A message to all IR BM.... from a bw
Time is money

Los Angeles, CA

#2367 Sep 5, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
<quoted text>
We are what we are in our simplest form. There are reasons why other races can simply and easily grow long hair, while the African can't.
Any African who can simply and easily grow long hair, is MIXED.
And I explained to you why. Living in Subsaharan Africa having a big thick carpet of hair covering your head and back, would not have been feasible or comfortable. While having long hair in the snowy cold regions of asia and Europe was very useful.
I didn't say kinky hair was easy to grow. Like I said earlier, it needs extra special care for it to grow longer lengths. Kinky hair is not easy to deal with if you want it longer as it needs more care. Hair is constantly growing on all humans unless the person is balding. It's facts. It has nothing to do with being Subsaharan African or European. All hair grows.

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#2368 Sep 5, 2013
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost wrote:
<quoted text>And yet you claim that you're a sit at home wife who's husband makes all the money and keeps you living comfortably.
We all know thats a lie but at least you can try and keep your other bs from contradicting the lie.
How I am contradicting anything??? You black men complain that I am on here too often then how in the here do you thing I can afford to come to topix without being provided for??? I chock it up to your resentment up of the fact that most black men can't stand seeing black women being provided for! Especially by nonblack men.
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost

New York, NY

#2369 Sep 5, 2013
Capree wrote:
<quoted text>
How I am contradicting anything??? You black men complain that I am on here too often then how in the here do you thing I can afford to come to topix without being provided for??? I chock it up to your resentment up of the fact that most black men can't stand seeing black women being provided for! Especially by nonblack men.
Lol just cos you're here all the time dont mean you're well off or comfortable. You're in good company when it comes to people being on topix all the time. Does that mean they're all financially flush and taken care of? All these dumb ass trolls are rich? Dont be stupid.

I could be on topix 24/7 with just a $40 a month unlimited T mobile plan and a free topix app if I wanted to be. Hell you could be on welfare for all we know and still be able to sit your ass on here as much as you do.

Lol just the fact that you use that as proof that your "marriage" is real is reason enough to believe that it isnt.

And girl you can disbelieve everything I've ever said on here but best believe that I'm in no way resentful or jealous of you lmao.

I mean really?
BIgKnob

United States

#2370 Sep 5, 2013
dcm1 wrote:
<quoted text>
Hold up! You will never catch many black women like me with some other persons hair glued to my head. Personally, I think that the entire phenomenon is sick and I can't wait until people stop doing it.
Btw...my mom told me tonight that she witnessed a white woman shopping in Kroger in Indy wearing a jacked up matted weave. You all need to lay off of dogging out black women and weave because all it takes is for you to visit a salon site...based upon my own personal experience....a black salon site ( I have no reason to look at a white site) and YOU will see that there are a NUMBER of average...everyday white women (not just celebrities) who wear the heck out of weave.....oh I'm sorry....I should clarify....the white mans version of white women wearing weave is EXTENSIONS!
Do what makes you happy, its not whats on your head its whats in your head, that counts, and some sisters are hard to get along with with or without a weave, so its not the hair,its the EMOTIONAL INSECURITY and being intimacy dependant, thats the bws problem.
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost

New York, NY

#2371 Sep 5, 2013
Damn I would think the stigma of having a weave to begin with would be enough to deter bw from getting one. But seeing that it's not only tells me that having a natural 'do is even less appealing.

For shame smh.
dcm1

Mesa, AZ

#2372 Sep 5, 2013
BIgKnob wrote:
<quoted text>Do what makes you happy, its not whats on your head its whats in your head, that counts, and some sisters are hard to get along with with or without a weave, so its not the hair,its the EMOTIONAL INSECURITY and being intimacy dependant, thats the bws problem.
Touche'. The only issue that I have with your post is this:

"EMOTIONAL INSECURITY and being intimacy dependent, that's the bws problem."

Here is my issue with your post. You do realize that these white trolls literally take generalized statements about black people as a whole....... as TRUTH and that enables them to feel comfort in posting countless anti-black threads pretending to be black. Pitting many of us against one another. Mind you.....I generally see through them, but far too many black people fall for their bait. Prime example......many of these white losers on this site have themselves convinced that the majority of black people aren't interested in one another, but we actually know this isn't true.

Have a good evening.
dcm1

Mesa, AZ

#2373 Sep 5, 2013
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost wrote:
Damn I would think the stigma of having a weave to begin with would be enough to deter bw from getting one. But seeing that it's not only tells me that having a natural 'do is even less appealing.
For shame smh.
Huh??? You've said countless times that you're more attracted to white women, so why do you feel the need to recant your disapproval of said women wearing this mess on their heads?

