Why do people have such a big problem with weave?

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“Take the kinks out ya mind”

Level 4

Since: Jul 13

and not your hair

#1 Nov 29, 2013
Or any other way people choose to express themselves, I have heard so many people down women, especially black women that wear it and I guess I don't understand the big deal, I am natural and I love my hair I sport it mainly on my breaks from school usually wearing it in a high puff or some convenient hairstyle, when I perform I prefer to wear weave it's convenient it add flavor to my moves and I get to give my hair a break most women who wear weave do it out of convenience, but somehow the world has convinced themselves we do it out of self hate or obsession, when most Americans have something fake about them. I understand if people don't like it and prefer not to wear it or date someone that does, but is the ridicule necessary?
IrishAmericanGir l1986

Chula Vista, CA

#2 Nov 29, 2013
I'm white, and while I don't wear a weave, I do wear makeup, what's the difference? No one thinks you are self-hating if you wear makeup. It's just another way to temporarily change your look, sometimes it's just fun to look different.

Sometimes people make fun of women for taking forever to get ready or putting effort into our appearance, and when we don't, we are open to being judged for being sloppy or not caring. Damned if we do, damned if we don't.
pet

United States

#3 Nov 29, 2013
Honestly, because most black women look stupid in it. Everyone in the world knows its not our hair. Nit because its straight, but because its usually supr shiny and faker looking than a $3 bill. It's embarrassing because most women only wear then because they hate their natural hair.

Don't tell me "its easier to manage" because that's an excuse. They wear the because they don't like their natural hair, and that's another way to say that its bad "its hard to manage"... Sad.

- An aware Black female

“Take the kinks out ya mind”

Level 4

Since: Jul 13

and not your hair

#4 Nov 30, 2013
IrishAmericanGirl1986 wrote:
I'm white, and while I don't wear a weave, I do wear makeup, what's the difference? No one thinks you are self-hating if you wear makeup. It's just another way to temporarily change your look, sometimes it's just fun to look different.
Sometimes people make fun of women for taking forever to get ready or putting effort into our appearance, and when we don't, we are open to being judged for being sloppy or not caring. Damned if we do, damned if we don't.
Girl you are so right, just been hearing people make this issue greater than what it really is, but you're right people will never be satisfied, so no point in trying to satisfy them

“Take the kinks out ya mind”

Level 4

Since: Jul 13

and not your hair

#6 Nov 30, 2013
pet wrote:
Honestly, because most black women look stupid in it. Everyone in the world knows its not our hair. Nit because its straight, but because its usually supr shiny and faker looking than a $3 bill. It's embarrassing because most women only wear then because they hate their natural hair.
Don't tell me "its easier to manage" because that's an excuse. They wear the because they don't like their natural hair, and that's another way to say that its bad "its hard to manage"... Sad.
- An aware Black female
Yes there are some women that look fake or even maybe ridiculous in it, but it's their choice, there are people that look like clown when they wear make up or oompa loompas when they tan, but it's ok because we individually like different things and different looks, why can't people just see it as self expression, why is it always self-hate. Natural hair is manageable and beautiful, but it's definitely unpredictable, time consuming, and at times frustrating, so many times I rock Marley twist, or some type of braids just to give myself a break and save time, I wear kinky curley hair when I put in extensions, which is rare, but I truly wear it out of convenience and even for performing purposes and I know many natural sisters who do it for the same reasons.
Shay

Cleveland, MS

#7 Nov 30, 2013
Wearing weave is not a big deal. Women can do what they want with their hair. Women wear all kinds of hair styles. Wearing fine textured hair weave doesn't say that we don't like ourselves, it shows that we are creative. We don't have a one track mind. We wear various styles of braids. We rock short cuts, afro puffs, twist, and the list goes on. We/our brains are not stuck. We keep it moving. People don't eat one kind of food every day do they, no they switch it up. There is more than one kind of flower. There's more than one color in the crayon box. Variety is a good thing, it's the spice of life. Switch it up and keep it moving.
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#8 Nov 30, 2013
brownskin_beauty wrote:
Or any other way people choose to express themselves, I have heard so many people down women, especially black women that wear it and I guess I don't understand the big deal, I am natural and I love my hair I sport it mainly on my breaks from school usually wearing it in a high puff or some convenient hairstyle, when I perform I prefer to wear weave it's convenient it add flavor to my moves and I get to give my hair a break most women who wear weave do it out of convenience, but somehow the world has convinced themselves we do it out of self hate or obsession, when most Americans have something fake about them. I understand if people don't like it and prefer not to wear it or date someone that does, but is the ridicule necessary?
MACEO

