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#28 Jun 14, 2012
sone wrote:
It's uncommon to see where I live. I don't think much about it one way or the other. I'm more worried about massive immigration in general and other things. As for myself (a White woman) I'm attracted to White men and engaged to one.
I agree.. there's way too many relevant things to worry about than who is with who.. I think single people may find IR's as an insult.. but most of us in relationships don't tend to have any feelings towards IR.. I will admit though... that I have often saw so many BM/WW combinations that it does make me say "dam... any bw that's not looking for the traditional black family and just looking for love better not just be limited herself based on race.. "

But yeah.. much more important things to worry about.. like "2012" and yeah the immigration thing is awful... but your party may be running a hispanic male for their VP selection.. so don't look forward to either party doing much in regards to illegals.. Don't want to p off the legal hispanics since their numbers are sky high.

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#29 Jun 14, 2012
SUNFIT wrote:
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Hi,
Me personally I do not care who dates/marries who. It is their life to live not mine. If they are happy together good for them. Life is way too short to worry what total strangers think. If they give dirty looks to mixed couples that is their problem.
It does not bother me at all to see interracial couples.
Me either.. If they are GOOD people then it's actually a good thing to see :)

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#30 Jun 14, 2012
I see nothing wrong with it lol. People like what they like

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#31 Jun 14, 2012
sone wrote:
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Actually, when I was in high school,(not that long ago) the Black students (about 10% of the student body) hung out together almost exclusively. The few Blacks who hung out with Whites didn't have much or anything to do with the other Blacks or vice versa. It was like the Black students had a very narrow criteria of "acceptable" tastes or norms for their group and deviations were not accepted.
That's how it was at my school. Pretty much all of my friends wound up being white or Asian.

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#32 Jun 14, 2012
I see alot of bw/wm here in NYC.

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#33 Jun 14, 2012
There was a book written on that subject

"Why do the black kids sit together"

http://www.amazon.com/Black-Kids-Sitting-Toge...

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#34 Jun 14, 2012
AgentSmith9 wrote:
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Very True... It depends on what part of texas you're in. I lived in South Texas ... and Austin.. in South TX you don't see many WW in IR .. if you do it's with a black man.. even though blacks are only like 4% of the pop there... and I never saw white women with hispanic men... but I did see lots of white men with hispanic women.
In Austin ... It was the same for whites.. ww with bm or wm... no hispanic men.. and wm with hispanic women ... no bw. Most of the BW were with bm or maybe if there were puerto ricans etc you may see a bw with them.. but I think the entire time I lived there which was years I only saw 2 or 3 bw/wm couples.
It's way over hyped on the net. I'm on the East Coast now.. and same thing.. Been here for a few years... a much higher percentage of blacks and still very seldom see bw/wm compared to the pop.. maybe 5 total... but I seen a few with hispanic men... maybe a few more than with wm..
And BM and WM ... BM /WW IR all over the place.. and WM/AW/HW all over the place.. at least 5 a day on both combinations.
i think this is the reality of the irr game. a subpar ww will always have an easier time getting a quality bm, hm, or am than a subpar non-ww and especially a subpar bw.
bw who are 8,9 and 10s unless she got other issues, will be in demand and can usually have serious relationships with whoever they want.
but once you get to the rest, preference works against them, because the vast majority of men want their own women, unless someone outside their race brings *more* to the table.
whereas bm who don't have model looks can still do well with non-bw, cuz of their personalities, swag, and humor or success.

this is why you will always have more bm in irr than bw. unless bw can flip the script and turn 'blackness' into a premium the way whiteness is, today, the imbalance will always be there.

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#35 Jun 14, 2012
Jabba Mouth wrote:
There was a book written on that subject
"Why do the black kids sit together"
http://www.amazon.com/Black-Kids-Sitting-Toge...
It might be a coping mechanism for some kids but it was very exclusionary towards those of us who thought or felt differently about this or that. Don't get me wrong. I loved my friends and had a good overall school experience. But it wasn't by choice that I didn't have many friendships or relationships with other black kids.

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#36 Jun 14, 2012
noyb5349 wrote:
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If you were ever single again and had good chemistry with a man who happened to be Black, could you be with him? Why or why not? Please be gentle lol.
Wait you want brutal honesty concerning ww opinions on bw/wm couples but you eant her to be gentle in telling you why she may or may not pick a bm smdh......

