War on black guys who date fat WW

Harrisson
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#532 Oct 9, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
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Why wait until you're old and not much of a catch to come to this realization of self?

I'm not saying that it's too late for anyone, but why did this just dawn on you after you gave your good years to a non black man?

Do you regret your IR relationship?
I think that at a deep level, she truly DOES, MrAnderson.

Is she going to admit it? Probably not. Almost NO parent (at least in American culture) is going to say that he or she regrets having their son or daughter. That is like heresy among parents.

And I'm sure that Shalimarr's little girl is the light of her life and makes Mama so proud. And yet Mama still must come to terms with the fact that she is now the head of a broken family - and a family which almost NO *successful Black male* in the UK wants to join.

There are definitely Black males who want to sleep with Shalimarr, I'm sure of that. But she is clearly not getting serious interest from any successful or brilliant Black surgeons, architects, bankers -- or anyone who meets the exalted standards she has set for a future Black husband. She spends way too much time on Topix-AA for that to be the case.

This is not an enviable situation.

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#533 Oct 9, 2013
Harrisson wrote:
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So, they may not truly "want" those white Big Girls as their #1 choice, but practically ALL men with a sex drive want *something* nice, soft and feminine to stick their d*ck in. And when they CAN'T get it at all, but they see that DeShawn and Lamar CAN get it, they get pissed! lol
Trust me, I am seeing it all the time on Topix-AA and I find it very funny indeed.
Yeah but white men can always get those fat white women if they want them or get willing Asian women.

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#534 Oct 9, 2013
Harrisson wrote:
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It truly depends on what each man wants for himeself, Capree. I think that if a big WW is intelligent and seems to be going someplace in life with her smarts and career then there is *nothing* to be embarrassed about. Her accomplishments will make her man proud.
Conversely, a "hot", pretty, slender WW who is going to spend 20 years waiting on tables at Denny's and never even make it to assistant-manager status.... while having an affair with one of the cooks for a year or two behind her husband's back...definitely IS something to be embarrassed about - even if it takes a while for others to see that.
I judge people as individuals, not stereotypes.
Most white women are so insecure from the start and fat white women or even chunky white women insecurities are double. Not saying some are intelligent but many feel that everything is tied to their weight. They usually don't feel good about themselves and hate presenting themselves to the world. They hate and are ashamed of how they look and their self-esteems are at all time lows. So you see many fat white women don't have the confidence to be go-getting business savvy women like many fat black women can be.

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#535 Oct 9, 2013
blueeyedkat wrote:
whats up with everyone assuming that all black men who dates white girls are fat? damm jealousy is full of over weightness and full of uglyness im not fat and i like black men <3
You forget that we are just not talking about fat weight women but ugly and white trashy ones also.

Harrisson
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Since: May 08

Pacific Northwest

#536 Oct 9, 2013
Capree wrote:
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Yeah but white men can always get those fat white women if they want them or get willing Asian women.
Mmm...no. Sometimes. But NOT always.

I'll tell you straight up what my white ex-gf (280+ lbs) said about a WM whom she'd dismissed: "He was a cr*cker - not my type!" That's exactly what she said to me about a WM who wanted her.

Another heavy ww I was talking to online told me she threw out the WM who was in her house. She'd invited him to move in there... and then when she got tired of him, she told him he had to go.

These are two examples from real-life of big WW kicking busted WM to the curb. Don't believe the racist-troll WM's hype on Topix about "Thanks for taking out our trash!"

As far as the "willing Asian women" go, that's hit or miss too. If you are a busted or unattractive WM, I truly believe that importing a bride from a poor part of Asia can work well for you. They are the type to be grateful for an apartment with running water and 24/7 electricity. But for an Asian female born and raised in the USA - no guarantees at all. They DO have standards and their WM better be either super-smart or make good money -- or both.