Aren't you a Fat Bald Double Bubble Head Cee Lo Green looking Black man? LMAO

So why do you as a 60 year old man take Women's profiles names and act your a Black women when you hate them? LMAO
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#10 Nov 30, 2013
IrishAmericanGirl1986 wrote:
I'm white, and while I don't wear a weave, I do wear makeup, what's the difference? No one thinks you are self-hating if you wear makeup. It's just another way to temporarily change your look, sometimes it's just fun to look different.
Sometimes people make fun of women for taking forever to get ready or putting effort into our appearance, and when we don't, we are open to being judged for being sloppy or not caring. Damned if we do, damned if we don't.
MACEO

The make in front of Black men and say you have "No Fathers as well as you abandon your kids and chase low grade White women"!

They were taking about YOU! lmao
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#12 Nov 30, 2013
THE RELIC wrote:
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MACEO

Aren't you a Fat Bald Double Bubble Head Cee Lo Green looking Black man? LMAO

So why do you as a 60 year old man take Women's profiles names and act your a Black women when you hate them? LMAO
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#13 Nov 30, 2013
brownskin_beauty--MACEO wrote:
<quoted text>
Yes there are some women that look fake or even maybe ridiculous in it, but it's their choice, there are people that look like clown when they wear make up or oompa loompas when they tan, but it's ok because we individually like different things and different looks, why can't people just see it as self expression, why is it always self-hate.
MACEO

Most of the hateful remarks come from Black males! I as said I often hear nasty remarks from my place of employment or in some social settings when a Black man sees an attractive Black woman they remark that White women are better and how they don't date Black women when I don't know you!

Some Black men are just down right jealous and envious when I go out and talk to White males they fume in the face but yet when I sit down they want to tell me their not into Black women or want to show me pictures of their biracial children!

Their Angry when they see an attractive Black women talking to White males!
brownskin_beauty--MACEO wrote:
<quoted text>
Natural hair is manageable and beautiful, but it's definitely unpredictable, time consuming, and at times frustrating, so many times I rock Marley twist, or some type of braids just to give myself a break and save time, I wear kinky curley hair when I put in extensions, which is rare, but I truly wear it out of convenience and even for performing purposes and I know many natural sisters who do it for the same reasons.
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#18 Nov 30, 2013
THE RELIC wrote:
<quoted text>
Hello SBT
I saw your calling card posted in this thread and immediately smelled a rat.
YOU LOVE TO USE THE WORD HATE AND YOUR RAT AZZ STINKS TO HIGH HEAVEN.
Very few people know sad but true is a metaphysical declaration like oh really. Now metaphysically pimp your racist stink azz back to MACEO before I whip that racist rat azz again.
.
MACEO

It has to do with your status in society you don't have any "Wealth, power or any assets" most Black men are marginal like yourself and an attractive light skin/mixed Black woman realized with the "Average marginal" black men she won't have anything!

Your too busy chasing ASS rather than making your Ass better in society! lmao

You also chose Wrong behaviors so she will end up with nothing like your Ex White wife because you chose to "Chase Fat WW office Sluts Puzzy " rather than help her build the business!

You rather chase Black women on forum boards getting back at them because they didn't want you then to help your Ex White wife! When your the Text Book Black man that the authors warn on Black women on that don't amount to much!

Are you a fool? Your prove them right!

In the end you don't have anything to show for your life or time us NOTHING YOU HIDE IN SHAME WHICH IS WHY YOU DON'T HAVE THANKSGIVING WITH ANYBODY!

Your a LOSER!

Most Men don't get divorced on the back end of their lives thats the wrong time ESPECIALLY IF YOUR SICKLY MAN!

Your Ex White wife had to really sick and fed up with your Sorry Ass Loser Ways which is why she moved on!
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#19 Nov 30, 2013
[QUOTE who="THE RELIC"--BRownskinwoman--M ACEO]<quoted text>
Jealousy is the first human reaction. Then people "look" for a "reason" to hate.
Next is social inhibition...people will guilt trip others over some be an enhancement to a womans mysticism[/QUOTE]MACEO

It has to do with your status in society you don't have any "Wealth, power or any assets" most Black men are marginal like yourself. An attractive light skin/mixed Black woman realized with the "Average marginal" black men she won't have anything and your poor choices will destroy her life!