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#37 Jun 14, 2012
DISASTER LOOMS wrote:
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i think this is the reality of the irr game. a subpar ww will always have an easier time getting a quality bm, hm, or am than a subpar non-ww and especially a subpar bw.
bw who are 8,9 and 10s unless she got other issues, will be in demand and can usually have serious relationships with whoever they want.
but once you get to the rest, preference works against them, because the vast majority of men want their own women, unless someone outside their race brings *more* to the table.
whereas bm who don't have model looks can still do well with non-bw, cuz of their personalities, swag, and humor or success.
this is why you will always have more bm in irr than bw. unless bw can flip the script and turn 'blackness' into a premium the way whiteness is, today, the imbalance will always be there.
I agree with you 100%, but if you think back to back in the day during the "blaxploitation" era .. soul train era before bw made IR their mantra.. they actually were the premium .. Back in the days of Pam Greer etc when sistas were considered exotic because of their "off limits" approach to non black men, they actually faired much better in IR.. Equally with BM..

But after the IR / we are ready and willing to take anything campaign black women fell off big time and led to the standards and IR structure we have today.

I think black women lost their exotic appeal and replaced it with sort of like a "desperate" approach and they need non black men and that kind of kilt their image.. where as back in the day it was "non black men needed to experience bw".

It's like economics 101.. supply and demand.. Once the perceived supply of IRBW went up.. the demand went down.. and now Non black men are able to be extremely picky when considering black women...same with BM and WW... Where as it used to be that BM/BW could both be incredibly picky when getting non black partners.

I do think though that BW could possibly fair well with hispanic men.. but hispanic women are a tough group to beat.. cause a ugly broke out of shape mexican man can get a dime hispanic female easily so they are generally locked down..

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#38 Jun 14, 2012
MissElizabethW wrote:
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It might be a coping mechanism for some kids but it was very exclusionary towards those of us who thought or felt differently about this or that. Don't get me wrong. I loved my friends and had a good overall school experience. But it wasn't by choice that I didn't have many friendships or relationships with other black kids.
That's not cool.. especially in NC.. What type of woman are you? What are some of your interests? Were you a nerd... geeky... jock...what? The black kids at my school covered EVERY category completely..

I had and still have many non black friends.. but I've never felt that I bond more with whites than blacks..

I will however admit that I knew Mixed people that were very confused and battling an ethnicity/race crisis.

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#39 Jun 14, 2012
emperorjohn wrote:
I see alot of bw/wm here in NYC.
And north jersey but Pennsylvania thats all they do lately is have irr couples there dont matter the mix....

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#40 Jun 14, 2012
AgentSmith9 wrote:
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I agree with you 100%, but if you think back to back in the day during the "blaxploitation" era .. soul train era before bw made IR their mantra.. they actually were the premium .. Back in the days of Pam Greer etc when sistas were considered exotic because of their "off limits" approach to non black men, they actually faired much better in IR.. Equally with BM..
But after the IR / we are ready and willing to take anything campaign black women fell off big time and led to the standards and IR structure we have today.
I think black women lost their exotic appeal and replaced it with sort of like a "desperate" approach and they need non black men and that kind of kilt their image.. where as back in the day it was "non black men needed to experience bw".
It's like economics 101.. supply and demand.. Once the perceived supply of IRBW went up.. the demand went down.. and now Non black men are able to be extremely picky when considering black women...same with BM and WW... Where as it used to be that BM/BW could both be incredibly picky when getting non black partners.
I do think though that BW could possibly fair well with hispanic men.. but hispanic women are a tough group to beat.. cause a ugly broke out of shape mexican man can get a dime hispanic female easily so they are generally locked down..
only the most desperate of bw would go for a pudgy bighead mexican hobbit. in fact i think most bw would just go lezbo, first.

the problem with bw is that they've spent 40 years alienating their men. no one wants a woman more than their own men, so when aaw destroy that spiritual relationship they set themselves up for a hard lonely frustrating life. a woman who can't bond with and support her men, is a woman who has no future.

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#41 Jun 14, 2012
AgentSmith9 wrote:
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That's not cool.. especially in NC.. What type of woman are you? What are some of your interests? Were you a nerd... geeky... jock...what? The black kids at my school covered EVERY category completely..
I had and still have many non black friends.. but I've never felt that I bond more with whites than blacks..
I will however admit that I knew Mixed people that were very confused and battling an ethnicity/race crisis.
I'm not mixed. I think it was largely a class thing. I went to one of the schools where, as the legacy of desegregation, they wind up having kids from one of the most low-income predominantly black parts of the city going to school with kids from one of the affluent white neighborhoods. I was one of only two or three middle to upper-middle class black kids in my high school.