Harrisson
Level 8

Since: May 08

Pacific Northwest

#537 Oct 9, 2013
Capree wrote:
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Most white women are so insecure from the start and fat white women or even chunky white women insecurities are double. Not saying some are intelligent but many feel that everything is tied to their weight. They usually don't feel good about themselves and hate presenting themselves to the world. They hate and are ashamed of how they look and their self-esteems are at all time lows. So you see many fat white women don't have the confidence to be go-getting business savvy women like many fat black women can be.
I'll give you props for this one, lol.

Not gonna argue with anything you say here, except to offer this little detail: Some heavy WW can still go to school, knock out whatever degree they are chasing, and then either get a decent-paying job or get promoted into one.

I have personally seen that in action.

Harrisson
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Since: May 08

Pacific Northwest

#541 Oct 9, 2013
TBMR wrote:
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So you pick fat ww cuz youre broke??
Rotflmmfbaoooooooooooooooooooo oooooooooooooooooooooooooo
aaaaaw shit everything is making more sense now lmaoooo

BTW nobody here believes you would ever date a bw under any circumstances. I know for a fact there are bw where you live. You just dont choose them...
A couple of quick points for clarity:

(1) I'm both a property-owner and a landlord. I'm sure I own more acreage, have a nicer, bigger and better-equipped home than anything your angry trifling, ghettofabulous ass has going on. So you can "lmaoooooooooo" that all the way back to your government housing project in Toronto.

But nonetheless the Great Recession has been painful to me. I work part-time as opposed to full-time and I also have lots of debts and I drive a vehicle that was probably manufactured when your parents were still in high school. ;o)

(2) With women, I'm DEFINITELY selective, TBMR. I'm NOT gonna get with a no-class, angry, ghetto tramp like yourself just because she's black and lives in my area. That won't cut it. That's why I laughed at you for not having any domestic skills that extend beyond knowing how to use Nintendo Wii or surfing Facebook. You definitely DO ACT like a young woman who doesn't know sh*t....and your relationship status reflects that, because it is not an attractive quality in a mate.

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#542 Oct 9, 2013
Harrisson wrote:
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Mmm...no. Sometimes. But NOT always.
I'll tell you straight up what my white ex-gf (280+ lbs) said about a WM whom she'd dismissed: "He was a cr*cker - not my type!" That's exactly what she said to me about a WM who wanted her.
He might have been one of those white trash types I mentioned. I knew this one heavy white woman who worked at a hospice who told me that she was hatching a plan leave her redneck, white trash boyfriend because he didn't bath, smelled and when around urinating in any of her sinks that was the closest to him instead of just walking to the toilet. He was always cold and unromantic to her. She said let him stay with her for a year in hopes he would make just a small effort to change but he didn't care or respected her. When I last saw he, she said that her ex has straighten out, is working and is engaged to a more attractive woman.
Harrisson wrote:
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Another heavy ww I was talking to online told me she threw out the WM who was in her house. She'd invited him to move in there... and then when she got tired of him, she told him he had to go.
These are two examples from real-life of big WW kicking busted WM to the curb. Don't believe the racist-troll WM's hype on Topix about "Thanks for taking out our trash!"
Like I have been saying all along if these white men cared or respected those fat or ugly ww the least, they wouldn't treat them like crap. These white men just don't care if they are tossed by what they consider dogs (unattractive WW). They can just pick up another one while waiting to meet an attractive WW.
Harrisson wrote:
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As far as the "willing Asian women" go, that's hit or miss too. If you are a busted or unattractive WM, I truly believe that importing a bride from a poor part of Asia can work well for you. They are the type to be grateful for an apartment with running water and 24/7 electricity. But for an Asian female born and raised in the USA - no guarantees at all. They DO have standards and their WM better be either super-smart or make good money -- or both.
True American Asians want money but they also love the status of WM and will be with even an unattractive white man.

