Cuteblkdude

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#48 Mar 12, 2007
sthldn girl wrote:
<quoted text>babe dont take things personal,,most black girls i no arnt attracted to white men?? but there is interacial dating bw/wm,but not {as}much,as the reverse.i get confused by wot you mean hun,why does that mean your sistas dont get enuff credit,if {most} prefer black men,,explain to me babe,,
Lol, it don't matter. It is what it is. If it were up to me I wouldn't want any black women dating white men. But it's not realistic. I just hope their not out their getting waiting for the IBM (ideal black man). I wish every brotha thought like me, but they don't. It's kewl though. I was just curious. I just get passionate wit it sometimes.

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#49 Mar 12, 2007
cuteblkdude wrote:
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Mmmmmmmmmmmm, so if most of IR couples you see are BM/WW. Who are the black women dating. Or are they just sitting home knitting sweaters, lol. Just another curious question.
Good Question Cute,
Now a majority of black woman i know are still dating black men, but what appears to be occuring is with the influx of people coming from Africa and the Carribbean, there are a lot of blk women that are dating men from these countries rather than those black men born here, where there is still a strong concepts about the black family and unity. I see this all the time where i live, more so than inter-racial couples. So whatever floats your boat the choice is yours, i don't think blk women here necessarily feel their options are being limited
Cuteblkdude

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#50 Mar 12, 2007
justmeagain wrote:
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Well London has the highest number of black people concentrated in one area throughougt the U.K. Based on any stats i've seen their is a higher amount of black men dating white woman out of any inter-racial couple. Black women are also dating white men, but not at the rate black men are, but this is increasing. LG is correct that the U.K. has the fastest growing interacial couple in Europe, i'm not sure of the comparisons to the states. However on memory i belive that rate is by out paces the growth in the states. I belive that this is a sign that there is more racial harmony and acceptance from people living in the U.K.
I live outside London and it is common-place to be approached by as males from the white race as it is from the black race. I'm not discounting that there are racial issues and discrimination here. It would foolish for me to suggest otherwise, cos that would simply not be true.
I sometimes feel that we're putting the cart before the horse with the IR stuff. I personally feel that until they treat us more equally, stop disrcimination, and find a cure or vaccine for AIDS we should hold off on dating these white folks. If we did they we be so curious about us sexually, that they would probably get their acts together to treat us better. Since we're dating them in large numbers, why should they. whites treat us terribly and we're running around dating them like everything is ok. I know it is what it is, but I am just not fully kewl with it yet until the descrimination stops. They need to earn our passion.
Cuteblkdude

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#51 Mar 12, 2007
DWAYNE E13 wrote:
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lmao, why are the americans so obsessed with race, and their supposed to be the most civilized nation in the world (ye rite!).
Because white people are racist, bimwit!

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#52 Mar 12, 2007
Just to add to that,there is a lot of blk peeps coming here that are ambitious, well -educated, hard working proffessionals,if that is an issue for the black woman in terms of her personal choices then they are here as far as i can see anyway

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#53 Mar 12, 2007
simple logic wrote:
<quoted text>you never talk about nothing. Same ole stuff. When are you gonna grow?
Back off Mate if you don't want to read her comments then bypass it, simple logic really dont you think
earthproximacent auri

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#54 Mar 12, 2007
cuteblkdude wrote:
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Mmmmmmmmmmmmm, interesting. Anyway if London is such a big diverse melting pot then both black men and women should be IR dating and not just us brothas. People don't give sistas enough credit. Kinda gets on my nerves. That's all I'm saying. Either it's diverse or it isn't. Maybe I'll check it out one day.
my god,'CBD', it ain't that hard to figure out what she's sayin when you sift thru that weird-ass writing style she's got. she has the same tunnel vision just like so many others who like to present a distorted view that all white women want a black man and all black man want a white woman and ignoring all the other evidence that points to the contrary, always in denial not wanting to believe anything else. that's the kind of world 'sthldn girl' and like-minded people wants to see and have so they tell lies and believe the lies themselves.
earthproximacent auri

