GUYS: Your thoughts on dating/marryi...
Aussie Bob

Adelaide, Australia

#145 Dec 19, 2011
To Drew2:

I'm afraid that black men "HATE" raising "OTHER PEOPLE'S KIDS"..

To be completely honest, a lot of them "can't even stand" taking responsibility for "THEIR OWN KIDS"..

(let alone somebody else's)...

It is a truly pitiful scenario, played out in numerous countries across the west..

TheronOfRhodeIsl and
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#146 Dec 19, 2011
Aussie Bob wrote:
To Drew2:
I'm afraid that black men "HATE" raising "OTHER PEOPLE'S KIDS"..
To be completely honest, a lot of them "can't even stand" taking responsibility for "THEIR OWN KIDS"..
(let alone somebody else's)...
It is a truly pitiful scenario, played out in numerous countries across the west..
Whatever gave you that idea? BM raised the biracial rape babies of WM&BW for over 300 years!
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#147 Dec 19, 2011
kojinwarrior wrote:
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it doesn't matter really anyway because i couldn't handle having a kid in my life at this moment in time
dude your 15, you're not meant to be having kids, lol

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#148 Dec 19, 2011
TheJazuma wrote:
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dude your 15, you're not meant to be having kids, lol
im not 15 im in my early twenties there champ lol
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#149 Dec 19, 2011
kojinwarrior wrote:
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im not 15 im in my early twenties there champ lol
sh!t sorry, I thought you were that Phoenix97 kid, lol. Even if you are in your 20s, why the fcuk would you want kids anyways lol...my bad^^
MarriedSucker

Dallas, TX

#150 Dec 4, 2012
I met a smoking hot woman who has two kids. It was just supposed to be fun for a while and then I'd cut her lose. Well, I tried, and tried, and tried,......., to cut her lose but she would not let go!!! She'll tell you herself that she wouldn't let me break up with her and would beg and do whatever she had to so that I wouldn't give her the boot. I've been a complete ass to this woman, a COMPLETE ass kicking her and the kids out of my house multiple times, and still she wouldn't leave. Well of course she ends up getting knocked up, and there I go doing the right thing and marrying her. I'm a complete sucker and f&%king hate my life now!!! Seriously, I hate my life and am on anti-depressants for it. As for my finances, that only wants to make me blow my brains out. Before this woman I had cash in the bank, cash in my pockets, cash in my ears, money, money, money, money. Now I owe so much freaking money to credit cards, loans, etc. that it makes me sick to my stomach when I think about it. You see, this woman quit her job shortly after moving herself into my home and conveniently couldn't find another one. There I go paying all her bills and the expenses for her kids. Her ex is a piece of sh*t loser and gives sh*t for child-support, it's not even enough to wipe my a$$ with. I fully support these kids including some super expensive health care. Did I mention her kids get on my freaking nerves? This woman has no concept of discipline. I can't stand them so much that I use any excuse I can to be gone all day and come home late at night when they're asleep. I'm in a dire situation and the only thing that gives me hope is my beautiful precious baby. Sometimes I think all my suffering was/is worth it just for my wonderful child. That baby is the one thing that makes me want to stick it out so that I can watch my child grow up. I adore my child and would hate to not be around, however as it is I'm not around now because I'm gone all week long avoiding the woman's kids. The only time I do see my baby is on weekends so really what difference would it make if I did divorce this woman. The difference is that I don't want some other man in my kid's life. I didn't have a father growing up, but did have a step-dad. He couldn't give a sh*t about me so I know what that feels like which just made me realize how much of a d*ck I'm being about this woman's kids. Anyways, the moral of the story is don't marry a woman with kids because you'll probably end up dead like I will from putting a 45 to your head and blowing your freaking brains out. Seriously, I'm not kidding. DON'T DO IT!!! You WILL KILL yourself!!!!! I'm just waiting until I get to spend some more time with my baby before I commit suicide. Do I have some serious mental issues? You bet your a$$ I do and it's because of this woman!

