A message to all IR BM.... from a bw
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost

New York, NY

#2141 Sep 4, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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Exhibit #15: More evidence of BM delusions.
Your exhibits belong in a museum because they are not based on whats happening in the world we live in.
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost

New York, NY

#2142 Sep 4, 2013
London wrote:
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Isn't your mother biracial? Why do you assume bw are referencing you when they speak of bm?
I dont assume bw are referencing ANYBODY in specific because they dont know any of us. But that doesnt stop them from discussing all those unknown bm out there as a whole does it?

As for my mother being biracial, what has that got to do with anything? That wasnt a choice she made nor does it make ME biracial.

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#2143 Sep 4, 2013
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost wrote:
<quoted text>Your exhibits belong in a museum because they are not based on whats happening in the world we live in.
If you don't think so then you're the textbook delusional example.
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost

New York, NY

#2144 Sep 4, 2013
Capree wrote:
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(1)The fact is you do know my marriage is real because you constantly mention my marriage and try to deny it in your mind. What I don't understand is why does it bother you so much?
(2)I can't comment on someone else's pain.
(3)Can comment on African women but I do know AA women are moving a head of AA men.
(4)I read some of SBT post and so do several people I have witnessed.
Your "marriage" is merely a point of amusement on topix and that being the case I will mention it for the laughs. We all know you're full of it yet you try and make us acknowledge your lie. This is funny to us so yeah, I'll mention it from time to time as a point of amusement.

I CAN comment on someone elses pain if they are so obviously pathetic about it on a public forum.

AA women are still behind AA men. Not even a point for discussion really.

You read "some" of SBT's posts? lol. I'd say for every 5 posts she puts up MAYBE she'll get one reply. So far today it's not even that so I think it's safe to say no one really bothers with that bat shit crazy creature.
London

Columbus, OH

#2145 Sep 4, 2013
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost wrote:
<quoted text>I dont assume bw are referencing ANYBODY in specific because they dont know any of us. But that doesnt stop them from discussing all those unknown bm out there as a whole does it?
As for my mother being biracial, what has that got to do with anything? That wasnt a choice she made nor does it make ME biracial.
Surely you must believe it makes you something other than black..or else you probably wouldn't have mentioned it to begin with.

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#2146 Sep 4, 2013
London wrote:
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lol. Exactly. This is a problem on this forum. The inability to address the actual subject matter but rather jump to "personal" attacks, even that pit bull did it a few pages back.
It's unfortunate and a primary reason why BP are not improving at a faster rate.

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#2147 Sep 4, 2013
DerekJ wrote:
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Well, I think both women and men of all races are entitled to shoot for the stars if they are so inclined. While some people may strike gold (for lack of a better term) from time to time but as the saying goes, water tends to find its own level. Meaning, people of similar socioeconomic and educational levels tend to gravitate toward each other.
If approached, just indicate you're not interested if that's the case. Why be offended just because someone wishes to make your acquaintance? I know it can be irritating if someone who isn't your cup of tea presumes to talk to you but it's easy enough to decline. Before I was married, I can't tell you how many times I got approached by big women. As my preference is for petite women, it would have been easy to become irritated (and to be honest, sometimes I did...but never outwardly) but a polite declination was all that was necessary. Treat others as you wish to be treated and you'll be much happier.
Thanks for your response. As I have explained over and over, I am referring to NOT the amount of guys I'm not interested approaching, rather disturbing interactions. Please look up my posts which cite many examples before assuming the former.

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#2148 Sep 4, 2013
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost wrote:
<quoted text>Your "marriage" is merely a point of amusement on topix and that being the case I will mention it for the laughs. We all know you're full of it yet you try and make us acknowledge your lie. This is funny to us so yeah, I'll mention it from time to time as a point of amusement.
I CAN comment on someone elses pain if they are so obviously pathetic about it on a public forum.
AA women are still behind AA men. Not even a point for discussion really.
You read "some" of SBT's posts? lol. I'd say for every 5 posts she puts up MAYBE she'll get one reply. So far today it's not even that so I think it's safe to say no one really bothers with that bat shit crazy creature.
Why is her marriage or even lack of up got debate? Why must it be do focused on when they has nothing to go with the subject matter?
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost

New York, NY

#2149 Sep 4, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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If you don't think so then you're the textbook delusional example.
Fine.

Now what?