Harrisson
Level 8

Since: May 08

Pacific Northwest

#543 Oct 9, 2013
Capree wrote:
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He might have been one of those white trash types I mentioned. I knew this one heavy white woman who worked at a hospice who told me that she was hatching a plan leave her redneck, white trash boyfriend because he didn't bath, smelled and when around urinating in any of her sinks that was the closest to him instead of just walking to the toilet. He was always cold and unromantic to her. She said let him stay with her for a year in hopes he would make just a small effort to change but he didn't care or respected her. When I last saw he, she said that her ex has straighten out, is working and is engaged to a more attractive woman...
Yes! This story rings true to me because I heard a different version of it from a WW I met. In her case though, it prompted her to switch over from being prejudiced and married to a "redneck"....to being a divorced, single, heavy WW who appreciates the Black man as a lover. She was the first white woman I'd met who liked Black men but who admitted to me that she had been racially prejudiced. We never connected but I respected her for being honest about her background. Some people try to hide shameful things, but she was upfront and told me she'd been raised by racists.

Even though I decided to "pass," I had to respect that.

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#544 Oct 9, 2013
WW are awesome.
TBMR

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#545 Oct 9, 2013
Harrisson wrote:
That's why I laughed at you for not having any domestic skills that extend beyond knowing how to use Nintendo Wii or surfing Facebook.
You using stereotypes to define me only proves my point about how much you hate bw

anytime you have an issue with a sista you resort to stereotypes ... you dont do that to any other gender/race on this board

it doesnt faze me because I know none of that defines me

You are a broke down fat ugly coon who has to settle for fat ww cuz he cant get any other type of woman

thats the bottom line here

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#546 Oct 9, 2013
Capree wrote:
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You forget that we are just not talking about fat weight women but ugly and white trashy ones also.
omg im sorry you feel that way tsk maybe you should talk to your threapist about your low selfesteem issues :D

Harrisson
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Since: May 08

Pacific Northwest

#547 Oct 9, 2013
Capree wrote:
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Like I have been saying all along if these white men cared or respected those fat or ugly ww the least, they wouldn't treat them like crap. These white men just don't care if they are tossed by what they consider dogs (unattractive WW). They can just pick up another one while waiting to meet an attractive WW...
Maybe. The problem with that theory, Capree, is that you see plenty of examples of *slender* pretty WW being disrespected or abused by WM. Sometimes outright murdered. In fact, pretty women of ALL races are treated that way by their mates of the same race.

Look at Tina Turner: A Beautiful Black Queen... so talented...successful... and pretty. And Ike beat her ass silly before she left him. Look at Rhianna and how Chris Brown treated her. We can go on and on -- and pretty WW are no different in terms of how their man will open a can of whup-ass on them, or otherwise engage in long-term abuse and disrespect.

So, you'd have to show me some more evidence before you convinced me that WM have a special kind of disrespect saved up just for their heavy WW lovers. I think too many WM are just plain abusive of ANY lover regardless of looks.

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#549 Oct 9, 2013
Harrisson wrote:
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My sincere opinion is that you're more than a little unstable, Shalimarr - so I don't expect this to soak very deeply into your consciousness, but I will try nonetheless:
Assuming "those men" (anonymous cyberidentities whom you cannot verify anything about) are truly Black, they may be struggling with some form of self-hatred or other psychological problem related to being Black in an overwhelmingly White society. Or they may simply be stupid - and I have encountered MANY African-Americans over the years who appear to be IQ-challenged in one way or another.
Now, if you genuinely want to find millions of Black men who "must have some appreciation for their mirror image... the female version of them," that's simple: Look at the 76% to 88% of married African-American men who ARE married to African-American women.
These men would also include high-IQ college-educated businessmen/professionals who are relatives of mine. It's really not that difficult a thing to find here in the USA when moving among the Black middle class.
But, of course, that scenario does not involve as much of the sensationalistic racial drama that you seem to thrive on, so I'm sure that you will quickly dismiss it and then move on to some new question that allows you to once again question the morality, integrity or intelligence of Black men.(Black rape in the prison system, perhaps?)
You clearly are not well at all - and I hope you are able to acknowledge to yourself that you are in need of therapy.
Actually the WM did mention that AAM rape white dudes in prison
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It was very sad to see WM having to defend BW from BM. One AA IRBM started ranting about Black feminists, claiming that any AAM who defends BW are maginas, simps and Capn save a hos. He accused BW being undateable, only wanting thugs and rejecting good Bm and that they practice hypergamy.
A WM confronted him by saying, AAW get 70% of the college degrees in the AA community, BM are the poorest men with the least status in America, yet BW marry them them and seek them more than any one else... so how can BW be accused of being hypergamous.?
Another AAM claimed that because he has a college degree and speaks correct English, AAW reject him as soon as he opens his mouth. So he has been "forced" to date WW exclusively.
A WM reminded him that AAW are more educated than AAM, so really it should be AAW complaining that they can't find a BM who speaks correct English.
American WM don't seem remotely as hateful as I expected them to be.
When the BM were saying that they don't care about BW's IR because they are not as insecure as WM. The WM told them, BM want to get with WW much more than WM want to get with BW. So ofcourse the balance is different. The BM were just too stupid to see it and they were too self hating to even feel embarrassed that they chase another man's woman, much more than that man chases the BM's woman.