Your too busy chasing ASS rather than making your Ass better in society! lmao

You also chose Wrong behaviors so she will end up with nothing like your Ex White wife. All you did was "Chase Fat Trashy WW office Sluts Puzzy " rather than help her build the business or help your Black family!

You rather chase and hate on Black woman when yoru the MAN they HATE! Your goal is to get back at them by venting on different site!

Your the Text Book Black man that the authors warn Black women on that don't amount to much! Are you a fool? Your prove them right!

In the end you don't have anything to show for your life or time!!!! You HIDE IN SHAME WHICH IS WHY YOU Didn't HAVE THANKSGIVING WITH ANYBODY!

Your a LOSER and ASHAMED OF YOUR LIFE MACEO!

Most Men don't get divorced on the back end of their lives. ESPECIALLY WHEN THEIR SICKLY MEN! MOST WOMEN WILL PREY ON YOU IF YOU HAVE MONEY BUT YOU DONT HAVE SHCITT AND YOUR DYCK DOESN'T WORK! BESIDES WHEN YOUR OLD IS ABOUT THE MONEY!

Your Ex White wife had to be really sick and fed up with your Sorry Ass Loser Ways which is why she moved on!
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#20 Nov 30, 2013
bunnywen wrote:
LMAO. Even with weave you tar girls will never be on our level. Black guys still hate you. You will NOT win them back. Stop trying to look like us.
MACEO

MACEO

It has to do with your status in society you don't have any "Wealth, power or any assets" most Black men are marginal like yourself. An attractive light skin/mixed Black woman realized with the "Average marginal" black men she won't have anything and your poor choices will destroy her life!

Your too busy chasing ASS rather than making your Ass better in society! lmao

You also chose Wrong behaviors so she will end up with nothing like your Ex White wife. All you did was "Chase Fat Trashy WW office Sluts Puzzy " rather than help her build the business or help your Black family!

You rather chase and hate on Black woman when yoru the MAN they HATE! Your goal is to get back at them by venting on different site!

Your the Text Book Black man that the authors warn Black women on that don't amount to much! Are you a fool? Your prove them right!

In the end you don't have anything to show for your life or time!!!! You HIDE IN SHAME WHICH IS WHY YOU Didn't HAVE THANKSGIVING WITH ANYBODY!

Your a LOSER and ASHAMED OF YOUR LIFE MACEO!

Most Men don't get divorced on the back end of their lives. ESPECIALLY WHEN THEIR SICKLY MEN! MOST WOMEN WILL PREY ON YOU IF YOU HAVE MONEY BUT YOU DONT HAVE SHCITT AND YOUR DYCK DOESN'T WORK! BESIDES WHEN YOUR OLD IS ABOUT THE MONEY!

Your Ex White wife had to be really sick and fed up with your Sorry Ass Loser Ways which is why she moved on!

YOU'LL NEVER BE AT THE WHITE MAN'S LEVEL YOU CAN'T COMPETE EVEN WITH THE IMMAGRANTS THEIR DOING BETTER THAN YOU! LMAO
IrishAmericanGir l1986

Chula Vista, CA

#21 Nov 30, 2013
bunnywen wrote:
LMAO. Even with weave you tar girls will never be on our level. Black guys still hate you. You will NOT win them back. Stop trying to look like us.
I saw you post on another thread that your boyfriend is black? Does he know that you go out of your way to go to AA forums and make nasty remarks about women that look like his mother?
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#22 Nov 30, 2013
IrishAmericanGirl1986 wrote:
<quoted text>
I saw you post on another thread that your boyfriend is black? Does he know that you go out of your way to go to AA forums and make nasty remarks about women that look like his mother?
I"m sick of Sorry Ass Weak Bytches like yourself! Stop whining and man up your a 60 year old man!

MACEO

Sorry but this is you!

There are 3,500 videos on Effeminate Males most of them pertain to Black males !

Why are Black men not doing anything about it? Its as thou Black men are self destructing and imploding from within.

Listen to these videos on "Black males feminized in America"!

