Hate it when black men go out with wh...

Hate it when black men go out with white women

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layla

London, UK

#1 Mar 12, 2007
im not bein roud or anythin but its just a thing that i react to wen i see a fine young black guy wit a white women.Im not racist or anythin but i just naturally screw my face.
I dont know why but what do u lot think cause i maybe wrong to say things lik that but its just how i feel. Im sure that white women dont mind black girls goin out wit white men but im sure they stare wen seein us walk down the street.

Since: Feb 07

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#2 Mar 12, 2007
sweetie to each its own i don't date outside of my race either i'll take them blue black if i could. its not going to stop just get use to it. its not going away.
Ashley

Windsor, CO

#4 Mar 12, 2007
Why does EVERYTHING HAVE TO be about race with us AAs? Did you ever stop to think that maybe two people who simply find each other attractive....that they were "meant to be"??? So what if there are AA men with Caucasian women. So what if there are AA women with Caucasian men. I just don't understand why people are so bothered by this. Could it be jealously?
layla

London, UK

#5 Mar 12, 2007
My friend is attracted to a white man and she doesnt mind a change cause black men have let her down but she use to have the same view. Thats it is not that gud but yeah i understand that it is not gonna change and i mean im not deeply upset but its just how i feel by the way r u black or white
Rob

Washington, DC

#6 Mar 12, 2007
layla wrote:
im not bein roud or anythin but its just a thing that i react to wen i see a fine young black guy wit a white women.Im not racist or anythin but i just naturally screw my face.
I dont know why but what do u lot think cause i maybe wrong to say things lik that but its just how i feel. Im sure that white women dont mind black girls goin out wit white men but im sure they stare wen seein us walk down the street.
Is it only fine young black guys having white women that bothers you or is it any black guy? Frankly, I think you're just reacting to the way you've been conditioned to think. You think that "your" men are dating someone else, when they should be dating/marrying you or a "sister." The time for that type of thinking is past. If I were you, I'd challenge myself to get over those feelings and recognize that every person is free to love whomever he wants. Have you ever dated someone of a different race? Maybe you should, just to see for yourself that color really is only skin deep. I have a number of single, attractive, accomplished black female friends who are waiting for their ideal black man to come along. I tell them they need to cast their net wider and stop limiting themselves.

“mr snoop”

Since: Mar 07

"SOUTH LONDON BABY"

#8 Mar 12, 2007
layla wrote:
im not bein roud or anythin but its just a thing that i react to wen i see a fine young black guy wit a white women.Im not racist or anythin but i just naturally screw my face.
I dont know why but what do u lot think cause i maybe wrong to say things lik that but its just how i feel. Im sure that white women dont mind black girls goin out wit white men but im sure they stare wen seein us walk down the street.
well layla,thats london for you,you should be used to it by now girl,,,,,
ccheeksd

Redmond, WA

#9 Mar 12, 2007
Hmmmm is it really neccesary? I mean damn don't hate on the girl because she got a good looking brotha hahahaaa there is nothing you can do about and unless you steal him "back" from her he is still gonna be with the girl regardless.
Just focus on your man and don't watch the black guy with the white girl :o)

It all proves futile and a waste of your energy because they don't care about you like that.

I'm black by the way incase you was wondering.

I don't date outside my race but I don't hate on people in IR's. What's the point? Its not for me but other people can do it if that's what they want to do. I can't dictate their lives and choices.
Ashley

Windsor, CO

#10 Mar 12, 2007
layla wrote:
My friend is attracted to a white man and she doesnt mind a change cause black men have let her down but she use to have the same view. Thats it is not that gud but yeah i understand that it is not gonna change and i mean im not deeply upset but its just how i feel by the way r u black or white
Who? Me or cuteblkdude?
Ashley

Windsor, CO

#11 Mar 12, 2007
Rob wrote:
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Maybe you should, just to see for yourself that color really is only skin deep. I have a number of single, attractive, accomplished black female friends who are waiting for their ideal black man to come along. I tell them they need to cast their net wider and stop limiting themselves.
Layla.....this man here just took the words right out of my finger tips.....don't EVER limit yourself for ANY man, no matter the race. Stop waiting on Mr. Black Knight and try finding Mr. Right PERIOD. The problem with too many AA women is that we tend limit ourselves when that's the worse thing you can do. Sweetie, don't dwell on what another man is doing with another woman....just find YOUR happiness and trust me....nothing else will matter. A Caucasian man can treat you just as good as any AA man will treat. Just find yourself a good man, no matter what race he is, and you'll find that out for yourself.

Since: Feb 07

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#13 Mar 12, 2007
ccheeksd wrote:
Hmmmm is it really neccesary? I mean damn don't hate on the girl because she got a good looking brotha hahahaaa there is nothing you can do about and unless you steal him "back" from her he is still gonna be with the girl regardless.
Just focus on your man and don't watch the black guy with the white girl :o)
It all proves futile and a waste of your energy because they don't care about you like that.
I'm black by the way incase you was wondering.
I don't date outside my race but I don't hate on people in IR's. What's the point? Its not for me but other people can do it if that's what they want to do. I can't dictate their lives and choices.
well said!

