Why do black women push IR so much mo...

Why do black women push IR so much more than other races of women?

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Anonymous

Powder Springs, GA

#1 Jul 17, 2011
Personally when I see black women promote it like it is a TREND it makes for a desperate facade that makes people only look down on black woman. IN REALITY black women are not so in tune with this interracial HYPE that's going on and the media is very strong on this subject, I WONDER WHY?

I mean really, you don't see latina women promoting dating out, or white women, or asain women, but when it comes to black women it just becomes like a titular praise for men of other races as if there special.

Most black women do not think this way and will tell you they prefer black men and most likely wouldn't be interested in a non-black man so it really comes down to the media.

These interracial promoting TV shows really make a quick buck of of Black woman's misery, for example: Single Ladies, and What Chilli Wants.

This interracial thing shouldn't be so complicated and forced for recommendation. All this "black women NEED to explore their options" and "black women are MOVING ON" crap just shows how much of a job it is for black women to try and change black woman's mind when black women already love black men.

How can you say love has no color and then say black women need to explore their options when that means black women need to explore men that are a different COLOR than black men basically.

Interracial should atleast be natural and just happen, not something PERSUED or PUSHED, that just makes for a desperate and unhappy relationship.
^\-_-/^

Wembley, UK

#2 Jul 17, 2011
You should be asking why do iRBW push it and STILL don't have high IR numbers.

Its because they are losers and jokes of the world.

Asian women don't do it, and look how easy it is for them to get men.
THE RELIC

United States

#3 Jul 17, 2011
[QUOTE who="^\-_-/^"]You should be asking why do iRBW push it and STILL don't have high IR numbers.
Its because they are losers and jokes of the world.
Asian women don't do it, and look how easy it is for them to get men.[/QUOTE]
Hahaha, you're playing both sides of the street.

This is a pretty good post but, IRBW will feign as though the world is beating a path to their doors. They better remove some of those vines off the hinges and put some oil on them too.

I know who I am, do you?
THE RELIC

United States

#4 Jul 17, 2011
NearFuture wrote:
Personally when I see black women promote it like it is a TREND it makes for a desperate facade that makes people only look down on black woman. IN REALITY black women are not so in tune with this interracial HYPE that's going on and the media is very strong on this subject, I WONDER WHY?
I mean really, you don't see latina women promoting dating out, or white women, or asain women, but when it comes to black women it just becomes like a titular praise for men of other races as if there special.
Most black women do not think this way and will tell you they prefer black men and most likely wouldn't be interested in a non-black man so it really comes down to the media.
These interracial promoting TV shows really make a quick buck of of Black woman's misery, for example: Single Ladies, and What Chilli Wants.
This interracial thing shouldn't be so complicated and forced for recommendation. All this "black women NEED to explore their options" and "black women are MOVING ON" crap just shows how much of a job it is for black women to try and change black woman's mind when black women already love black men.
How can you say love has no color and then say black women need to explore their options when that means black women need to explore men that are a different COLOR than black men basically.
Interracial should atleast be natural and just happen, not something PERSUED or PUSHED, that just makes for a desperate and unhappy relationship.
Bw are totally unaware of how the game is being played.

1. The far east don't allow there women the liberties as western women.

2. The near east don't play that liberated mess

3. The middle east are basically Islamic and chop, chop in a minute

4. What are all the other women in the world gonna do? They ain't gonna let bw waltz in and take their men when there's a shortage of men in many countries.

5. African men ain't gonna put up with lip either.

Blame, blame and blame. The bw has told every man in the world that she's hell to live with and would be a pain in the caboose.

Watch them come whining and blaming bm only to make their reputation worse.
Nessus

Luxembourg

#5 Jul 17, 2011
THE RELIC wrote:
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Bw are totally unaware of how the game is being played.
1. The far east don't allow there women the liberties as western women.
2. The near east don't play that liberated mess
3. The middle east are basically Islamic and chop, chop in a minute
4. What are all the other women in the world gonna do? They ain't gonna let bw waltz in and take their men when there's a shortage of men in many countries.
5. African men ain't gonna put up with lip either.
Blame, blame and blame. The bw has told every man in the world that she's hell to live with and would be a pain in the caboose.
Watch them come whining and blaming bm only to make their reputation worse.
B/*tch A** N*$$a!, if you hate BW so much, leave them alone.
Isn't your Mother a BW?