Feminizing the Black Male
http://youtu.be/_21uzuhtpXs

Message to the young black male in America who are feminine
http://youtu.be/8SRSW0p2fVI

Hollywood& the Feminization Of Black Men
http://youtu.be/w6pbwA_K4Lw

Feminization of the Black Male
http://youtu.be/8npBU3MhUMM

Episode 20| "Feminization of Black Men/Masculinization of Black Women"| Part I.
http://youtu.be/3o6LMLkORqU

Dave Chappelle on the feminizing of Blackmen
http://youtu.be/JqYuBDJAmkY

Feminized Black Men/Masculine Black Women
http://youtu.be/cHNqOdpaORY

The Feminization Of The Black Man
http://youtu.be/N7MopaQ45qQ

Whats up with the FEMIZATION of BLACK GAY MEN?...why are so many black gay men FEMIINE?
http://youtu.be/kV62FVqEcbs
He's also HIV positive and he dates Day Black men !lmao

Feminized Young boys & Young men
http://youtu.be/in1E-Mp_VFE

Bill Maher on the feminization of society especially Black males
http://youtu.be/lCOUG3a-Grs

Do Single Black Mothers Feminize Their Sons ?
http://youtu.be/JVhh_mnVCUI

Example of Feminization of black men!!!
http://youtu.be/GTr2enktzA0

The Feminization of Today's Black Men
http://youtu.be/BLiVGN_hpsM

Dr Francess Cress Welsing on Why Black Men are being feminized
http://youtu.be/PGlAo84I9Fw

Feminizing of America
Mentions the large number of Black males who are feminine!
http://youtu.be/C3_1RYMf1mA

HIDDEN COLORS STORYING THE BLACK MALE IMAGE NOW FEMINIZED FINALE COPY.wmv
http://youtu.be/b_fkb5BpIf0

The feminization of Black men & boys in the church
http://youtu.be/UPThncPk5SQ

hat's up with these weak and feminized black men
http://youtu.be/8N75zsql7rg

THERE' almost 3,500 videos on this Topic! Most of the video are done by Black men not Black women!

Who wants a Feminized Black men like yourself? I understand why you complain about black women acting like men but they take on both roles which is wrong!

A good portion of Black males like yourself who have feminine qualities where you whine, bytch, moan and are weak!

Its Sad and I'm not raising no GRown ass Black men who 's effeminate! You can't take those behaviors out of you, that came from being raised by all Black women!

What's up with these weak and feminized black men
http://youtu.be/8N75zsql7rg

Again, its mostly Black men who are angry that there's so many Effeminate Black males that are abundant in the race!

Who wants a feminized man that whines, act childish, acts like a Baby Boy and is as weak as hell!

I'm sorry but I'm sick of Weak Black men that don't know what they're suppose to do as men! They feel their place in society is to live off women!

There's a lot of them and they don't do anything for the race except take it down!! They can't even see the effeminate ways in them and they think their men!

Its so damn sad!
PATRIOT DVC

Tlacolula De Matamoros, Mexico

#24 Nov 30, 2013
Who gives a shit how a spook wears their Brillo padded mop?
I M WHITE

Atlanta, GA

#25 Nov 30, 2013
PATRIOT DVC wrote:
Who gives a shit how a spook wears their Brillo padded mop?
I only care because the nasty critters use it as an excuse not to wash their nappy head for months at a time and then demand to be in the same public areas as humans.
I M WHITE

Atlanta, GA

#26 Nov 30, 2013
The more disgusting and unhygienic something is, the more the negroe likes it. troof!
BM Moving On

Toronto, Canada

#27 Nov 30, 2013
brownskin_beauty wrote:
Or any other way people choose to express themselves, I have heard so many people down women, especially black women that wear it and I guess I don't understand the big deal, I am natural and I love my hair I sport it mainly on my breaks from school usually wearing it in a high puff or some convenient hairstyle, when I perform I prefer to wear weave it's convenient it add flavor to my moves and I get to give my hair a break most women who wear weave do it out of convenience, but somehow the world has convinced themselves we do it out of self hate or obsession, when most Americans have something fake about them. I understand if people don't like it and prefer not to wear it or date someone that does, but is the ridicule necessary?
You dang well know that it's not out of convenience with respect to BW. It is self hatred of their natural hair texture. They see silky straight hair as being more desirable compared to their own hair.

That is the real truth and please stop BS'ing.

I mean it looks so ridiculous when you see a BW with silky straight hair, then she takes off her wig, weave, etc, and she looks so different! Men don't want to deal with that nonsense.

And then you have the single BW mothers who start putting hair products to straighten their daughters hair at a very young age. That has nothing to do with "convenience".

BW have single handedly made Koreans and non BM BILLIONS on hair crap.
Say My Name

London, UK

#28 Nov 30, 2013
Weave= one of the Many problems with black women.

Weaves mean you can't touch her hair or pull it during sex. A woman who doesn't like her hair being pulled is a woman not worth screwing

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