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#152 Jan 4, 2013
MarriedSucker wrote:
I met a smoking hot woman who has two kids. It was just supposed to be fun for a while and then I'd cut her lose. Well, I tried, and tried, and tried,......., to cut her lose but she would not let go!!! She'll tell you herself that she wouldn't let me break up with her and would beg and do whatever she had to so that I wouldn't give her the boot. I've been a complete ass to this woman, a COMPLETE ass kicking her and the kids out of my house multiple times, and still she wouldn't leave. Well of course she ends up getting knocked up, and there I go doing the right thing and marrying her. I'm a complete sucker and f&%king hate my life now!!! Seriously, I hate my life and am on anti-depressants for it. As for my finances, that only wants to make me blow my brains out. Before this woman I had cash in the bank, cash in my pockets, cash in my ears, money, money, money, money. Now I owe so much freaking money to credit cards, loans, etc. that it makes me sick to my stomach when I think about it. You see, this woman quit her job shortly after moving herself into my home and conveniently couldn't find another one. There I go paying all her bills and the expenses for her kids. Her ex is a piece of sh*t loser and gives sh*t for child-support, it's not even enough to wipe my a$$ with. I fully support these kids including some super expensive health care. Did I mention her kids get on my freaking nerves? This woman has no concept of discipline. I can't stand them so much that I use any excuse I can to be gone all day and come home late at night when they're asleep. I'm in a dire situation and the only thing that gives me hope is my beautiful precious baby. Sometimes I think all my suffering was/is worth it just for my wonderful child. That baby is the one thing that makes me want to stick it out so that I can watch my child grow up. I adore my child and would hate to not be around, however as it is I'm not around now because I'm gone all week long avoiding the woman's kids. The only time I do see my baby is on weekends so really what difference would it make if I did divorce this woman. The difference is that I don't want some other man in my kid's life. I didn't have a father growing up, but did have a step-dad. He couldn't give a sh*t about me so I know what that feels like which just made me realize how much of a d*ck I'm being about this woman's kids. Anyways, the moral of the story is don't marry a woman with kids because you'll probably end up dead like I will from putting a 45 to your head and blowing your freaking brains out. Seriously, I'm not kidding. DON'T DO IT!!! You WILL KILL yourself!!!!! I'm just waiting until I get to spend some more time with my baby before I commit suicide. Do I have some serious mental issues? You bet your a$$ I do and it's because of this woman!
don't kill yourself man, she's not worth think of how bad its gonna be without your kid growing without a father.
unknown

Houston, TX

#153 Jan 5, 2013
Think of your child thats worth living for

“>3 =O”

Level 5

Since: Mar 12

los angeles

#154 Jan 5, 2013
I wouldn't
Yup

Toronto, Canada

#155 Jan 5, 2013
Nope!!

this why many of these bw are angry and frustrated cause they have had many kids but no real young professional man will take on another mans kids
Anonymous

Charlotte, NC

#156 Jan 5, 2013
Yup wrote:
Nope!!
this why many of these bw are angry and frustrated cause they have had many kids but no real young professional man will take on another mans kids
Hey, how many black women do you think are single mothers in the U.S.?

“Israel uses Jim Crow Terrorism”

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#157 Jan 6, 2013
Blasian101 wrote:
<quoted text>Hey, how many black women do you think are single mothers in the U.S.?
alot, 70% of black American children are raised without a significant father presence in their lives...
codeinpython

Dallas, TX

#158 Jan 28, 2013
Personally, I think it will be fine if the kids are respectful and the woman also acts right and holds a kids in check. Anything short of this will not work so better start on a level playing field - a woman without kids.
jim

Oregon City, OR

#159 Mar 19, 2013
Single moms, with kids? You guys can have them. Enjoy, and good luck to all. You will need it.

Since: Jun 08

Tulsa OK. & Lugano Switzerland

#160 Mar 19, 2013
jim wrote:
Single moms, with kids? You guys can have them. Enjoy, and good luck to all. You will need it.
Amen.

Since: Jun 08

Tulsa OK. & Lugano Switzerland

#161 Mar 19, 2013
fair_guy wrote:
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alot, 70% of black American children are raised without a significant father presence in their lives...
And baggage/drama galore.
ant deed

United States

#162 Mar 19, 2013
Aussie Bob wrote:
To Drew2:
I'm afraid that black men "HATE" raising "OTHER PEOPLE'S KIDS"..
To be completely honest, a lot of them "can't even stand" taking responsibility for "THEIR OWN KIDS"..
(let alone somebody else's)...
It is a truly pitiful scenario, played out in numerous countries across the west..
im married to a ghanian female from africa, alot of african american females aint the same no more, and we got a child and im the only one with the job im trying hard to find her one too.
ant deed

United States

#163 Mar 19, 2013
unknown wrote:
Think of your child thats worth living for
yeah listen to this dude right here, your child should worth your life, and they should come before anybody else, they should come more worthy even more then your wife should and always have your child approve who you date.
If your child dont like them then you shouldn't neither it dont matter how fine the women is, cause your child should come first, cause thats your most close blood and the worse thing you can do is turn your back on your own child
HeatherP

Lebanon, OH

#164 Jul 9, 2013
I used to think no man would ever want me. I was married for 9 years and have 3 kids. Two years after my divorce I met a man with no children. I made sure he knew everything about my kids, even my oldest having Autism. He told me it didn't scare him and he wasn't going anywhere. I was very protective of he and my children getting hurt so I didn't let them meet for a year. The first year was spent getting to know each other as a couple. Here we are 18 months later and he and the kids are starting to form a bond. He does things with them their own father doesn't do with them. He stepped up to the plate to be the father that my kids have always needed. I fall in love with him more and more everyday. It can happen. It just takes an amazing, loving, patient, understanding man. I can never tell him enough how much the kids and I appreciate him. He means the world to us.

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New Zealand

#165 Jul 9, 2013
No way

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