don't find dark skin black men attra...

don't find dark skin black men attractive

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Jennifer

Walkersville, MD

#1 Jul 17, 2013
I'm a dark black woman but I don't find dark men attractive at all. I much prefer lighter skinned men.

Is this a case of opposites attract? Are there lots of black women like me out there???

“Take the kinks out ya mind”

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and not your hair

#2 Jul 17, 2013
I know dark skin women that usually date lighter skin men and vice versa, but it's not usually because they are unattractive, but because you usually attract the opposite. I honestly think chocolate is where it's at have you seen Lance Gross, Idris Elba, Tyson Beckford mmm mmm mmm lol, but I understand we have personal preferences and light skin brothers like Michael Ealy, Jesse William, Will Smith, and even Drake are sexy as well.
Truth

Tulsa, OK

#3 Jul 17, 2013
Jennifer wrote:
I'm a dark black woman but I don't find dark men attractive at all. I much prefer lighter skinned men.
Lighter skinned BM and/or non-BM?
Middle Eastern men are the most attractive to me.
Tbone

United States

#4 Jul 17, 2013
Truth wrote:
<quoted text>Lighter skinned BM and/or non-BM?
Middle Eastern men are the most attractive to me.
What the hell is wrong with you ignorant goons! Black is beautiful no matter what complexion it is!
Truth

Tulsa, OK

#5 Jul 17, 2013
Tbone wrote:
<quoted text>What the hell is wrong with you ignorant goons! Black is beautiful no matter what complexion it is!
Nobody said it wasn't..
Black is also secure enough to allow people to have personal preference.
Tbone

United States

#6 Jul 17, 2013
Truth wrote:
<quoted text>Nobody said it wasn't..
Black is also secure enough to allow people to have personal preference.
Don't fool yourself lady. 9 out of 10 so-called black women on topix hate blackmen and themselves. Soo whenever a thread like this pop up! It's pne of you behind it.
KingsloveQueens

Sunnyvale, CA

#7 Jul 17, 2013
I'm caramel colored, so I guess I should be flattered but I am not..I think this is pro Europe brainwashing and skin color of blks should be illrelevent as I used to feel the same way as alot of people and not be attracted to dark skin blk women , but I overcame that and give all women a chance (if I were free, I'm married now)don't allow TV, society and magazines and stereotypes to dictate whom your attracted too ..it only would prove how easy your manipulated into the brainwashing scheme of wht society...
Truth

Tulsa, OK

#8 Jul 17, 2013
Tbone wrote:
<quoted text> Don't fool yourself lady. 9 out of 10 so-called black women on topix hate blackmen and themselves. Soo whenever a thread like this pop up! It's pne of you behind it.
Don't be in such a rush..The OP said lighter men..maybe she means lighter BM..they still black men you know..
Blackman

Ann Arbor, MI

#9 Jul 17, 2013
Truth wrote:
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Middle Eastern men are the most attractive to me.
ROFL no wonder you were yelling at me in the other thread. I should have never took you seriously.
Cap Black

Huntsville, AL

#10 Jul 17, 2013
Truth

Tulsa, OK

#11 Jul 17, 2013
Blackman wrote:
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ROFL no wonder you were yelling at me in the other thread. I should have never took you seriously.
I wasn't yelling at you..Sheesh..BM used to be a lot of fun..not anymore..you can barely hold a conversation with any of you anymore. I was more than clear..I have no problem with BM/WW..I personally believe..the union belong together..I told you I have zero problems with it..because BM aren't my personal taste..so I would never been in competition with an IRWW for a BM..Our topic was strictly on racism.
Truth

Tulsa, OK

#12 Jul 17, 2013
More my speed..........yummy!
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Rio Grande, Puerto Rico

#13 Jul 17, 2013
Every one has diverse attractions. I don't really have a preference, I have liked latin, white, black, and asian guys.

“Out of the US back in France”

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#15 Jul 18, 2013
Jennifer wrote:
I'm a dark black woman but I don't find dark men attractive at all. I much prefer lighter skinned men.
Is this a case of opposites attract? Are there lots of black women like me out there???
Opposites do attract...
There are lots of black women like that, and black men too. Not so mush the case for me.

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#16 Jul 18, 2013
brownskin_beauty wrote:
I know dark skin women that usually date lighter skin men and vice versa, but it's not usually because they are unattractive, but because you usually attract the opposite. I honestly think chocolate is where it's at have you seen Lance Gross, Idris Elba, Tyson Beckford mmm mmm mmm lol, but I understand we have personal preferences and light skin brothers like Michael Ealy, Jesse William, Will Smith, and even Drake are sexy as well.
I am so out of touch with black American men... I had to Google all those men you listed except Will Smith. The Lance Gross guy is adorable.

“Sombrero Galaxy”

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#17 Jul 18, 2013
Silverness wrote:
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I am so out of touch with black American men... I had to Google all those men you listed except Will Smith. The Lance Gross guy is adorable.
I love Lance as well. Too bad he is not more famous in this world.
Tbone

United States

#18 Jul 18, 2013
Truth wrote:
<quoted text>Don't be in such a rush..The OP said lighter men..maybe she means lighter BM..they still black men you know..
Well, im picky myself. Im into lightskin blackwomen with jet black vaginas, if you don't look like that then your not my type. Only sistahs cause she is black, and they turn me on. Ohh dark girls can be an asset because one way or the other their still black women.

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#19 Jul 18, 2013
Tbone wrote:
<quoted text> Well, im picky myself. Im into lightskin blackwomen with jet black vaginas, if you don't look like that then your not my type. Only sistahs cause she is black, and they turn me on. Ohh dark girls can be an asset because one way or the other their still black women.
Upon meeting a woman had you know about her down there and what exactly do you mean by a light skin woman with a jet black vagina? are you talking about pubic hair?

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#20 Jul 18, 2013
Eh whateva I love my dark chocolate non peeling skin.

“I love being a Black Man”

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#21 Jul 18, 2013
Everybody has their preferences.

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