my dark skin makes me sick!!!!

my dark skin makes me sick!!!!

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#1 Sep 22, 2011
I hate my skin color and I know it's a sign of "self hate" but the question is how do I fix it. When I was little I would throw a fit if my mother bought me a black doll instead of a white doll.I hate what I see when I look in the mirror sometimes I wished I was white or lighter then I am. Things really got bad when a couple of months ago a black boy turned me down because of it. I'm in 12th grade and me and this boy were friends and I tought he liked me as well so I asked him out and he said no because he wasn't interested in a relationship. I had are friend ask him why he said no and he said that he isn't attracted to dark skin girls and if I was lighter then he would give me a chance. The shocker is he is darker then me! But anyway this is when my depression got out of control and my mother ended up getting me in therapy but im not sure how I feel about a white woman helping me with this subject. So I want to love my skin and I wanted to know if you guys had any tips on how I could do this. please no rude remarks

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#3 Sep 22, 2011
nikki lann wrote:
I hate my skin color and I know it's a sign of "self hate" but the question is how do I fix it. When I was little I would throw a fit if my mother bought me a black doll instead of a white doll.I hate what I see when I look in the mirror sometimes I wished I was white or lighter then I am. Things really got bad when a couple of months ago a black boy turned me down because of it. I'm in 12th grade and me and this boy were friends and I tought he liked me as well so I asked him out and he said no because he wasn't interested in a relationship. I had are friend ask him why he said no and he said that he isn't attracted to dark skin girls and if I was lighter then he would give me a chance. The shocker is he is darker then me! But anyway this is when my depression got out of control and my mother ended up getting me in therapy but im not sure how I feel about a white woman helping me with this subject. So I want to love my skin and I wanted to know if you guys had any tips on how I could do this. please no rude remarks
It make all of us sick.

Have you tried a belt-sander ... say 45 grit?

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#4 Sep 22, 2011
If it makes you sick, die then. That will take care of that little white girl

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#5 Sep 22, 2011
mwahah wrote:
Reading could help u
I don't see how but thanks I'll try it.

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#6 Sep 22, 2011
a_x_e wrote:
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It make all of us sick.
Have you tried a belt-sander ... say 45 grit?
sarcasm? Thanks I came on here for help and this is what I get.

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#7 Sep 22, 2011
Olla Kalla wrote:
If it makes you sick, die then. That will take care of that little white girl
I'll get right to it!

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#8 Sep 22, 2011
nikki lann wrote:
<quoted text> sarcasm? Thanks I came on here for help and this is what I get.
Look up sarcasm.

I'm dead serious.

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#9 Sep 22, 2011
a_x_e wrote:
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Look up sarcasm.
I'm dead serious.
So what were you suggesting that I kill myself with belt sander? I think you can come up with something better than that. Thanks for the help

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#10 Sep 22, 2011
nikki lann wrote:
<quoted text> So what were you suggesting that I kill myself with belt sander? I think you can come up with something better than that. Thanks for the help
Yeah, the belt sander sounds hilarious. Better than Troy Davis. BORING!!!!!

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#11 Sep 22, 2011
a_x_e wrote:
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Yeah, the belt sander sounds hilarious. Better than Troy Davis. BORING!!!!!
Happy to help.
wow you are a sorry excuse for a human being now go suck a d!ck!
hmmmm

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#12 Sep 22, 2011
I agreewiththat wmaha person reading stuff about black history or anything in that area can help. I give you props for knowing you have an issue and seeking help for it. There are alot of black people that don't see a problem with it and at times not even aware of their self-hate. The self- hate that some black people have goes way back and is alot deeper than you know so reading books about black history for ex slavery you will see where your self-hate comes from. It's been past down and black people have been in a way brainwashed into believing that their natural features and skin are negative. The media doesn't help either you have black celebs getting nose jobs and bleaching their skin which sends the message that wide noses and darker skin tones is a bad thing to young kids. This kid on youtube jaylove47 would help you here is a excellent video
&fe ature=related.
Riri

Stillwater, OK

#13 Sep 22, 2011
You Make Me Sick.
Why Even Start A Dumba** Discussion,
With Your Stupida** Posting Comments Like That.
I Hate That, Your Wasting Peoples' Time:-(

“me! chee hoo! LOL!”

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#14 Sep 22, 2011
Riri wrote:
You Make Me Sick.
Why Even Start A Dumba** Discussion,
With Your Stupida** Posting Comments Like That.
I Hate That, Your Wasting Peoples' Time:-(
not really I messaged her really...not waste of time
Riri

Stillwater, OK

#15 Sep 22, 2011
REALLY, Well You Go For It, Post Away, Because Thats Pathetic. I Suggest She Seek Mental Health Help. It MIGHT Work....

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#16 Sep 22, 2011
nikki lann wrote:
I hate my skin color and I know it's a sign of "self hate" but the question is how do I fix it. When I was little I would throw a fit if my mother bought me a black doll instead of a white doll.I hate what I see when I look in the mirror sometimes I wished I was white or lighter then I am. Things really got bad when a couple of months ago a black boy turned me down because of it. I'm in 12th grade and me and this boy were friends and I tought he liked me as well so I asked him out and he said no because he wasn't interested in a relationship. I had are friend ask him why he said no and he said that he isn't attracted to dark skin girls and if I was lighter then he would give me a chance. The shocker is he is darker then me! But anyway this is when my depression got out of control and my mother ended up getting me in therapy but im not sure how I feel about a white woman helping me with this subject. So I want to love my skin and I wanted to know if you guys had any tips on how I could do this. please no rude remarks
end your pathetic life, thats how you end it! self hationg retard! what is too be ashamed of being dark skinned! It is beautiful and strong! i hate you self hating retards!
Riri

Stillwater, OK

#17 Sep 22, 2011
That Is Pathetic, Seek Mental Help And Don't Get On Topix No More With That Dumb S***, Because Are Going To Keep Posting Theses Comments And Make You Feel Worse About Yourself.
Dark- Skin Is Beautiful, I'm Dark Brown And I Love My Skin Tone. Embrace It, Honey, Because You Can't Change Your Skin Tone.

:-)
Riri

Stillwater, OK

#18 Sep 23, 2011
:-)

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#19 Sep 23, 2011
hmmmm wrote:
I agreewiththat wmaha person reading stuff about black history or anything in that area can help. I give you props for knowing you have an issue and seeking help for it. There are alot of black people that don't see a problem with it and at times not even aware of their self-hate. The self- hate that some black people have goes way back and is alot deeper than you know so reading books about black history for ex slavery you will see where your self-hate comes from. It's been past down and black people have been in a way brainwashed into believing that their natural features and skin are negative. The media doesn't help either you have black celebs getting nose jobs and bleaching their skin which sends the message that wide noses and darker skin tones is a bad thing to young kids. This kid on youtube jaylove47 would help you here is a excellent video http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =JwE1sJdHYNEXX&feature=rel ated.
OMG thanks somebody with a fraction of decency i'll look into it.

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#20 Sep 23, 2011
Riri wrote:
That Is Pathetic, Seek Mental Help And Don't Get On Topix No More With That Dumb S***, Because Are Going To Keep Posting Theses Comments And Make You Feel Worse About Yourself.
Dark- Skin Is Beautiful, I'm Dark Brown And I Love My Skin Tone. Embrace It, Honey, Because You Can't Change Your Skin Tone.
:-)
We both established that I have a problem so how is cyberbullying me going to help?

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#21 Sep 23, 2011
Samoan Irish wrote:
<quoted text>not really I messaged her really...not waste of time
Oh you might want to resend them because I didn't get any.

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