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Phoenix

Houston, TX

#47 Apr 23, 2013
DISASTER LOOMS wrote:
<quoted text>double standards are part of real life. i don't know any woman who would require 'virginity' from their men, besides in the highly feminized aa community and their army of manginas.
even in arab culture where arab men are some of the horniest **** on the planet. a 20-something year old arab woman will almost always be a virgin on her wedding day.

chastity doesn't define a real man, but it does define a woman.
1 Corinthians 7:1-40

Now concerning the matters about which you wrote:“It is good for a man NOT to have sexual relations with a woman.” But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.

The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband.

For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does.

Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.

Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control....
Phoenix

Houston, TX

#48 Apr 23, 2013
DISASTER LOOMS wrote:
<quoted text>double standards are part of real life. i don't know any woman who would require 'virginity' from their men, besides in the highly feminized aa community and their army of manginas.
even in arab culture where arab men are some of the horniest **** on the planet. a 20-something year old arab woman will almost always be a virgin on her wedding day.

chastity doesn't define a real man, but it does define a woman.
1Corinthian 6:18

Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body

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#49 Apr 23, 2013
DISASTER LOOMS wrote:
<quoted text>
double standards are part of real life. i don't know any woman who would require 'virginity' from their men, besides in the highly feminized aa community and their army of manginas.
even in arab culture where arab men are some of the horniest **** on the planet. a 20-something year old arab woman will almost always be a virgin on her wedding day.
chastity doesn't define a real man, but it does define a woman.
You make some really compelling points, LOOMS.

I would have to agree with you...there are more women that would prefer their men to have a significant amount of sexual experience first. But there are also men who may want a more sexually experienced woman too.

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Since: May 10

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#50 Apr 23, 2013
vampiYAH stabB wrote:
<quoted text>You make some really compelling points, LOOMS.
I would have to agree with you...there are more women that would prefer their men to have a significant amount of sexual experience first. But there are also men who may want a more sexually experienced woman too.
well the point was men and women are not equals. men build protect and die protecting if they have to. women nest and support their men, and raise the next generation of kickass aa (in the case of aa).

the nature of this relationship should raise a woman's sense of sexual morality and maternal instincts. but in the aa community, you might have more luck finding a bag full of $100 bills than sexual morality and maternal instincts.

you know aaw have no problem letting bm know what they expect from a man, but aam seem to be completely clueless when it comes to defining just the minimum requirements he expects from bw.

what i can tell you is that bm do their women no favors by allowing them to run around all crazy and stupid. cuz this type of bw has no future and will be destroyed. this i guarantee you.

cuz no community can survive when it's women have been corrupted to the degree aaw have.

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#51 Apr 23, 2013
Phoenix wrote:
<quoted text>
1 Corinthians 7:1-40
Now concerning the matters about which you wrote:“It is good for a man NOT to have sexual relations with a woman.” But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.
The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband.
For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does.
Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.
Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control....
polygamy was a common practice when that was written, deal. like i said when it comes to sexual matters men and women are not equals.
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#53 Apr 24, 2013
Phoenix wrote:
<quoted text>
1 Corinthians 7:1-40
Now concerning the matters about which you wrote:“It is good for a man NOT to have sexual relations with a woman.” But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.
The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband.
For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does.
Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.
Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control....
MACEO

Why post Scriptures that you don't live? LMAO

Your SCRIPTURES ARE PROVERBS 5

You chased wh*res and acted like one on the wife of your youth. God said you'll lose your life and YOU DID!

GOD WORD IS TRUE!