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#56 Mar 12, 2007
DWAYNE E13 wrote:
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lmao, why are the americans so obsessed with race, and their supposed to be the most civilized nation in the world (ye rite!).
nah, america has the worst social hang-ups in the world. not just race either. they include race, religion, politics, social and economic status.
Cuteblkdude

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#57 Mar 12, 2007
justmeagain wrote:
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Well London has the highest number of black people concentrated in one area throughougt the U.K. Based on any stats i've seen their is a higher amount of black men dating white woman out of any inter-racial couple. Black women are also dating white men, but not at the rate black men are, but this is increasing. LG is correct that the U.K. has the fastest growing interacial couple in Europe, i'm not sure of the comparisons to the states. However on memory i belive that rate is by out paces the growth in the states. I belive that this is a sign that there is more racial harmony and acceptance from people living in the U.K.
I live outside London and it is common-place to be approached by as males from the white race as it is from the black race. I'm not discounting that there are racial issues and discrimination here. It would foolish for me to suggest otherwise, cos that would simply not be true.
I think that we are putting the cart be the horse with all of this IR stuff. I feel that until discrimination stops, racial profiling stops, we’re treated better, and they find a cure or vaccine for AIDS that we should hold off on dating these white folks. You know white folks are very curious about us sexually. If we held off dating them, I think we will be sending a pretty good message that until we’re treated better, we shouldn’t be intimate. The fact that we are dating them after the way they are treating us sometimes tells them that we just don’t care about ourselves and we just go wit the flow. I know it is what it is, and I’ve learned to deal with it. However, in my opinion I feel that until discrimination stops we should let these white folks be. If they want to date us they should earn it and right now they’re doing a terrible job of it!
Cuteblkdude

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#58 Mar 12, 2007
Sorry for the repeat. My comment didn't post the first time.
Cuteblkdude

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#59 Mar 12, 2007
justmeagain wrote:
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Back off Mate if you don't want to read her comments then bypass it, simple logic really dont you think
Thank you. You do know I'm a dude right, lol.
Cuteblkdude

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#60 Mar 12, 2007
justmeagain wrote:
<quoted text> Good Question Cute,
Now a majority of black woman i know are still dating black men, but what appears to be occuring is with the influx of people coming from Africa and the Carribbean, there are a lot of blk women that are dating men from these countries rather than those black men born here, where there is still a strong concepts about the black family and unity. I see this all the time where i live, more so than inter-racial couples. So whatever floats your boat the choice is yours, i don't think blk women here necessarily feel their options are being limited
Thank you for your input. I just don't want any of our people getting the short end of the stick.

Since: Mar 07

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#61 Mar 12, 2007
Yolanda wrote: "I am soooo sick of these sort of topics. I am a black woman and I could care less if a black man goes out with a white woman or if a black woman goes out with a white man. We do not have "claim" to anyone, and I myself have been attracted to and dated men outside of my culture and race.

This is pathetic. I am starting to believe all of these sort of topic posts are started by white females who want to get a "kick" out of reading black women's reactions. I could care less!!!"

Talk about reverse discrimination!! Why does everything down in the US end up being racial issues? Is it just an excuse for not taking responsibility for your life?
Cuteblkdude

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#62 Mar 12, 2007
I Taylor wrote:
Yolanda wrote: "I am soooo sick of these sort of topics. I am a black woman and I could care less if a black man goes out with a white woman or if a black woman goes out with a white man. We do not have "claim" to anyone, and I myself have been attracted to and dated men outside of my culture and race.
This is pathetic. I am starting to believe all of these sort of topic posts are started by white females who want to get a "kick" out of reading black women's reactions. I could care less!!!"
Talk about reverse discrimination!! Why does everything down in the US end up being racial issues? Is it just an excuse for not taking responsibility for your life?
what you said had nothing to do with the subject. if you have nothing worth wild to say then leave.

“keep it fair across the board!”

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#63 Mar 12, 2007
DWAYNE E13 wrote:
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why do black women seem to think that black guys belong 2 them , its no ones business who someone decides to go out with.
Not all black women feel that black men belong to them.