It is because of fools like you there is a saying:

N*$$a's ain't schitt.
THE RELIC

United States

#6 Jul 17, 2011
Didn't somebody tell the idiot I don't read trash. Ya can't get the mind unless I open the mind dumb idiot.

I OWN YOU
Anonymous

Powder Springs, GA

#7 Jul 17, 2011
[QUOTE who="^\-_-/^"]You should be asking why do iRBW push it and STILL don't have high IR numbers.
Its because they are losers and jokes of the world.
Asian women don't do it, and look how easy it is for them to get men.[/QUOTE]

Exactly asain women don't need a dating out parade they just do it, but i say black women because that's who is being potrayed by these irbw no matter how naive their actions are.
^\-_-/^

Wembley, UK

#8 Jul 17, 2011
NearFuture wrote:
[QUOTE who="^\-_-/^"]You should be asking why do iRBW push it and STILL don't have high IR numbers.
Its because they are losers and jokes of the world.
Asian women don't do it, and look how easy it is for them to get men."

Exactly asain women don't need a dating out parade they just do it, but i say black women because that's who is being potrayed by these irbw no matter how naive their actions are.
(ir) black women are the odd one out in this world.
It's like they are screaming for attention and most men are just walking away to their destination of other women.
I'm sure a few of them stop and take a ride on the black taxi.

Funniest thing is that IRBWs do not seem to understand how they are making fools of themselves.

“Msyree is my Online wife”

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#9 Jul 17, 2011
Because black women live in a fantasy world where every man on earth wants them. and they think they look hot like Stacey Dash or Halle berry.

Level 2

Since: Oct 10

Sun City, AZ

#10 Jul 17, 2011
Not every black woman in an IR is doing it for the wrong reasons. If you like someone why not be with them. Nobody complains about a black man with a white women, and black men are usually doing it for the wrong reasons.
Kristina

United States

#11 Jul 17, 2011
Bm and bw are the last options dating wise for every race.In every race its a disgrace to be with a black person.THE TRUTH...
Anonymous

Powder Springs, GA

#13 Jul 17, 2011
Kristina wrote:
Bm and bw are the last options dating wise for every race.In every race its a disgrace to be with a black person.THE TRUTH...
Your opinion has met a dead end. People prefer their own race of course, blacks could care less if their at the top of another races dating option list, they mostly prefer their own.
Anonymous

Powder Springs, GA

#14 Jul 17, 2011
Kaelin wrote:
Not every black woman in an IR is doing it for the wrong reasons. If you like someone why not be with them. Nobody complains about a black man with a white women, and black men are usually doing it for the wrong reasons.
I didn't say that every black women, people do complain about black man and white women, and you can't say USUALLY black men do it for the wrong reasons when you said not every black women does it that's contradictory.

Level 2

Since: Oct 10

Sun City, AZ

#15 Jul 17, 2011
NearFuture wrote:
<quoted text>
I didn't say that every black women, people do complain about black man and white women, and you can't say USUALLY black men do it for the wrong reasons when you said not every black women does it that's contradictory.
You're acting like black women sit around and just talk about black men. I have better things to do with my time. Yet, you're sitting here talking about black women. So really you didn't prove a point you just made yourself look bad...and you created a double standard.

“What do the stars say......”

Since: May 11

...explore outside the milkway

#16 Jul 17, 2011
I guess no one will want me because I'm a black woman.

I mean, that is what everybody wants me to believe.

I just have one question though, if black women weren't supposedly pushing this interracial thing, having bad attitudes, kept theirselves looking nice and in shape, etc. would we still be "less desired" compared to women of other races?

Sometimes I feel that people just want us to be push overs. They laugh at us for straightening our hair, then talk bad about us when we wear it natural. They get defensive when they think we are too loud, but then are aggressive and try to take advantage of us when they think we are too passive. People get too comfortable around black women who are not outspoken and make very offensive and insulting remarks toward us and then snicker about it and don't feel an ounce of guilt for saying it.