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#2150 Sep 4, 2013
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost wrote:
And to continue, here are Topix realities for bm that bw need to realize:
(6) No bm believes bw are moving on from them:
(7) No bm believes that he can only attract fat lonely rejected ww:
(8)(and pay attention ladies) No bm believes a weave is as attractive as natural hair on non bw and many bm dont think it's as attractive as a natural and maintained 'do on a bw:
(9) No bm will ever believe that having a baby is solely his fault:
And finally:
(10) No bm will ever...EVER believe that a bw would in her heart believe the stereotypes that whites put on bm because they themselves raised them. And to believe the hype is to acknowledge your own failures as mothers:
Now try and be a little more realistic ladies cos unless you're white trolls, your chit talkin only serves to show us bm how stank yo breaths are.
(6)Not all just like not all bm are moving away from bw but a lot of black women are choosing to expand their dating/marrying options to include other races of men which is great for black women in the long or short run. Bm can choose to believe it or not but it don't change a thing.

(7) Most white women with common black men, don't look that good, many are either plain, obese or downright butt ugly. Bm can choose to believe it or not but it don't change a thing.

(8)Whether most black men are with black women or not, black men have this need to dominate, control and be seen as better than black women and black men try to do this through insults and ridicule of black women(no matter what bw do)in order to keep their self-esteem low. Prime example-Black men are constantly criticizing black women whose hair is natural, because it's not Caucasian hair yet when black women wear weave these same men complain to black women because it's not really their hair. The hair situation gives black men the opportunity to damn bw if do and damn bw if they don't! Bm can choose to believe it or not but it don't change a thing.

(9)All most of these black mothers want is for black men to assume part of the responsibility for their children.

(10)You are right for once because black women don't believe stereotypes other races of men say about black men. Black women only believe these stereotypes when black men act them out.
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost

New York, NY

#2151 Sep 4, 2013
London wrote:
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Surely you must believe it makes you something other than black..or else you probably wouldn't have mentioned it to begin with.
I only mentioned it because someone (a bw) a few weeks ago asked me how my mother must feel to know her son doesnt date bw. After that it only ever came up when similar points were put to me concerning my mother.

But no, I think being the child of one biracial parent doesnt make me other than black. Im not seen that way nor do I feel that way.
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost

New York, NY

#2152 Sep 4, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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Why is her marriage or even lack of up got debate? Why must it be do focused on when they has nothing to go with the subject matter?
Because it's funny in it's absurdity. Someone apparently soooooo happily married is sooooo concerned about men who she seems to think are unworthy of her. The time she spends bytching about bm could/would be spent in her happy "marriage" if she had one. She's a contradiction in every sense of the word and is so obviously lying about her life that it becomes amusing to every bm on here.
London

Columbus, OH

#2153 Sep 4, 2013
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost wrote:
<quoted text>I only mentioned it because someone (a bw) a few weeks ago asked me how my mother must feel to know her son doesnt date bw. After that it only ever came up when similar points were put to me concerning my mother.
But no, I think being the child of one biracial parent doesnt make me other than black. Im not seen that way nor do I feel that way.
Fair enough. I just find it odd that your biracial mother didn't ask why you don't date biracial women.
London

Columbus, OH

#2154 Sep 4, 2013
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost wrote:
<quoted text>Because it's funny in it's absurdity. Someone apparently soooooo happily married is sooooo concerned about men who she seems to think are unworthy of her. The time she spends bytching about bm could/would be spent in her happy "marriage" if she had one. She's a contradiction in every sense of the word and is so obviously lying about her life that it becomes amusing to every bm on here.
And you spend time bytching about bw even though your mother is biracial. You also claim ww to be superior to bw (even though you admit a biracial woman raised you and you don't even date bw to begin with..so, this conclusion is based on what??

It sounds like you are putting up a good argument of why you yourself need to stfu and have several seats.
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost

New York, NY

#2155 Sep 4, 2013
Capree wrote:
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(6)Not all just like not all bm are moving away from bw but a lot of black women are choosing to expand their dating/marrying options to include other races of men which is great for black women in the long or short run. Bm can choose to believe it or not but it don't change a thing.
(7) Most white women with common black men, don't look that good, many are either plain, obese or downright butt ugly. Bm can choose to believe it or not but it don't change a thing.
(8)Whether most black men are with black women or not, black men have this need to dominate, control and be seen as better than black women and black men try to do this through insults and ridicule of black women(no matter what bw do)in order to keep their self-esteem low. Prime example-Black men are constantly criticizing black women whose hair is natural, because it's not Caucasian hair yet when black women wear weave these same men complain to black women because it's not really their hair. The hair situation gives black men the opportunity to damn bw if do and damn bw if they don't! Bm can choose to believe it or not but it don't change a thing.
(9)All most of these black mothers want is for black men to assume part of the responsibility for their children.
(10)You are right for once because black women don't believe stereotypes other races of men say about black men. Black women only believe these stereotypes when black men act them out.
My top 10 list wasnt meant to be debated, it was simply stating points that bm feel. You debating them doesnt change that.

