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Black women with white men, Who's looking and who care?

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Joined: May 7, 2008
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#1
May 7, 2008
 
I'm tall, slender and black. I'm attracted to tall, athletically built, medium to dark complexioned men. I'm not shy, but I am abstonate. I put that up front. I only am looking for one very good and faithful man for ME and only ME (I'm greey like that). Why this all matters is that I have tried to find this in the men that I am immediately attracted to. I get brushed off, talked down to or just plain ignored. It seem that with white males that I can have my pick of them but I have not been interested. Now my point, two black men that I knew to be single (available) snubbed me at different times when I expressed an interest in dating. Then when next I saw them they were with nice attractive white women. The second time I saw this, it hit me somewhere in my gut. "I know I am attractive, so what is the problem?" I said to myself. My present boyfriend who is white asked me out and I accepted. I was suprised that we seemed to have so much in common. I enjoy him. Here is the kicker, these two black fellas were out with their girlfriends and saw me with my boyfriend arm-in-arm. My boyfriend was the one that brought to my attention I was getting really ugly looks from these men even though they had their girls on their arms. One couple was so blatantly rude that when I turned around see why I felt like I was being followed I found a black male and a white woman both glaring at my behind together. What is up with the hostility folks? Tell me, cause my philosophy is not to hate but to participate...

“Making My MoM Proud!!!”

Joined: Apr 17, 2008
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#2
May 7, 2008
 
It seems like every 5 days some black woman comes to brag about her trophy white boy. LOL.

Seriously, this question has been answered over, and over again.

Now let's cue the pervert black women fetish men to cosign.

Next were going to have the hippies comment that love is blind.

Then Sad but true is going to post some article about how black men suck.

C'est la vie.
Takia
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#3
May 7, 2008
 
^Trust the BW on here don't have any WM checking for them.

They're simply dense and begging for BM to be jealous of a white man, because they see validation in getting attention / dating a white man as if it makes them something to society.

The truth is, they aren't even talking to the BM who like WW and WW only, they're talking to what seems the BM who want BW, because they know the BM who want only WW would send them away in tears, lol.
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#4
May 7, 2008
 
Takia wrote:
^Trust the BW on here don't have any WM checking for them.
They're simply dense and begging for BM to be jealous of a white man, because they see validation in getting attention / dating a white man as if it makes them something to society.
The truth is, they aren't even talking to the BM who like WW and WW only, they're talking to what seems the BM who want BW, because they know the BM who want only WW would send them away in tears, lol.
You are definetly a white woman with a post like that.
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#5
May 7, 2008
 
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Why would a WW post something like that?
I was expecting "BM" to be thrown this time.

It's true though, the BW on here aren't adressing those BM that ACTUALLY Put them down, the BM on here for the most part simply defend themselves as do the BW, but the BW on here know they aren't adressing those BM who like WW so much, yet they're too dense to realize the BM on here don't and can't speak for them.

Stop digging Black Women, stop trying to pretend to be a white man because you're simply too dense and moronic to be a white man, all the BW and BM on here KNOW deep down that you're a BW, pretending to be a WM to keep your self esteem intact, they'd never admit it though.

“common sense isn't common”

Joined: Apr 4, 2008
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#6
May 7, 2008
 
You know, I'm tired of people thinking that white man equals some trophy for their validation of their self-esteem. You never see us Africans doing that--it's sad as hell. Please stop it.
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May 7, 2008
 

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Please tell those African American women that, they might listen to you.

“common sense isn't common”

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#8
May 7, 2008
 
Takia wrote:
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Please tell those African American women that, they might listen to you.
LOL, while I do agree with you on this point, but people say these things because look at the forum, people are saying rude comments about facial features and looks. With White people as the standard of beauty, snabbing one is like winning a trophy because that's what society says. Black isn't considered beautful. I don't blame them, I still think it's pathetic.

“"Natural Beauty"”

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#9
May 7, 2008
 
This Interracial thing is really digging a whole in some peoples behind. Let them brag who gives a flying book if they are involved with a white man. That doesn't make them white, life goes on. I don't even pay attention to IR couples they are ordinary people with different shades of skin layer.
Next!!!!!!!!
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#10
Sunday Jun 15
 
I think it's a shame that black women are the only women in the world who are not considered universally attractive by other races of people. I consider it to be even more shameful that black men have made such an effort to seperate themselves from us and degrade us every chance they get from the ball players, actors, singers, hip hop artist to the average black man. Why do they all have white,latino or asian women on their arms? as if that's a sign that they've made it. Didn't you come from a strong black women? Without her you wouldn't be who you are now! That is what you said in the interviews with the women sitting beside you being any race other than black. Right? So if your mother was good enough for a black man why is a black women not good enough for you?
-Lay with her
-Plant your seed with her
-Or soon there will be no more us

“"A Woman of Destiny"”

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#11
Sunday Jun 15
 
I could give a rats azz about it? They have the same issues to deal with like anybody else. And please somebody tell me why in the world do people label IR couples like they are from mars or something.
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