Do African men have self-hate?

Do African men have self-hate?

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Prettyface

Joliet, IL

#1 Jan 2, 2012
I notice that many west African men prefer latino women or really lightskinned black women...When did this happen or has it always been like that? Do you think that African men that are married to African women just marry them to please their family?

When you think of African men you think of men who love themself & their women, & when you think of self-hate you think of African American men...but after being around so many Africans i beg to differ. I use to be a dancer & im not proud of this at all so please dont judge me people...

But I have seen some African men that seem insulted that the dark-skinned African or African American woman came up to them asking for dances, the African men made it very clear to the dark-skinned women that they wanted the lightskinned, mixed or latino woman.

After working in the strip-club industry for years I notice that the African men seem to go after the medium brown-skinned women,lightskinned women or biracial women almost every-time. Its very rare that they want a dark-skinned woman i dont care how beautiful she is.

Once in a while i have seen groups of African men laughing & insulting the dark-skinned African or African American woman as if they where unattractive. Half of the time the lightskinned woman or latino woman didn't even look as good as the dark-skinned woman...

But you could see the African men mouth water once the non-dark-skinned dancer entered the strip-club establishment, & with the dark-skinned woman the African men look like they where disgusted with her. I notice that African American men dont care about complexion as much, contrary to what the world believes.

If a dark-skinned pretty woman enters a room or club most African American & caribbean men will go for her before the average or cute lightskinned or latino woman. I have stripped at many clubs in my day & now i bartender at a nice restaurant.

I also bartender at a strip-club at night on the weekends & its the same-thing concerning dark-skinned women & African men, its rare that the African men like the dark-skinned woman. Which brings me back to my question do African men have self-hate?

Bc they are the only group of black men that i have seen do this. The only thing Black American men discriminate against is weight for the most part. Most African American men like black women to be thick in all the right places and they discriminate against skinny or medium size women from what i have notice.

In a black club you have to be over a size 12 to make any money the heavy hitters are usually a size 14 to 18. Sizes 0 to 6 usually gets no love no matter what complexion you are, but a size eight to ten if she is lightskinned can do well in black clubs.

So i guest African American men have preference for lightskinned women also...but at the same-time i seen women that where really dark do well at African American clubs, but they where a size 12 & up usually.

African American men like their women plus size. I honestly dont think African American men have self-hate, but i do think that west African men do.

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Prettyface

Joliet, IL

#4 Jan 2, 2012
Just say i can understand why so many west African women date white men, its bc some African men are not into them their into white or light.

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#5 Jan 2, 2012
Prettyface wrote:
i danced for 3 years
lol!

Men don't MARRY pole dancers. Way to fxck your life at the outset.

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#6 Jan 2, 2012
Yeah that self hate thing sucks dont it?
Prettyface

Joliet, IL

#7 Jan 2, 2012
a--x--e wrote:
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lol!
Men don't MARRY pole dancers. Way to fxck your life at the outset.
You will be ignored after this message.
Prettyface

Joliet, IL

#8 Jan 2, 2012
stud 101 wrote:
Yeah that self hate thing sucks dont it?
Yes its really sad when you think about it, & im far from dark-skinned & im kinda offended.

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#9 Jan 2, 2012
Prettyface wrote:
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You will be ignored after this message.
It's not my fault you can't understand why being a prostitute has lead you to a life where you feel the need to post on Topix quizzing strangers why men don't want your tainted azz.

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#10 Jan 2, 2012
Some blacks in general do...sorry .... Not just African men .

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#11 Jan 2, 2012
what I noticed is that African women also like fair guys....odd thing my mom is one! I didn't noticed it until I asked my mom why she married my dad (fair skin turkish and egyptian). She said she was never interested into the other guys tht wanted to marry her and when I asked what's attractive about dad..she's like he's tall, fair and loves his hair lol. Anyway alot of africans don't make a big deal about skin color unless they're really americanised. I see alot of dark african couples too and others just like the contrast.