Basically....why do YOU care? If it's not your woman what difference does it make what a total stranger does or doesn't do? It has absolutely NO impact on your life.
Time is money

Los Angeles, CA

#2374 Sep 5, 2013
BIgKnob wrote:
<quoted text>Do what makes you happy, its not whats on your head its whats in your head, that counts, and some sisters are hard to get along with with or without a weave, so its not the hair,its the EMOTIONAL INSECURITY and being intimacy dependant, thats the bws problem.
This is the truth. I hope one day they will see.
Time is money

Los Angeles, CA

#2375 Sep 5, 2013
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost wrote:
Damn I would think the stigma of having a weave to begin with would be enough to deter bw from getting one. But seeing that it's not only tells me that having a natural 'do is even less appealing.
For shame smh.
There are black women with very very short and bone-striaght hair. No one bothers them even though their hair is practically silky. People can deal with silky short hair but can't deal with striaght long hair on black women. It's not ok for black women to have long straight hair even when it's natural. Black women don't have to wear kinky hair all the time. They should be able to curl it, striaghten it, dye it, cut it, or do whatever style they want without being bothered. That's what people do to hair. Just because they are black, it doesn't mean they have to limit themselves to dread locks or afros. White women used perm their to achieve that poofy hair styles in the 80s.
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#2376 Sep 6, 2013
MACEO (Repost)

A race can't rise up no higher than its Men! lmao

As much as you want to blame Black women for everything including your Fathers being absent as well as you chasing Sex; everybody blames Black men! All of the issues being discussed pertain to Black males and why they don't "Provide, Protect, Love, Failed at being Fathers, Husbands and leaders" these are the results when men fail in life!

Now you know why GOD told you to take care of your families! He gave that JOB to the man but you want to keep the feminine position by pointing to Black women!

When you do your job as men; then things will fall into place! GOD said women are "Help Mates" its the man that subdues his surroundings!

BLACK MEN HAVE FAILED!

You took care of White women, chased them and put them on a pedestal! Im not against WW or any woman, I'm just not a jealous woman! What i don't like about you is you "Gloat in young Black women faces" calling them names while you put these Trashy other races Rejects on a pedestal just based on color! You harass Educated Attractive BW who date/marry out because they don't want marignal Non Educated BM like you and your friends!

You have a choice you chose to chase Trashy WW in your office while being married to a White woman! You wasted your time chasing SEX!

if you did as much as you did "Kissing Your White In Laws Brown nosing to be accepted" for any Black person they would have put you on a pedestal!

You got angry because Black women didn't want you because you wouldn't apply yourself but your sure applied yourself to run to adultery behind your White wife's back! What Black women saw in you was TRUE! LMAO

I don't think all WW are trashy but you select Trashy WW!

You haven't done anything for the race so you got your reward you had your White women and you treated them Poorly and disrespected them and bragged on it and even posted it on Topix!

I call you a FOOL!

You didn't do anythiing for the Black race; nor did you do anything for the Decent but Trashy WW that came into your life; you "Screwed them" to get back at White males which is wrong!

You have too many issues for a 60 years old! You need to forgive Black women and apologize to those White women who self esteem you destroyed!

You did what you did because your a Sexist, misogynistic, Bitter old Black man! You hate Women because you turned out to be a Baby Boy!

Black women did right by not selecting you; I see the back end of your life!

You got what you deserved you did most of it to YOURSELF!
BIgKnob---BL-P-MACEO wrote:
<quoted text>Thanks. youre one of a few brothers with the correct analysis. Bw fail to see the role that they play in this disfunction, and the damage they're doing to their image with : twerking online, showing your azz, grown middle aged bw showing off your feet, legs online, and all of this porn online, where they allow themselves to be dehumanized, on camera, & the anti- BM group of wm chasers the BWE. They're telling the world that all youre good for is a good f**k, and a facial, and not good enough to be a wife. Thats why these non bm only want them for one thing: voilent, racist, degrading sex. And they think its cute to be seen in that mannor, and they wonder why bm have lost respect for them.
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#2377 Sep 6, 2013
Your a Hypocrite with Double Standards! You want to abuse and berate and don't expect the same in return; your INSANE! The reasons why I chase you is you do for "Whites Only" while you do "Lip Service" to Black women and the Black community!

Your a BROKE OJ Simpson!

Nothing wrong with IR or you worshipping White women for 35 years, its just that you don't want BW to do the same!

Too BAD; you reap what you put out! I know 4 women you've harassed over the years that married White men mostly because of your hateful comments !

B.E.A.S.T.S.