“keep it fair across the board!”

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#64 Mar 12, 2007
Cuteblkdude wrote:
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I sometimes feel that we're putting the cart before the horse with the IR stuff. I personally feel that until they treat us more equally, stop disrcimination, and find a cure or vaccine for AIDS we should hold off on dating these white folks. If we did they we be so curious about us sexually, that they would probably get their acts together to treat us better. Since we're dating them in large numbers, why should they. whites treat us terribly and we're running around dating them like everything is ok. I know it is what it is, but I am just not fully kewl with it yet until the descrimination stops. They need to earn our passion.
Everything you said in this post maybe true but guess what until we (AAs) as women and men show each other all of the things you mentioned it will never work. I cant speak for everyone else but I wouldnt date anyone of any race if they werent treating me right. But I do respect your opinion.

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Since: Mar 07

"SOUTH LONDON BABY"

#65 Mar 13, 2007
earthproximacentauri wrote:
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my god,'CBD', it ain't that hard to figure out what she's sayin when you sift thru that weird-ass writing style she's got. she has the same tunnel vision just like so many others who like to present a distorted view that all white women want a black man and all black man want a white woman and ignoring all the other evidence that points to the contrary, always in denial not wanting to believe anything else. that's the kind of world 'sthldn girl' and like-minded people wants to see and have so they tell lies and believe the lies themselves.
listen a$$$h8e if i remember correctley you told me to keep out of your buissness {to do with the us}well now im talking about where im from,,so now YOUUUU keep outa mine,,alrightMATE.BY THE WAY JMA,said the same,and shes a black lady so shut the fu...

“mr snoop”

Since: Mar 07

"SOUTH LONDON BABY"

#66 Mar 13, 2007
FlipperX wrote:
<quoted text>I will admit one thing- from my experiences black coochie tastes better than white cooch. For some reason alot of white girls dont like to keep it smelling good down there and youd think it was the big white women but the majority of then were the skinnies for me. Big black women usually can give good bjs but not skinny black women. Also black women groove it better but it just seems like whites are more sincere to you about being into it and feeling good. As far as my experiences with women I have to put the young skinny spoiled whites at the bottom- you know the kind most men want. They just dont wanna put any effort into making you feel good, only worried about themselves. Big white women overrall are the best sexually but theres alot of good in black women sexually too.
excuse me no offence,,but whatthe h£ll did any of this have to do wiv the question???
KIP

San Francisco, CA

#67 Mar 13, 2007
Cuteblkdude wrote:
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I think that we are putting the cart be the horse with all of this IR stuff. I feel that until discrimination stops, racial profiling stops, we’re treated better, and they find a cure or vaccine for AIDS that we should hold off on dating these white folks. You know white folks are very curious about us sexually. If we held off dating them, I think we will be sending a pretty good message that until we’re treated better, we shouldn’t be intimate. The fact that we are dating them after the way they are treating us sometimes tells them that we just don’t care about ourselves and we just go wit the flow. I know it is what it is, and I’ve learned to deal with it. However, in my opinion I feel that until discrimination stops we should let these white folks be. If they want to date us they should earn it and right now they’re doing a terrible job of it!
Negro please!

Quit asking white folks to treat you better. Treat yourself first. Quit shooting up neighborhoods, get a damn education, keep a good job and STFU for a change. White folks this, white folks that --- what about YOU!?? You talk a lot in generalities here, so I am addressing you in generalities.

“mr snoop”

Since: Mar 07

"SOUTH LONDON BABY"

#68 Mar 13, 2007
Cuteblkdude wrote:
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Lol, it don't matter. It is what it is. If it were up to me I wouldn't want any black women dating white men. But it's not realistic. I just hope their not out their getting waiting for the IBM (ideal black man). I wish every brotha thought like me, but they don't. It's kewl though. I was just curious. I just get passionate wit it sometimes.
cbd,,you seriousley are one in a million,,your so sweet,,even if i dont get you babe,,lol..haha

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