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#12 Jan 2, 2012
100 white men invaded and took over the entire continent of Africa; these africans have no pride to begin with. Of course they want to breed out their dark skin, they believe and have proven to the world repeatedly that whites are superior to them.

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#13 Jan 2, 2012
You gotta love you if u dont, then no one else will i know us african men have some issues but nothing that cant be worked out

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#14 Jan 2, 2012
Jack 300 wrote:
100 white men invaded and took over the entire continent of Africa; these africans have no pride to begin with. Of course they want to breed out their dark skin, they believe and have proven to the world repeatedly that whites are superior to them.
First off Whites aren't superior....so just because there are people who are attracted to each other and like the contrast...... it is automatically considered self hate? LMAO.....so are Asians also self haters???

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#15 Jan 2, 2012
African women are hot ill take them over any latino or "fair women" maybe thats just me, i tell you one thing we dont marry african women to please our parents we do it cos there hot! Westa frican men marry light skinned females because they want light skinned babies but it dont bother us other africans

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#16 Jan 2, 2012
JRoxi wrote:
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First off Whites aren't superior....so just because there are people who are attracted to each other and like the contrast...... it is automatically considered self hate? LMAO.....so are Asians also self haters???
yes and yes

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#17 Jan 2, 2012
JRoxi wrote:
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First off Whites aren't superior....so just because there are people who are attracted to each other and like the contrast...... it is automatically considered self hate? LMAO.....so are Asians also self haters???
you are defensive because your mother hated her dark skin and thought whites were superior. Dont worry she is not alone.

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#18 Jan 2, 2012
Prettyface wrote:
I notice that many west African men prefer latino women or really lightskinned black women...When did this happen or has it always been like that? Do you think that African men that are married to African women just marry them to please their family?
When you think of African men you think of men who love themself & their women, & when you think of self-hate you think of African American men...but after being around so many Africans i beg to differ. I use to be a dancer & im not proud of this at all so please dont judge me people...
But I have seen some African men that seem insulted that the dark-skinned African or African American woman came up to them asking for dances, the African men made it very clear to the dark-skinned women that they wanted the lightskinned, mixed or latino woman.
After working in the strip-club industry for years I notice that the African men seem to go after the medium brown-skinned women,lightskinned women or biracial women almost every-time. Its very rare that they want a dark-skinned woman i dont care how beautiful she is.
Once in a while i have seen groups of African men laughing & insulting the dark-skinned African or African American woman as if they where unattractive. Half of the time the lightskinned woman or latino woman didn't even look as good as the dark-skinned woman...
But you could see the African men mouth water once the non-dark-skinned dancer entered the strip-club establishment, & with the dark-skinned woman the African men look like they where disgusted with her. I notice that African American men dont care about complexion as much, contrary to what the world believes.
If a dark-skinned pretty woman enters a room or club most African American & caribbean men will go for her before the average or cute lightskinned or latino woman. I have stripped at many clubs in my day & now i bartender at a nice restaurant.
I also bartender at a strip-club at night on the weekends & its the same-thing concerning dark-skinned women & African men, its rare that the African men like the dark-skinned woman. Which brings me back to my question do African men have self-hate?
Bc they are the only group of black men that i have seen do this. The only thing Black American men discriminate against is weight for the most part. Most African American men like black women to be thick in all the right places and they discriminate against skinny or medium size women from what i have notice.
In a black club you have to be over a size 12 to make any money the heavy hitters are usually a size 14 to 18. Sizes 0 to 6 usually gets no love no matter what complexion you are, but a size eight to ten if she is lightskinned can do well in black clubs.
So i guest African American men have preference for lightskinned women also...but at the same-time i seen women that where really dark do well at African American clubs, but they where a size 12 & up usually.
African American men like their women plus size. I honestly dont think African American men have self-hate, but i do think that west African men do.
only the westernized ones are like that, but the majority of them marry and end up with their women. I am Nigerian and I rarily see african men chase after latina or white women and if they do it is just dating not many will end up marrying them. http://www.africanexecutive.com/modules/magaz...
http://www.nigeriavillagesquare.com/articles/...