Harrisson
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Since: May 08

Pacific Northwest

#551 Oct 9, 2013
TBMR wrote:
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You using stereotypes to define me only proves my point about how much you hate bw
anytime you have an issue with a sista you resort to stereotypes ...
Stereotypes are offensive to you, are they? Well check this out:
TBMR wrote:
<quoted text>...I dont believe for ONE second that anyone other than a bm has tried to get with that 280 pound whale...

only bm would choose fat ww...

the rest of the world would pick a slim or thick beautiful black woman over a fat ww
Those are your own words (edited for clarity) and don't even try to deny that you said them.

They are TOTAL stereotypes which have been refuted before on this forum, and you still go right back and recycle them ALL OVER again.

Why? Because you NEED TO in order to feel good about your miserable romantic life. Every intelligent Black male on Topix who interacts with you, knows that you're a busted BW - which is why you complain so bitterly and cuss Black men out so intensely.

So please don't whine to me about stereotypes: Just take your medicine like a grown-up.

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#552 Oct 9, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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Actually the WM did mention that AAM rape white dudes in prison
:(
It was very sad to see WM having to defend BW from BM. One AA IRBM started ranting about Black feminists, claiming that any AAM who defends BW are maginas, simps and Capn save a hos. He accused BW being undateable, only wanting thugs and rejecting good Bm and that they practice hypergamy.
A WM confronted him by saying, AAW get 70% of the college degrees in the AA community, BM are the poorest men with the least status in America, yet BW marry them them and seek them more than any one else... so how can BW be accused of being hypergamous.?
Another AAM claimed that because he has a college degree and speaks correct English, AAW reject him as soon as he opens his mouth. So he has been "forced" to date WW exclusively.
A WM reminded him that AAW are more educated than AAM, so really it should be AAW complaining that they can't find a BM who speaks correct English.
American WM don't seem remotely as hateful as I expected them to be.
When the BM were saying that they don't care about BW's IR because they are not as insecure as WM. The WM told them, BM want to get with WW much more than WM want to get with BW. So ofcourse the balance is different. The BM were just too stupid to see it and they were too self hating to even feel embarrassed that they chase another man's woman, much more than that man chases the BM's woman.
What is the name of that site? You can PM if you don't want to publicly state it.

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#553 Oct 9, 2013
Harrisson wrote:
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I think that at a deep level, she truly DOES, MrAnderson.
Is she going to admit it? Probably not. Almost NO parent (at least in American culture) is going to say that he or she regrets having their son or daughter. That is like heresy among parents.
And I'm sure that Shalimarr's little girl is the light of her life and makes Mama so proud. And yet Mama still must come to terms with the fact that she is now the head of a broken family - and a family which almost NO *successful Black male* in the UK wants to join.
There are definitely Black males who want to sleep with Shalimarr, I'm sure of that. But she is clearly not getting serious interest from any successful or brilliant Black surgeons, architects, bankers -- or anyone who meets the exalted standards she has set for a future Black husband. She spends way too much time on Topix-AA for that to be the case.
This is not an enviable situation.
Sharlimar will never experience black love.