EVEN WHEN YOU LIVE THE WAY YOU CHOSE; YOUR STILL EFFECTED BY IT!
Phoenix

Houston, TX

#55 Apr 24, 2013
DISASTER LOOMS wrote:
<quoted text>polygamy was a common practice when that was written, deal. like i said when it comes to sexual matters men and women are not equals.
Sir, I'm not presuming that the genders are equal. I'm reiterating what the Word of God says that both men and women of God are to refrain from engaging in sexual immorality of any kind. I don't know why you don't view it as the term deal you used. It most certainly is a big deal. We can't vex our God.
Phoenix

Houston, TX

#56 Apr 24, 2013
DISASTER LOOMS wrote:
<quoted text>polygamy was a common practice when that was written, deal. like i said when it comes to sexual matters men and women are not equals.
1Corinthian 6:18

Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.

I believe this is quite frank on the subject at hand. It's not an antiquated belief at all.
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#57 Apr 25, 2013
Phoenix-DisasterLooms----MACEO wrote:
<quoted text>
1Corinthian 6:18
Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.
I believe this is quite frank on the subject at hand. It's not an antiquated belief at all.
MACEO

We all know the profiles are yours! lmao No need to continue to act childish, your almost 60 years old! lmao

Proverbs 5

When your flesh and your body are consumed,
12 And say:

“How I have hated instruction,
And my heart despised correction!

13 I have not obeyed the voice of my teachers,
Nor inclined my ear to those who instructed me!
I lost everything!

14 I was on the verge of total ruin,
In the midst of the assembly and congregation.”

15 Drink water from your own cistern,
And running water from your own well.

16 Should your fountains be dispersed abroad,
Streams of water in the streets?

17 Let them be only your own,
And not for strangers with you.

18 Let your fountain be blessed,
And rejoice with the wife of your youth.

19 As a loving deer and a graceful doe,
Let her breasts satisfy you at all times;
And always be enraptured with her love.

20 For why should you, my son, be enraptured by an immoral woman,
And be embraced in the arms of a seductress?

21 For the ways of man are before the eyes of the Lord,
And He ponders all his paths.

22 His own iniquities entrap the wicked man,
And he is caught in the cords of his sin shall
strangle himself.

23 He shall die in his shame for lack of instruction,
And in the greatness of his folly he shall go astray
to show others.

Heed the Instructions of GOD! lmao
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#60 Apr 25, 2013
DISASTER LOOMS wrote:
<quoted text>
well the point was men and women are not equals. men build protect and die protecting if they have to. women nest and support their men, and raise the next generation of kickass aa (in the case of aa).
the nature of this relationship should raise a woman's sense of sexual morality and maternal instincts. but in the aa community, you might have more luck finding a bag full of $100 bills than sexual morality and maternal instincts.
you know aaw have no problem letting bm know what they expect from a man, but aam seem to be completely clueless when it comes to defining just the minimum requirements he expects from bw.
what i can tell you is that bm do their women no favors by allowing them to run around all crazy and stupid. cuz this type of bw has no future and will be destroyed. this i guarantee you.
cuz no community can survive when it's women have been corrupted to the degree aaw have.
MACEO

When a community or group of men don't know what it takes to be men; that group fails to be the Head, "lead, provide, protect, Father, Marry" that cultural/race falls apart!

Even though AAW are doing far better than AAM the position of head goes to the man. When men fail; eventually the women to to other races of men..........your so called enemy the White man!

God said "Your Best Women will go to your enemy and your children will despise you" for your sins!
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#61 Apr 25, 2013
Jiggz29--DISASTER LOOMS---MACEO wrote:
<quoted text>
Don't see that happening anytime soon not because black men are sick of bw here in America but black women period black men like other races of men like verities of women. Plus most Africans are tribal they won't date outside their tribe.
Well, I think she's attractive but that's a lot of money or flights. She looks different without all of her Weave-ables.

WhatDawnDidInHeels

My Natural Hair Journey #Fail...?!

http://youtu.be/Kmityih8ahI

Oh well, she doesn't even look the same without all of makeup, false lashes and weaves!

http://youtu.be/Kmityih8ahI

There' still an attractive couple!

