Do men who produce out of wedlock children believe it proves their virility

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I am asking solely about men.

A man on the train was speaking quite loudly about how he produced at least 9 kids throughout the country. Why is that a source of pride?

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TimeforHonesty wrote:
I am asking solely about men.
A man on the train was speaking quite loudly about how he produced at least 9 kids throughout the country. Why is that a source of pride?
Shaddup!

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Its Hellywood wrote:
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Shaddup!
Answer and I will.

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Answer and I will.
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None of them that prescribe to that mentality will answer accept to blame the women they have multiple kids with.

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CyberSoulSista wrote:
None of them that prescribe to that mentality will answer accept to blame the women they have multiple kids with.
So true.

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CyberSoulSista wrote:
None of them that prescribe to that mentality will answer accept to blame the women they have multiple kids with.
I'm wondering what is so mystical about women..I mean for the life of me I donít get it..it could be that you are just stupid?

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CyberSoulSista...,
I mean when you say ďmultiple kidsĒ..looks to me someone hasnít learnt a lesson?..or have I missed something here?
I donít think so..you are stupid.

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freddie47 wrote:
<quoted text>I'm wondering what is so mystical about women..I mean for the life of me I don’t get it..it could be that you are just stupid?
Ask your mother which is probably the most stupid female you know. NOW if you want to converse with me I suggest you mentally prepare yourself.

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freddie47 wrote:
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I mean when you say ¬ďmultiple kids¬Ē..looks to me someone hasn¬ít learnt a lesson?..or have I missed something here?
I don’t think so..you are stupid.
Are you guilty of having multiple kids with multiple partners? I'm not so its not me that's stupid. Obviously the MALES the OP was referring to hasn't learned a lesson if they fit the topic posted huh? OR are you too stupid to comprehend that?

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CyberSoulSista...,

Ask your dad to lead you down the right path dumbo...if you know who your dad is that is LOL!!

None of your damned business who I choose to get next to. Is called human nature..live with it...dumbo.

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freddie47 wrote:
CyberSoulSista...,

Ask your dad to lead you down the right path dumbo...if you know who your dad is that is LOL!!

None of your damned business who I choose to get next to. Is called human nature..live with it...dumbo.
The dumbo is ur overly sensitive, weak, obviously offended by the topic azz. I don't have to live with anything concerning your weak azz.

Yes, I've known my dad 46 years and counting. Do the kids you've fathered which is why ur offended by the topic know ur weak azz? It must suck to have a weak azz excuse for a father like you.

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CyberSoulSista...,
We can go back and forth until the cows come home but it all boils down to it takes two to tango.

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freddie47 wrote:
CyberSoulSista...,

Ask your dad to lead you down the right path dumbo...if you know who your dad is that is LOL!!

None of your damned business who I choose to get next to. Is called human nature..live with it...dumbo.
Is that your VIRILITY talking? LOL!

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freddie47 wrote:
CyberSoulSista...,
We can go back and forth until the cows come home but it all boils down to it takes two to tango.
It only takes one to think it proves his virility which was the question the OP asked; but we already know comprehension skills eludes you.

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freddie47 wrote:
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I agree , but why in the Black Community Out of Wedlock kids is solely blamed on the women?
When i bring up the fact of men and multiple kids ,it's nearly always blamed on the female.
Yes , the women have control over their bodies but so do the men. Those very same men will go on and have multiple out of wedlock kids with numerous women..... which they don't take care of...or crying about child support.

I feel you though it does take two, sadly most of the time only the women are blamed.

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Maybe the kids represent the number of women he has procreated with.

Also, what if a man has many children by a single mother?

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CyberSoulSista wrote:
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It only takes one to think it proves his virility which was the question the OP asked; but we already know comprehension skills eludes you.
So we canít read between the lines and then construct a response then huh!!..dumbo..LOL.

Take your tired azz to bed..Iím out..good night.

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BlackReign wrote:
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I agree , but why in the Black Community Out of Wedlock kids is solely blamed on the women?
When i bring up the fact of men and multiple kids ,it's nearly always blamed on the female.
Yes , the women have control over their bodies but so do the men. Those very same men will go on and have multiple out of wedlock kids with numerous women..... which they don't take care of...or crying about child support.
I feel you though it does take two, sadly most of the time only the women are blamed.
I don't think there's enough "blame" placed on either party.

My estimation is that both, men & women are careless, negligent and utterly SLOPPY when it comes to birth control.

Oh yes...this is largely an issue of birth control. And when you DO have 2 consenting adults who are embarking on conception, and if 1 happens to disband from the "relationship" for whatever reason, then here comes the blame game from the one who wants out.

Like I said, the sh!t is sloppy...

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