I don't know what to do anymore. I am about to give up and move far away where I don't have to worry about people who want to abuse me, but try to make me feel bad when I get defensive.

“What do the stars say......”

Since: May 11

...explore outside the milkway

#17 Jul 17, 2011
Oh, and another thing to the OP.

Do you have anything to say about the Chad Ochocinco show, or the For the Love of Ray J show on VH1?

Do you think black men are pushing interracial dating because of these shows?
Anonymous

Powder Springs, GA

#18 Jul 17, 2011
Kaelin wrote:
<quoted text>
You're acting like black women sit around and just talk about black men. I have better things to do with my time. Yet, you're sitting here talking about black women. So really you didn't prove a point you just made yourself look bad...and you created a double standard.
Lady read the topic of this post, I am not bashing black women me being a black man i prefer black women anyway, but what im saying is black women as seen in the MEDIA are making it seem as if black women NEED to date out, you can't argue that , white women and asian women don't do it but black women do. this really makes black women look desperate whether they adhere to the rediculous notions of mass IR or not. this and all the crap about 70% of black women being is an attack on the black race and i do not support it.
Anonymous

Powder Springs, GA

#19 Jul 17, 2011
Carmiana wrote:
I guess no one will want me because I'm a black woman.
I mean, that is what everybody wants me to believe.
I just have one question though, if black women weren't supposedly pushing this interracial thing, having bad attitudes, kept theirselves looking nice and in shape, etc. would we still be "less desired" compared to women of other races?
Sometimes I feel that people just want us to be push overs. They laugh at us for straightening our hair, then talk bad about us when we wear it natural. They get defensive when they think we are too loud, but then are aggressive and try to take advantage of us when they think we are too passive. People get too comfortable around black women who are not outspoken and make very offensive and insulting remarks toward us and then snicker about it and don't feel an ounce of guilt for saying it.
I don't know what to do anymore. I am about to give up and move far away where I don't have to worry about people who want to abuse me, but try to make me feel bad when I get defensive.
Your are only offended by what you ALLOW to offend you.

Carmiana don't let people get to you and worrry about what you have going on the people that black women or black people obviously have something missing from their lives if they think that bashing others will fill that void in their life. They're are black women that are everything you described and the fact that people will hate you no matter what you try to be proves that you can please no one and that it is a false effort to think that you can appeal to haters.

POOR MINDS TALK ABOUT PEOPLE, AVERAGE MINDS TALK ABOUT EVENTS, GREAT MINDS TALK ABOUT IDEAS
Tamale

Philadelphia, PA

#20 Jul 17, 2011
[QUOTE who="^\-_-/^"]You should be asking why do iRBW push it and STILL don't have high IR numbers.
Its because they are losers and jokes of the world.
Asian women don't do it, and look how easy it is for them to get men.[/QUOTE]At least when a sista dates out, she gets quality men, unlike BM, who will jump at the first WW who looks at him. BW get handsome, successful WM while you lazy nogs get the WM's table scraps like obedient dogs. lol

BW/WM marriages have one of the highest success rates while the majority of BM/WW marriages end in divorce within the first ten years. Face it, BM are at the very bottom of the IR totem pole. BW don't want you. Not when there are men of other races with the class you nogs completely lack. Pretty WW don't want you. To them, you are just a lazy, no good, purse snatching n***** and potential rapist. lol

It's hilarious watching you nogs worship a race of women who detest you, and see you as little more than an animal. The whole world is having a laugh at your expense! lolol

Level 2

Since: Oct 10

Sun City, AZ

#21 Jul 17, 2011
NearFuture wrote:
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Lady read the topic of this post, I am not bashing black women me being a black man i prefer black women anyway, but what im saying is black women as seen in the MEDIA are making it seem as if black women NEED to date out, you can't argue that , white women and asian women don't do it but black women do. this really makes black women look desperate whether they adhere to the rediculous notions of mass IR or not. this and all the crap about 70% of black women being is an attack on the black race and i do not support it.
I can argue with that because it's not true. Almost every show puts the black woman with the black man, unless she is the main character which is rare.

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