“mr snoop”

Since: Mar 07

"SOUTH LONDON BABY"

#14 Mar 12, 2007
cuteblkdude wrote:
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Wassup LG I hear a lot of black women in London date outside their race as well. Is that true. Just curious never been to London.
hey you cute,black.dude,,lol,,well actually i see more white women with black men and not so many black girls with white men if you want the truth,,lol..london is just a multicultral place,black white morracan greek cypriot turkish mixed raced asian,hell the whole world lives in london,hahahaha,im surprised the lady has even bothered to do this thread,,lol,..and i live in brixtonnnnn,,south london baby,brixton has the most amount of west indian african heritedge pep in the whole of london,so im kewllllllllll,,,hahahaha,and you need to get yourself over here and check out the clubs,,alll of you,,lmao/..
layla

London, UK

#15 Mar 12, 2007
Ashley wrote:
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Who? Me or cuteblkdude?

no i was askin yellow bone
layla

London, UK

#16 Mar 12, 2007
cuteblkdude wrote:
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There are plenty of thread that center on this topic and they have a lot of responses. Why didn't you just read those. Why are you starting a whole new thread on the same repetitive topic. We all don't want white women. When will it sink in?
(lol) i know we dont but because im new i didnt realise and also im starting a whole new convo because i cannot be bothered to read all the others. But i think i should though.
layla

London, UK

#17 Mar 12, 2007
sthldn girl wrote:
<quoted text>well layla,thats london for you,you should be used to it by now girl,,,,,
wat do u mean? do u mean that lodon is a multicultral city is dat wat u mean.
Rob

Washington, DC

#18 Mar 12, 2007
cuteblkdude wrote:
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Wassup LG I hear a lot of black women in London date outside their race as well. Is that true. Just curious never been to London.
It's true to a much greater degree than in the US and it doesn't appear to be any big deal. I read in The Economist Magazine that there are more children born to black/white couples in the UK than are born to black/black couples. And if you exclude first generation immigrants from Africa, the numbers of IR are even higher. My partner is from a small very rural village in the south of England. There are no blck folk living there that I've ever seen. But one of his neighbors came by to visit and she had her two little brown babies with her. Seems she fell in love with a black man when she was travelling and the rest is history. But the point is that the people in this riral village seem to have no issue with the whole racial thing. Not saying that doesn't happen here, but I think we still have more issues with it. Even black folk. In some cases, especially black folk.
layla

London, UK

#19 Mar 12, 2007
Rob wrote:
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Is it only fine young black guys having white women that bothers you or is it any black guy? Frankly, I think you're just reacting to the way you've been conditioned to think. You think that "your" men are dating someone else, when they should be dating/marrying you or a "sister." The time for that type of thinking is past. If I were you, I'd challenge myself to get over those feelings and recognize that every person is free to love whomever he wants. Have you ever dated someone of a different race? Maybe you should, just to see for yourself that color really is only skin deep. I have a number of single, attractive, accomplished black female friends who are waiting for their ideal black man to come along. I tell them they need to cast their net wider and stop limiting themselves.
you know what, let me clap my hands for you, cause that was well said, you are right and i can't argue with that. The society is changing and everyone is going out with any other race and it doesnt really matter to them anymore, like it use to back then.
im gonna try and stop hating on seeing black men wit the white girls because i think it is silly thanks for changing my mind and realising that it is just perfectic to think like that.

“mr snoop”

Since: Mar 07

"SOUTH LONDON BABY"

#21 Mar 12, 2007
layla wrote:
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wat do u mean? do u mean that lodon is a multicultral city is dat wat u mean.
yes,, layla,,so your new ,,well welcome to topics,,watch out for these yankees,,lmao,,just jokin peps dont all shoot me,,lmao

“mr snoop”

Since: Mar 07

"SOUTH LONDON BABY"

#22 Mar 12, 2007
layla wrote:
My friend is attracted to a white man and she doesnt mind a change cause black men have let her down but she use to have the same view. Thats it is not that gud but yeah i understand that it is not gonna change and i mean im not deeply upset but its just how i feel by the way r u black or white
thats because most of the men in london are a££holes,wotever colour they are,lmao..lol
layla

London, UK

#23 Mar 12, 2007
cuteblkdude wrote:
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Wassup LG I hear a lot of black women in London date outside their race as well. Is that true. Just curious never been to London.
yes loads do yeah its mainly the woman but i swear in america the women date outside there own race as well.
But did u know that london has the most mixed race ppl than the whole of europe

ECR

Since: Jan 07

Arlington, VA

#25 Mar 12, 2007
cuteblkdude wrote:
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There are plenty of thread that center on this topic and they have a lot of responses. Why didn't you just read those. Why are you starting a whole new thread on the same repetitive topic. We all don't want white women. When will it sink in?
Yeah, this definitely falls in the "been there, done that" category as far as Topix threads go, but I wasn't going to say anything ;-)

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