Black

Evil-doers

Against

Sisters

That

Swirl

Your Bitter Angry Old Broke and alone! You even destroyed the White women you sought married and had Anal Sex with in your office!

Your a misogynist !
BIgKnob-BeerBellie-MACEO wrote:
We should using the wm & ww as a comparison, to justify our misdeeds, in fact lets keep white folk out of our business, and keep it to ourselves. Whites are not gods, god has no favorite people, acts 10:34 & job 33:6. but the shaggy goat greece daniel 8:21 has you confused. With his media, his education system, he's colonized religion, then colonized the image of god, he's colonized history you go to church on sunday mourning bowing down and worshipping his image, he promotes his woman in the image of beauty, now you have bw trying to conform to her image of beauty.He ( greece ) causes DECEIT to prosper daniel 8:25, now who wants to conform to this, on one hand we tell bw about not trying to conform with weaves, but tell bm to give up themselves, & conform. Unbelieveable.
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#2378 Sep 6, 2013
Your on here during the Day and at Night your OBCESSED WITH IR BW! Angry because Black women are moving on! lmao
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost---MACEO wrote:
<quoted text>Lol just cos you're here all the time dont mean you're well off or comfortable. You're in good company when it comes to people being on topix all the time. Does that mean they're all financially flush and taken care of? All these dumb ass trolls are rich? Dont be stupid.
I could be on topix 24/7 with just a $40 a month unlimited T mobile plan and a free topix app if I wanted to be. Hell you could be on welfare for all we know and still be able to sit your ass on here as much as you do.
Lol just the fact that you use that as proof that your "marriage" is real is reason enough to believe that it isnt.
And girl you can disbelieve everything I've ever said on here but best believe that I'm in no way resentful or jealous of you lmao.
I mean really?
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#2379 Sep 6, 2013
Your a Hypocrite with Double Standards! You want to abuse and berate and don't expect the same in return; your INSANE! The reasons why I chase you is you do for "Whites Only" while you do "Lip Service" to Black women and the Black community!

Your a BROKE OJ Simpson!

Nothing wrong with IR or you worshipping White women for 35 years, its just that you don't want BW to do the same!

Too BAD; you reap what you put out! I know 4 women you've harassed over the years that married White men mostly because of your hateful comments !

B.E.A.S.T.S.

Black

Evil-doers

Against

Sisters

That

Swirl

Your Bitter Angry Old Broke and alone! You even destroyed the White women you sought married and had Anal Sex with in your office!

Your a misogynist !
dcm1-BigKnob-TimeisMoney-MACEO wrote:
<quoted text>
Touche'. The only issue that I have with your post is this:
"EMOTIONAL INSECURITY and being intimacy dependent, that's the bws problem."
Here is my issue with your post. You do realize that these white trolls literally take generalized statements about black people as a whole....... as TRUTH and that enables them to feel comfort in posting countless anti-black threads pretending to be black. Pitting many of us against one another. Mind you.....I generally see through them, but far too many black people fall for their bait. Prime example......many of these white losers on this site have themselves convinced that the majority of black people aren't interested in one another, but we actually know this isn't true.
Have a good evening.
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#2380 Sep 6, 2013
MACEO

That's a Pretty good article which Ill send to BWE partners! We discuss this all the time which is why I don't deal with Black men like yourself because your a B_E_A_S_T!

It's also why I don't deal with "Hypocrites like yourself" as well as I don't deal with Black males on a personal level! I'm not saying all BM are bad; but I noticed how "Abusive MOST Black men are towards Black women" in which you feel that we should endure it as well as accept it!

Kiss My A$$!

That article told the truth which is why so many Black women are leaving Black males! Notice even many Ghetto Sisters don't deal with Black men either which is why they go to Poor Trashy/Low Rate White women like you and your friends do!

You contribute to the HATRED; because you don't know what to do since you contribute to the ABUSES!
TimeforHonesty---MACEO wrote:
http://www.gradientlair.com/po st/47279740720/no-abuse-in-the -name-of-racial-loyalty
I Won’t Accept Abuse In The Name Of Racial “Unity”
I’m trying to understand why I should endure abuse from some Black men (usually) or some Black women (sometimes) solely because we are all Black. This silencing of intraracial hatred is supposed to represent “unity” so that Whites (*sigh* always about the White gaze) will think that we are a race of problem-free people and thus, finally treat us as human, since of course, impossible perfection must be earned before our actual existing humanity is recognized.
The only problem is that intraracial patriarchy, sexism, misogyny, colorism etc. and then racism and White supremacy make sure that this never will occur on top of the fact that the logic behind this is flawed and incredibly destructive.
This is truly what the ones who are abusive towards me suggest with their stunts and then anger at my response if my response to the abuse is anything other than acceptance or silence.
This is terrible to me. I’ve experienced it long before I had the words to articulate it—even as a young girl. I see it among strangers (and live it dealing with street harassment), between so-called friends, in destructive parent-child relationships and in incredibly damaging relationships between lovers.
(There’s a scene in the film Wattstax where a Black woman says “the way he abuses me is beautiful” in regards to Black men hurting her, and I think this did something to me really awful; I feel permanently scarred from this. Film is never “just” film anyway.)
Accepting abuse to appear “unified” is just a destructive coping mechanism in a White supremacist society. This is not indictment of all Black people or posit of Black people as inherently pathological. This is also not a logically fallacious stance—that mentioning intraracial abuse somehow exonerates centuries of and current racist abuse by Whites.
BIgKnob

