THEN complain about not being able to find a good black men. WOW. Black women have too much baggage when they want to settle down. Ever factor your extra baggage into your no-man-and-single predicament? NO, black women are smart enough to think like that.

Since: Jul 08

Racists Get Ignored!

#10 Mar 29, 2009
^EDIT: NO, black women are NOT smart enough to think like that.

“Remember to Breathe!”

Since: Jan 09

Damian is my Addiction!!!

#11 Mar 29, 2009
The whole bashing tit for tat situation is lame. People really need to realize you have to judge people INDIVIDUALLY. Every man, woman, and child is not going to be the same even if they are in the same situation. Also people have to let things go. Get over things, life goes on. You can lose something good for your future by dwelling on something negative from your past.
MDJ

Since: Apr 07

Location hidden

#12 Mar 29, 2009
LazlowX wrote:
<quoted text>
It's most black women. They date only thugz. These thugz mess up their life and leave them with babies. Now, these same black women age, hit their 30s, and THEN complain about not being able to find a good black men. WOW. Black women have too much baggage when they want to settle down. Ever factor your extra baggage into your no-man-and-single predicament? NO, black women are smart enough to think like that.
Well how did they get in these situations, anyway? I mean, i'm not making excuses for them. But everyone makes mistakes and bad decisions. It's just that when all those Cinderellas fantasies of love and romance getting heavy rotation on tv all of our lives. We saw from that was a crock of schitt..........and we were dealing with reality. I think all women have the best intentions for themselves..........but most meet men who don't have the best interests for them.

It's the man's fault ass well! Women, don't produce babies by themselves.

Black men should take responsibility as well!
jaminbrit

Wisbech, UK

#13 Mar 29, 2009
This is the internet,anyone could pretend to be black.you have to read between the lines when there is a ''black man\woman'' bashing post posted.

Since: Jul 08

Racists Get Ignored!

#14 Mar 29, 2009
MDJ wrote:
<quoted text>
Well how did they get in these situations, anyway? I mean, i'm not making excuses for them. But everyone makes mistakes and bad decisions. It's just that when all those Cinderellas fantasies of love and romance getting heavy rotation on tv all of our lives. We saw from that was a crock of schitt..........and we were dealing with reality. I think all women have the best intentions for themselves..........but most meet men who don't have the best interests for them.
It's the man's fault ass well! Women, don't produce babies by themselves.
Black men should take responsibility as well!
Yeap. That's the problem I have been having with black women. Always blaming all black men.

No, hootchie mamas and thugs should take responsibility together. Not the normal, sane 15% of African-Americans that exist.
Brownsuga26

Quantico, VA

#15 Mar 29, 2009
Real Talk wrote:
I want all you ladies to really listen to want I have to say. I know that recently you have been seeing black men on topix and other sites bash black women. I personally do not agree with any group of people getting bashed. I believe that their are good and bad people in all races. I don't think one group of people should get labeled as being ghetto and unattractive based on their race or gender. Sistas I'm sorry for the comments of some of my brothers but I think all of us should acknowledge the things that are being said by black women.
Based on what I have observed over the last year. Black women online will say anything to put down black men. They will use any statistic, personal experience, or striaght up lies to make black men out to be the scum of the Earth. For example; it was this black female on youtube that brought up a comment made by Serena William a few years. She said that she didn't date a real man until she dated a white man. She didn't bring it to my attention because she was disgusted by the comment. She basically was throwing it in my face.
I have also notice that anything that's said negative about black men is always reinforced by black women. I have never seen a black women question any negative statement or statistic about black men. What they do is use whatever information they have and use it against us. To me that is been a huge problem that will continue to make things worse when it comes to black men and women relations.
Black women if you're tired of getting bashed you should stop bashing us. I saw a beautiful young lady on here state that " I never seen no other race of men disrespect there women like black men disrespect black women." However, she fails to see all of the disrespectful things that black women say about black men. Ladies want to be respect then try showing some.
Oh shut up. The woman on you tube was right, Serena Williams and Hallie Barrey didn't date real men until they dated white men. And if you don't like the stats against black men change your damn behavior. Respect is earned. Become real men and you'll get respect not only from us but from men of other races who have accomplished far more than you all have.

“Uncle Tom”

Since: Feb 07

Brooklyn, NY

#16 Mar 29, 2009
In real life , black women dont bash me and i dont see brothas . People take the internet too seriously, especially Topix. Anyone can talk shit anonymously. Right now i am trying to keep my job and keep out those bandits robbing the neighborhood.
An angry black man

AOL

#17 Mar 30, 2009
Real Talk wrote:
I want all you ladies to really listen to want I have to say. I know that recently you have been seeing black men on topix and other sites bash black women. I personally do not agree with any group of people getting bashed. I believe that their are good and bad people in all races. I don't think one group of people should get labeled as being ghetto and unattractive based on their race or gender. Sistas I'm sorry for the comments of some of my brothers but I think all of us should acknowledge the things that are being said by black women.
Based on what I have observed over the last year. Black women online will say anything to put down black men. They will use any statistic, personal experience, or striaght up lies to make black men out to be the scum of the Earth. For example; it was this black female on youtube that brought up a comment made by Serena William a few years. She said that she didn't date a real man until she dated a white man. She didn't bring it to my attention because she was disgusted by the comment. She basically was throwing it in my face.
I have also notice that anything that's said negative about black men is always reinforced by black women. I have never seen a black women question any negative statement or statistic about black men. What they do is use whatever information they have and use it against us. To me that is been a huge problem that will continue to make things worse when it comes to black men and women relations.
Black women if you're tired of getting bashed you should stop bashing us. I saw a beautiful young lady on here state that " I never seen no other race of men disrespect there women like black men disrespect black women." However, she fails to see all of the disrespectful things that black women say about black men. Ladies want to be respect then try showing some.
I am ready to give up on BLACK women. I am yired of being a good man, a caring man, aromantic man, generous man, a loving man, a honest man etc when Black women don't know how to appreciate it. They always want more or something different. They are never saticefied. They don't love us or care anything about Black men. So why do I keep trying to please them and help make them happy. There is only one answer I'm stupid. The definition of stupid is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a diferent out come each time and getting the same one over and over. I have tried to love and get treated like shit everytime. Nothing is going to change BLACK women are just hateful and evil. And if you brothers out there are smart we they come at you RUN to the closest asian woman you can find. Black women have made me like this, I used to think that they were the greatist things on earth. But now I know that they are a curse. We need a exorcist.
KIP

Novato, CA

#18 Mar 30, 2009
An angry black man wrote:
<quoted text>I am ready to give up on BLACK women. I am yired of being a good man, a caring man, aromantic man, generous man, a loving man, a honest man etc when Black women don't know how to appreciate it. They always want more or something different. They are never saticefied..
Maybe if you could spell you might get some play.
An angry black man

AOL

#19 Mar 31, 2009
when your angry you type fast and don't think about errors. thats all you got from my post. you must be a black woman. always seeing the small picture.
To the point

New York, NY

#20 Apr 15, 2009
LazlowX wrote:
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It's most black women. They date only thugz. These thugz mess up their life and leave them with babies. Now, these same black women age, hit their 30s, and THEN complain about not being able to find a good black men. WOW. Black women have too much baggage when they want to settle down. Ever factor your extra baggage into your no-man-and-single predicament? NO, black women are smart enough to think like that.
I have to agree on that one in terms of the aftermath of their mistakes. I'd liketo see more accountability in BW's actions. I know not all BW are like that but percentages are very high. I'm assuming you are referring to the one's here in US right?

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