Theories on why some BW who ONCE iden...

Theories on why some BW who ONCE identified as lesbians, later marry WM?

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#1 Oct 23, 2013
Without Insulting Any Group.

I know of a few in my life and here is one on a national level:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chirlane_McCray

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achieve perfection

#2 Oct 23, 2013
Still lesbians just need to have biracial kids to breed their self hate into another race.
Malic

Houston, TX

#3 Oct 23, 2013
...because WM have excellent gay tendencies to give an IRBW a "female" sensuality.

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#4 Oct 23, 2013
I am glad "without insulting any group" was duly noted and taken into consideration.

I also think that BW are looking for an alternative.

The ones I know also did not grow up around BP...similar to Chirlane McCray.

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kaiserslautern, Germany

#5 Oct 23, 2013
Malic wrote:
...because WM have excellent gay tendencies to give an IRBW a "female" sensuality.
Gay tendencies? This downlow niccah talkin ish. Mofo you ain't got nuthin but calouses on yo elbows and knees cuz yo cock luvin azz has never been nuthin but a bottom!

Yeah you know.
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#7 Oct 23, 2013
Because either their lesbianism was just a temporary phase, more contrived in manifestation rather than a natural one; or they never really permanently abandoned men, but were exploring their bisexual side.

As far as the marrying wm part; they do so because that's where they clearly are most comfortable culturally. There are a plethora or reasons why this is so, ranging from environmental exposure, to believing that that's where their interest will be best serve, to some unresolved pathology that they may have or their having absolutely and completely rejected black masculinity (All blacks don't live within a black social construct).

I don't see these women as inherently bad people because we never know what their narrative may be, so I don't see their choices as a reflection or rejection of me. I once knew such a sister who clearly had a fear of black men. She and I were the only blacks members of a book club, but whenever I spoke to her or came near her, her fear of me was clearly visible (I'm not the cutest of brothers..but damn...lol), but overtime, after seeing the other whites give me their civilizing stamp of approval, she eventually warmed up to me and we became somewhat friends and she shared her story with me.

I walked away from her resolving not to be reactionary or to take people's story personal without knowing how they got from there to here.
Blacks Are Worthless

Miami, FL

#8 Oct 23, 2013
Most black women who grow up in ghetto's around shiftless, lazy, unemployed, drug addicted black men just use the lesbian thing to keep their own useless black men at arms length to prevent rape & domestic violence, then once the black woman branches out into civilization & meets us White men, they relax & revert back their usual feminine ways.

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Since: Mar 13

kaiserslautern, Germany

#10 Oct 23, 2013
Malic wrote:
@ Miltie,
Cracker, you GAY! What dude create multiple profiles to play on a forum? Ole scary a**, feline. Probably White, trying to act Black with your 5-vocabulary words per post. Dumb twit.
This post struck a nerve with you gay Apes. Hahahaha
This the only profile I have for now. Who you got me confused with? I already know you got a few socks on this mofo.
Carlie

Bristol, UK

#11 Oct 23, 2013
Blacks Are Worthless wrote:
Most black women who grow up in ghetto's around shiftless, lazy, unemployed, drug addicted black men just use the lesbian thing to keep their own useless black men at arms length to prevent rape & domestic violence, then once the black woman branches out into civilization & meets us White men, they relax & revert back their usual feminine ways.
I actually think this is true, they dress masculine because they don't want constant street harassment and guys trying to grab up on there, BM some are desperate and would try to hook up with an underage girl.
blkd

United States

#12 Oct 23, 2013
That black woman is distinguished that white man up the but.WM love 1 or2 fist in their deep butts.Do I need to show pics of this?
blkd

United States

#13 Oct 23, 2013
She is fu3king that Wm in the butt hole.
KingsloveQueens

Sunnyvale, CA

#14 Oct 23, 2013
Blacks Are Worthless wrote:
Most black women who grow up in ghetto's around shiftless, lazy, unemployed, drug addicted black men just use the lesbian thing to keep their own useless black men at arms length to prevent rape & domestic violence, then once the black woman branches out into civilization & meets us White men, they relax & revert back their usual feminine ways.
Hater bw are slaves and hostages ..they really hate the wm ..and you know this lol (;
sleepnumber

San Leandro, CA

#15 Oct 24, 2013
I've heard several people make the observation that WM who date/marry BW are often closet homosexuals. I've certainly seen some evidence of this, but I'm not sure how true it is generally. Maybe this and the phenomenon that the OP discusses are related.

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#17 Oct 24, 2013
I ain't into smellin & licking no fish, ah all woman but mah man got's to proves his love & worship of me by being generous & keeping me in dat lifestyle to which ahm accustomed, he got to buy me a Lexus, gifts, takes me on cruises & vacations & buy me sexy clothes & perfume.

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#18 Oct 24, 2013
sleepnumber wrote:
I've heard several people make the observation that WM who date/marry BW are often closet homosexuals. I've certainly seen some evidence of this, but I'm not sure how true it is generally. Maybe this and the phenomenon that the OP discusses are related.
I've heard that too - how do you think they are related?

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kaiserslautern, Germany

#19 Jul 18, 2014
Clotea wrote:
I ain't into smellin & licking no fish, ah all woman but mah man got's to proves his love & worship of me by being generous & keeping me in dat lifestyle to which ahm accustomed, he got to buy me a Lexus, gifts, takes me on cruises & vacations & buy me sexy clothes & perfume.
You lie!

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