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#42 Jun 14, 2012
DISASTER LOOMS wrote:
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only the most desperate of bw would go for a pudgy bighead mexican hobbit. in fact i think most bw would just go lezbo, first.
the problem with bw is that they've spent 40 years alienating their men. no one wants a woman more than their own men, so when aaw destroy that spiritual relationship they set themselves up for a hard lonely frustrating life. a woman who can't bond with and support her men, is a woman who has no future.
Great Post, 100% true.

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#43 Jun 14, 2012
MissElizabethW wrote:
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I'm not mixed. I think it was largely a class thing. I went to one of the schools where, as the legacy of desegregation, they wind up having kids from one of the most low-income predominantly black parts of the city going to school with kids from one of the affluent white neighborhoods. I was one of only two or three middle to upper-middle class black kids in my high school.
Oh, I wasn't calling you mixed.. How old are you by the way?
me me me

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#44 Jun 14, 2012
noyb5349 wrote:
In the name of God.(I am NOT Muslim, if these words ("In the name of God") sound like I am Muslim.)
Greetings to you, Ma'ams,
My name is Yahyaa and I'm a 34 year old African-American male.
I hope that you are doing fine today. I am doing fine.
I wanted to ask a question that came into my mind after reading something on the thread, "Are white women attracted to black men?" (@ http://www.topix.com/forum/afam/TQCPPTT6PFOC7... .)
Lol I wanted ask this: how do White women feel when they see a BW-WM couple?...I hope this isn't too sensitive a topic.
When I see a BW-WM couple, I laugh because I believe that opposites attract and that there is a natural attraction between the natures of Black and White people lol.
So Ma'ams, how do you feel about BW-WM couples, and brutal honesty is welcome lol.
Yahyaa
its very rare in UK to see a WM with BW, I love white men so I want whites only with othere whites, I don't like when whites date none whites specially blacks.

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#45 Jun 14, 2012
AgentSmith9 wrote:
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Oh, I wasn't calling you mixed.. How old are you by the way?
20.

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#46 Jun 14, 2012
MissElizabethW wrote:
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20.
That's it? 20?:) You seem kind of mature for you age.. Anyway... How are you today?

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#47 Jun 14, 2012
DISASTER LOOMS wrote:
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i think this is the reality of the irr game. a subpar ww will always have an easier time getting a quality bm, hm, or am than a subpar non-ww and especially a subpar bw.
bw who are 8,9 and 10s unless she got other issues, will be in demand and can usually have serious relationships with whoever they want.
but once you get to the rest, preference works against them, because the vast majority of men want their own women, unless someone outside their race brings *more* to the table.
whereas bm who don't have model looks can still do well with non-bw, cuz of their personalities, swag, and humor or success.
this is why you will always have more bm in irr than bw. unless bw can flip the script and turn 'blackness' into a premium the way whiteness is, today, the imbalance will always be there.
You are completely wrong and you know nothing about white men and how they act and think.
BW date out less because THEY DESIRE TO DATE OUT LESS.
Asian women date out more because they desire to date out more.
Black men date out more because they desire to date out more.
Black women generally like being black and want to bed down with a black man and make black children.
East Asian women think white features and skin is superior to them, so they have high rates of cosmetic surgery to make themselves look more European and they breed with white men to make thier offspring look more European.
It has nothing to do with men's success because East Asian en make lots of money and are highly respected and educated.
Black women don't date out not because they can't but because they are in love with black men and they are in love with their skin colour, they want men who are the SAME as them.
As for men, as long as a woman is clean and not hideous and has a nice smile she can date out.
White men are LAZY when it comes to dating, they are very mellow and relaxed and just want an easy life, dinner on the table and minimum hassle and drama.
YOU show a white man interest, you smile at him, you catch his eye, you make him know you find him attractive and he will come running. That's what Asian women do and if black women did the same they would be able to EASILY date WM. Studies have shown what I knew laready in London, white men go where they are WANTED, if they know you are interested RECEPTIVE they move in for the kill.
Black women are simply LESS receptive than other groups because they are still proud and in love with blackness.

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