However I will say that many bm unfairly scorn bw regardless of how they present their hair. This is a point we all know about. But my question is wouldnt it be preferable to be natural as opposed to fake? If you're gonna be scorned for your hair, at least dont pay money for the ridicule.

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#2156 Sep 4, 2013
DerekJ wrote:
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LOL. Yes, I can buy pretty much what I want these days but even when I was a struggling student, I had no problem getting with women of any race. Why is that you say? It's because I am and always have been a quality guy who treats people fairly. That is far attractive to good women than any of the material things that women on Topix seem to want to focus upon.
Ok :)
Lol!
London

Columbus, OH

#2157 Sep 4, 2013
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost wrote:
<quoted text> My top 10 list wasnt meant to be debated, it was simply stating points that bm feel. You debating them doesnt change that.
However I will say that many bm unfairly scorn bw regardless of how they present their hair. This is a point we all know about. But my question is wouldnt it be preferable to be natural as opposed to fake? If you're gonna be scorned for your hair, at least dont pay money for the ridicule.
I think the average bw doesn't care about the opinion of "bm" when it comes to there hair as well as other matters. "Bm" have lost any credible voice with sound minded bw. "Bm" need to worry about the women they are with. Clearly if weaves are not only continued to be worn by bw but ramped up even..that should be you alls first clue. "Bm" need to worry about themselves..you all have enough on your plate.

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#2158 Sep 4, 2013
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost wrote:
<quoted text>Your "marriage" is merely a point of amusement on topix and that being the case I will mention it for the laughs. We all know you're full of it yet you try and make us acknowledge your lie. This is funny to us so yeah, I'll mention it from time to time as a point of amusement.
I CAN comment on someone elses pain if they are so obviously pathetic about it on a public forum.
AA women are still behind AA men. Not even a point for discussion really.
You read "some" of SBT's posts? lol. I'd say for every 5 posts she puts up MAYBE she'll get one reply. So far today it's not even that so I think it's safe to say no one really bothers with that bat shit crazy creature.
I have approved you to believe or disbelieve, laugh or even do a belly flop where my marriage is concerned because it doesn't effect me. I am happy and safe in my husband's arms every night any way. Once again choose to believe what ever you like or that will make you feel better about yourself but man are you ever obsessed.

Her subject of pain is none of my business and the only one who is pathetic is you for trying to exploit it.

I am not talking about the few successful black men out here because there are just as many or more successful black women. I am comparing the hundreds of thousands of average black men who are either high school drop outs, no college degrees, leaving off of women, unemployed, in prison, have long criminal records etc. to the many average black women(yes some include babymama also) out here who employed, getting or have their degrees, no prison, taking care of and raising their children etc..

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#2159 Sep 4, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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Interesting. Given the experience of my friends of all races and myself, it seems like unhealthy and uneducated BM without jobs and/ or many kids still feel entitled to healthy,educated, healthy, professional women. Why is that?
I think that as humans we think we are entitled to those who we physically desire. Men as they get older earn more money and are able to buy young girls. White women travel to the Caribbean to buy sex with young men, men who in the UK or Germany they would not have enough money to buy. Because the young men in those countries are not in poverty desperate for money.
I'm assuming that because available AA men are so very outnumbered, plus they have access to IR, they are made to feel in demand by women, who just don't want to be lonely.
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost

New York, NY

#2160 Sep 4, 2013
London wrote:
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And you spend time bytching about bw even though your mother is biracial. You also claim ww to be superior to bw (even though you admit a biracial woman raised you and you don't even date bw to begin with..so, this conclusion is based on what??
It sounds like you are putting up a good argument of why you yourself need to stfu and have several seats.
Biracial doesnt = black remember? My mother being biracial and me not dating bw are two entirely different scenarios. Yeah I bytch about bw but look at the title of the thread.

I'm not on a thread titled IRBW in any sense of the phrase. It's bw going out of their way to attack bm on here and bm reciprocating. It's not a question of the chicken or the egg. Bw are instigating these battles here. Meanwhile, ww and other non bw are not coming on here trying to belittle us. Is it any wonder we date out? Look at y'alls behavior here.

And no, as much as you wish I would...I wont stfu.

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