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Why Is It So Hard For Black Women to Find The Love They Deserve?

There are 121 comments on the Essence Magazine story from Apr 3, 2014, titled Why Is It So Hard For Black Women to Find The Love They Deserve?. In it, Essence Magazine reports that:

"There are no good men available!" "I can't take these guys seriously." "They don't want the same things that I do."

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“Lovely soul”

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#116 Apr 7, 2014
dummy wrote:
Tishsuna is a dumb [email protected] for talking to these racist white boys and she's desperate.
Excuse you? How the hell am I dumb, a bitch and desperate? Because I'm answering a question? Get out of here with your foolishness you disrespectful goon. You couldn't even quote me. Coward.

“Lovely soul”

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#117 Apr 7, 2014
Shalimarr wrote:
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Probably Beyond Black and White, that one seems to be the most high profile one.
Yeah lol that was the one

“Lovely soul”

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#118 Apr 7, 2014
Ivan loves racism wrote:
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You are racist clean your mind
Bye Ivan the Terrible. Not a racist bone in this body.
Marcus

United States

#121 Apr 7, 2014
Who wants a woman that looks like a gorilla ?
Marcus

United States

#122 Apr 7, 2014
Ivan loves racism wrote:
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You are racist clean your mind
Know how to say Bigpussy in Russian ? Barack Obama LOL
darline

Brooklyn, NY

#125 Apr 7, 2014
Talking about bw relationship status all the time is annoying. Yeah it's a shortage but get in where you fit in.

Black women don't want thugs that's a myth. I dated college educated (I went to college too) "good" black men before and the arrogance was through the roof. I even had one tell me "I usually don't date black women" to try to manipulate me into sleeping with him. I didn't say anything about it and just swerv'd on his arse. He called but I didnt answer. I dont have time for it. This are the same types that's online bashing. Now I know why some bw don't give them the time of day and call them lames.

Most of these dudes are too cracker identified. You can smell the sambo on them but I went against my better judgement trying to be open.

I'm engaged to a man that didnt go to college but he is still intelligent and takes care of business.
carmen

Memphis, TN

#126 Apr 7, 2014
darline wrote:
Talking about bw relationship status all the time is annoying. Yeah it's a shortage but get in where you fit in.
Black women don't want thugs that's a myth. I dated college educated (I went to college too) "good" black men before and the arrogance was through the roof. I even had one tell me "I usually don't date black women" to try to manipulate me into sleeping with him. I didn't say anything about it and just swerv'd on his arse. He called but I didnt answer. I dont have time for it. This are the same types that's online bashing. Now I know why some bw don't give them the time of day and call them lames.
Most of these dudes are too cracker identified. You can smell the sambo on them but I went against my better judgement trying to be open.
I'm engaged to a man that didnt go to college but he is still intelligent and takes care of business.
Congrats to you.
Streetrunner

Babylon, NY

#127 Apr 7, 2014
Cause they can be overly dramatic, play the victim and run some serious guilt trips on their man.
Streetrunner

Babylon, NY

#128 Apr 7, 2014
Tishauna wrote:
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Excuse you? How the hell am I dumb, a bitch and desperate? Because I'm answering a question? Get out of here with your foolishness you disrespectful goon. You couldn't even quote me. Coward.
I'm with you on that. You sound like a good woman. Us men have the same problems finding the right someone too.
Rod Johnson

United States

#130 Apr 7, 2014
I have what women need.
Monique

Houston, TX

#131 Apr 7, 2014
There are 2 types of black men: The ones that are in prison and the ones who haven't been sentenced yet.

“deleted”

Since: Apr 14

Mandeville, Jamaica

#132 Apr 7, 2014
dont trust the media , or the people who spend 78% of their lives infront of tv's , their both full a shit.

“Unions are still scum ”

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Since: Dec 07

Atlanta

#133 Apr 7, 2014
Ivan loves racism wrote:
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You are racist clean your mind
Lighten up Francis.

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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Since: Jul 11

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#135 Apr 7, 2014
I give up...why can't they...furthermore....why can't the very large number of White,Asian,Latino and other women find the love,understanding,protection and support that they deserve?

*Again...only bw think that they are alone in some hopelessly tragic situation where they are doomed to die loveless and alone!

http://www.nytimes.com/2007/01/16/us/16census...

http://www.nytimes.com/2012/02/18/us/for-wome...

http://www.thenation.com/blog/171886/week-pov...

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/hope-gainer/cou...

http://www.cbsnews.com/news/almost-half-of-fi...

“Lovely soul”

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#136 Apr 7, 2014
Streetrunner wrote:
<quoted text> I'm with you on that. You sound like a good woman. Us men have the same problems finding the right someone too.
Thank you very much lol :) it seems like a universal thing.
eyest

Howell, MI

#138 Apr 7, 2014
if you ever generalize races ever Again I will kill you..
eyest

Howell, MI

#139 Apr 7, 2014
I hate people regardless of race both blacks and whites have betrayed me..

“Unions are still scum ”

Level 5

Since: Dec 07

Atlanta

#140 Apr 8, 2014
eyest wrote:
I hate people regardless of race both blacks and whites have betrayed me..
And I am sure it was with good reason!

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#142 Apr 8, 2014
darline wrote:
Talking about bw relationship status all the time is annoying. Yeah it's a shortage but get in where you fit in.
Black women don't want thugs that's a myth. I dated college educated (I went to college too) "good" black men before and the arrogance was through the roof. I even had one tell me "I usually don't date black women" to try to manipulate me into sleeping with him. I didn't say anything about it and just swerv'd on his arse. He called but I didnt answer. I dont have time for it. This are the same types that's online bashing. Now I know why some bw don't give them the time of day and call them lames.
Most of these dudes are too cracker identified. You can smell the sambo on them but I went against my better judgement trying to be open.
I'm engaged to a man that didnt go to college but he is still intelligent and takes care of business.
It seems to me that your problem is the white man's education. You are right to say that men who have edumactaions are arrogant and stupid. Educated fools. But the women are equally arrogant and stupid. There are many available and decent Africans who do not have degrees. But idiots like you assume that you must get yo'self a doctor within your first 2 years of college. LOL Kwame Ture gives some pretty interesting details about his college days in his Ready for Revolution. He joked about how he would wear lad jackets in order to trick black females like into thinking he was med student.

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#143 Apr 8, 2014
He was a medical student... But he was more interested in politics than medicine. As a result, he was able to find few women who had a sincere interest.

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