You need to go to african sites because most of the women I see african men rave are dark skinned, here is one women many african men have a crush on and wish they are married to and she is dark skinned:

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#19 Jan 2, 2012
And jack 300 keep telling urself that your no more superior then a f***ing cockroach last thing i remember is draging you headfirst whenyou and your boys couldnt do nothing but run like the little sissys that you are f***ing homo

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#20 Jan 2, 2012
stud 101 wrote:
And jack 300 keep telling urself that your no more superior then a f***ing cockroach last thing i remember is draging you headfirst whenyou and your boys couldnt do nothing but run like the little sissys that you are f***ing homo
oh i am not white, i am black, but honest. africans have done more to prove the existence of white supremacy than anyone, how pathetic.

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#21 Jan 2, 2012
Prettyface wrote:
I notice that many west African men prefer latino women or really lightskinned black women...When did this happen or has it always been like that? Do you think that African men that are married to African women just marry them to please their family?
When you think of African men you think of men who love themself & their women, & when you think of self-hate you think of African American men...but after being around so many Africans i beg to differ. I use to be a dancer & im not proud of this at all so please dont judge me people...
But I have seen some African men that seem insulted that the dark-skinned African or African American woman came up to them asking for dances, the African men made it very clear to the dark-skinned women that they wanted the lightskinned, mixed or latino woman.
After working in the strip-club industry for years I notice that the African men seem to go after the medium brown-skinned women,lightskinned women or biracial women almost every-time. Its very rare that they want a dark-skinned woman i dont care how beautiful she is.
Once in a while i have seen groups of African men laughing & insulting the dark-skinned African or African American woman as if they where unattractive. Half of the time the lightskinned woman or latino woman didn't even look as good as the dark-skinned woman...
But you could see the African men mouth water once the non-dark-skinned dancer entered the strip-club establishment, & with the dark-skinned woman the African men look like they where disgusted with her. I notice that African American men dont care about complexion as much, contrary to what the world believes.
If a dark-skinned pretty woman enters a room or club most African American & caribbean men will go for her before the average or cute lightskinned or latino woman. I have stripped at many clubs in my day & now i bartender at a nice restaurant.
I also bartender at a strip-club at night on the weekends & its the same-thing concerning dark-skinned women & African men, its rare that the African men like the dark-skinned woman. Which brings me back to my question do African men have self-hate?
Bc they are the only group of black men that i have seen do this. The only thing Black American men discriminate against is weight for the most part. Most African American men like black women to be thick in all the right places and they discriminate against skinny or medium size women from what i have notice.
In a black club you have to be over a size 12 to make any money the heavy hitters are usually a size 14 to 18. Sizes 0 to 6 usually gets no love no matter what complexion you are, but a size eight to ten if she is lightskinned can do well in black clubs.
So i guest African American men have preference for lightskinned women also...but at the same-time i seen women that where really dark do well at African American clubs, but they where a size 12 & up usually.
African American men like their women plus size. I honestly dont think African American men have self-hate, but i do think that west African men do.
here are some african videos and the women they put in their videos are black african:

http://www.youtube.com/watch...
http://www.youtube.com/watch...
http://www.youtube.com/watch...
http://www.youtube.com/watch...

in african american videos you wouldn;t even see these women but white and latina women:
http://www.youtube.com/verify_age...
http://www.youtube.com/watch...
http://www.youtube.com/watch...
http://www.youtube.com/watch...

I am not saying you won't see african men with self hate but it is very low and they tend to be westernized and not care for their culture in the first place

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#22 Jan 2, 2012
White supremecy was there, is there, and will be there, we didin't prove anything and dont try and put us on the same boat there were blck people ready to wipe out other blck people in the name of there god the white man, how pathetic

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