Is it racist not dating a white guy?
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Since: Dec 06

Albuquerque, NM

#63 Nov 11, 2008
Oli wrote:
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Since: Jan 08

Little River, SC

#64 Nov 11, 2008
Allaboutnothing wrote:
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Why so serious? A self-analysis? From who? Its clear that you have the problem. Not I!
Once again we have a female who refuse to read the content of the discussion I had with these two females. As I said earlier, I don't have to explain my actions to folks who refuses to read with understanding and comprehension. If they did it would be so plain to see that there is no issues other than the two of you with the exception of "qtgirl" who allowed me to see the err of my ways!
So back the hell up less you seriously want to "bring it!".........K!
LMAO @ you, ya judgmental attention whore. LMAO!

I reviewed all of your immature exchanges before I initially posted to you. All I saw was some overly judgmental, pretentious, dumbass trying to create a niche for his sorry self by become Mr. Microsoft Spell/Grammar check.

Get a life and a clue, dude. It's the internet! Not everybody is going to, or even wants to use perfect English every time they make a post.

And because you're so pathetically clueless on why everybody thinks you have deeper reasons for making an ass of yourself with your judgments on her writing, I'll explain it to you.

How many times have you done this to any other poster here? I assume you were able to ascertain the gist of what the OP was trying to convey, much like the rest of us were, so why pick on her?
Or is this some cowardly little punk thing you do every time you wanna lash out at someone, but not admit to disagreeing with her stance?

I better see you giving the same anal-retentive, bitchass obsession to correcting every single damn post on this fucked up forum. Because it's pretty strange that out of ALL the massive amounts of grammar issues I've seen on Topix by college students and non-college students alike, you curiously chose only this thread to come try and be a "prof" in, all while ironically fucking up your own initial post to her in the process. Now that's comedy.

But seriously dude, how the hell can you not get why at least two other posters in this thread think that your making a bitchfest about the OP's grammar, isn't some way of hiding your real sentiments on the issue she presented? Seriously...

BTW I don't really know or care if you're black, white or whatever.


Portsmouth, VA

#65 Nov 11, 2008
Allaboutnothing wrote:
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Get help. If you have any kind of resentment against me, just tell me. Just stop bitching and yelling at every girl in this topic. Jeez.
true dat


#66 Mar 21, 2009
"Wowzer! When all else fails try to "scare" em on your dick!
Lol! It's REAAALLLY funny how men from all races have tried to frighten some black women into dating them with this zinger.
Black men: "Be mo submissive like non-black women or you're gonna be one of dem 70% single chicks..."
White men: "Date out, or your no good "brothas" are gonna leave 70% of you single..."
Woe is me?! What's a black woman like me to do?!
Well my advice to women, if you aren't already in a pretty cool relationship, is not let assholes use these scare tactics on you. DO NOT date just any ole thing simply because you are afraid of being alone. Hell sometimes we need to be by ourselves for a quick minute in order to get in touch with ourselves, learn who we are, take honest inventory of our strengths and weaknesses and become better.
By no means should you be rushing to get with a guy out of fear of the whole 70% lonely bulljive. Take your time, become the woman you know you are, improve on yourself and love life. If you find someone that's wonderful. If you don't, that's life. Love isn't a right and not everybody WILL find somebody, nor do they need to in some cases. But if you love yourself first, there's a really good chance that others will love you too and if they don't...who cares? You love you enough to be okay regardless of whether you are with someone or not.
To the OP: Hell no woman! Lol! I have similar preferences in men. I won't see that I haven't seen some really nice looking white dudes before, but it's generally NOTHING like the "zing" I get when I see a dark chocolate, brown, or white chocolate light skinned man with a smile that could light up your world.
(yeah, asian dudes are cute too...)"
C/S true words indeed..being single is not as bad as people try to make has to have time to know more about themselves and find out their strengths and weaknesses before they venture off into a relationship.... work on yourself and make sure u're emotionally stable...especially if you are just coming out of an emotionally draining relationship...stay true to oneself...

Kittanning, PA

#67 Feb 7, 2012
No your not racist. Dating is a personal choice. Don't let anyone fool you into believing otherwise. I date only white guys. I am not attracted to black guys. That does not mean I don't respect and love all people. We all find different things we look for in a mate. Personal choice is important in who we are. Don't give yourself a hard time, or let anyone else for that matter.

Savannah, GA

#68 Nov 14, 2013
Kristen_08 wrote:
No thats not racist. Its the same way with me. im not attracted to white men. I have nothing against them, Im just not attracted. If a white guy told me he had no issues with black girls but wasnt attracted to them i wouldnt think he was racist
No youre not racist. That is your choice. the same with with whites who do not want their kids to date black. That is their choice for their kids regardless if they do it or not. I had a friend who mother wanted her to date only jewish men like her. I was NOT offended because I love black men as a black woman. And her mother was the sweetest person to me. It is a choice. I think we are a society who throwing that word around without knowing the true meaning of it.

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