Ill stick with the White men! lmao
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#62 Apr 25, 2013
Jiggz29--DISASTER LOOMS-MACEO wrote:
<quoted text>
Don't see that happening anytime soon not because black men are sick of bw here in America but black women period black men like other races of men like verities of women. Plus most Africans are tribal they won't date outside their tribe.
MACEO

BW are Following the Resource (Money) Trail Strategically – Vetting for Resources in Relationships vs Programmed Cluelessness where BW get nothing.

Thank GOD!

BLOG:

I’ve lived in and mingled among non-AA ethnic groups and other races almost 24-7, since I was 18. The overwhelming most of teen girls and younger women in virtually all other ethnic groups and races learn very early (because they observe and are taught) that a lot about having a satisfying, successful relationship and family life with a man hinges on there being enough resources. DUH! So, they normally seek out that type of man who can provide, protect, lead and take care of their families. That's normal to them.

Okay, I know that many readers (from other groups and races) will find what I’m about to say to be unbelievable, but typical AA black teen girls and AA women are routinely and repeatedly told (taught) that if they meet a man and he’s struggling and trying to make it, that she should join him in his struggling and trying because he means well and that at least he’s not selling drugs or in jail. Even if he has to live off you and disrespects you hang in there with him. It’s typical for AA women on every level and all ages to hear a version of this and be scolded for not giving a struggling same-ethnic group man a chance.

Bw, STOP GIVING THIS MESSAGE TO BLACK GIRLS! It’s way past time for us to get rid of this message.

KILL this message!

Why? It’s because struggling + struggling almost always = MORE struggling or compounded struggling, wasted, blighted lives, stress, misery, strife, AND .... It may seem noble to you to hitch your wagon to the wagon of a struggling Black man's just struggles and in his struggles he will take you down, destroy you, destroy any good you've done because you felt sorry for him.

Find the BEST MAN not a Black man! If you see this in any man....RUN! When a man comes into fruition by 28-30 yrs old after that its pretty much over; what you see in him you get.

If he's a failure.........he won't change!

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Time to move on and many Black women are moving on!
yea

New Canaan, CT

#63 Apr 25, 2013
where dem white women bees at
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#64 Apr 26, 2013
BW are Following the Resource (Money) Trail Strategically – Vetting for Resources in Relationships vs Programmed Cluelessness where BW get nothing.

Thank GOD!

BLOG:

I’ve lived in and mingled among non-AA ethnic groups and other races almost 24-7, since I was 18. The overwhelming most of teen girls and younger women in virtually all other ethnic groups and races learn very early (because they observe and are taught) that a lot about having a satisfying, successful relationship and family life with a man hinges on there being enough resources. DUH! So, they normally seek out that type of man who can provide, protect, lead and take care of their families. That's normal to them.

Okay, I know that many readers (from other groups and races) will find what I’m about to say to be unbelievable, but typical AA black teen girls and AA women are routinely and repeatedly told (taught) that if they meet a man and he’s struggling and trying to make it, that she should join him in his struggling and trying because he means well and that at least he’s not selling drugs or in jail. Even if he has to live off you and disrespects you hang in there with him. It’s typical for AA women on every level and all ages to hear a version of this and be scolded for not giving a struggling same-ethnic group man a chance.

Bw, STOP GIVING THIS MESSAGE TO BLACK GIRLS! It’s way past time for us to get rid of this message.

KILL this message!

Why? It’s because struggling + struggling almost always = MORE struggling or compounded struggling, wasted, blighted lives, stress, misery, strife, AND .... It may seem noble to you to hitch your wagon to the wagon of a struggling Black man's just struggles and in his struggles he will take you down, destroy you, destroy any good you've done because you felt sorry for him.

Find the BEST MAN not a Black man! If you see this in any man....RUN! When a man comes into fruition by 28-30 yrs old after that its pretty much over; what you see in him you get.

If he's a failure.........he won't change!
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#65 Apr 26, 2013
yea wrote:
where dem white women bees at
MACEO

Where your preferred White women these days? YOu don't have any pennies to give and poor health? LMAO

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