Being an irbw, it literally rules out her chances of getting a decent black male, and add on to that she is damaged mentally and spiritually from her prior relationship with a non black male.

For a woman to walk away from a relationship with a man of another race feeling like her race is inferior, it shows the damage and mental abuse she willingly accepted from this non black man who eventually left her.

Being older, a single mom, and having a history of IR makes it very slim to no chance that she will be able to find a strong black male willing to accept her.

This is a major source of her bitterness and insecurity.

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#554 Oct 9, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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What is the name of that site? You can PM if you don't want to publicly state it.
Topix is the name of the site. lol

You don't need to venture around to find wm manipulating black women in these gender discussions between bm and bw.

Actually you can find even white women manipulating black women in these discussions.

BW are the only ones that will think that racist members of other races have their best interest in regards to their interaction with their own sons/children/men.

Harrisson
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Since: May 08

Pacific Northwest

#556 Oct 9, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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Actually the WM did mention that AAM rape white dudes in prison
:(
It was very sad to see WM having to defend BW from BM. One AA IRBM started ranting about Black feminists, claiming that any AAM who defends BW are maginas, simps and Capn save a hos. He accused BW being undateable, only wanting thugs and rejecting good Bm and that they practice hypergamy.
A WM confronted him by saying, AAW get 70% of the college degrees in the AA community, BM are the poorest men with the least status in America, yet BW marry them them and seek them more than any one else... so how can BW be accused of being hypergamous.?
Another AAM claimed that because he has a college degree and speaks correct English, AAW reject him as soon as he opens his mouth. So he has been "forced" to date WW exclusively.
A WM reminded him that AAW are more educated than AAM, so really it should be AAW complaining that they can't find a BM who speaks correct English.
American WM don't seem remotely as hateful as I expected them to be.

When the BM were saying that they don't care about BW's IR because they are not as insecure as WM. The WM told them, BM want to get with WW much more than WM want to get with BW. So ofcourse the balance is different.

The BM were just too stupid to see it and they were too self hating to even feel embarrassed that they chase another man's woman, much more than that man chases the BM's woman.
If your point is that you found a small number of insensitive (or stupid) African-American men on an online forum who were disrespectful to their female counterparts as a group, my response is "Oh my! That's really unfortunate."

What else should I say?

I'm certainly not going to say "What a shame to see such self-hating Black men who are not too embarrassed that they chase another man's woman!" Before I'd make that comment, I'd have to personally interact with those men and get to know them.

I know that YOU are extremely emotional and have a vested interest in seeing them in a negative light, but I do not. I look at things more objectively, am interested in a broader perspective, and can CLEARLY see that other races of men besides BM will also engage in high rates of IR sex while, as a whole, also maintaining and reproducing their own distinct racial group.

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#557 Oct 9, 2013
Harrisson wrote:
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I think that at a deep level, she truly DOES, MrAnderson.
Is she going to admit it? Probably not. Almost NO parent (at least in American culture) is going to say that he or she regrets having their son or daughter. That is like heresy among parents.
And I'm sure that Shalimarr's little girl is the light of her life and makes Mama so proud. And yet Mama still must come to terms with the fact that she is now the head of a broken family - and a family which almost NO *successful Black male* in the UK wants to join.
There are definitely Black males who want to sleep with Shalimarr, I'm sure of that. But she is clearly not getting serious interest from any successful or brilliant Black surgeons, architects, bankers -- or anyone who meets the exalted standards she has set for a future Black husband. She spends way too much time on Topix-AA for that to be the case.
This is not an enviable situation.
My ideal BM would not be a banker or a lawyer. he would work in child protection or social justice, he would volunteer his time to help and mentor disenfranchised black boys.
And BTW I am light skinned, and just and just as Anderson's mother is a light skinned BW with a lighter skinned child, so do most BM assume that I simply have a very light skinned child. They probably do not immediately assume she is biracial. That's the difference between IRBW and IRWW, WM know immediately by looking at the child that a WW is IR.BM don't find it so easy with BW.

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