United States

#2381 Sep 6, 2013
dcm1 wrote:
<quoted text>
Touche'. The only issue that I have with your post is this:
"EMOTIONAL INSECURITY and being intimacy dependent, that's the bws problem."
Here is my issue with your post. You do realize that these white trolls literally take generalized statements about black people as a whole....... as TRUTH and that enables them to feel comfort in posting countless anti-black threads pretending to be black. Pitting many of us against one another. Mind you.....I generally see through them, but far too many black people fall for their bait. Prime example......many of these white losers on this site have themselves convinced that the majority of black people aren't interested in one another, but we actually know this isn't true.
Have a good evening.
Im in agreement with you, its good to see a young bw with her head on her shoulders in head in the right place, looking up and not down. Good mourning.
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#2382 Sep 6, 2013
London--MACEO wrote:
<quoted text>
Irbm made this subject my business when they went on a bashing tour of bw. So this title: "A message to all IR BM....from a bw" has everything to do with me since I am a bw and am curious to know what was said to this bw about the message from irbm.
I don't know how this subject pertains to you..your mother is biracial is my point and whether you are an bm is certainly debatable. Personally, as a bw, I refuse to take criticism from a group of men who didn't come from bw. I'm not like some bw and give other womens kids a voice in my community in such a way. You don't date biracial women and your mother is biracial.
Effeminate doesn't count as being a Woman! Yes, you do whine and act like a woman at times and get emotional but your just a defective man!
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost

Bronx, NY

#2383 Sep 6, 2013
dcm1 wrote:
<quoted text>Huh??? You've said countless times that you're more attracted to white women, so why do you feel the need to recant your disapproval of said women wearing this mess on their heads?

Basically....why do YOU care? If it's not your woman what difference does it make what a total stranger does or doesn't do? It has absolutely NO impact on your life.
And why does it make you so mad? You yourself have voiced your dislike for weaves. What? Only bw can discuss it?
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#2384 Sep 6, 2013
Conform? What's wrong with being RESPONSIBLE? You acted responsible and Kissed your In Law AZZ I guess because they were White!

What's wrong with being responsible to your own PEOPLE? Why is it that you can do for "Everybody" except your Mother, Black folks and the Black community?

Come on now, MACEO you didnn't even do for your own family and you look foolish!
BIgKnob----MACEO wrote:
We should using the wm & ww as a comparison, to justify our misdeeds, in fact lets keep white folk out of our business, and keep it to ourselves. Whites are not gods, god has no favorite people, acts 10:34 & job 33:6. but the shaggy goat greece daniel 8:21 has you confused. With his media, his education system, he's colonized religion, then colonized the image of god, he's colonized history you go to church on sunday mourning bowing down and worshipping his image, he promotes his woman in the image of beauty, now you have bw trying to conform to her image of beauty.He ( greece ) causes DECEIT to prosper daniel 8:25, now who wants to conform to this, on one hand we tell bw about not trying to conform with weaves, but tell bm to give up themselves, & conform. Unbelieveable.
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost

Bronx, NY

#2385 Sep 6, 2013
Time is money wrote:
<quoted text>There are black women with very very short and bone-striaght hair. No one bothers them even though their hair is practically silky. People can deal with silky short hair but can't deal with striaght long hair on black women. It's not ok for black women to have long straight hair even when it's natural. Black women don't have to wear kinky hair all the time. They should be able to curl it, striaghten it, dye it, cut it, or do whatever style they want without being bothered. That's what people do to hair. Just because they are black, it doesn't mean they have to limit themselves to dread locks or afros. White women used perm their to achieve that poofy hair styles in the 80s.
I've never known of a bw with natural silky straight hair unless she's mixed. Long or short.
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost

Bronx, NY

#2386 Sep 6, 2013
Lol bw and their hair DAYUM! Chris Rock wasn't lying smh

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